Monday, April 30, 2012

To Be Born Into this World…….

Some say we keep repeating our birth experience until we see it differently.
Some believe that our primary programming is from conception to one year of age.
Some believe that our imprinting comes from the thoughts and feelings of our parents.
Some say we come in to repeat the lessons not yet learned in previous lives.

With forgiveness the past is healed and the Truth revealed.

Imagine if you were loved perfectly by those who were loved perfectly.
Imagine if all the errors of past humanity were healed and their Goodness revealed.
Imagine if we could write our ideal script for a joyous and peace-filled life for all.
Imagine if we would join as spiritual family happy living in harmony and sharing our Good.
Could it be we are born into this world to undo all the errors we have held in our minds?
Could it be that we are here to forgive, erase and delete it all, until we reveal only Love it Self?
Could it be that every relationship is a lesson in letting go and learning to Love, only Love?
Could it be that you are here exactly where you are to be the One who forgives and Loves?

Maybe it is time for us to love ourselves with gentleness, patience and respect.
Maybe this is our moment to undo whatever is false, limiting and wholly untrue.
Maybe we can claim our True Identity by recognizing unlimited source from which we came.
Maybe our destiny is to be free to imagine and vision, choose and create whatever we want.

Are you ready to accept full responsibility for how you use the gifts with which you came?
Are you up for the challenge of changing what you don’t want and choosing what you do?
Are you willing to access your inner powers and generate your outer world to be yours?
Are you able to respond to all calls for Love with such unconditional Love that all is healed?
I love to live with freedom and trust.
I enjoy perceiving the Good in All.
I appreciate a life that is unlimited.
I bless the opportunity to be Good and see Good.

I invite the innocence in you to be reclaimed.
I encourage the daring in you to be renamed.
I surrender all hurt and regret, all negativity.
I claim all joy and all peace, all creativity. 

Now is the time to see a new heaven and new earth.
Now is our time to have a holy rebirth.
Now we are here to clear all fear and all hate.
Now is our call to have the courage to relate, 

We are the Love we have been looking for.
We are the Ones we are seeking to save us.
We are the saviors to answer Love’s Call.
We are reminders of what is eternal and true.

I love me and you, as the One we are here to be.
Betty Lue

Love each child as the precious gift of God’s Love we are.
You will wake up and remember, each one is you and me.
Love set us free to wake up and remember the Truth.
Watch this video and imagine that all infants and children are loved with this respect and gentleness.
See this video and take it in for yourself and all babies.

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Forgiveness Makes All Things New

Forgiveness is an eraser filled with Love.
When you have truly forgiven, you begin anew.
When we seek a new perception, we must forgive.
When we want a renewed outlook, we must change our mind.

To change the channel is to stop looking at what was.
To change our mind is to erase the past.
To change our perception is to forgive our judgments.
To change our choices, we must bless what was previously chosen.

Forgiveness is the gift of Spirit to see all things with new eyes.
Forgiveness is the gift we claim when we are willing to see a new earth.
Forgiveness is the gift to ourselves to open our minds to infinite possibilities.
Forgiveness is the gift of cleansing and purification to be renewed in Spirit and in Truth.

Love makes all things new.
Joy makes all things new.
Peace makes all things new.
Seeing Goodness brings new revelations and new opportunities.

When we see with forgiving eyes, we behold healingLight.
When we know only Light, we see only Light.
When we know only Love, we see only Love.
Those who forgive all things, step forward in faith and experience the Good of Holiness.

What would it take for you to see each day as the first day of the rest of your life?
How can you see your relationships brand new each day with no history?
What can you do to step away from the past and see yourself in a new Light?
What is your renewed vision for your Self and and your whole life?

Are you willing to lay the past aside?
Are you willing to erase all mistakes?
Are you willing to look forward instead of back?
Are you willing to be a love seeker instead of a fault finder?

Seek first the Kingdom of Good and all these things will be added unto you.
Give your life to what is already yours and relinquish the mistakes of this world.
Let go and your will know the Love of God in all things.
Stop seeking why it happened and start creating Goodness right now.

God is All.
Goodness already and always Is.
You are Good.
You are God in drag,
All thoughts create.
Undo what is not wholly true and wholly loving with forgiveness now.
Remember always and only what is good and true and Loving.
Allow your mind to be a servant to your Goodness and Holiness.
Live everyday the Good and Godly way.
It is always fun, safe and easy.

