Saturday, July 31, 2010

When Things Get Difficult…..

Returning to Kalamazoo, MI and Lowell, IN August 5-8    (See schedule Below!)

When Things Get Difficult…..

When life seems hard, stop and be still.
When you feel anxious, stop and find inner peace.
When you are stressing and serious, stop and appreciate your life.
When you notice that life is no longer fun and safe and easy, you are simply off path and off purpose.
When life is flowing, enjoy the flow.
When life feels easy, appreciate the ease.
When life is fun and playful, share your delight.
When you notice life is fun, safe and easy, validate and affirm you are in integrity and on purpose.
It is easy to tell when you are not living your highest truth.Life is not fun, safe and easy.
It is safe to step away from difficulties to find your path again.Life shows us when we are not coming from our values and our higher purpose.
It becomes fun to notice when life works and when life doesn’t work for us.When we notice things becoming difficult, scary and stressful, it is time to take a pause.

When we judge life’s stresses, we get stuck with them.
When we resist or try to avoid difficulties, we amplify them.
When blame or feel guilty about problems, we increase their frequency.
It is essential that we forgive all judgments, simply notice and choose again.

Breathe deep into your belly.
Count to 10. And back again.
Interrupt your habitual thinking.
Distract yourself.
Look for something to enjoy and appreciate.
Affirm your self.  “I love, trust and respect myself and my choices.”Be open and willing to find the highest and best solution.
“What can I do now that will have the most positive outcome?”Ask yourself: What is my truth?  What are my values? What do I really want above all?
All too often we are conditioned and programmed to live conforming to others.
Too often we are called to react with fear rather than respond with peace and love.
Our old habits of mind inter-fear with our new habits of heart which heal and bring ease.
When we learn to stop and listen within, we can find and choose the high way to fun, safe and easy.

Recommending simplicity, inner peace and freedom to listen and follow your own inner guidance.

Loving you,  

Betty Lue

August 5-8 Reunion Programs Michigan and Indiana

Betty Lue Lieber, PhD, MFT and Robert Waldon, PhD, ND 

Everything offered on a contribution basis.  “We trust that Goodness will always provide.”

Keys to Successful Partnership in Healing, Learning and Success 

·    Joining in vision and goals
·    Honesty without withhold.
·    Equality in giving and receiving.
·    Commitment to the highest and best for All.
·    Responsibility for the quality of relationship with no guilt or blame.

What we offer?

·    We facilitate with inspiration, wisdom, enjoyment and respect.
·    We encourage wonder and curiosity, exploration and self discovery.
·    We empower with freedom, trust and appreciation.
·    We perceive the wholeness, Goodness and Beauty in each one.
·     We respect each person’s choices and the sacred journey of life

Theme: Living In Love: Healing From Within

8/5 Thursday in Kalamazoo, MI at Unwindings, 5464 Holiday TerraceEvening Gathering Thriving in Trying Times” 7-9 PM   Open to All.

8/6 Friday Kalamazoo, MI at Unwindings, 5464 Holiday TerraceConsultations with Betty Lue and Robert   8-5PM   Open by appointment.ReUnion of Ministers 6:30-9PM For Ministers/ Students of Reunion Ministries

8/7 Saturday Workshops in Kalamazoo, MI  at 5501 Gull Prairie Way
True Happiness: Finding Inner Peace in a Conflicted World10-12:30 PM  2) True Prosperity: Principles of Conscious Healing and Joyful Helping:1:30-4PM
Light Salads provided Bring brown bag if you wish plus folding chairs or pillows. Open to All

8/8 Sunday  Workshops & Consultations in Lowell IN, 15595 Hendricks 

I. Your Authentic Self: Happiness Is Your Natural State 10-12 noon
II. Prosperity Begins Within: Abundance Without Effort 1-3PM
Consultations: Sunday 4-7PM  Call to schedule appts.
Bring favorite healthful foods to share for potluck lunch.
rsvp 219-696-1875 for refreshment purposes only.

Please call for detail.  800-919-2392  
All are invited to join us. 
We are here to be truly helpful, to love unconditionally, to serve from the heart
and to Remember God and Goodness.  

Betty Lue

Friday, July 30, 2010

Short and To The Point!

You are responsible for your own behavior.
You are responsible for your words.
You are responsible for your attitude.
You are responsible for your thoughts.

When we take full responsibility for ourselves, we stop paying attention to others’ mistakes.
When we are living on purpose and in integrity with our values, we have no focus on others.
When we are on the high way of life, we are whole and happy and free, prosperous and fulfilled.
When we are enjoying the life we have created, we model inspired living.

If we are criticizing, judging and blaming others, we need to get our own life together.
If we are feeling regret, guilt or resentment, we need to forgive ourselves instantly and choose again.
If we are low energy, depressed, or hurting, we need to extend love and peace to all others.
If we are lost, confused, afraid and indecisive, we need to stop and listen within to our inner voice.

Life is an inside job.
When we are attending to our own inner calling, we honor our own sacred journey.
When we are focused on fulfilling our part and doing our work, there is no distraction.
When we are enjoying the learning from our own mistakes and making new choices, we mind our own business.

So much of our motivation is on avoiding other’s criticism and complaints, that we forsake ourselves.
We tend to distract, delay and detour our own life by tending to everyone around us.
When we tend our own garden, we enjoy the fruits of our spiritual labor.
When we listen within, we have little time to listen to others disapproval.

I no longer need others’ approval.  I now approve of myself.
I love, trust and respect myself and my choices.
I always do what is highest and best for me.
I trust what is best for me is a blessing for others.

Affirmations work because we use them to erase false beliefs which limit and interfere with what is for the highest Good of all.
Affirmations erase what is false.
Affirmations clear the mental clutter so we can listen within for the Highest Truth.
Affirmations undo fear, anger, resistance, hurt and guilt.

Blessings to one and all,

 Betty Lue

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Taking Care of You

What is taking impeccable care of you?
What is giving yourself the best?
What is being kind to yourself?
What is loving, trusting and respecting Your Self?
I often refer to remembering to care for yourself first, assuming people know what and how.
If you don’t have role models, how can you know what is best for you?
You may spend a lifetime experimenting and trying to find out what is best.
Self medication with food, drugs, meaningless activity will only mask the quest.

The basics are found in physical, mental, emotional and spiritual care.
However, there is also relationship, environmental, social, financial and work and life purpose care.
When our lives are in order and balance in every area, we feel whole and happy and free.
When lives our imbalanced, cluttered or focused on one area of discontent, we feel neglected and needy.

Physical Care:Are you getting sufficient rest each day?
Do you wake up feeling refreshed?
Do you feed your body the best foods, just right for you?
Does your diet energize and fulfill you?

