Just Do It!

What you see needs to be done is yours to do.

Learn to create a functional home with teamwork.

ENJOY GETTING THINGS DONE.

LIFE WORKS WHEN YOU DO THE WORK.

Affirmations:

It feels good to wake up to a clean and ordered home.

It inspires me to finish my work at the end of the day.

I am energized by doing what needs to be done.

I am responsible for being the one to get it done.

Save Time and Just Do It!

Full Moon Tomorrow 7/29 at 7:35AM PDT!

Stop fighting and just do it!

Stop blaming and just do it!

Stop demanding and just do it!

Stop wasting time and just do it!

Stop wishing and just do it!

Stop sitting on the couch and just do it!

Stop asking why or how and just do it!

Stop being in conflict and just do it!

We waste so much time waiting and wishing and wanting.

We complain, worry, judge, feel guilty and blame.

We wonder, question, doubt and get frustrated.

We can easily just do what we want to get done.

Throw out the junk food and drugs, alcohol and porn.

Turn off the TV and trash media, violent movies 

Stop spending on junk, foolish cravings and stuff.

Use your time, energy and money on what is healthy.

Where there is addiction, stop and attend a recovery program.

Where there is waste, do something of value.

Where there is laziness, get to work on getting a life.

Where there is depression or anxiety, get busy.

The simple way is fun, safe and easy.

Letting go of what is bad for you is easy to do.

Undoing habits of numbing your pain is your choice.

Be with what you really want to be and do.

What are you waiting for?

Quick fix and prescribed drugs?

Magic helpers and miracle workers?

Be the one who cares and is willing to change your ways.

Look around and what do you see?

It is obvious, when you wake up.

Make your bed and put away your clothes.

Give thanks, as you make your breakfast and eat sitting down.

Turn off the TV and get busy with living a good life.

Be proud of each step, as you make your life work for you.

When you look at your phone, answer the calls and delete what is not essential.

Stop reading the gossip on social media and ads for what you don’t need.

Do what you see needs to be done now.

Finish your work, before you sit down.

Pay your bills, before you buy anything more.

If you see it, it is yours to do.

I applaud you for taking on the challenge of doing what needs to be done,

Just do it and celebrate when it is done!

Betty Lue

Respect.  Responsibility.  Cooperation..

Be Respectful of Yourself and Others.

Be Responsible for your Thoughts, Words, Behavior and Things.

Be Cooperative with Everyone in your Home .

Simple Guidelines for Families

Home is peaceful and safe place daily.

Main living space is clean and clear every night.

Everyone is responsible, respected and loved daily.

Be Respectful.

Be Responsible.

Be Cooperative.

Create a Better World for All.

Audio Recording:

Betty Lue · 7.28.26.Just Do It

Are You Willing To Be Responsible?

We can learn to respond with Love and stop reacting with fear.

Choose to be truly respectful and responsible for your words and behavior.

WHAT YOU GIVE YOU WILL RECEIVE.

CHOOSE TO GIVE YOUR BEST.

Affirmations:

I am willing to respond to myself with Love.

I forgive myself for being negligent, uncaring and critical.

I give the very best I have for myself and for others.

I know I am responsible for treating everyone with Love and respect.

Are You Willing To Be Responsible?

Do you know what it means to be “Responsible”?

Have you learned it is the burden of being an adult?

Does it feel heavy and being accountable to be responsible?

Is it possible that being responsible is the fast track to being free?

When we can respond to all things with loving kindness, we feel good.

When we learn to stop judging others, we can listen and be truly helpful.

When we are willing to stop martyrdom and give with joy, we are free.

When we set aside the angry resentment and negative criticism, we will be able to respond with love.

Kindness works, when we listen openly.

Respect is learned, when we are respectful.

Helpfulness is received, when we relinquish being judgmental.

Everyone is benefitted, when we learn to love no matter what.

Loving comes naturally, when we are willing to be responsible.

We teach with every thought, word and deed.

All our interactions are replicated by others.

When we are conscious, we give only what we want to receive.

Learning a better way requires us to be responsible to and for ourselves.

This means correcting our own mistakes.

It means apologizing, when we have erred.

We can easily say: “I’m sorry”, when anyone is upset or hurt or angry.

When we change how we respond without guilt or blame, we are on the right track.

Take responsibility for not being a good example.

Be responsible for being clear, concise and helpful.

Watch how responsible you can be as a role model.

Many have learned through threat of disapproval and punishment.

Most adults want someone else to do it for them.

Many still think like children and try to get out of being responsible.

Few realize the more capable and responsible we are, the better life is.

Consider how you can clean up after yourself.

Consider finishing the project or day with self approval.

Consider being grateful for being the one who shows the better way.

Consider taking care of business in your home and at work.

Everything can be in order every morning and before bedtime..

Meals can be planned and made for the family to enjoy.

