Give YourSelf Happiness

Your thoughts create how you feel.

Choose positive grateful thoughts that create good feelings.

HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE!

CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY!

Affirmations:

I am happy being happy.

It brings me happiness to see happiness in others.

I feel healthier, more energized, helpful and creative, when I am happy.

I know I am better in every way when, I am happy.

 

Your Best Gift Is Being Happy!

Blue Moon is Sunday May 31 at 1:45AM PDT  That is tonight!

 

“The best thing you could do for anyone that you love, is be happy!

 And the very worst thing that you could do for anyone that you love, is be unhappy, and then ask them to try to change it, when there is nothing that anybody else can do that will make you happy?

 If it is your dominant intent to hold yourself in vibrational harmony with who you really are, you could never offer any action that would cause anybody else to be unhappy”. Abraham

 

Do you know how to be happy?

Do you understand it is an inside job?

Are you aware of what you need to choose happiness?

Are you responsible for your own happiness?

 

Do you realize that happy people attract happy people and events?

Unhappy people attract more unhappy people who complain about being unhappy.

Most happy people don’t want to catch unhappiness from unhappy people. (It is contagious!)

Some suggest: “Fake it (happiness) until you get into your own stream of happiness.”

 

When kids learn to get attention by crying and complaining, they do it as adults to get attention.

When kids are ignored or even challenged by others to be unhappy, they often choose to be unhappy.

Adults may forget how to create their own happiness or depend on others to make them happy.

People seem to think that others determine their own emotions and state of mind.

 

When we depend on anyone for our happiness, we may feel victims of others’ choices.

When we neglect to be responsible for ourselves, we tend to feel needy and easily disappointed.

Our work in life is to grow up and be responsible for our own responses and/or reactions.

Judging others is a primary way of feeling afraid, depressed, angry and hurt.

 

We often are copying the emotional state of those around us, plus what we see and hear (media).

We allow ourselves to be victims of the environmental influences at home and work.

We tend to take on the energies (empaths) of those with whom we associate.

Happy people inspire people to find their own happiness.

 

The positive energy you exude inspires health, inner peace, gratitude and seeing things differently.

Continue to generate your own happiness and share it with your thoughts, words and activities.

Your Goodness, Gratitude and Joy will make the world a better place.

The positive ways you Love will always benefit those around you.

 

Be happy. 

Be Well.

You are the Gift.

Give your Joy freely.

Loving you,

Betty Lue

May you be happy.

May you be safe.

May you be strong.

May you live with ease.

May you love yourself well.

Betty Lue · 5.30.26.BE Happy

How To Love

Learn to love yourself first by releasing self judgment.

Listen to how to love others by seeking inner guidance.

LOVE IS TRUST + FREEDOM.

LOVE IS LETTING GO OF FEAR.

Affirmations:

Every time I love one, I am loving all.

When I remember Love, I return to wholeness.

I choose to listen to how I can respond with love.

I forgive myself for ever reacting with fear.

 

How Do We Love One Another?

 

If you love yourself well, you have plenty of Love to give.

If you feel loved by others, you have lots of Love to share.

If you know you are loved by Source, Creator, you feel inspired to Love others.

If you listen to your heart, you know how to love others well.

 

Everyone wants to feel safe.

Everyone wants to be heard.

Everyone wants to be valued.

Everyone wants to be trusted.

 

Underneath anger, pain and fear, there is always the desire to feel loved.

So why not simply love?

When you feel triggered, why not respond with love?

Perhaps we have forgotten to trust, value, and listen to one another?

 

It seems so obvious when we watch animals who are hurt, sick, lost, afraid who withdraw or attack.

In humans it seems we tend to become fearful and defensive rather than loving and helpful.

How many parents take the time to simply listen without judging and punishing or ignoring?

How many folks slow down and really listen to elders without demanding or withholding love?

 

First, we must fill our own mind and heart and body with love.

First, we must have the time and caring to share with those in need.

If we are needy, greedy, fearful, demanding or threatening, we cannot give what we don’t have.