Mental Care:Do you use your mind with clarity and focus?
Are you taking in sights and sounds that inspire you?
Are you learning everyday from everything your encounter?
Do you use your mind to solve problems with ease and creativity?

Emotional Care:Are you emotionally loving with your inner dialogue?
Do you forgive yourself instantly of any mistakes you make?
Are you willing to remind yourself regularly of how you support yourself?
Do you give yourself the kindness and happiness you desire?

Spiritual Care:Do you have a spiritual practice or activity that inspires you?
Do you have a place in your life that is a constant source of encouragement and guidance?
Do you give others the inspiration and encouragement they need?
Do you take time to listen within to your own intuition, inner guidance or the love in your heart?

These are a few questions you can ask yourself to guide you to take better care of you.
Remember your life is a gift and you are the one you are here to care for!!
Everyone must learn to care for themselves to the best of their ability.
You are at your best when you give yourself the best.

Loving you in loving you, so that you can better love others as they love themselves!!!;)
Betty Lue

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Are You Listening?

There is so much noise in our world. Meaningless words being sung and spoken.
Arguing, and disrespectful interactions.
Careless demands of children and partners.
Forgetting to remember, everyone is listening

There is so much chatter in our minds.Meaningless words about ourselves and others.
Arguing and disrespectful inner conflicts and beliefs.
Careless demands of ourselves and our energies.
Forgetting to remember, we are listening.
What will it take to stop the empty and unloving words?How can we make room for what is good and kind?
When will we learn that we are teaching our world?
How can we change our thoughts, our words and our behavior?

When I forget, I hear myself.
When I hear myself, I must forgive and erase.
When I erase, I can choose again.
When I choose what has meaning, I choose kindness and love.

If you have never heard your words, begin to journal all the words inside.
If you don’t know what and how you sound, take yourself speaking to another.
If you like what you heard and would respond joyfully, leave well enough alone.
If you dislike what you hear inside and from your mouth, hesitate before you speak.

How can I say this with respect?
How can I respond with love?
How can I serve with kindness?
How can I teach my world to love?

The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more I love, trust and respect others.
The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more others love, trust and respect me.
The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more others love, trust and respect themselves.
The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more others love, trust and respect others.

Change for the best comes from giving ourselves the very best we know.Giving ourselves the best we know creates the foundation on which everyone benefits.
Choosing the four affirmations, written and spoken 20 times daily for two weeks will change your life.
When you change yourself, your whole world and everyone in it, changes in your perception.

When you find these basic and beginning affirmations work (when you do the work!), you will want more.
When you see that there will be resistance in your mind and those around you, you will work harder.
When you notice how there is more light in your mind and love in your heart, you will find direction.
When you see where you are going, your will be inspired to do more to teach others the same.

Life is worthwhile and meaningful only when you do the work.
You are the One.
Now is Your Time.

Loving you,  

Betty Lue

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

What is Your Responsibility?

It is Easy to blame. Easy to be a victim.  Easy to judge.  Easy to point the finger.
However, it is far more powerful, courageous, honest and creative to take responsibility.
Harmonious relationships come from the consciousness of just one party.
Being able and willing to respond with trust, freedom, understanding and love is the key!

When you criticize, blame, expect or judge another, you are always telling about yourself.
You are projecting your beliefs, righteousness, neediness, values and expectations onto others.
When we excuse ourselves from responsibility for our experiences by blaming others, we are mistaken.
Life works when we are able to respond to what is needed in each relationship with each moment.

We are free when we trust ourselves to know what to do and say in each experience.
We trust ourselves when we listen within for the decisions to make so that no one loses.
We love others and ourselves when we give what is wanted and benefits all concerned.
We minister to others by giving our best to everyone equally without conditions and expecting nothing.

When we are not taking impeccable care of ourselves first, we will expect others to do it for us.
When we have attended to other’s needs first, we may expect them to take care of us in return.
When we believe that others are equal in consciousness and ability, we make expect sensitivity and help.
When we have not given our best to ourselves and others, we may believe they are not giving their best to us.

We cannot assume others know what we need and want.
We cannot assume we know others motives and wishes.
We cannot assume we understand what anything means.
We cannot assume we have the right answers to any problems.

Begin where you are.
First things first.
Assess your own needs and care for them first.
Get clear about what you want for the outcome.
Communicate clearly and concisely your intentions, requesting support from those around you.
Communicate always without guilt or blame, without criticism and judgment.
Be appreciative of your willingness to take full responsibility for the outcome.
Notice whether the other is able and willing to support you.
The other’s ability to offer help depends on whether they have taken care of their own needs first.
Always appreciate any effort or declaration of willingness on the part of others.

Know that everyone is always doing their best all the time.
So forgive your judgments.
Forgive your guilt and your blame.
Forgive yourself and everyone, for all time.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue
At my computer with Curious George in the background and three munchkins laying in bed.
Remember we create our own experience.  We can forgive and choose differently.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Children and Grandparents

My daughter sees this as the “Grandparents Summer Camp”
Kids call The Lake House, their 3rd home.
We see it as our summer treat and lots of work.
Spirit calls it “LOVE.”

When was the last time you loved just for the joy of loving?
When did you last hold a little one in your lap and cuddle for a story?
When did you last teach someone good manners or how to set the table?
When did you show a child a worm or butterfly or listen to their imaginary friends?

We are with our three Alameda grandchildren this week at the Lake House.
I know this will be an annual event…one week each month during the summer.
We pick vegetables from the garden, build sand castles at the beach, go fishing from the dock.
We read stories and watch our favorite kid’s movies like Never Ending Story and Last Unicorn.
We learn how to be patient with one another and to share our things respectfully.
We laugh at the silly games and songs we sing together.
Last night we all went out to see the full moon before bed and sang.
“I see the moon. The moon sees me.  I see somebody I want to see.
God bless the moon and God bless me. God bless the one I love

There are so many little ones in the world.
They need you and I to love them.
They  need each one of us who is willing to teach them and show them how to love.
It is our responsibility and our gift to give love to all the little children of the world.

Smile at children.
Say please and thank you to children.
Be patient and forgiving those around you.
Everyone is doing the best they know.

Some have not learned because no one has taught them.
Some have learned mistakenly by those who are ignorant.
Some are simply afraid because they have been hurt or neglected.
Some are simply exploring the possibilities of how to live and love and give.

We are here to love all the little children.
Even the little child in adult bodies.

So let us love today to show everyone the way to LOVE.
Loving us all as one,  

Betty Lue

If Children Live With……….
If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with: criticism, hostility, fear, pity, ridicule or jealousy,
They will learn to: condemn, fight, be apprehensive, feel sorry for themselves,
feel shy and feel envy
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and others.If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Freedom in an Unfree World

In early 70’s Harry Browne wrote, “How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World” that changed my life.
I began to look at what I believed trapped me and how to get unstuck from the illustions of limitation.
I saw how I believed time, distance, money, laws, gravity emotions and my body vehicle limited me.
I remembered how my parents taught me to believe I could do and be anything I wanted.

