Sunday, June 16, 2024

Not Quite Right?

HONOR ALL WHO PROTECT AND PROVIDE FOR YOU!

BE RESPONSIBLE AND RESPECTFUL OF ALL LIFE.


Affirmations:

I see what is and learn.

I am open and willing to choose again.

I see things rightly and seek the good.

I quickly and easily erase everything that is not wholly loving.


Not Quite Right?


Say “YES"to what is good for you.

Say “NO" to what is not good for you.


When something stinks, throw it away.

When something is sad, let yourself cry.

When something is unkind, seek kindness.

When something is unreal, don’t believe it is.


Are you pretending?

Do you try to convince yourself, everything is OK?

Do you cover up the mess or hide it in the closet?

Do you sweep your feelings under the rug and smile?


It is time to get real.

It is time to really feel.

It is time to wake up and look.

It is time to see what really is going on.


Too often people turn away.

Many people neglect themselves.

You may deny there is a problem.

You may expect someone else to do something.


When you need some help, ask for it from the best person.

When you need some clarity, seek someone who sees the whole picture.

When you need a healer, search for one who has healed themselves.

When you need to hear yourself, get quiet and listen within and write.


There is mystery in your history.

You may not ever understand who or what or why.

You may have life experiences which are extraordinary.

You may feel asleep on the job and be rudely awakened.


Whatever comes your way, it is to teach and inspire our heart’s desire.

Whatever happens, whether ecstatic or grievous, it can be seen as opportunity to respond.

Whomever you encounter, there is always some loving reminder.

Life reaches into us and teaches us to see Who We Are.


Be open and willing to care.

Be open and willing to share.

Be open and willing to dare.

Be You and Love You and Learn from You.


Receive all Good and only Good.

Release what is not true and not You.

Remember what gives and lives forever.

Realign with what is always there for you.


Only Love prevails.

There for you and with you in Love, 

Betty Lue

Saturday, June 15, 2024

Clean Up Your Life!

LET GO OF WHAT NO LONGER HAS VALUE.

CELEBRATE NEW BEGINNINGS EVERYDAY.


Affirmations:

I look forward to new creations, when I clean out old leftovers.

I quickly release everything that holds me back.

I forgive all useless thoughts, feelings, words and activities.

I now attract inspiring, fulfilling, loving experiences.


Clean Up Your Life!


Cleaning up your mind will open the way for real change.

Clearing out the past leftovers makes way for real progress.

Letting go of the heaviness, darkness and negativity is healing.

Releasing the clutter and debris in your mind allow fresh ideas and vision.


It shouldn’t be hard to let go, except we are taught not to throw away stuff.

Often we learn to keep adding more to the pile of useless thoughts and unhappy feelings.

What harm would it do to clear out what is unhealthy and unhelpful?

What good could it do to open the windows of your mind and make space for healthy, helpful goodness?


Carrying around years of incompletions, withheld communication, and resentment makes us sick.

The futility of unfulfilled wishes and wasted monies and childish dreams create only regret.

Unhappy memories of hurt feelings and health issues remind us of being locked into pain.

What we can do is let it all go again and again until there is only the reality of now.


Annually deciduous trees release their leaves and beliefs to rest awhile until spring renewal.

We too need to relinquish our old prejudices, opinions, faulty learning and archaic truths.

We need to come to present time and see what really is happening now.

When we are unwilling to see what is, we waste much energy defending against what no longer exists.


Consider cleaning out your archived papers and old useless packed away stuff.

Consider clearing the attic and basement of your mind.

Consider throwing away and recycling, giving and selling what has no value to you.

Often in life we treasure what no longer has worth and now is just dead weight.


Stop telling stories that only teach tragedy and fear, humiliation and grief.

Stop digging up what is meant to be dead, done and buried.

Stop reminding yourself and others what was done long ago.

When we cling to the old stuff, we become old stuff.

 

Life teaches us renewal.

Our skin sheds and renews itself.

Our bodies are ever-renewing structures.

Our minds too can be easily undone and redone.


It is our choice to clear out what no longer serves us.

It is our choice to clean up our own addictions and unhealthy habits.

It is our choice to let go of activities and people that no longer inspire us.

It is our choice to make amends and begin again with a new spirit and new life.


Fresh ideas come to those who have fertile soil in which to plant new possibilities.

A renewal of energy and interest comes from associating with new people and new places.

Our minds are inspired by feeding them with new life energy physically, mentally and spiritually.

We are as clean and clear as we allow ourselves to be.


Give your inner and outer home a really good thorough cleaning and see what happens.

New Beginnings create New Vision and Renewed Health, Wealth and Happiness.

Loving us all in choosing the best for ourselves today and everyday.

Betty Lue


Letting go can be fun, safe and easy.

Learn to let go with love and gratitude.

Friday, June 14, 2024

Finish What You Start

WHEN IT REALLY MATTERS…

FINISH IT WITH APPRECIATION!


Affirmations:

I am done when I am truly done.

I finish what I start with blessings of gratitude.

Completion sets me free to create again with enthusiasm.

I honor what I start by letting go, when it is done for me.


Finish What You Start


Completion requires attention to details.

Completion demands persistence.

Completion invites forgiveness.

Completion must be appreciated.


What are the details left to be done or undone?

When we have errors of omission or commission, we are incomplete.

When we have consciously or unconsciously withheld our love, we will be unfinished.

When we do not do and say and give as we are guided from within, we will never feel quite right.


What have you quit, avoided or relinquished?

We can quit on projects and jobs, marriages and relationships.

We can avoid family and friends, neighbors and coworkers. 