It is essential that we love ourselves well with self care, appreciation and gratitude.

 

When we feel guilty, because we have not been kind or loving, we tend to blame or withhold love.

If others feel guilty, because they have denied loving kindness, they tend to blame or reject us.

The way to truly provide safety, security, kindness and trust is to first love ourselves and listen within.

We are all called to forgive our errors and others’ mistakes as well.

We must begin by forgiving ways we withhold our love and blame others.

We must learn from all mistakes and see the call for love.

We must choose to see things differently in our relationships.

Let us let go of past misperceptions and mistakes and see things differently.

 

This is our time to let go and love again.

It is time to love ourselves, as we want to be loved.

It is time to love others, as we want to be loved.

It is our time to find a healthy and healing way to Love.

 

Where you feel guilt, blame, anger or sorry for another, it is a call for us to love, really love.

Where we feel fear, comparison, separate and resentment, it is a call for us to love ourselves.

There is no better time than now.

We are being called to forgive ourselves and bring love where it is needed.

 

Always Loving you and me, too!

Betty Lue

I am loving us all.  

It is love that prevails in all things, large and small.

Above all, let us simply remember to love. 

Betty Lue

Betty Lue · 5.29.26.Love Simply Love

Live Your Purpose!

This is your life to live your own best way.

Now is your time to choose to be honorable and trust in you.

KNOW YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF.

BE HONEST AND GOOD FOR YOU.

Affirmations:

I was born to be happy, healthy and prosperous.

I am willing to give and receive my very best.

I release, whatever takes me off purpose.

I know what makes me happy and I do it!

 

Live Your Purpose!

 

Why are you here?

What is your purpose?

What are you learning?

What can you do?

 

How can you learn more?

Who do you admire?

What do you want to be?

How can you live with gratitude?

 

What do you want to achieve?

What do you want to give?

How have you betrayed yourself?

What has stopped you from living your way?

 

What is your greatest desire?

What brings you joy?

Who do you trust?

How can you trust more?

 

How do you limit yourself?

What will make you free?

How do you want to see yourself?

Who are you trying to please?

 

Life seems to be copying others' behavior.

Sometimes you copy those you admire.

Sometimes you copy those you fear.

Sometimes you copy where you want praise.

 

People seem to want to be special.

Who do you want to impress?

From whom do you seek Love?

Parents, heroes, elders, God?

 

Is it time to be what you want to be? 

Are you ready to reach for your own dreams.?

Do you approve of and appreciate who you are?

Do you dare to have positive stories about your own accomplishments?

 

Are your values for yourself clear and true?

Do you claim to be the best you know how to be?

Do you live in integrity with your own purpose?

Are you ready and willing to enjoy your own life 100%?

Betty Lue

 

 Once you become aware of what really inspires and guides you, you will begin to focus on it daily.

Your purpose becomes your guiding light.

You breathe it and live it and share it in all you are and do!!

You will attract to you all good and only good for your highest purpose.

Purpose Exercise

What do I really want in my life?

(Make a list of at least 20 wants. Freely write down everything that comes to mind, with no censoring or limits.)

What does your heart want for you?

What is your simplest wish for yourself?

What do you really want to have?

What do you really want to be?

What do you really want to do?

 

What do I love to do?

What makes me the happiest?

What is my secret ambition?

What has given me the most satisfaction in the past?

What excites me about life?

 

What am I good at?

What have others told me I was good at?

In what areas of life have I excelled?

What are some of my strengths?

What is important to me?

What would I be willing to sacrifice for?

What do I stand for?

What would I commit myself for regardless of the obstacles?

What was I born to do?

Where in life can I make a difference?

What unique opportunities have been placed in my path?

What specifically does God want me to do?

My Purpose Statement:

Based on the answers above, develop a short paragraph outlining your purpose. Take the three top priorities from the four areas to which you just committed answers. Construct a statement that explains what you are beginning to sense in your purpose. This can be a work in progress. What is important is to commit to something in writing. Your purpose can be anything you want it to be and it can include anything that is important to you.

Betty Lue · 5.28.26.Purpose