Listen within for how to begin.
Do it now.
Your life will be made new instantly.
You will see.

Loving you as we renew ourselves and our perception of our world,
Betty Lue

Forgiveness is the Key to Happiness and Inner Peace
Every morning and every night, say this prayer:
I forgive everything and everyone, every experience and every memory of the past and present that needs forgiveness.
I forgive positively everyone.

God is Love.
I am forgiven and governed by God’s Love alone.
God’s Love is now harmonizing my life and its problems.
Realizing this, I abide in peace.

I am now forgiven by everything and everyone of the past and present that needs to forgive me.
I know that forgiveness unblocks whatever stands between me and my good.

I am grateful for the power of God’s Word.

Saturday, April 28, 2012

Begin Again and Make It New

If everyday were a new beginning, how would  you like it to be?
If right now you could start all over, what would you want?
If this year you gave your best, what would you choose?
If you let go of the past and choose for your highest desires, what do you really desire?

It is possible each moment is a new moment of choice.
Freedom of choice is a gift to give yourself every day.

We are here to learn.
We learn best from life experiences.
Only when we judge our experiences do they repeat themselves.
With every judgment we create a form of attachment.
We experience the same, either good or bad, until we forgive.
When we forgive, we erase our attachment.
We can then write a new script and draw a new picture.

Forgiveness makes all things new again.
Goodness (God) makes all things new when we let go.
Good thoughts, good feelings, good words and good deeds create more Good.
Bad thoughts, bad feelings, bad words and bad deeds generate more bad.

When we change our mind, we choose again.
When we change our thoughts, we create anew.
When we change our words, we create with our words.
When we change our activities, we attract what we think, say and do.

To agree with what has been, we simply generate more of the same. 
To erase what has been, we open to new possibilities.
To affirm what we want, we give creative power to our choices.
To use imagination and affirmation is a declaration for realization of our chosen manifestation.

This is both fun and true.
Use what has been given to you to have and do to be the best you.
Your life is empowered by your thoughts and your words.
Use only good thoughts, good words and good works and you will know only Goodness.

To whitewash over the old is not to make new.
To pretend to erase the past will not work.
To say you forgive and still feel fear does not clear what was.
The past will bleed through and taint the new.

To make all things new is to erase what was.
To make all things new is to have a new mind.
To make all things new is to give it to Good (God).
To make all things new is to begin again.

And so it is, we can claim our lives can begin again today with Love and Joy and Gratitude.
Loving  me and you with a mind that is ever new,  
Betty Lue

Friday, April 27, 2012

Live, Love, Laugh and Have Fun!

Do you have enough fun?
Do you laugh and smile everyday?
Do you make others happy?
Do you enjoy your life?

Many agree that those who are happy are healthier than others.
For sure when you are happy, you will feel better, look better and live better.
Those who know how to be happy, find ways to make themselves happy even in difficult times.
When you are laugh and smile everyday, you brighten others lives as well.

We may be sucked into seriousness by our world.
We get drawn into drama by the media.
We allow ourselves to be influenced, irritated, inflamed .by traffic, politics, and money stuff.
We watch too much negative news and sensational star stories.

Where do we find time for timeless moments of awe and amazement?
How do we step away from schedules and into spontaneous enjoyment?
When do we experience feelings of safety in solitude and silent reverence?
What can we do to live fully and laugh freely and love joyously?

Life is meant to be enjoyed.
Love is meant to be shared.
Laughter is meant to be freeing.
Only you and I can choose to have it all.

Believe it or not, the opportunity is always available.
With a change of mind, we can have it all.
With a change of heart, we can feel the best.
With a change of choice, we can create what we desire.

Where and how and with whom?
These are the usual limiting questions.
Pay nothing and get everything.
Better than a drug and more real that a dream.

Watch the clouds.
Listen to the birds.
See children playing.
Sit under a tree.
Walk in the rain. 
Sing along to your favorite songs.
Eat the dessert you want with glee.
Shout your love for someone.
Breathe clean fresh air. 
Get out of your car and walk. 
Clean one room and enjoy it.
Spend a moment everyday just loving yourself.
Shoot some hoops or just skip a little.
Breathe in a out your thanks for the blessings.
Read or watch something that makes you smile.
Give a stranger an unexpected smile or greeting.
Think of the happiest times in your life.
Let everyone know you appreciate them.
Just be happy for the joy of it.