Children can be cared for in a positive cooperative way.

Finances and health issues can be resolved before they start.

Do what you can handle with gratitude and grace.

Love and respect for each step leads toward full responsibility.

You can remind yourself to think, speak and act your best.

There is no harm, when you choose to be responsible.

Keys To Optimistic Living

1. Focus on my successes rather than on my failures.

2. Notice that which I have accomplished rather than that which I’ve left undone.

3. See and acknowledge my beauty rather than focusing on my imperfections.

4. Notice and acknowledge all the times I’ve followed the optimum conditions, rather than judging myself for the times I have not.

5. Acknowledge all my wins each and every day.

6. Create and maintain an environment that nurtures me.

7.  See problems as opportunities to learn from rather than as obstacles to avoid.

8.  Tell the whole truth on a moment to moment basis in order to maintain impeccable and loving relationships.

9. Be conscious every moment to put positive thoughts into my mind rather than negative, knowing all thoughts are creative.

10.  Appreciate my feelings as a means of understanding myself, thus directing and creating my reality.

11. Continue to forgive myself and others as a means of creating a state of Grace.

12. Fill my life with joy and ecstasy by practicing daily the art and skill of verbally expressing my gratitude for all that I have.

Enjoy Being Responsible.

Betty Lue 

Every Loving Reminder is a prayer of Love for all Humanity.

Thank for joining with me as you read and reflect on them.

Every affirmation you acknowledge is a prayer.

Thank you for seeing the power of Positive thought.

Every time you trust with affirming thoughts, you are sending your prayer.

Thank you for believing! 

Audio Recording:

Betty Lue · 7.27.26.Be Reponsible

Parenting Responsibilities

All ages deserve to be treated with the same respect you want.

It is time to treat others the way you want them to treat you.

TREAT EVERYONE WITH RESPECT AND KINDNESS.

KINDNESS  CREATES A PEACEFUL HOME.

Affirmations:

I talk with children and youth, as I want them to talk with me.

I ask children for help  and respect.

I learn from what I see children trying to say to us.

I am open and willing to be truly helpful and respectful to all.

Do You Teach Your Children Well?

Do you observe yourself with children?

Your children and all children deserve to be carefully taught.

Children watch adults and copy them.

Children practice the words and behaviors of adults.

Children learn the language of adults.

Children watch the manners of adults.

Children pay attention to the lifestyle of adults.

Children are imprinted by adult behavior.

Children watch TV, video games, and social media.

They pay attention to their teachers and elders.

Children watch and listen to the parents of their friends.

Children try to do what seems to be the most acceptable behavior.

Do adults learn from their children?

Do parents blame, punish, criticize and curse their kids?

Do parents see themselves in how they relate and communicate?

Instead most parents try to stop unacceptable behavior in their children.

Adults often tell their children what to do.

Adults often drink too much, swear too much and behave inappropriately.

Adults may say “Do as I say and not as I do.”

Adults may nag and shame and threaten without results.

Then children learn to tell others what to do.

They learn bullying behaviors with swearing, shaming and threatening.

Children often defy authority, if they see it in adults.

Children may rebel, get even and purposely fail to upset their parents and teachers.

What is a better way?

Let the adults clean up their behavior, words and relationships.

Let the adults listen sincerely, when they ask the kids, “What would work better?”

Let the adults be the examples and role models, before they judge youth and teens.

 

Ask yourself,

Do we like to be told what to do?

Are we motivated by being threatened and punished?

Do we respond well to angry tones or disrespectful requests?

Are we able to understand the need for routine schedules and regular meals?

Would we want to learn from a smiling teacher or resentful critic?

Would we enjoy our life more in a family where parents are responsible?

Would we feel more secure and appreciative with healthy meals prepared by a loving parent?

Would we like to learn how to fix a meal, do the laundry and clean up after ourselves, if our parents did?

Listen to your children and all children to see what they want and need.

Observe what makes children feel safe and happy and inspired to do well.

Give everyone the best you have everyday, including yourself.

You can be a better parent and a better example.

Loving every child by giving them our very best with listening, loving, learning and letting go.

Betty Lue

Choose your own agreements In a family meeting:

Respect.  Responsibility.  Cooperation.

Be Respectful of Yourself and Others.

Be Responsible for your Thoughts, Words, Behavior and Things.

Be Cooperative with Everyone in your Home .

Simple Guidelines for Families

Home is peaceful and safe place daily.

Main living space is clean and clear every night.

Everyone is responsible, respected and loved daily.

Three Home Rules (for everyone!: parents and kids!)

No fighting, yelling or rough-housing inside.  ( You can go outside if needed.)

Clean up your things before bedtime. ( Put your stuff into your room at bedtime,)

Respect your parents requests. (ie. teachers, caregivers, etc)

Audio Recording:

Betty Lue · 7.26.26.Responsible Parenting