Interdependence

Is it time to free yourself from dependence on others?

Are you ready to be truly responsible for your life?

My Declaration of Independence:  

All people are created equal by our Creator with the birthright to live with free will, creating happiness for ourselves, within a world that values these rights.  Let us each Live our own personal Declaration of Independence!🎆

YOU ARE FREE TO CHOOSE.

LEARN FROM YOUR CHOICES.

Affirmations:

Love is Freedom.

I free you to be you.

Love is Trust.

I trust you to freely be who you are.

Interdependence

Dependence > Independence > Interdependence

Basic human needs are survival, safety, love/belonging, achievement and self actualization.

Dependence

We are a species born to be dependent on our parents, elders and teachers.

To survive we learn from observing and listening.

We listen and follow instruction and learn through trial and error.

We learn to adapt to a variety of people who may teach us differently.

We seek approval and learn to please to get what we need and want.

When we discern what is valued by each adult/teacher/leader, we can accommodate.

We are valued for our obedience and our dependence, as we grow in self sufficiency.

In the beginning of our lives dependence can be fostered, ignored or discouraged by care givers.

Independence

When our ego is fed, we grow strong in confidence, assertiveness and decision-making.

Usually in the stage of adolescence or emancipation, we begin to assert our independence.

We choose alternative facts, experiences and creative competition to succeed in being best or right.

Our independence fosters creative problem-solving, innovation, and making decisions independently.

Independence is where we learn to take responsibility for successes and failures.

We learn to persist even when there are challenges, resistance and difficulties.

In the independent phase we learn to benefit rather than blame and to grow in courage.

The desire of independent adults is to “do it ourselves” without interference from authorities.

Interdependence

When we have mastered the basic human needs (above), we may return to seek interdependence.

In families, businesses, organizations, we seek to interact with others in a respectful and responsible way.

Our desire to cooperate encourages mutual benefit to all parties for win-win outcomes.

With an attitude based on the principles of being fair, caring and sharing, everyone benefits.

When everyone helps everyone succeed with no winners and losers, all persons become more conscious.

With mindfulness and consciousness following universal principles, everyone grows in understanding.

“Two become more than two” and ”One for All and All for One” is understood and actualized.

The experience of  interdependence is unavailable until individual independence is achieved.

Consider where you are on your path to fulfillment and creative consciousness.

Consider what steps you need to take to be fully and freely independent.

Consider what individual basic needs you are called to fulfill first.

Understand where others are around you, as you allow their personal journey.

There is freedom and trust, as we learn to accept ourselves in our own journey.

There is respect and allowance for others, as we let go of judgment and comparison.

There is creativity and diverse opportunities, as we allow ourselves to dream and vision.

There is enthusiasm and gratitude, as we step out in faith with daring and certainty.

Life is Good, wherever we are in our own journey.

Loving, Trusting and Freeing us All.

Betty Lue

Love Is Trust and Freedom

¤      I love you      ¤
and I know you love me too.

LOVE IS FREEDOM
The freedom for you and I to be who we are.
The freedom to live life as we do.
The freedom to make mistakes and learn from them.
The freedom to express our own truth as we see it.
 
LOVE IS TRUST
The trust that there is a constant flow of love,
no matter what.
The trust that, in spite of life’s problems,
we believe in and support each other’s right
to live as we choose.
The trust that in adversity,
there is healing and learning and gifts of love.
The trust that under conflict and emotional expression,
there is love
 
I love you and I trust you.
I free you to be all you are. 

Betty Lue 1978

Betty Lue · 7.8.26.Interdependence

Your Time

We can all learn to live our lives with the very best.

Choose and learn from your choices what works for you.

TIME IS A GIFT. 

VALUE THE GIFT OF YOUR LIFE.

Affirmations:

I use my time wisely and well.

I engage my mind and body in meaningful, productive, inspiring activities. 

I put people first and value my conversations.

I maintain my relationships in healthy and effective ways.

What Did You Do With Your Time?

It is all your time.

You can do as much or little as you want.

You can make up for lost time.

You can create no time at all.

Time really is ours to do what we want to do.

Some waste time.

Some use every minute.

Some feel pushed by time.

How do you feel about the time you have?

Do you enjoy how you use your time?

Are you a victim of the time you have?