You deserve to be happy.
Choose happiness.
Create happiness.
Appreciate happiness.

Happy with you and for you and all,
Betty Lue

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Right or Happy?

Would you rather be right or be happy?
Most folks are taught to be ‘right’ and never be wrong.
Some believe they can only be happy by always being right.
And some just want to be right!

When we try to be right, we will tend to defend, justify and explain.
When we need to be right, we often make others wrong.
When our personality is attached to being right, we will do anything to win.
When both people need to be right, there are always arguments and defensiveness.

Some work in situations where you much be correct to be employed.
Some try to achieve perfection in their profession.
Some strive for mastery and being the “best”.
Some thrive on the challenge of winning every time with everyone.

Seems like a life fraught with fighting, efforting, constant competing for knowledge and power.
Seems like one would not have many moments of true relaxation, enjoyment and inner peace.
Seems like happiness would be fleeting and based only on being right, correct and winning.
Seems like relationships would be based on who can fight the best for being “right”.

It probably is obvious I prefer happiness.
I would rather be happy than be “right”.
My happiness is constant with very few moments in which I lose my way.
I am happy to be wrong and to be corrected.

Making mistakes is fun, safe and easy for me.
This affirmation helped me undo the strong teaching from my Dad who loved to argue.
He used politics, ethics, religion, anything that would make us “think” and express ourselves.
My Dad used arguing as a way to develop of confidence, self expression and commitment.

I see the value of his teaching , but never felt comfortable with anyone losing.
Everyone deserves to feel important and be heard with respect and understanding.
I learned from another teacher, perhaps my most important lesson in this regard.
“Express your position and viewpoint one time.  
Let it go when there is disagreement and resistance.
 Immediately listen to the others’ point of view with respect. 
 Learn to walk, think and sit in the other persons shoes and see through their eyes.”

As I have practiced this powerful teaching, I recognize how valuable it is to understand differences.
It has helped professionally and personally.
It has encouraged me to let go of attachment.
It has invited real respectful communication.
It has opened my mind to realize there is no right way.
It has allowed me true and lasting happiness.
It has given me a window into others lives like no other.
It has erased all need to judge, criticize and correct.
It has created harmony in my relationships.

I would rather be happy.
I no longer need to be ”right” about anything.
I am an eternal learned and always expanding my perspective.
I am willing to be corrected, criticized and made wrong, because I know I am hearing the other’s view.

When I am willing to learn, I am open and happy.
When I am willing to make mistakes, I am learning and happy.
When I am willing to be wrong, I am forgiving all of our mistakes.
When I am open and learning, forgiving and accepting, I am happy.

Thank us all for our willingness to let go and learn to be happy and love, no matter what.
Wars, fights, violence, defensiveness will fall away and we will all be happy and at peace.
Are you willing?

Loving our different choices,
Betty Lue 

Do It Anyway
People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered.  
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.  
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies.  Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you.  
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy it all overnight.  
Build anyway.  

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous.  
Be happy anyway.  

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow.  
Do good anyway.  

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough.  
Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.  

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God.  
It was never between you and them anyway.

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Play and Work

We are flying to Disneyland this afternoon to spend a few days with our Grandkids. The twins will be 7 yrs. old on Friday and we have the honor to celebrate with their family this year.  Quality time with the children is always a treat.  Being able to have someone there for all three of them is a gift. Enjoying with them and watching them be excited and delighted is a blessing. Giving moms and dads a little break from the stresses is a gift to all as well.  We will be back on Saturday afternoon in time to prepare for our Unity Center Sunday Service and Workshop. The opportunities we each have to bring love to children and their parents and care-givers is essential for building a strong foundation of safety, security, positive values and examples of authentic compassionate and helpful relationships. “ It takes lots of love, trust and freedom  to raise a child.” Betty Lue

Play and Work

How do you play and have fun?
How do you work and feel good?
Do you ever play at work?
Do you ever work at play?

Sometime vacations can be more stressful than work.
Sometimes work can be more enjoyable and rewarding than our playtime.
Perhaps we need to learn how to “plork”.
How about learning to play at work?

When we choose to do what we want, we will enjoy our choices.
When we choose to want to do what we are doing, we will enjoy our choices.
Long ago I learned to change my thinking.
I Should’,  ‘I have to’ , ‘I Ought to’ and ‘I must’ can be changed into “I want” or “I choose”.
When I change my thinking, I change my experience.
When I undo my sense of disempowerment or victimization, I fee empowered and always at choice.
In the early 70’s I learned this tool from John Enright’s Good Neignbor Policy training.
It remains an invaluable source of constant joy and freedom for me.