So I began to look at what I would be, do and have, if I was truly unlimited.
I would fly and move and be wherever I was called, without a plane.
I would communicate without technology, person to person or to the whole of humanity.
I would love everyone, not for any reason ….simply to love.
I would create and not judge my creations.
I would teach everyone who wanted to learn.
I would clothe, feed, build, unite all who sought a better way of life.
I would freely give everything that was requested simply for the asking.

As I now see myself, this is how I live everyday.

From the teachings of A Course in Miracles I remembered that “To give All to All is to Have All.”I woke us to “ Everything I think and say and do teaches all the Universe.”I realized that “To Love my Brother is to Love myself.”  and “Only I can deny myself anything.”I noticed how people seemed to love one another by restricting them and questioning their choices.

I learned from a spiritual friend “It is not unusual for us human beings to secretly wish and hope that the people we’re close to don’t become too magnificent. We don’t really want these significant others to be too free or too powerful or too creative or too successful or to dream too wild a dream. We actually prefer that they stay small, “manageable”, non-threatening, tame. After all, we don’t want to be made to feel uncomfortable or inadequate or diminished or challenged by the boldness and joyfulness with which someone else lives his or her life.”

Since I remembered only being trusted by my parents, it seemed natural to trust others.
Since I had been given freedom as a child, except when my Dad asked me not to ride motorcycles or go on hay rides to handle his personal fear, I always knew I was free. And in adulthood I discovered that the world had many conditions, expectations, demands, needs all ruled by underlying fears in the human condition.
As I grew to understand the pain, inner conflict and frustrations of feeling limited, I began to question.

What does God want for those He loves?
What does our Creator want for His Creation?
What brings His Son Happiness and Inner Peace?
How are we to grow into fully actualizing the Gifts we are given?

We are already free.
We need only recognize the freedom and trust given us by God.
We are free to choose, free to think and act, free to create and build.
We are free to connect and communicate, free to commit and to change, free to celebrate and appreciate.

We are free.  The freedom is limited only by those who fear our freedom.
The freedom is limited only by those who are not yet free.
Until we are willing and actively desire that the key people in our lives be totally free and powerful, we cannot be free and powerful ourselves. So, here is an affirmation-prayer that may help us begin freeing others, so that we can begin to free ourselves.

So why not set others free?
I want you to be the highest, clearest and most powerful expression of God that you can be.  I would not limit you in any way, knowing that only as I encourage you to expand, explore and grow, can I myself be free.  So I fully support you in being and expressing all that you are.”
I want you to go where you feel called to go, to speak and act as you feel guided, and to express yourself in whatever ways seem right. There is nothing I do not want you to do, for I know that all movement is contained within God and always leads us to Him.

I am at peace with whatever decisions and choices you make, no matter how they may seem to affect me. Since I know that God loves and supports me perfectly, I know that however you choose to be with me must be a manifestation of that divine love and support. Because I trust God, I trust you. And because I trust you, I trust myself.

So, be free, be powerful, be unlimited. And know that I want you, to be the highest, clearest, most powerful expression of God that you can be. I fully support you in being all that you are”
To have freedom, give freedom to everyone as God gives us Freedom to BE.
To have freedom , love as God loves with Freedom and Trust for all Creation.
To have freedom, cast out fear with Love and free all to live and learn and let go as they will.
To have freedom, BE free.

Loving you, loving me with freedom and trust.
Betty Lue
Thank you Randall Keller for your insightful loving and freedom giving spiritual gifts.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Who Do You Think You Are?

“You are what you eat.”
“You are a spiritual being having a human experience.”

“As a man thinketh, so is he.”

“ You are a God created You, whole and happy and free.”

“You are what you have inherited from your mother and father.”

“You are the Light of the world.”

“ Your destiny is in the stars.” Or in your numerology or the enneagram or ……
It really matters not what “they” say.
It only matters what you believe.
What you conceive and believe, you can achieve.”We are free to choose what we imagine and believe about ourselves.

We can erase and undo anything we choose.
We can claim and identify with anything we choose as well.
So when we choose what to think about ourselves, let us choose wisely.
With consciousness, we awaken to the possibility of claiming that which we respect and admire.

What we perceive in others, we strengthen in ourselves.
We become like those with whom we associate.
What we ingest through our mind, body and spirit, feeds us.
Our experiences and memories shape our beliefs and our imaginings.

When we treat ourselves with sensitivity and kindness, we are more sensitive and kind with others.
When we trust and respect ourselves, we trust and respect others more.
When we are clear, concise and confident, others attend to our thoughts, words and behaviors more.
 When we are spontaneous, happy and flexible, others feel more happy around us.

There are many ways to look at our lives and who we think we are.
The real work is to take the time to look at ourselves and our lives.
We need to listen to our thoughts and our words to hear ourselves.
We must come to know ourselves through our life story as well as how we feel.

When we are willing to see what our lives have been, we can see wht we think of ourselves.
When we want to change our story and renew our lives, we can undo what was and choose again.
When we are forgiving and neutral, we see we have unlimited possibilities open for the choosing.
Our life is what we make it through our thoughts, words and interactions.

We are free to be.
Betty Lue

“Be not conformed to this world, but you can be transformed by the renewal of your mind.”
“Change Your mind and you change your life

Monday, July 19, 2010

Which Identity Do You Choose?

Do you identify with your Body or Your Spirit?
Do you see yourself as your form or your function?
Do you believe your value is in your reputation or what is in your heart?
Do you trust in your finances and achievements or your intention and higher purpose?

How you feel about yourself and your life is encapsulated in what you identify as Your Self.
Where you place your attention in financial security and investment, you may fear losing money.
When you depend on those around you, you may fear losing them and their approval.
When you are guided by how others see you, you may be confused by their changeable ratings.

When I identify with my body, I see myself as separate from others.
When I believe I am a body, my focus is on my image, my weight and longevity.
When I see myself in comparison with other bodies, I judge my own and theirs as well.
When I live my life making my physical form God, I miss the true substance of my life.

Whether I identify with my body, my finances, my career, my education, my accomplishments, I step away from the I Am that is the Inner Self, the inner Resource, the Inner Calling.
When I identify with the surface of my life, I lose the Inner Essence that calls me to Unconditional Love, lasting Happiness, pervasive Inner Peace and a willingness to allow myself to Be as I Am.
When I am consumed with diets, budgets, investments, credentials, accolades, raises and how my appearance and house looks, I fall into the trance of believing my false or temporary self is who I am.