Are you always rushed to get things done?

I have made friends with time.

I see it as a valuable resource.

I use time wisely and efficiently.

I like what I do with my time.

I seem to expand time when I have more to do.

I can create what I want with the time I have.

I like having a full schedule of happy activity.

So I choose to use time for happiness and fulfillment.

I love focus, so I focus on one thing at a time.

I trust I have enough time to get everything done.

Even at the last minute, I am using what I have.

I feel inspired and motivated to use my time well.

The house is neat and orderly, before I go to bed by 10 PM and up by 6 AM

I wake up ready for a great day with meditation, stretching and writing Loving Reminders.

I stay connected with inspiring emails, and preparing for a positive day of counseling.

I actively learn from everyone and everything I do and say and listen to.

Laundry, meal prep and daily chores are natural, effortless and fun.

Sharing healthy meals and conversation are good for body and soul.

We exercise twice daily outside and have 30 minute power nap for renewal.

We relax with special programs, reading or more learning after a light supper.

I almost forgot I am in my office seeing my clients for 6-8 hours daily.

Everything is as fun and fulfilling as everything else because I value it all.

I use my time in ways that feel helpful, beneficial, inspiring and fulfilling. 

I love my life and my life loves me.

Yes, I spend an hour or so daily with paperwork, phone calls and business.

Our lifestyle is super healthy with organic sources of nutrition and happy interaction.

I keep myself inspired with loving and positive and appreciative thoughts and words.

I am dedicated to using my whole life well for the good of all.

Encouraging you to use what you have consciously with gratitude and joy.

Betty Lue

May you be happy.

May you be safe.

May you be strong.

May you live with ease.

May you love yourself well.

Betty Lue · 7.7.26.Time

What Inspires You?

Free webinar on HEALTHY LIFESTYLE on Sunday July 19 at 2PDT

Dedicate your life to what you value and see how important you are.

Your life choices matter with everything you think and do and say.

COMMIT YOUR LIFE TO WHAT YOU VALUE.

INSPIRE YOURSELF WITH GRATITUDE.

Affirmations:

I dedicate my life energy to thinking, speaking and doing Good.

I am devoted to inspiring, encouraging and facilitating the Highest and Best.

I trust myself to listen and learn, teach and observe, give and receive what brings Peace and Happiness.

 I dedicate my Self to sharing the Best I know.

Dedicate Yourself to What Inspires You.

Your life is precious.

Your energy is powerful.

You have gifts to share.

Share what inspires You.

When you know what matters most, you will be inspired.

When you understand how important you are, you will be motivated.

When you recognize what makes you powerful, you will feel grateful.

When you live your life as though all life matters, you will see what matters most.

Dedication is the opportunity to give your All to what gives All to you.

If you want more abundance, you will devote yourself to being, living and giving abundantly.

If you want more power, you will use your energy to use your power with Love and wisdom.

If you want more Love, you will give your love in thoughts, words and behavior to everything with Love.

Choose dedication to what is dedicated to you and your best.

Your life is your gift to give and receive. 

When you give your Self to the Goodness in your own life, you will prosper.

When you are grateful to what fulfills you, you will benefit yourself.

What will it take for all of us to wake up and see what we have?

What do we need to see and feel and know to dedicate this life to fully living?

How can we enjoy what we have if we are busy judging, complaining and regretting?

Can we recognize we are where we have chosen to be?

Consider being really dedicated to being grateful.

Consider being happy with where we are and what we do.

Consider finding the presence of mind to be fully engaged.

Consider being inspired everyday with what is now.

Are you aware of how you utilize your time?

Do you know where you waste your energy?

How do you spend your money?

Dedication is devoting your resources of time, money and energy to what matter most to you.

Give time, money and resources consciously.

Forgive yourself for wasting time, energy and money on what is not valuable.

Stop and see what inspires, fulfills and energizes you.

Your dedication will create abundant life energy for you.

Know Your Self.

Be true to Your Self.

Pay attention and learn daily.

Enjoy the Life Adventure.

Dedicated to Loving Reminders for you and me and All.

Betty Lue

“Give yourself to Love.

And Love will give to you.

Live your life with Trust.

And Trust will see you through.”

Betty Lue · 7.6.26.Dedication