Every relationship is a partnership for the good of both.
Everyone wants respect, responsibility and cooperation.
We are all here to live and work together for the best.
WE ARE ALL PARTNERS.
RESPECT YOUR AGREEMENTS.
“PURPOSEFUL LIVING" with Betty Lue today at 2 PDT
Free Zoom workshop at this link.
https://us06web.zoom.us/j/84884981492?pwd=0JG3bJiJCdHJ3W7PPKYRjN1yA4ibaa.1
Is your life what you want?
How can you create what you want to be?
What are the choices you have to change your life?
Let us look together at what you can do to have what you want.
Loving us all in learning together.
Betty Lue
Affirmations:
We are partners in this school of life.
I honor and respect Who You Are.
I trust you know I will always be here for you and with you.
We are together in thought, word and deed teaching all the universe.
Are You A Good Partner?
If you want a good relationship, give your best in all your relationships.
If you want a fair partnership, be the one who is fair.
If you want more quality time, positive words, helpful service or anything, be willing to give it.
If you are complaining, know you are draining your relationship.
The time is now to be what you want to be, to do and to have.
It takes very little extra to create a lot more.
Life requires us to contribute our fair share.
Remember relationships require both people giving their best.
Complaining and criticizing, threatening and demanding, arguing and withholding is not helpful.
People seem to stop doing their best, when relationships are not working.
Parents seem to stop listening, when children are not listening to them.
Partners seem to stop giving their fair share, when their partners are not giving.
Taking away seems to be common, when something goes wrong.
Taking away love eliminates real relating.
Taking away help empties the relationship.
Taking away appreciation will exhaust any relationship.
The most effective way of changing behavior is rewarding the positive and ignoring the negative.
The most helpful way to teach respect and cooperation is to be respectful and cooperative.
Improving the language and tone in a household comes from eliminating your own loud crude words.
Teaching responsibility can only come from being ultimately and consistently responsible.
You can expect others to do better, only if they see you do better.
You can create good partnerships with friends, children, parents, roommates, co workers, if you are willing.
You can lead others to better ways of relating, if you are honest with yourself and your leadership.
You can practice principles of respect, responsibility and cooperation, and all will learn and benefit.
Soften your tone of voice.
Eliminate all anger and upset.
Speak with wisdom and kindness.
Be helpful, when asked.
Stop telling or demanding.
Start asking with please and thanks.
Smile with your requests.
Take time to be helpful and generous.
Children, partners and co workers want your validation.
People love to be treated with respect, as honored guests.
Taking the time to listen is essential.
Learn to see beneath unloving behavior, and you will always see the need for Love.
Everyone wants to be respected and valued.
Begin by respecting and valuing yourself.
I respect and value YOU!
Betty Lue
Life requires that we be in relationship.
With respect for ourselves and each other there is open communication.
With responsibility for the quality of our relationships, there is a willingness to seek what works for all.
With cooperation there is encouragement to listen for ways to serve the needs of everyone.
When everyone WINS, the relationships are harmonious, peaceful and enjoyable.
Keys for Quality Relationships
With mates, partners, friends, children, co-workers, etc.
Keep your agreements faithfully.
(Communicate changes honestly and immediately.)
Give more than you expect to receive.
Do more than your “fair” share.
Receive everything with open appreciation.
Express your thanks sincerely and take nothing for granted.
Live your own life in integrity and on purpose.
Clarify, communicate and live your mission, your path, your principles and values.
Be responsible for yourself, your work and live your life impeccably.
Don’t expect others to pick up after you or take care of you.
Stop using, blame, criticism or guilt to control or manipulate.
Stop making demands, threats or using neediness to get your way.
Communicate effectively and respectfully.
Request a time and place and tone of voice that works for both parties.
Be your best self in all circumstances.
Focus always on teaching by example. (and apologize immediately when you forget or neglect.)
Use your time together wisely.
Focus on meaningful, positive and inspiring conversation and activities.
Spend time, money, energy and resources only on what you value and want to increase.
Waste nothing in your relationship. No arguing, pettiness, emotional dumping or negativity.