The EGO (Edging God Out) is our temporary personality, learned from the teachings and experiences we integrated into our beliefs and behaviors.
The Ego identifies with its humanness and our place in the world we see.  The Ego gets very attached to being RIGHT.
The Ego is rarely truly happy or at peace, usually endlessly searching for more….more Love, more money, more energy, more approval, MORE!
The Ego takes care of our physical needs, but rarely acknowledges our inspirational needs. The Ego seek and finds lack, littleness and limitation.
The Ego has a place during our lives, but more as a servant to our Real work here.

Our Authentic Self, Our True Identity, is Unlimited, Abundant, Joyous and Free.
Our Real Self is not our body, our job, our finances nor our accomplishments.
Our  True Self is the Essence, the origin of our Being. It is Love ItSelf.
It seeks only to extend Peace. It lives and has its being in Goodness.
Our Authentic Self finds meaning in living in Love and enjoying the Goodness in Life.
Our Truth is to find and be the One we are here to be, sharing the Best We Know in every moment with every One.

When I forget my inner teacher, the One who is meant to lead my life and allow the Ego to take over, I may experience, fear, guilt, grief, resentment, confusion, illness, depression and loss of meaning.
When I remember my inner guide, the One who Loves and knows and leads me  back home to my Self, I may experience deep peace and contentment, clarity, natural forgiveness, healing, comfort, simplicity, direction, inspiration, wisdom and insight, enthusiasm, bliss and full enjoyment.

Which identity do you choose?
Your True Self with the help of the ego or your Ego Self with requests to your Higher Self when you are in trouble?

Loving us all in our continual freedom to choose again for what works!
Betty Lue

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Do What Comes Naturally!

When we live following our own instincts, we learn to do what creates the most health and vitality, strength and comfort, peace and harmony, happiness and fulfillment……
We do what feels good.
We do what feels right.
We do what works.

When we learn from our elders, our history, our teachers and preachers, we learn to do what others tell us.
We learn to be sophisticated, to conform to others’ teachings and beliefs.
We become adulterated and influenced by the way authorities demand.
We become externally referring.

When we pay more attention to others than to ourselves, we lose awareness of our inner voice.
When we listen to the threats, demand and seduction of the world, we let go of inner guidance.
When we follow the crowd, our peers and the fads of the times, we weaken our natural instincts.
When we listen outside and fail to listen within, we lose our authentic selves.

Oh Dear!
Lost, confused and afraid we even increase our external dependency and look for outside resources.
The latest book, the philosophers of the ages, the scriptures from all traditions, the loudest voice becomes our Source and our God.

What if Knowing You and Loving You and Trusting You is the Key to Freedom?
What if listening within it the path to a fun, safe and easy life?
What if every moment we take time to respect and honor our inner teacher, we find our way Home?
What if we must learn the Love within leads the way to Happiness and Inner peace?

Self-referring people are more creative and resilient.
Self-referring folks are more confident and self-assured.
Self-referring folks seem to lead a more fulfilling and happy life.
Self-referring folks seem to know what works and do what works.

Take time to listen today.
Strengthen your ability by practicing this ancient and natural way to live.
Give yourself time to pay attention to what you intuition tells you.
Allow yourself to find and respect your own uniqueness.

We each have a part to play, a way to live, that gives us peace and contentment.
We all can know inside what will lead to good for everyone we encounter.
When we take impeccable care of ourselves and live in integrity with our own values, we are at peace.
When we are at peace and in love, we naturally are good to those around us.

Begin today to restore your willingness to listen within.
Betty Lue

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Listening Within

There is a voice in you, sometimes very quiet and always loving.
There is a voice within you that speaks only of the Good in You.
There is a voice in you that knows always and only what is Best for You.
There is an inner voice that will guide you to perfect happiness and inner peace.

This voice came with you when you were born into this world of form.
This inner voice is truly for and from your Higher Self, your inner teacher.
This quiet place sees and knows only Love for you.
This place of certainty and trust in you seeks only that you remember the Love YOU Are.

How could it be that the Love that created you would want anything other than Love for you?
How could it be that the Perfection of God could create anything less than a wonderous life for you?
How could we possibly imagine that there is another will than the Will for Good for You?
It is our Holy Work to quiet our learned imaginings and listen to the Voice Within.

Yes, I listen for these Loving Reminders each morning.
I have been guided to send them to you and those who ask for the last 11 years.
Beginning in 1976 I began to sit each morning and listen for inner guidance which I followed.
To my surprise, when I listened and followed impeccably my life was fun, safe and easy.

The miracle of inner listening comes from the Love that created us to Listen only to Love.
The miracle of inner listening resides in our willingness to follow only the path of Love.
The miracle of inner listening is experienced only when we practice quieting our own minds.
The miracle of inner listening is to learn God’s will is our Perfect Happiness and Inner Peace.

How do you begin to listen within:
Set an appointed time each day.  5 minutes or an hour, it matters not, but keep your appointment.
Make it the same place and time.  Consistency creates a positive habit for mind and body.
Allow no interruption or distractions.  Make this a sacred time of spiritual practice.
Bring a journal or pad of paper and pen.  Writing everything you think and fee and hear is key.
Prepare with song, scripture or statement of trust. “I seek answers and know I can trust the answers.”
Focus within with rhythmical breathing and listen in the silence. Write what you hear, see and know.
Do not seek to understand, but bring peace to what is. Inner peace is the key to listening.
Write your questions when they come to you and listen for the answers. Write it all down.

Your inner teacher and inner voice wants to help you be happy and at peace.
Your inner voice seeks only to guide you to live a happy, fulfilling life.
Your inner voice calls you to live and give fully , love and learn easily in every encounter.
Your inner voice knows you and loves you, trusts you and believes in you…so why not listen?

Loving you in another new beginning.
Share with me if you choose and know I will support and encourage you always,
Betty Lue

¤      I love you      ¤
and I know you love me too.

LOVE IS FREEDOMThe freedom for you and I to be who we are.
The freedom to live life as we do.
The freedom to make mistakes and learn from them.
The freedom to express our own truth as we see it.
LOVE IS TRUSTThe trust that there is a constant flow of love,
no matter what.
The trust that, in spite of life’s problems,
we believe in and support each other’s right
to live as we choose.
The trust that in adversity,
there is healing and learning and gifts of love.
The trust that under conflict and emotional expression,
there is love

I love you and I trust you.
I free you to be all you are.

Betty Lue 1978

Friday, July 16, 2010

How To Love

Yesterday I shared that Love is what you choose it to be for you.
Today I want to remember that Love is in the eye and heart of the one who receives your love.
You can pet a dog all day, but if you do not feed him, he will not feel your love.
You can say “I love you” all day, but if you do not give what the other needs and knows as love, they will not feel loved.