I prefer to be happy.
I prefer to be free to do what I want.
I choose to be happy with everything I do.
I choose to be at choice and make everything to be a want.

When I am choosing, there is no resistance, irritation, fear or regret.
When I use the language of “I want”, I feel 100% present and able to give my best.
When there is no resistance, I easily and quickly complete whatever is needed with gratitude and peace.
When I am in charge of my life, I feel capable, confident, happy with myself and my choices.

For me personally, everyday is a day of play and work together without differentiation.
When I it seems I am on “vacation” to the world, I find I am just as happy and present as when I am at work.
Therefore, my work and play are 24/7 with no time off and all time on.
When I have chosen to give everything I Am and Do and Have for the Good of All, I always receive Good.

Yes, it is a matter of semantics to begin changing one’s mind, but affirmations really erase all resistance.
To use affirming thoughts and words appears as “lies” to some, but they actually erase the faulty beliefs.
When we are clear of limited opinions, false learning and mistaken beliefs, we are free to choose.
When we freely choose what is truly best for everyone in the moment, we discover what is good for us.

Loving you, 
Betty Lue

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Is It Time?

Is it time for you to clean house?
Is it time for you to forgive your mistakes?
Is it time for you to get healthy?
Is it time for you to trust what you know?

Is it time for you to live your Truth?
It is time for you to share your gifts and talent?
Is it time for you to forgive others?
Is it time for you to give your very best?

It is time for you to heal your past?
Is it time for you to begin again?
Is it time for you to have fun?
Is it time for you to be helpful?

Is it time for you to get inspired?
Is it time for you to make amends?
Is it time for you to stop self medicating?
Is it time for you to take total responsibility?

Is it time for you to step away?
Is it time for you to choose the high ground?
Is it time for you to honor yourself?
Is it time for you to make a difference?

Is it time to remember?
Is it time to give all?
Is it time to be willing?
Is it time to know Who You Are?

Only in giving can you see what you have.
Only in living can you be all you are.
Only in daring can you accomplish your dreams.
Only in sharing can you realize the theme.

Love is the way, the reason and how.
Joy is the answer, the key to your Good.
Peace is the gift to give and receive.
You are the answer, the reason and gift.

Life is for giving.
You are the gift.
In giving yourself fully
You know Who You Are.

And so it is….
Be willing. Be grateful and kind

Loving us all, 
Betty Lue

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
No disease that enough love will not heal;
No door that enough love will not open;
No gulf that enough love will not bridge;
No wall that enough love will not throw down;
No sin that enough love will not redeem.

 It makes no difference 
  how deeply seated may be the trouble,
How hopeless the outlook,
How muddled the tangle,
How great the mistake. 
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

 If only you could love enough, you would be the happiest 
and most powerful being in the world.

Emmet Fox

Monday, April 23, 2012

Everything Is For You

Wanna Know??

If you want to know how I write these Loving Reminders every morning for over 13 years, please read below the They take about 20 minutes to write and always fun, safe and easy for me.  I simply sit at the keyboard and let whatever comes to me be written through me.  It is sometimes simple loving reminders for me and often new and renewing practical guidance to give us all a gift of love.  Something to remember to help our lives WORK better so we can be happier, healthier and have more harmony in our relationships.   

You can find the last 5 years archived at There will be several books published and available on line by the end of the year.  My first three are sold out…so putting together and editing Relationship Reminders, Family Reminders, Healthy Reminders and Healing Reminders.  Both hard copy and online copies will be available soon.

Remember they are written for me and you and all humanity.  If they are your cup of tea, enjoy and let whatever words resonate with you.  If they are not, simply delete.  Life is too short to waste energy fighting against anything.  Use you life energy to move forward, to live your dreams, to give your best and to enjoy the rest.  You deserve a good life.  When you are happy, all of us are blessed.  And so it is. Betty Lue
Everything Is For You

Everything you say and do is for you to hear and receive and believe.
If you cannot receive and appreciate your own messages, delete them.
If you can learn or be reminded by your advice, opinions, choices and teachings, appreciate them.
Highlight what are the high lights of your words to and for others, and let them be your reminder.

