Mature Adult Behavior

We live in an adolescent and codependent culture.

You can choose to live with trust, respect and appreciation for yourself.

You are capable of learning to behave in a mature way everyday.

BE RESPECTFUL AND RESPONSIBLE.

CHOOSE THOUGHTS, WORDS AND ACTIONS WISELY.

Affirmations:

I think, speak and act with respect and consideration for everyone.

I treat others as I want to be treated.

I live my life with respect, responsibility and cooperation with others.

I forgive all immature, emotionally reactive thoughts, words and behavior.

Are You a Conscious Responsible Adult?

Are you behaving like a mature person?

Are you able to control your emotions?

Do you respond with respect and kindness?

Are you listening to what others are really saying?

If you are the conscious adult, you will behave like a mature adult.

If you are aware of where others are coming from, you will be responsive to their needs.

If you realize that reading this email is a sign of maturity, you will step away from childish behavior.

If you recognize you are the source of Love in your relationships, you will remember to give Love. 

Mature adults do not behave like children or critical parents.

Mature adults speak and act in ways that create adult responses.

Mature adults are respectful and considerate, compassionate and kind.

Mature adults seek creative solutions and offer responsible responses.

If you are a conscious adult, you will not think, talk or behave in childish ways.

If you are a mature adult, you will respond with love to those lacking in love.

If you are a conscious adult, you will give your best to everyone, beginning with yourself.

If you are a mature adult, you will remember to clear the fear and judgments with forgiveness.

If you are awake and aware, you will step away from useless arguments and fighting.

If you are respectful and responsible, you will seek solutions in which no one loses.

If you are caring and compassionate, you will take time to listen and learn what is truly helpful.

If you are giving what you want to have, you will see the needs and fill them in yourself and others.

Crying, complaining, and criticizing are camouflage for what is your responsibility.

When you see a need in yourself and others, it is yours to fill.

When you feel a lack in yourself and others, it is yours to clear the limiting emotional patters.

When you hear a call for love, it is yours to find the Love in you to awaken the Love in others.

We are here to erase what triggers us to behave childish, needy and dependent.

When we are waiting for someone else to do it for us, we have forgotten who we Are.

When we are blaming someone else for what is missing, we have neglected to take responsibility.

When we are allowing ourselves to feel hurt, scared and alone, we must remember what we can choose,

It is time for us to grow up and take responsibility for the entirety of our lives.

No more whining, blaming and feeling sorry for ourselves. 

Cleaning up the past is easy, if we begin now without blaming anyone.

Start new each day with Being Clear, Certain, Consistent and Sincere.

Love being capable and responsible.

It works!

Betty Lue

Four Agreements.

Make No Assumptions. 

Keep Your Agreements. 

Take Nothing Personally. 

Always Give Your Best.

By Don Miguel Ruiz

Do what allows you to feel good about You.

Betty Lue · 4.25.26.Be Mature Adult

Take Care of You!

Release what no longer has value.

Simplify, appreciate and care for what you have.

Take time to value all you are and all you have.

DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU.

YOUR BEST BLESSES US ALL.

Affirmations:

Letting go is fun, safe and easy.

I free myself to joyfully be myself.

I stop weighing myself down.

I forgive myself for limiting myself.

Take Care of You!

Do you have more than you can care for?

Is your time full of useless activity?

Are you filling your space with unneeded stuff?

Do you stay so busy you have no time to enjoy?

When we have too much, we neglect it.

When we do too much, we get tired and cranky.

When we hurt too much, we shut down or numb ourselves.

When we accumulate too much, it loses its value.

Assess what you are doing with your life.

Look at how you care for your family.

Notice the state of your home, bedroom, kitchen and living room.

Ask yourself what you do with your time and all your stuff.

When we have too much, we lose appreciation and real care.

If we cannot be fully responsible, we blame others and feel guilty.

When we lose our positive mind, we forget to be grateful.

When we neglect our self appreciation, we stop taking care of ourselves.

Are you taking the time to love you?

Do you respond to your own needs with kindness?

Are you patient with your mistakes and forgetfulness?

Do you take time to nurture yourself and enjoy life?

Too much is too much!

Even taking five minutes to stop and breathe is helpful. 

Getting up in the quiet of the morning with a cup of tea can bring clarity.

Taking a shower with mindfulness can set the tone for more patience.

Being willing to read one page of inspiration before bedtime will calm your mind.

Learn a simple quiet time practice.

The clouds, sunset, walk in your yard can be moments to fill you with peace.

Begin to undo and release whatever is heavy, difficult and hurtful to you.

Open your heart to feel love and joy and gratitude again for anything and everything.

Seek out healing sounds and sights, interactions and inspiration.

Find joy in watching whatever you can fully appreciate.

Give your peace and kindness to those who need help.

Relinquish focus on what brings you disappointment and despair.

You can forgive, undo, erase and let go of what you do not need.

You can value, enjoy, appreciate and focus on what lifts you up.

Lighten your life and you will lighten your mind.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Letting go can be fun, safe and easy.

Learn to let go with love and gratitude.

Betty Lue · 4.24.26.Take Care

Purposeful Living

Your life is important.

