What Matters to You?

Make every day the way you choose.

Know every choice is your creation.

YOUR LIFE MATTERS.

CHOOSE WHAT YOU VALUE.

Affirmations:

I choose the best I know.

I awaken with gratitude for having choice.

I choose what matters to me with joy.

I respect the thoughts, words and activities I choose.

 

What Matters to You?

 

“If you don’t mind, it won’t matter.”

Where you judge, matters.

What you choose, matters.

How you live, matters.

When you speak, matters.

Who you love, matters.

What you give time to matters.

How your life works, matters.

What you do with money, matters.

What you think about, matters.

 

You are giving your life energy to what matters to you.

Whether you know it or not, your life is telling on you.

You have what matters to you.

What you care about matters to you.

 

To simplify your foci for attention, choose five qualities or experiences that matter most to you.

Begin to live as though these areas matter most and watch them thrive and expand with success.

Observe everyday how what you think and do and say support what matters most to you.

Focus positive proactive energy on what matters to you.

 

If money matters most, then give it conscious attention and consideration everyday.

When friends matter most to you, give them attention with positive thoughts, words and activities.

When your health matters most to you, make sure all that you ingest and do support your health.

When your home matters most to you, make sure it is clean, organized and harmonious daily.

 

Life is a canvas on which we are creating what matters to us.

When we don’t like what we see, it is because we have put it there unconsciously.

To change what we see and experience, we must erase and delete and choose again for what matters to us.

Life requires us to consciously choose what we want to see and experience, because it matters to us.

 

When we find ourselves in trouble, we can focus on the trouble or be grateful for the peace.

When we find ourselves in sickness, we can worry about lack of health or we can enjoy being alive.

When we feel like victims of our situation, we can succumb to the pain or rise up in faith.

When we are lost in financial struggle, we can be angry and resentful or appreciate how much we have.

 

When we realize our focus creates our experience, we learn to focus solely on what we choose.

When we realize our thoughts and words create, we clear the unconscious thoughts with consciousness.

When we recognize we are here to learn to create our reality, we give up allowing others to create for us.

When we forgive what is NOT our choice and choose what IS, we can show up and value ourselves.

 

Life is best played with full consciousness and conscience, responsibility and respect, for what it.

Be grateful it is so.

Forgive mistakes, as opportunities to learn.

Choose again quickly and easily for what you really want to be.

 

You matter to me.

These Loving Reminders matter.

Your health and happiness matters.

All we give makes a difference, because we all matter.

 

Loving us all,

Betty Lue 

Life is for giving.

You are the gift.

It is in freeing and being the gift you are, that you recognize the gift.

Set yourself free with forgiveness.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Betty Lue · 6.7.26.What Matters?

Are You Feeling Well?

Focus on what you value.

Appreciate all you are and all you have.

LOVE HEALS.

RELEASE JUDGMENTS AND FEAR.

Affirmations:

I choose peace.

I choose Love and loving.

I am grateful for Who I Am and All I give.

My whole life is working for me.

 

Feeling Well?

 

What is well for me may not be what is well for you.

When I am a little “under the weather”, I remember to be grateful.

When the day is cloudy, I know the sun is still shining.

I am grateful to be well enough to do what I am guided to do.

 

What is well for you may not be well for me.

Or what is well for me may not be well for you.

Yes, it is all relative to what we believe, perceive and wish to be.

So we respond to our wellness individually according to our preference.

 

Now what about wellness?

What I experience is mine to accept, improve, deny or judge.

The world seems to set standards by which to judge, compare and diagnose.

We can observe our current state and use it for our inspiration, edification and Good.

 

There is a conflict between the worldly standards of wellness and the spiritual acceptance of what is.

As I have experience wellness and lack thereof, I can try to have more and fix what is lacking.

In this, there is lack of peace with what seems to be.

When I simply allow my life to be as it is, I find ease and simplicity, trust and freedom and healing love.

 

The usual reaction to any lack: lack of love, lack of energy, lack of joy, lack of gratitude, is to fix it.

Sometimes there is a need to analyze and diagnose, to judge and blame, to correct and make better.

Sometimes there is a desire to trust and rest, to allow natural healing, to wait until it passes.

Sometimes there is a search for outside helpers and curative agents, information and guidance to follow.

 

Our world has its focus on wellness and physical health, even while ignoring health in other areas.

Consider the state of your environment, finances, relationships, work life, spiritual fulfillment, etc.

When I am not feeling well, I look at what areas may need my attention and intention.

I seek where I have chosen thoughts which are about drama, judgment, comparison, past history, etc.

 

Let’s be aware of all that creates vitality and longevity.

Let us look at how we are living and with a sense of gratitude.

Let’s observe where we are going and what we see for our future.

All of our thinking and speaking and actions give us clues about our state of wellness.