Remember everything you think teaches and reaches other minds.
Where we are in agreement, we make real for us.
Everything you say is heard around the world and beyond.
What you say creates.  
Everything you do is an example of how you are teaching others to be.
Be aware that we are imprinted, and copy those around us.

You are teaching everyone everywhere with your thoughts, words and deeds.
You life matters and makes a difference for good or ill.
It is your choice what you think and speak and do.
Your choices are your legacy and your teaching.

Taking responsibility for how we teach our world is key to making a change.
Believe it or not, there are no secrets.
Today you can change, undo, delete and erase all that is false and limiting and harmful.
Simply forgive yourself and others for thinking, speaking and living mistakenly.

Forgiveness is and eraser filled with Love.
Erase everything and what will remain is all good and only Good.
You are the one who is choosing your thoughts, your words, your relationships and your activities.
You can heal and renew yourself everyday.

I love this failsafe world in which we can simply forgive and choose again.
Let go and let Good be.
Loving you, 
Betty Lue

Origin of my Inner Listening
In 1976 it was suggested I sit and do nothing for just five minutes daily by a spiritual mentor/teacher.  I chose 5AM in the morning and immediately saw/felt and heard a vision of a Home of Infinite Love available to all people.  Over the years,  I have co-created many such Centers and Homes with the guidance of Spirit within. The next morning I brought a pad of paper and a pen to sit, and as I was simply breathing, I knew words were coming into my mind and I wrote them down.  When I later read them, I saw they had great spiritual meaning.  As an innocent, trusting and ‘True Believer’, I then quieted myself every morning and began to follow what I heard within.  My life became fun, safe, easy and miraculous in so many ways.  I learned, forgave and grew spiritually daily from every relationships.  This is was the origin of what I call “inner listening” and have share with hundreds of willing learners over the last 30 years.
The Origin of emailed Loving Reminders
In the winter of 1998, having just moved back to the Bay Area in California, I asked Spirit within what was my purpose and calling.  I was invited to sit at the computer and write down my daily inner listening and send it to those who requested it of me.  Since Dec, 1998 I have  sat at my keyboard, everyday to write exactly what Spirit within guides.  I do not edit, correct spelling and embellish what I hear.  I simply send what is given to me to share with the now thousands around the world.
This is my inner listening given to all who choose to receive them.  Often it gives people what they need, practical spiritual and inspiring reminders, so they need not spend money on  hours of therapy or endless seeking for spiritual answers.  They seem to awaken and remind individuals who are willing and ready to change their lives for the Good of All.  I also have put many of the reminders into three little books, Loving Reminders, Peaceful Reminders and Relationship Reminders.  There are two other books waiting to be published, Healing and Healthy Reminders.  It is my joy to contribute to the healing and awakening of my spiritual family, all humanity.
May be all be benefited and blessed by every good and kind intention of everyone everywhere.
Blessed be. Betty Lue  “True B’Lue”
Remember: The blessings already are and we are now awakening to enjoy them.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Respect, Responsibility, Cooperation

These qualities will bring peace and harmony to all relationships
Respect the Mother of us all- out Earth Mother.
Be responsible for the Earth and her resources.
Cooperate with nature and all life.

Teach only respect, responsibility and cooperation.
This is Love: unconditional, willing and forgiving and truly helpful.
When we learn to Love in all relationships, our lives will be blessed with abundance.
When we recognize and forgive and undo all lack of Love, we will be happy.

Respect All the Earth gives you.
Never take the air, the water, food and shelter for granted.
Make no assumptions that she will always be there exactly as you wish.
Express gratitude and honor everything she offers you everyday.

Remember to respect all your relationships.
Treat everyone with due respect and learn to look beneath the surface.
Be grateful and express your “thanks” genuinely and often.
Life on earth deserves respect for ourselves, others and our Source.

Responsibility is learning to always and only respond with love and respect.
When we are willing to respond to everything with Love, we will live in harmony with all life.
When we recognize the gift of living on a Bountiful and Beautiful planet, we will be happy.
When we are able to acknowledge mistakes and correct them with forgiveness, we will be free.

We are each responsible for how we value, utilize and cherish our Earth home.
We are each responsible for every step we take and every breath we breathe.
We are each here to leave a legacy of loving kindness and respect for All That Is.
We are each here to awaken ourselves to the gifts of life and appreciate all we have been given.