Treat it with care.

Value what is valuable.

DO WHAT YOU LOVE.

LOVE WHAT YOU DO.

Affirmations:

I do what I love and share what I have.

I always have plenty to give and to share.

I let go and learn what I really want to have.

I find meaning and purpose in sharing the very best in me.

Living On Purpose

When we live with purpose daily, we feel happy, whole and free.

When we stop using our body lovelessly, we are healthy, energized and productive.

When we relinquish past regrets and grievances, our mind is open for creativity. 

Life is a powerful instrument of creativity, enjoyment and service.

Learn to live each day with thoughtful creation.

Learn to give your energy to have more, do more, share more and enjoy more.

Learn to bring your most conscious and connected self to each moment.

Learn to be your best self in all circumstances and watch your life grow.

Life is meant to be lived with meaning and purpose.

Life is here to be blessed with clarity, choice and communication.

Life is enhanced with our commitment to give all to have all.

When we live our life purposefully, we experience the blessings of health, happiness and fulfillment.

We can squander our time, money and energy and receive no return.

We can let life slip away with no awareness of its true value.

We can sleep and dream, but never experience the full joy of experiencing.

We can eat, drink and be merry, but never really know the fullness of Gratitude.

We are here to learn what to value and how to enjoy our lives.

We have the opportunity to explore and experiment to see what is Good for us.

We can create and erase again and again.

Vision and manifestation come with our freedom of choice.

Often we live and share what is popular or valued by others.

We may live out our parents wishes for us.

We often choose what may create fame and riches.

We even oppose society and set limits on ourselves.

The real key to living on purpose is to begin again without prejudice. (pre-judging)

The opportunity is available to give up where we are stuck and tied to former choices.

We can claim what seems fun, safe and easily flows through our lives.

We can find inner peace and joy in what is right there ready for us to choose.

Learning to discern what seems natural and joyous may be a foreign concept.

Relinquishing the concept of a difficult life of hard work and struggle is our highest option.

As we learn to undo the obstacles in our way, we stop resisting, denying and blocking what is good.

Living with meaning and purpose comes naturally, when we listen within to our joy.

Know you can and will be happy, when you live what is on purpose for you.

Know you will have confidence and enjoy what you are doing and how you are living.

Know you deserve to have a life that is fulfilling everyday in a very honest way.

Believe in yourself and live your dreams.

Show Up.

Pay attention.

Share the Highest Truths.

Let go of Attachment.

Living life with heart and meaning.

Always Loving You,

Betty Lue

“Life is for learning.

Education leads out of ignorance.

The more we learn, the more we know.

The more we know, the better our resources.

The more  resources, the more choice we have.”

The more choices, the more enjoyable life can be.”

Betty Lue · 4.23.26.Purposeful Living

Earth Day Gratitude

Let us respect the Earth that is our home.

We are all stewards of our land and its bounty.

RESPECT AND VALUE WHAT SUSTAINS LIFE.

OUR CONSCIOUS INTENTION MATTERS.

Affirmations:

Everyday I honor my earth home and its beauty.

With each breath, I give life to myself and all creation.

Life is filled with grace and glory, when I Love.

I am in love with the beauty and goodness I see in everyone and everywhere.

Earth Day Gratitude

Be grateful for the beauty.

Be grateful for the bounty.

Be grateful for the belief.

Be grateful for Being here.

Of all the places we could be, we are here.

Of all the lives we could be living, we live here.

Of all the songs we could be singing, we sing here.

Of all the beauty we could be beholding, we are here.

Do you really appreciate where you live?

Do you really receive the pleasure of being on this planet earth?

Do you take the time to say 'Thank God' for the privilege of living in America?

Do you actually see and enjoy the beauty around you?

No matter what season, there are always miracles of nature.

No matter what the weather, there is always amazing beauty.

No matter where you live, you can see with curiosity and wonder.

No matters what you might imagine, with forgiveness you can feel gratitude and grace.  

Stop judging, comparing and evaluating, and you will see the Good.

Stop neglecting and ignoring, and you will find the gifts.

Stop fearing and worrying, and you will recognize the blessings.

Stop taking in negativity and pessimism, and you will step into each day with hope and trust.

Life is what we make it with our thoughts and attitude.

Thoughts and beliefs create our perception.

What we see comes from what we look for.

When we are grateful, we look for the Good.

The seeds we plant today will grow with our loving care.

The beliefs we hold in our mind will emerge of like kind.

The attitudes we carry will reveal themselves in our lives.

Our fears and prejudice will be there, unless we weed them out!

We are responsible for what we experience.

We are capable of changing our thoughts and words.

We can choose peace and relinquish attack.

We can choose love and forgive all fear.

We are the channels of love on this earth.

We are the miracle workers with love in action.

We are the blessing and the blessed.

We are here to give tribute to what is Good and Beautiful and Whole.

Let us utilize today and everyday to honor our calling.

Love one another and the earth home on which we live together.

Blessings increase with our appreciation.

Betty Lue 

May you be happy.

May you be safe.

May you be strong.

May you live with ease.

May you love yourself well.

Betty Lue · 4.22.26.Earth Day