To love is to give what is needed, wanted and known to be loving.
To love is to attend to the specific needs of the other.
To love is to become aware of what the other sees and feels and knows as loving and give it.
To love is to love yourself fully to be able to then love another freely.

If someone needs quiet, hush yourself.
If someone needs space, step away.
If someone needs a home cooked meal, get in the kitchen.
If someone needs to be touched, reach out.
If someone needs a home, help them create one.
If someone needs safety, stop judging, attacking and criticizing.
If someone needs to be comforted, give reassurance.
If someone needs to lighten up, help them laugh and find humor.
If someone needs to get out of pain, make them comfortable.
If someone needs to sleep, help them get rest.
If someone needs approval, give them appreciation.
If someone needs self esteem and confidence, build them up with words and respect.
If someone needs help, help them with the best you have.

Every time you help another, you are helping humanity.
Every way you love someone, you are loving all creation.
Every moment you give you best, you are giving to yourself and all.
Every act of love is a gift to Love It Self.

Love increases when shared.
Love grows more love to be given.
Love is our natural state.
Love is a reminder of who and what we are.

It is totally easy to love, when …

·     You have loved yourself well.
·     You forgive all lack of love in yourself and others.
·     You seek only to share the Love You Are.
·     You realize to deny another denies your Self.
·     You understand your true purpose here.
·     You see another as your Self.

Loving makes me happy, whole and free.
Betty Lue

Thursday, July 15, 2010

What Is Love?

Love is what you want it to be for You! 
This may remind you about what I said three days ago! (God is what you want God to be for You.)We all make up our beliefs, our perceptions, our interpretations and our meanings for everything.
We decide Love is what we experienced as love, usually from early childhood.

Love may be food, if you were “loved” with food.
Love may be approval, if you were loved with criticism.
Love may be limitation, restriction and punishment, if you were loved with limits.
Love may be freedom, if you were loved with freedom.
Love may be touch, if you were loved with touching.
Love may be special words, if you were loved with nicknames and loving expressions.
Love may be gifts, if you were loved with things and requests for things being honored.
Love may be quality time, if you were loved with special time with a loved one.
Love may be having things done for you or with you, if you were love with acts of service.

There are an infinite number of ways to be loved and to be loving.
Sometimes our desire for love is the vision of being loved totally differently than by our parents.
There are those who avoid being loved in “yucky” ways, that we didn’t appreciate as children.
There are those who try to stay away from being loved because they fear a repeat of what was upsetting.

Love has many names and faces.
Love is seen as form and function.
Love is often believed to be emotional.
Love may be seen as attachment and neediness.
Love is portrayed often as passionate and sensual.
Love can be described as spiritual and everlasting.
Love may appear and disappear in a cloud of  hate.
Love seems to change form depending on the focus of our love.
Love may seem to pass us by as we wait on the sidelines, hungry to be loved.
Love may be replaced by the suspicion, jealousy and restriction in our fear love will leave us.

Love……My definitions from over the years…….
What is Love?Love is what you choose to have it be for You.
Love is a creative energy and life force.
Love is powerful.
Love is eternal.
Love never ends.
The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to return to Love.
Learn to extend the Love you are and you will never feel lonely or unloved.
Love is received as it is given.
Love is given without expectation, condition or need to get anything in return.
Love is freedom and trust.

Loving you, truly and forever!
Betty Lue
LOVEThere is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
No disease that enough love will not heal;
No door that enough love will not open;
No gulf that enough love will not bridge;
No wall that enough love will not throw down;
No sin that enough love will not redeem.

 It makes no difference
  how deeply seated may be the trouble,
How hopeless the outlook,
How muddled the tangle,
How great the mistake.
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

If only you could love enough, you would be the happiest
and most powerful being in the world.

Emmet Fox

Wednesday, July 14, 2010


Are you wholly committed to anything?
Are you 100% focused on one goal or ideal?
Do you give your time, energy and money devotedly to any singular purpose?
Are you really choosing what matters in your life?

The degree to which we are committed and focused is the degree to which we achieve anything.
When we eliminate distractions, detours, doubts and delays, we achieve what we are committed to.
When we are on purpose and honoring wholeheartedly any singular goal, we have what we want.
When we are handling the complexities of everyday life and lose our focus, we do not achieve.

Are you committed to losing weight?
If we truly could spend 100% of our energies 24/7, the results would be miraculous.
Are you committed to being happy?
If we would choose only those thoughts, words and activities that support our happiness, we would be.

How about committing to your own happiness and fulfillment?
How about committing to being in love and at peace?
How about committing to being free from worry and feeling secure?
How about committing to contributing and being of service?

When we create expansive commitments, many times it is easier to devote 100% Attention than to choose a specific commitment.
100% of our energies can more easily go to being grateful, than to losing 15 lbs.
So why not choose bigger goals that incorporate the smaller desires.
I commit to fully supporting myself energized and of service to those around me.
I commit myself to live in trust so that I can give as I am guided from within.
I commit myself to being healthy and happy mentally, physically and spiritually.
I commit myself to live my highest purpose with gratitude and joy.

After clarifying what it is you are wholly committed to, the work is to eliminate all the distractions, doubts and delays.  The work is to invite everything you think, say and do to be fully supporting your overall commitment.  The work is to align with those people, places, sights and sounds that serve only and always your highest good.  The work is to love yourself so well that you step away from anything that does not serve you loving, respecting and trusting YOU.

So I invite you to join me in committing this day and everyday to loving, serving and remembering You.
I encourage you to commit to being the one who gives you always and only the very best.
I applaud you for daring to commit 100% to living and giving the very best you have to you and All.
I love you and me for being the ones who dare to focus only on what is Good for all concerned.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Perhaps God Is

This morning I had a clear experience God Is whatever we need God to be.
Perhaps it is our choice as to what God will be for us.
If we need a fairy Godmother, God will be.
If we need a scapegoat, God will be.
If we need a rescuer, God will be.
If we need a healer, God will be.
If we need a counselor, God will be.
If we need a judge, God will be.
If we need an investor, God will be.
If we need a parent, God will be.
If we need a friend, God will be.
If we need a listener, God will be.
If we need no God, God will not be.
If we need an awesome God, God will be.
If we need a forgiving God, God will be.
God will be for us whatever we need God to be.

When we are toddlers, we need a nurturing and gently guiding God.
When we are learning to express ourselves, we need a freeing and trusting God.
When we are serving others by being helpful, we need a God that directs us in our service.
When we are in our adolescence, we may need no God or to be God.
When we are in trouble, we may need a God that punishes or a God that forgives.
When we are trying to achieve, to be successful, we may need a directive and assertive God.

Each of us can look at our own version of our relationship with what we call God.
Some see God outside and all mighty, the fearsome God.
Some see God as inside and gently teaching and guiding.
Some see God as best friend, companion and comforter.