To cooperate with one another and with Mother nature is key to living at peace.
To genuinely listen to what nature says and respond with respect and love is the key to safety.
To realize that everything has consciousness, value and energy is to recognize we are One.
To live as if all life matters (because it does matter!) is essential to our freedom and trust.

When we respect everything and everyone, we are aware of its value.
When we are responsible for everything and everyone, we become a steward, a healer and awake.
When we cooperate with the Goodness and Beauty by living as a blessing, we give life our gratitude.
When we live and love with respect, responsibility and cooperation, we are blessed and a blessing.

Life here on Earth is a gift to us.
When we remember to respect and be responsible everyday in the simplest ways, we give our thanks.
Just as our ancestors did, we learn to bless our food, the sun, the sky, our rivers and sees.
We realize how great life can be and live gratefully.

We love you Mother Earth.
We love our Earth family.
We remember to treat it all respectfully and responsibly.
And we choose to honor our part and live at peace with all that is.
Blessed be.
Betty Lue 

Thanking the Giver of All Good Things
Even if you don’t believe in “God”, you do believe in the sun that rises and sets and the things that bless us everyday.  Simple use a different word that works for you
Dear GOD: 

I want to thank You for what you have already done.
I am not going to wait until I see results or receive rewards.  
I am not going to wait until I feel better or things look better.
I'm not going to wait until people say they are sorry or they stop talking about me.
I am not going to wait until the pain in my body disappears.
I am not going to wait until my financial situation improves.
I am not going to wait until the children are asleep and the house is quiet.
I am not going to wait until I get promoted at work or until I get the job.
I am not going to wait until I understand everything that has caused me pain or grief. 
I am not going to wait until the journey gets easier or the challenges are removed.

I am thanking you right now.
I am thanking you because I am alive. 
I am thanking you because I made it through the days of difficulties.
I am thanking you because I have walked around the obstacles.
I am thanking you because I have the ability and the opportunity to do more and do better.
I'm thanking you because FATHER, YOU haven't given up on me and I am still here.

God is just so good, and he's good all the time.

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Children Remind Us to Love

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Our children are more important than we know.  
They are an expression of ourselves.  
When we love, they love. 
When we are responsible, they learn to be responsible. 
When we love ourselves, everyone is happy!

Children Remind Us to Love
Have you ever wondered about the importance of all children?

They are here to heal and reveal where we need healing.
They are here to help us recognize what we have forgotten.
They are here to show us how to remember the art of play.
They imitate our words and our actions, both kind and unkind.

They see beyond what we see.
They dream and imagine.
They explore and delight.
They trust and are free to be.

Until …
We tame them.
We rein them in.
We procreate and then domesticate.
We have hope and fears for their future, while we often neglect our own.

We struggle and forget to play.
They play and learn to struggle.
We treat them like servants or privileged royalty, but may forget they are of equal importance.
We dump our toxic emotions hoping they will learn to never dump theirs on us.

Some parents remember that each child is precious, a gift of Love.
Some parents spend quality time daily to connect, nurture and nourish the remembrance of Love.
Some people see the innocent Light of Good in every child and offer their own in return.
Some people realize every child is here with a purpose and deserves the best education and guidance.

Some see our children as our legacy, our investment in the future.
Some know each child is an out-picturing, a projection of the parents’ unconscious beliefs and emotions.
Some realize children are the unadulterated version of the Creator, unlimited in potential and Love.
Some recognize every child’s gifts are a treasure of Healing, Goodness and Beauty to be treasured.

Let us never dim their Light.
Let us not teach them not to Love.
Let us learn from them how to remember our Purpose here.
Let us awaken in ourselves the ability to play, to create, to heal and choose only to be happy.

Love yourself as much as your cherished children.
Free your potential as you want your children to be fulfilled.
Give to yourself the greatest gifts of all …time and space to be free.
Trust yourself with the best and you will always give your children the best you know. 

Loving everyone until we all remember, 
Betty Lue

Friday, April 20, 2012

Spring Brings New Life

The Earth is like a multifaceted and multi-tasking loving Mother for all of us.
We experience unlimited resources offering everything we want.
She provides for every need without asking for anything in return.
She allows us to use her up sometimes to her own detriment.
(When it gets to be too much, she may erupt or storm or rage.)

She is usually patient, willing, beautiful, abundant, and available for all of us.
How do we treat her?
Are we respectful and appreciative?
Do we use and abuse her nurturing ?
Do we even care about all she gives?

