Thursday, May 28, 2026

Live Your Purpose!

This is your life to live your own best way.

Now is your time to choose to be honorable and trust in you.


KNOW YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF.

BE HONEST AND GOOD FOR YOU.


Affirmations:

I was born to be happy, healthy and prosperous.

I am willing to give and receive my very best.

I release, whatever takes me off purpose.

I know what makes me happy and I do it!

 

Live Your Purpose!

 

Why are you here?

What is your purpose?

What are you learning?

What can you do?

 

How can you learn more?

Who do you admire?

What do you want to be?

How can you live with gratitude?

 

What do you want to achieve?

What do you want to give?

How have you betrayed yourself?

What has stopped you from living your way?

 

What is your greatest desire?

What brings you joy?

Who do you trust?

How can you trust more?

 

How do you limit yourself?

What will make you free?

How do you want to see yourself?

Who are you trying to please?

 

Life seems to be copying others' behavior.

Sometimes you copy those you admire.

Sometimes you copy those you fear.

Sometimes you copy where you want praise.

 

People seem to want to be special.

Who do you want to impress?

From whom do you seek Love?

Parents, heroes, elders, God?

 

Is it time to be what you want to be? 

Are you ready to reach for your own dreams.?

Do you approve of and appreciate who you are?

Do you dare to have positive stories about your own accomplishments?

 

Are your values for yourself clear and true?

Do you claim to be the best you know how to be?

Do you live in integrity with your own purpose?

Are you ready and willing to enjoy your own life 100%?

Betty Lue

 

 Once you become aware of what really inspires and guides you, you will begin to focus on it daily.

Your purpose becomes your guiding light.

You breathe it and live it and share it in all you are and do!!

You will attract to you all good and only good for your highest purpose.


Purpose Exercise

What do I really want in my life?

(Make a list of at least 20 wants. Freely write down everything that comes to mind, with no censoring or limits.)

What does your heart want for you?

What is your simplest wish for yourself?

What do you really want to have?

What do you really want to be?

What do you really want to do?

 

What do I love to do?

What makes me the happiest?

What is my secret ambition?

What has given me the most satisfaction in the past?

What excites me about life?

 

What am I good at?

What have others told me I was good at?

In what areas of life have I excelled?

What are some of my strengths?


What is important to me?

What would I be willing to sacrifice for?

What do I stand for?

What would I commit myself for regardless of the obstacles?


What was I born to do?

Where in life can I make a difference?

What unique opportunities have been placed in my path?

What specifically does God want me to do?


My Purpose Statement:

Based on the answers above, develop a short paragraph outlining your purpose. Take the three top priorities from the four areas to which you just committed answers. Construct a statement that explains what you are beginning to sense in your purpose. This can be a work in progress. What is important is to commit to something in writing. Your purpose can be anything you want it to be and it can include anything that is important to you.

Wednesday, May 27, 2026

Forgive You!

Learn to be here now by releasing what is gone.

Choose to be your best today and every day.


RELEASE YOUR PAST.

BE NEW NOW.


Affirmations:

I forgive myself for trying to be right.

I forgive myself for being unhappy and making others unhappy.

I forgive myself for forgetting my purpose is remembering to Love.

I forgive myself for neglecting to forgive myself.

 

Forgive Your Self!

 

When you are hurtful, forgive yourself.

When you feel hurt, forgive yourself.

When you are angry, forgive yourself.

When you feel triggered, forgive yourself.

 

When you are negative, forgive yourself.

When you are resentful, forgive yourself.

When you are depressed, forgive yourself.

When you are unhappy, forgive yourself.

 

When you stop caring, forgive yourself.

When you stop being kind, forgive yourself.

When you stop being honest, forgive yourself.

When you stop being grateful, forgive yourself.

 

Forgive yourself for hurting and for being hurt.

Forgive yourself for being angry and being angered.

Forgive yourself for triggering others and being triggered by others.

Forgive yourself for being righteous and making others wrong.

 

Forgive yourself for being negative.

Forgive yourself for holding resentments.

Forgive yourself for not living your truths.

Forgive yourself for being depressed and unhappy.

 

Remind yourself of the truth.

Remember to be Love.

Renew your commitments.

Realize you can do better,

 

You choose your thoughts, negative and/or positive.

You choose the words your speak and what you create.

You chose what you do or don't do.

You are responsible for your life, your health, happiness, relationships, finances and experiences.

 

You are here to forgive all mistakes.

You can undo what doesn't work.

You are able to stop doing what is harmful to anyone.

You are able to change your mind and your behavior.

 

It is time we all stop doing what is unhealthy and unkind to anyone.

Start with undoing what hurts and depressing you.

Notice what does not work for the good of everyone.

You can heal yourself and be fully responsible for your life by forgiving.

 

Loving us all in our awakening.

Betty Lue


 Life is forgiving .

You are the gift.

It is in freeing and being the gift you are, that you recognize the gift.

Set yourself free with forgiveness.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue


Tuesday, May 26, 2026

Guilt Doesn't Work!

When people feel guilty, they avoid or blame.

When people forgive, they learn, heal and choose what works!


SHAME AND GUILT BLOCK LOVE.

FORGIVENESS ALLOWS HEALING.


Affirmations:

I forgive myself for blaming and making others feel guilty.

I respond to others lack of love by loving them.

No one and nothing can harm me, when I remember to Love.

Love is the only way to heal myself and my relationships.

 

Guilt Doesn't Work!

 

Forgive and Move On with Love!

 

Guilt is one of those man made emotions that doesn’t work.

When we feel guilty, because we have made a mistake, we usually do it again.

When we feel guilty, because we have neglected ourselves, we often deny ourselves more.

When we feel guilt, because we have lost our way, we become even more fearful.

 

We clear our guilt, when we forgive ourselves and others, and love again.

We clear the guilt, when we have made amends for our lack of integrity.

When we know better, we must learn to do better.

When we neglect the call to always learn and do better, we hurt ourselves and others.

 

When we do not do what we know is the highest and best, we have made a mistake.

When we live in a way that does harm and is destructive, we have guilt.

When we feel guilt, because we are not doing what is healing and helpful, we project our guilt.

When we project our guilt, we tend to blame or withdraw from others.

 

Blaming others is our projection of guilt.

Trying to hurt others or blame them is the ego’s way of getting rid of our guilt.

When we hurt others, say unkind things, abandon or deny others, we are projecting our guilt.

Guilt is often used in relationships, as our way of trying to get rid of our own lack of love.

 

Remember that the one criticizing or blaming, is talking about themselves.

What we accuse in others is a projection of our own errors to be healed.

We tend to divert our attention to what others are doing or have done wrong.

We are here to recognize our own wounds and to heal ourselves.

 

Guilt is rarely recognized, and often projected with blame.

People rarely apologize or make amends.

Usually guilt produces anger and rejection.

We can heal only with forgiveness and love.

 

Forgiveness is a gift to ourselves.

Forgiveness awakens our awareness.

Forgiveness heals unconscious triggers.

Forgiveness makes us whole.

 

Blame and criticism are projections.

Withholding love will always hurt.

When we learn to stop trying to hurt ourselves and others, we will forgive.

When we remember everything unlike love is always a call for love, we will forgive and love again.

 

Doing harm always hurts us.

Denying love always hurts us.

Hurting others always hurts us.

The healing is through returning to love.

 

Stop making others feel guilty and you will free yourself to let go and Love again.

Always remembering to Love,

Betty Lue


“Give yourself to Love.

And Love will give to you.

Live your life with Trust.

And Trust will see you through.”