You may find that your perception of God rests on your perception of yourself and your needs.
You may find that you have sought the God you prefer, but not found the God you need.
You may judge others’ view of God, because you are so attached to your own.
You may avoid considering others’ relationships with God, because you judge you are right.

However you see and claim your God to be, consider that others may need a different relationship.
Whenever you need another facet of God, consider that you can simply ask for what you need.
Whoever and however you want God to be ( or not at all), you can have your way.
God is and God does as we conceive and believe, for so it is ordained that God provides.

I love listening, learning, letting go and loving All That Is.
What you and I believe, we make true for ourselves.
Whatever we ask for, we experience to the degree to which we believe and commit.
Our journey is learning that we are choosing and our choices help us learn.

Loving you and All,
Betty Lue

Monday, July 12, 2010

Vacation and Sabbatical

Today we are coming home from a seven day sabbatical at the Lake House.
When I go away from my usual 7 day/week schedule, I take a pause to reflect on what works for me.
When I vacate my usual routine, I have an opportunity to gain a new perspective on life.
When I give myself a sabbatical (Sabbath=seventh day), I have an opportunity to flow with inner guidance.

Vacations are usually a time for whatever might be missing from everyday life.
Vacations are often more tiring than restful, because of filling the time with activity.
Vacations may be seen as the reward for a life of work and job well done.
Vacations often cost a lot of money and effort in planning, preparing and executing.

For many the return to “Work” is dreaded and sometimes resisted with depression.
For some the return home seems heavy and unhappy.
For some the return may be looking forward to the familiar.
For others coming home, feels like a return to a haven and sanctuary.

It is important that each of us assess what will bring us the most peace and happiness.

Life is a vacation when I recognize that I am always doing what I prefer.
I live a life of freedom and trust, loving myself well everyday.
The diverse “schedule” and routine of each day is perfect for my personality.
I choose to counsel and teach, to be with my grandchildren, to write and share with others.
I honor myself with every activity I have chosen.
I love myself well and feel everyday is an opportunity to love, serve and remember.

The vacation for me is the quiet in my mind.
The vacation is taking time to breathe in the fresh air and beauty around me.
The vacation is being grateful for all I have and all I share.
The vacation is truly being happy with my whole life and everyone I encounter.

For me the sabbatical is being willing to rest in the Goodness I have co-created.
The sabbatical is taking time to sit and do nothing.
The sabbatical is flowing without thought of time, schedule, routine or necessity.
The sabbatical is making everyday a Sabbath.

How can we live our lives as though we are always on vacation?
I learned many years ago to stop speaking or thinking about should’s, must’s and have to’s.
I learned to change everything in which I engaged into “I choose”, “I want”, “I prefer”.
This seemingly subtle shift changed my perspective on everything: “I am always at choice.”

When I acknowledge I am the chooser, always free to choose whatever I want, I am on vacation.
When  I live honoring my choices and preferences, I know I am taking impeccable care of me.
When I give myself what makes me happy and is the choice that is best for me, I feel free.
When I trust myself enough to be responsible for everything I have and give and do, I love myself.

Be on vacation today and everyday.
Make everyday a Sabbath by taking time each day to pause, express gratitude and enjoy the life you have.
Loving us all as one, 

Betty Lue

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Living in Integrity

We are coming to Kalamazoo, MI and Lowell/Hammond, IN August 5-8.
( See tentative schedule below. Still looking for the location for group gatherings!)

Living in Integrity

What do you value?
Where do you find inspiration and meaning?
What is the purpose and mission for your life?
Where do you experience energy and enthusiasm?

Notice whose lives you admire.
Pay attention to what you watch on TV.
Make note of what you read.
Listen to your spoken words.
Attend to the chatter in your mind.
Watch the activities in your daily schedule.
Look at where you spend your money.
Assess what consumes most of your time.

Where you spend time, money and energy demonstrate what you currently value.
What you value is what you give attention to and therefore what you experience.
The more you give attention, the more you increase.
When we are in integrity, we live and give attention to our highest values.

The work is to eliminate the distractions.
The healing is to forgive our unconsciousness.
Our function is to honor what has meaning and purpose.
The goal is to find peace that comes from no conflict of interest within.

I notice I love sports.
But what I want is for everyone to do their best and feel like a winner.
I notice I like watching others’ live.
And what I seek it the joy of watching love and connection flow between people.
I notice that I enjoy mental silence.
What I listen for is the call to contribute, to be helpful and enjoy life.I notice what inspires me and lifts my spirits is miracles of love, healing and personal success.
What I seek is inner and outer views of overcoming adversity, generosity of people and Love expressed.I notice that I enjoy observing and being with little children.
I am energized by their innocence, wisdom, curiosity and enjoyment of all the little things in life.

In all of this I can see what I truly value and how I live everyday.
When living in integrity, everything unlike what is valued falls aways.
In integrity the distractions, detours and delays are quickly forgiven.
With integrity, we feel best, happy, healthy and fulfilled when we live what we value.
I love my life of teaching and living the values that serve the good in me.
I invite everyone to discover and live in integrity.

Loving us all in finding our own unique and perfect way to live and love and give,
Betty Lue

August 5-8 Reunion Programs Michigan and Indiana

Betty Lue Lieber, PhD, MFT and Robert Waldon, PhD, ND 

Everything offered on a contribution basis.  “We trust that Goodness will always provide.”

Keys to Successful Partnership in Healing, Learning and Success are:

•  Joining in vision and goals
•  Honesty without withhold.
•  Equality in giving and receiving.    
•  Commitment to the highest and best for All.   
•  Responsibility for the quality of relationship with no guilt or blame.

What we offer? 

•  We facilitate with inspiration, wisdom, enjoyment and respect.
•  We encourage wonder and curiosity, exploration and self discovery.
•  We empower with freedom, trust and appreciation.
•  We perceive the wholeness, Goodness and Beauty in each one. 
•  We respect each person’s choices and the sacred journey of life

Living In Love
8/5 Thursday in Kalamazoo, MI
Evening Gathering “Thriving in Trying Times” 7-9 PM   Open to All.

8/6 Friday Kalamazoo, MI
Consultations with Betty Lue and Robert   8-5PM   Open by appointment.
ReUnion of Ministers 6:30-9PM For Ministers/ Students of Reunion Ministries

8/7 Saturday Workshops in Kalamazoo, MI
1) True Happiness: Finding Inner Peace in a Conflicted World10-12:30 PM  
2) True Prosperity: Principles of Conscious Healing and Joyful Helping:1:30-4PM
Light Salads provided Bring brown bag if you wish plus folding chairs or pillows. Open to All

8/8 Sunday  Workshops/Consultations in Lowell and Hammond, IN
Programs and locations to be announced. 