How do we treat our mothers and grandmothers?
Are we respectful and appreciative of what they have given us?
Do we consider how we use them and sometimes confuse them with our demand for more?
Do we stop to care about what they might need and how much they continue to give?

Babies are born and are nourished through the love of the mother.
We are renewed when we see and feel the new life of Spring.
Is it not our responsibility and a gift to nurture all new life?
Are we here to learn from and imitate our Mother Earth?
When a child is born we have the opportunity to love as the Creator Loves.
We can love each flower and tree as the Earth loves all that we see.
We can behold the beauty and Goodness, the miracles of Love in every creature.
We can respond to all that is with patience, willingness, unconditional love and respect to All That Is.

It is our gift to be present when new life appears.
It is our loving reminder to watch the Earth bring forth its many wonders.
It is our fulfillment to be able to parent, grandparent and love every child.
It is our response-ability to do no harm and nurture the Presence of Love.

I am in awe of the blessings in this life.
I choose to honor each one that I behold.
I delight in participating and cooperating with Mother Nature.
I enjoy and appreciate the Abundance of right here and right now.

May you be blessed with the realization of your own value.
May you know how precious you are to All here together with you.
May you remember that no one and nothing can harm the Truth of your Being.
May you never quit on the Love You Are or forget to Love All We Are together.

Loving you with de Light and All the Joy of my Being,
Betty Lue

Thursday, April 19, 2012


Robert, my life partner of 27 years, is with our new Grandson (now 12 days old and very healthy and alert) in Portland OR.  Robert is the “Baby Whisperer” , as well as good at cleaning, organizing, doing laundry, offering help even in sewing hems on swaddling blankets, and offering energy balancing on the baby and Mom.  He can calm and bring peace to all of us, but especially to children who are so open to the fullness of his Love. His respectful healing touch and words are an awesome blessing for those who are in His Presence.  I love, appreciate, trust and respect who he is and all he gives.  Absence sometimes wakes us up to the fullness of our appreciation of the Good in our lives.  Loving you and you and you, even when You forget to love You!  Betty Lue

Do You Appreciate?

Do you appreciate what you Have?
Do you take for granted the Good in Your Life?

Do you appreciate your family and give them your best?
Or Do you always give them your left overs?

Do you appreciate your mate, best friend, life partner?
Or do you expect and ask for more?

Do you respect the talents and resources you have?
Or do you withhold them, abuse them or discount them?

Do you remember to be grateful and respectful of the Earth’s resources?
Or do you waste, trash and abuse her and her beauty and bounty?

Do you value nature and how everything works together for balance?
Or do you try to kill and harm without respect for its place in the ecosystem?

Do you treat your Self and your whole life with impeccable care?
Or do you use and abuse your mind and body with destructive habits?

Do you enjoy the awesome beauty of the trees and flowers in bloom?
Or do you neglect to notice the finest artwork that ever could be, the miracle of Nature?

Do you appreciate when others share their truths with you?
Or are you so busy needing to get yourself heard that you neglect to Listen?

Do you value your healing and holy encounters even with strangers?
Or do you only interact with respect when you think it is important?

Do you spend money time and energy only on what you value?
Or do you waste money buying unnecessary toys, clothes and stuff to feel good?

Do you value the life you have and use every moment for Goodness sake?
Or do you waste time on meaningless addictions and unhealthy or depressing stuff?

Do you inspire others by living an inspired life, with joy and gratitude?
Or do you discourage others with negative, fearful and opinionated responses?

Appreciation increases.
Negativity diminishes.
Giving attention to the Good grows the Good.
Focusing on the bad grows the bad.

We are choosing what we have with what we think and say and do.
Choose the best with full appreciation and open-mindedness and you will always have what is Good.
Appreciate yourself, your life and all your loved ones with an open heart and the truth of your Love.
Right now, today, say or write everything for which you are grateful and watch the miracles!

Appreciating the Goodness in all Life,
Betty Lue
¤      I love you      ¤
and I know you love me too.
The freedom for you and I to be who we are.
The freedom to live life as we do.
The freedom to make mistakes and learn from them.
The freedom to express our own truth as we see it.

The trust that there is a constant flow of love, 
no matter what.
The trust that, in spite of life’s problems, 
we believe in and support each other’s right 
to live as we choose.
The trust that in adversity, 
there is healing and learning and gifts of love.
The trust that under conflict and emotional expression,
there is love

I love you and I trust you.
I free you to be all you are.

Betty Lue 1978