We can give up on our dreams and plans, our ambitions and creations.


Where and what and whom have you continued to judge or criticize?

We cannot be a peace when we continue to judge ourselves and others.

We cannot let go of regrets and resentment without forgiveness.

We cannot move on when we have emotional indigestion from unhealed stuff.


What will it take to appreciate it all and feel happy with the completion?

Past ghosts haunt us and keep reminding up they are still present.

The unfinished stuff drains us of energy and consumes our creative intention.

It is far better to let go with grace and gratitude than ruminate on what could have been.


We do not need to understand to let go and return to love.

We do not need to be “right” to stop fighting and making others wrong, unfair or unjust.

We do not need to know what happened to complete our mission of love.

We do need to feel right and true to ourselves in all we say and do.


We do not need to say everything directly to the other and expect them to “get” us.

We do not need to fix or save or make things right for everyone.

We do need to apologize for the incompletion, judgments, financial and emotional drain.

We do need to move on with blessings and release everyone to their highest good.


Whatever poison we send out only makes us sick in mind and body. 

Toxic thoughts poison the thinker and must be released.

Gratitude will always be in true completion.

With gratitude comes grace.


Consider completing by observing how much you have learned.

Consider completing by taking the next step to move forward.

Consider completing by making amends and learning from all mistakes.

Consider completing by tidying up your mental and physical space freeing yourself from the past.


When you finish with appreciation, you feel validated and finished. 

Loving you, 

Betty Lue


Life is forgiving .

You are the gift.

It is in freeing and being the gift you are, that you recognize the gift.

Set yourself free with forgiveness.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Thursday, June 13, 2024

Letting Go!

THE PAST IS PAST.

FIND PEACE IN LETTING GO.

LIVE IN THE PRESENT.


Affirmations:

Letting go is fun, safe and easy.

I easily complete and release with gratitude.

I express my love and blessings and let go.

I allow all things to be as they are.


Let Go of the Past and Let in Good!


Are you ready, willing and able to let go?

Have you completed the project or assignment?

Have said and shared your love and gratitude?

Have you forgiven all past mistakes and learned?


It takes great learning to understanding all things work together for Good.

We learn from everyone and everything throughout our lives.

The more we hold judgment with guilt and blame, the more we cannot see to learn.

The more we are stuck in past mistakes, the more we are blind to future possibilities.


When we are busy looking back at the past, we cannot see where we are going.

Everywhere we are seeing the results of our focus, direction and choices.

We move in the direction of our mind’s attention.

What we think about, judge, are attached to, our thoughts create more.


When we have not completed what we started, it attracts us to finish.

When we are not at peace with our thoughts and feelings, we want to bring to completion.

When we have unfinished business, incomplete projects, unresolved relationships, we expend energy.

Everything we think about has a piece of our energy.


Completion with honor brings peace.

Finishing with gratitude brings grace.

Resolution with total forgiveness brings trust.

When we are done, we can move on.


It is difficult to find peace in the midst of conflict and controversy.

It is imperative that we accept what is the current state to the best of our awareness.

It is helpful to forgive all errors and mistakes of everyone and everything.

It is healing to bring conscientious gratitude to what we offer to complete.


Life offer challenges in ways of which we are unaware.

We never can know all the facts or fiction, emotions or thought involved.

We may never see what is being held by ourselves or others.

What we can do is what we can do.


Our journey to let go and allow Good into our lives may be fast or slow, easy or challenging.

Some struggle with the process trying to find a better way which allows all Good and only Good.

Some let go and move on to choose what is next with constant growth, healing and consciousness.

We each much recognize our path, our process and our own responsibility in all that we experience.


Expressing appreciation for us all in learning to let go with ease and grace in our own “right” way.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue



Honorable Closure         


How do you complete a relationship, marriage, teaching-learning experience, job or friendship? 

How do you know you are really complete?

People may walk away without really finishing the healing work, because it is easier emotionally.   

People don’t know how to come to a truly peaceful place, where “good-bye” is “God be with You”. 

When we are complete, we are at peace and in love.  

We have no regrets, no resentments, no unhappy memories. 


Honorable closure acknowledges:

1)   the learning and growth received, 

2)   challenges and difficulties experienced, 

3)   appreciation of gifts and blessings, 

4)   forgiveness and amends made. 


**Acknowledge within your self and with the other person all that you have learned and how you have grown and benefited from the experience. 

**Honor and express the challenges and difficulties that occurred and perhaps were endured during the time together. 

**Offer your gratitude and appreciation to the other for the benefits you received.

**Share your forgiveness and/or make amends for those places of unconscious or conscious errors of omission or commission.  Often neither party is aware of what went unexpressed until the two have an opportunity to talk together.  This is very valuable when done with the conscious intention for a peaceful conclusion.  

**And lastly, give your full appreciation and blessings to those whom you are leaving.   


Honorable closure includes a face to face or heart to heart connection so that all parties have a full opportunity to express their piece of the whole. Incompletion is never one sided. If one party loses and is in grief neither person is at peace.   If you cannot complete in person, write out your thoughts and feeling respectfully and with gratitude.  

I am grateful I have learned…  

I am grateful I was challenged……

I am grateful to have regrets which I can apologize for and learn from.

I am grateful to see how much I have received and appreciate……..


Do your part when you part. 

When we complete a relationship, job, living situation with honor for all, we are free to choose again without being haunted by the past or unconsciously repeating the same patterns. 

To move on, to create anew, to be fully inspired requires honorable closure.  Begin now!

Saying good-bye can be done with love, respect and profound gratitude and inner peace. Do it Now!

Betty Lue  1983