Please call for details.  800-919-2392  All are invited to join us. 
We are here to be truly helpful, to love unconditionally, to serve from the heart
and to Remember God and Goodness.  Betty Lue

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Staying Conscious

Change your mind and you change your life!

How do I stay awake to my own needs when I am serving others’ needs?
What is best for me is best for others.When I give myself the best, I teach others to give themselves the best.
When I take impeccable care of myself, I teach others to do the same.
When I stay conscious to meet my own needs first, I am better able to love, serve and care for others.
Therefore I choose to give myself the best, and trust all are served.

To teach with integrity, I live what I teach.To be conscious is to love, trust and respect myself.
The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more I love, trust and respect others.
The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more others love, trust and respect me.
The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more others love, trust and respect themselves.

I choose to stay awake and aware, listening within for what is highest and best for all.I now am responsible for being conscious of my inner voice and honoring inner guidance.
I now honor my body, mind and spirit by giving myself what is truly good for me.
I am open and willing to choose only that which supports my mission in life.
I step out of habitual behaviors into making conscious choices to serve the Good in me.

Everyone is blessed as I bless my whole self with love and respect.I take impeccable care of my body, the vehicle that supports my life of loving service.
I take impeccable care of my mind, by giving myself thoughts, images and information that lifts my Spirits.
I take impeccable care of my Spirit, by inspiring myself with positive affirmation and prayer.
I take impeccable care of my whole life by choosing to listen within for the inner guidance of Perfect Love.

My life works because I do the work.I am willing and able to choose always and only for the highest Good.
I am willing and able to take impeccable care of my whole self.
I am willing and able to live respectfully and responsibly.
I am willing and able to forgive every situation in which I have chosen unconsciously.

I am willing to stay awake and aware of my thoughts, my feelings, my behavior and my words.I choose only the highest thoughts, feelings, actions and words to serve the Highest Good of All.
I choose to respect all humanity by giving my very best to myself and others equally.
I choose to honor the gift of my life by giving my best to the life I have.
I choose to be grateful for everything I have, everything I give and every thing I receive.

I am willing to stay conscious and in love all the time.It is fun, safe and easy to stay awake to my own needs while I am serving the greater Good.
It is safe, fun and easy to live and choose consciously.
It is easy, say and fun, to give myself the very best I know.
It is natural to always serve the highest Good for myself and all.

I am loving me as I love you.
I am loving you as I love myself.
I am loving the we that you and I are together in love,
Betty Lue

What Are these Loving Reminders?
A handful of people are new to receiving these daily or weekly loving reminders from me.
I send them directly to over one thousand people and many more from your referrals.
I have been writing and sending Loving Reminders for over 11 years everyday I am at home.
They are valuable for me to receive and share and valuable for others who receive them as reminders.
When something resonates with you, you feel its truth in your heart.When you are reminded of what you know deep inside, you appreciate and find value.When you are touched with inspiration, you feel grateful and can choose to practice.
This is my reason for listening within and sharing the inner guidance I receive each day.
After counseling and coaching thousands of individuals, couples and families, I know the need.After teaching, mentoring and facilitating hundreds of people for the last 35 years, I hear the call.After listening and letting Spirit within guide my life for most of my life, I feel the importance.And this is my way of responding to all of us for the Highest Good and finding a better way.
These reminders are intended to be practical; they are meant to be used everyday.
These reminders are intended to be inspirational; they are meant to move you into action.
These reminders are intended to be spiritual; they are meant to call you to return to what is meaningful.
These reminders are intended to be healing; they give insight, freedom to choose/change and peace.

For many, there is limited time and money, so these reminders offer help when you have need.
For some, there is hesitation in asking for help, so these reminders are an anonymous way to learn.
For others, there is denial of needing anything, and the reminders simply reawaken what is known.
For me, these reminders are a powerful way to connect, to touch you with my love for us all.
Yes, I Love You.I love you when you are happy or sad, right or wrong, awakening or sleeping on the job.
I love you when you don’t love yourself or forget you are loveable and capable just as you are.
I love you when you are willing to do the work and when you get lazy and quit on yourself.

I am your Loving Reminder.We can call it a Calling or Holy Assignment or just what I am here to do.
My intention is to facilitate all of us in playing our Part and living our potential in being all we can be.Said in a thousand ways or no way at all…your healing and success and joy are a blessing for me.
So why would I sit at my computer every morning as my spiritual practice and joy…….??
Because of all this above and so much more.
You and I are One..More than you can know, we are connected in Love.
Ask me your questions.
Give me your comments.
Share with me your gratitude.
And always know I am with you in Love.
Betty Lue

Friday, July 09, 2010

Mind Your Own Business

When your bed is made, you can teach others by example.
When your finances are in order, you can share with others.
When your life is working, you have the wisdom and experience to teach.
Until then you are learning what you teach and teaching what you learn.

Everyone’s business is unique to them.
Each individual has their own sacred life journey of learning and letting go.
Each person is doing the best that they know with the resources they have.
Everyone must learn from the natural consequences of their choices.

And so it is that we each individually and collectively learn with one another.
How is it that we can effectively help, not interfere, with one another’s development?
How does an effective teacher reach the students who come to her?
How can we help, serve and remind one another without engendering judgment and comparison?

When we see someone endangering their own life or another, we are called to act.
How do we act without creating more fear and reactivity causing potential harm?
How do we think, speak and behave in ways that are healing and helpful?
How do we give to others what we would want to have in similar circumstances?

There are many courses of action and interaction, depending on our state of mind and ability.
There are many ways to reach others depending on their receptivity and willingness.
To choose one must find the inner peace first to listen within as to how to respond.
To be able to respond appropriately to another we must step aside and connect with their needs.

Learning to stop from habitual reactions is essential.
Learning to look at all options and aspects of the situation is necessary.
Learning to listen to what they want and what our inner guidance tells us is required.
Learning to act from love, trust and respect for all concerned will result in the highest outcome.

Sometimes stepping away with forgiveness and positive affirmation is effective.
Sometimes offering a helping hand with appreciation for the other is valued.
Sometimes asking first if help is wanted paves the way to openness and receptivity.
Sometimes simply offering our opinion or viewpoint is useful and taken as positive wisdom.

I forgive my judgments.
I trust others are always doing their best.
I respect the right of everyone to learn their own way.
I take care for the dignity and safety of children and those who can not care for themselves.
I wait until I am asked for my help or counsel.
I set conditions of time, energy and resources which respect myself and the other.
I seek to be truly helpful and to serve the highest outcome for all concerned.
I ask or assess what will be most helpful to the one making the request.
I give all I have and know and trust to those who are grateful to receive it all.
I invite the receiver’s feedback, compensation, appreciation and willingness to utilize what is given.
Loving us all as we learn to take care of our own business and live in integrity,
Betty Lue

Thursday, July 08, 2010

What To Do When You Don’t Know What To Do!