 

So many factors are included in our experience of wellness.

We are sensitive to foods we eat, the energy of those who prepare our food and their thoughts.

We are influenced by the news we watch and the conversations we have.

We are connected with all the energies of everyone and everything.

 

Our state of wellness is really a symptom of where we live and how we love.

My wellness is based on my balance of all things in my inner and outer life.

I am part of the greater whole and therefore must respond to all with positive intention.

I am here to Remember Love and Return to Wholeness.

 

With every “wakeup call” I choose to bring Acceptance, Trust in Good and the greatest Love I have.

I am loving us all with these Healthy Loving Reminders.

Betty Lue

The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love. 

Betty Lue

Betty Lue · 6.6.26.Healthy Reminders

Healing Relationships

When I decide to give only Love, I experience what I give.

When I choose to forgive what is not Loving, I feel safe.

GIVING IS RECEIVING.

ALL I GIVE IS GIVEN TO MYSELF.

Affirmations:

When I am healed, I am not healed alone.

My forgiveness sets me and others free to be healthy.

I choose love to bring happiness and inner peace.

Love invites miracles of loving kindness to all.

 

Are Your Relationships Healthy?

 

What is missing?

Where are you incomplete?

What grievances do you carry?

Can you bring peace to your relationships?

 

Where we hold fear, we are incomplete.

When we try to avoid, we have fear.

What we hide, we are not comfortable with.

When we deny our love, we are withholding from ourselves.

 

What is there to do?

Love, simply Love.

Forgive the past and love again.

Judge no one, for we fear our own judgment.

 

Peace in our relationships requires that we do not judge.

In truth, we cannot judge, because we do not know.

When we acknowledge that we do not really know, we can let go.

When we let go of our limiting attachments,  we relinquish our grievances.

 

What hurts is our fear.

What blinds us is our condemnation.

What suffers is withholding our love.

What upsets us is not getting our way.

 

There is a time in life, when we recognize we do not understand.

There is a need within to drop righteousness and let go.

There is a calling to trust in something greater than ourselves.

There is a place where we can find inner peace, when we simply Love.

 

Healthy relationships are forgiving.

We are all looking to find a better way.

Mistakes are our effort to learn what works.

Everyone makes mistakes, large and small.

 

When we mature and trust enough, we forgive.

We encourage children and adults to continue learning.

We help others by healing our judgments and setting them free.

We heal ourselves by letting go of our condemnation and being free.

 

Love others, as you want others to love you.

Forgive others, as you wish others would forgive you.

Give your best to others to teach them how to give to you.

Everyone is learning to have love, respect and appreciation for one another.

 

Relationships are our challenge, our gift and opportunity to heal ourselves.

Blessed be, 

Betty Lue

I am loving us all.  

It is love that prevails in all things, large and small.

Above all, let us simply remember to love. 

Betty Lue

Betty Lue · 6.5.26.Healing Relationships

Remember What Matters!

Focus on what you really want to be good.

Give your attention to the people around you.

GIVE YOUR BEST TO WHAT MATTERS.

YOUR ATTENTION MAKES THE DIFFERENCE!

Affirmations:

I remember that people matter.

I set aside interruptions and give what is important.

I trust my choice to focus on those right here and now.

I love to be focused on what really matters.

 

Remember What Matters!

 

Do You Care What Matters?

Are you paying attention to your life?

Do you make the choices?

Or does your life choose for you?

 

Do you feel obligated?

Are you duty bound?

Do you do what others tell you?

Are you distracted by temptations?

 

How much time are you on your phone?

Screen time, Facebook, scrolling?

Are you addicted to social media and staying connected?

What about your kids, your partner and your job?

 

What really matters to you?

Are you constantly on your phone?

Do you sit down and have dinner with your family?

Or is everyone focused on their phone or TV?

 

If relationships matter to you, how do you show it?

Do you have conversations with people in person?

Are you creating space in your life to be with those you love?

Do you really care about the people that matter to you?

Suggestion:

Try 24 hours without TV, phone, computer and technology.

If you cannot tolerate it, you have an addiction.

If you find you don't enjoy sharing face to face, you may have forgotten what matters.

 

Family matters.

Our partner matters.

Our children matter.

And of course, you matter.

 

How about Quiet in your home without TV or phones.

Share Love with appreciation.

Learn to listen to one another.

Play games together—board games or cards.

 

How about activities that teach fun and cooperation?

Cook, play instruments, sing, tell stories, read.

Share memories, garden, take walks.

Paint a room and create beauty.

 

I believe we all make a difference, when we give our full attention to what matters,

Blessing all of us for choosing to listen and love.

Betty Lue

First things first.

Do What is best for you.

Give Your Best to others

“Everybody can be great because everybody can serve.” 

Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Betty Lue · 6.4.26.What Matters?