Be at peace, dear ones.
It is your peace of mind and gentleness of speech and openness of heart that frees and trusts and loves.
It is in love that all things are made whole.
It is at peace that all things come clear.
It is in freedom that creative solutions are seen.
It is with trust that the words of your mouth and the images in your minds are held in the light.

Be unafraid to not know.
Be at peace with the unknown.
Be willing to step into the quiet.
Seek not to avoid the void.

For it is in the unknowing that spiritual wisdom will be made known to you.
It is in the quiet that the answers will come into your mind.
It is in the openness of each moment that love will be show and expressed.
It is in the power of now that you can and will bring the Light of inspiring wisdom and higher Truth.

You can be the reconciling force.
You can bring the healing essence.
You can lead the way to happiness.
You can offer true prosperity and YES.

With trust in the unlimited…..
With freedom to give all to all…..
With love for everyone as they are….
With willingness to be, to create, to express, everything works together for good.

Be at peace with the uncertainty of change.
Be at peace with the lack of understanding.
Be at peace with the chaos of untempered freedom.
Be at peace with simply being You.

Loving us all in our willingness to not know.
Celebrating our desire to simply be.
Honoring our generosity in giving the Highest.
Trusting in the power of the Infinite,
Betty Lue

Mid Year reminders from Robert!

Year 2010—The Empress
2008 was focused on the Wheel of Fortune, which was a year of positive changes of direction and fortune, and of unexpected opportunities. 2009 was the year of the Strength and Lust, a year of self-renewal through creativity and strength, having the courage to risk and have faith in yourself.
2010 is the year of the Empress. This is a year to clarify what is emotionally important and what is not. During the year 2010, you want to bring more beauty, harmony and nature into your life, and you want to nurture and support yourself as well as you do others. It is a good time to work on mother issues, whether it is your mother, you as a mother, or clearing ways you mother or allow yourself to be mothered by others.
During this year, you will be faced with opportunities to become aware of ways in which you over-give, over-control, or push to create changes in your life and the world around you. This could cause you to push even more when things don’t work out the way you want, unless you recognize that the gift of 2010 is the energy and support to change these patterns. This year may bring some initial frustration as you experience the apparent failure of old, time-tested strategies and approaches. Remember that you cannot change an old pattern without first becoming aware of what it is and its impact in your life. Celebrate this awareness and use this energy to re-create your life and your world.
The key: Be willing to nurture and support yourself, at least as much as you do others. In this way, you also ensure your ability to be truly present with everyone and every circumstance, and you will become more aware of the abundance and harmony of everything around you.
“I am open to receive all good.”
“I am nurtured by the unlimited abundance surrounding me as I equally give and receive unconditional love.”
“I am a fertile garden in which creativity can be nurtured to fruition.”
2010 is also a year focused on Achievement—True and lasting achievement comes from moving out of defensive patterns of relationship with the world where you rely on your limited self to meet all of your needs. Move into a pattern of defenselessness. Know your true relationship with the Divine and recognize the strength, guidance and abundance that are yours in that relationship. You can use the energy of this year to transform any aggressive tendencies into greater acceptance and more inspired creativity. It is a good year to develop loyalty and faithfulness to principles and values, rather than outer goals, and to measure the worth of your achievements more by success in personal relationships than in tasks.
“All is accomplished in Divine Order.”
“I experience total success in all activities by freeing myself of the burden of obsessive over-planning,
and allowing the Divine plan to work through me.”
The primary support tools available in 2010 are:
•      The Lovers
—When you find yourself over-giving, pushing, not nurturing yourself, or sorrowful, you must open yourself to a greater sense of equality in relationships, reconciling dualities, opening to inspiration and Divine wisdom, and balancing your giving and receiving.
“I love all unconditionally.”
“Through giving total freedom and trust, I release all apparent polarities and stuckness,
opening to the perfect experience of love in every relationship.”
“I choose to be free from inhibitions, guilt and bondages in all my relationships.”
•      The Willful Expresser—This is right use of Will to create the world you want. It is Spirit-guided, artistic, optimistic, self-expressive, dramatic and powerful. Your strength and love of life come from following your heart.
“I will, and it is so.”
“I love to express myself.”
“My vitality, enthusiasm and full expression create the world I choose.”
“My full, free self-expression is an inspiration and blessing,
opening the world to the experience of greater joy and happiness.”
•      The Positive Mind—This is the part of us which sees opportunities and potential benefits, and is concerned with equality and humanitarian ideals. You must be positive in all your worldly interactions. You must see the harmony and the goodness in all things. This creates and empowers more good in your world. Above all, you must see yourself as a spiritual being.
“I see good, and I know it.”
“I see the good in all people and events, opening me to unlimited opportunities and the experience of abundance for All.”
Dr. Robert Waldon  Reunion Ministries 104 Riviera Drive, Rio Visa, CA 94571 (800) 919-2392
You may not know about these inspiring and valuable taped (CD) readings which Dr. Robert Waldon does using his 20 years of experience and author of Soul’s Awakening a synthesis of the most inspiring and spiritual content of over 20 forms of numerology/symbology. These CD’s are often revisited many times over as reminders of what is essential and intrinsic in your life. You are far more than you yet recognize

Robert’s Life Purpose Readings will help you discover, reclaim and actualize the life you are here to experience.
Guaranteed to inform, inspire and encourage. A bargain at twice the investment!Betty Lue

Life Purpose Readings
Divinely inspired, channeled material using a synthesis of ancient symbolic and intuitive arts with vital information regarding your part in our rapidly changing reality.

Learn about:
•     What you have come into this life to teach and learn.
•     Your Soul's ultimate purpose.
•     The gifts you bring and which are here for you.
•     Where you are in your personal program Now.
•     Universal energies at work now, affecting you and everyone.
•     Your relationship to the world—physical, mental, emotional, creative.
•     How your 10 Spiritual Bodies serve you.
•     Past soul connections and current lifetime challenges with significant people.
•     How to stay on purpose (or get back on when you're off).
•     Personal and interpersonal integration.
•     Balancing your life for highest Spiritual expression.
•     Coming to fully live your magnificence and actualize your potential.
Call Robert Waldon at 800-919-2392 or email to provide the needed information for the one hour personal reading on CD.  $149 per reading.There is no need to be present for the reading.  CD will be sent in one week from order.

"The insight provided spans the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual areas of life. This information is not only valuable, it is VITAL. Many times I would draw back on the awareness to bring me back to what really matters. It is similar to a lighthouse offering a consistent call back to the safe harbor of my own soul. Thank you, Robert!" ~ Debra Basham