What Do You Remember?

What we learn from experience can be helpful.

But remembering past pain triggers fear, not faith.

REMEMBER WHAT IS HELPFUL.

RELEASE WHAT IS HURTFUL.

Affirmations:

I choose to remember the Good!

I support what I want to be.

I remember with gratitude and joy.

I appreciate what is loving and helpful to all.

 

What Do You Remember?

 

Remembering Love Heals.

Remembering Fear hurts.

Remembering Good inspires.

Remembering Bad depresses.

 

What you remember determines your thoughts and your emotions.

What you hold onto can either clear pain and disease or cause pain and disease.

When you erase the past knowing it is no longer here, you can free yourself of stress, resentment and pain.

Memorial Day inspires celebrating the Good, Grateful and Generous memories.

 

When we spend time with our grandchildren, we enjoy, learn and teach, give and receive our best.

If I remember mistakes a child makes, do I hold a grievance?

If I experience what they did last year, am I helping them learn?

If I wish they were as cute as they were at 5, am I holding them back?

 

It is time we remember what is true right now.

It is helpful to forgive the past and remember what is real right now.

It is supporting to erase the negatives and only remember the positives.

Memories need to be encouraging, inspiring, nurturing to heal and grow the best.

 

So often we foster repeating what is not healthy by remembering and retelling old stories.

Much talk about kids is how they were in the past.

Most stories are about what was extraordinary about past experiences, failures and accomplishments.

Emphasizing what was often gets kids and adults caught in the past and comparisons with now.

 

People, young and old, seem to get attached to being noticed and getting approval and appreciation.

When people try to do what got them attention and approval or disapproval, they get stuck.

When people hear stories about what was noticed and admired, they often try to do it again.

When children and adults are trying to impress and win favor, they often do what is not theirs to do.

 

How do we remember and not create a repeat of the same?

How do we share what inspires us? 

How do we remember what expresses gratitude and love?

How do we remember what heals and inspires others?

 

Stay present with each individual, as they follow their journey.

Be aware of what you want to repeat by giving it positive energy.

Tell the highest truth consciously, knowing you are helping to recreate it.

Encourage your future Good by living your best life right now.

 

Awareness with love and light is healing.

Focus on what is now and be grateful.

Enjoy each helpful, healing moment.

Love Your Life right Now.

 

I am loving you right now.

Betty Lue

Letting go can be fun, safe and easy.

Learn to let go with love and gratitude.

Betty Lue · 5.25.26.Remember Good

What Do You Want?

Most people seem to not know what they actually want.

Are you afraid of believing and achieving what you want?

LOVE YOUR TRUE SELF TODAY.

CLARIFY WHAT YOU REALLY WANT.

COMMIT TO CREATING WHAT YOU WANT.

Affirmations:

I treat myself with loving care.

I trust my “wants” are leading me to serve.

I know I am worthy of Good.

I create and manifest Goodness for myself and others.

 

What Do You Want?

 

What do you really want, when you say “I don’t Know.”?

Are you afraid to want?

Do you allow yourself to want what you want?

Are you so used to not having what you want, that you don’t let yourself think about wanting?

 

Have you grown distrusting of yourself and others?

Are you passive and accepting?

Do you put others “wants” first?

Do you think your “wants” are less important?

 

It is possible that you are meant to learn.

It is practical for you to lead and show the way.

It is your highest work to live your life following your desires.

Perhaps your wants will inspire others to be honest, open and willing.

 

I find that de-sire (“from the Father”) may be listening to your inner guidance.

Your desire may be guiding you to follow a higher path to fulfillment.

Your inner voice may be showing you how to heal and live in integrity.

Consider that you have only ‘wanted', when it felt safe. 

 

When you let other want for you, you may lose your inner signal.

When you spend years denying yourself, you may not even know.

When you allow the world of seduction and sensation to lead, you may neglect your “real true wants”!

Those worldly pleasures and treasures offer are the fake substitutes rather than what is true.

 

Spend time every morning listening to what is your real desire.

As you say “YES’ to yourself and fulfill that which is before you, you gain clarity and confidence.

Giving yourself that fulfillment, will expand and deepen that which is yours to choose, 

You are here to contemplate, create and celebrate the life of true fulfillment.

 

Your wants and wishes will deepen to include that which is for the highest Good.

Your acceptance and appreciation will increase and enhance what is Good for you.

Your Joy and health and peace will inspire, support and sustain you.

Life will become fun, safe and easy for you.

 

We are created to create.

When we deny our creative intention, we forget Who We Are.

When we allow what is ours to have and be and do, we remember what is true.

This is our time to begin.

 

Even this moment….

Sleep, when you are tired.

Eat, when you are hungry.

Do, what yours to do with gratitude.

Live well and prosper.

 

When you know what your Authentic Self is calling forth, you will be energized and given the resources.

 

I trust in your willingness to say “YES”.

Betty Lue

Value what is valuable.

Focus on what you want.

Appreciate All you have.

Love Being You and Sharing your Love.

Betty Lue · 5.24.26.Want what you Want!

Change the Channel!

You are free to choose what you want.

Take responsibility for making your own choices.

YOU CAN CHOOSE!

DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU.

Affirmations:

I choose what is inspiring and good for me.

I easily change what is not healthy, happy and true.

I value what is positive and beneficial.

I quickly erase what is not my best choice.

 

Change the Channel!

 

Choose what program to watch.

Choose what voice to listen to.

Choose what music to hear.

Choose what thoughts to entertain.

 

You are the one choosing.

You can change the channel.

You can choose again.

You can turn it off.

 

What will you choose today?

What are you reading right now?

Where are you going today?

Whose advice do you take?

 

Are you listening to what inspires you?

Are you thinking what keeps you motivated?

Do you follow the angry commentator?

Do you believe the negative teacher/preacher?

 

Your mind can be filled with negativity, if you choose.

You can see and listen to the dark side if you want.

Your life can be filled with positivity, if you prefer.

You can look on the light and bright side, if you wish.

 

It really is up to you.

What do the experts say?

Do you believe in the disheartening and doomsday messages?

If that is all you hear, why not?

 

But if you dislike being depressed, choose again for what you believe.

We all have choice in what voice we believe and remember.

Every moment we have the opportunity to listen to our negative mind.

We can make the choice to have the experience we want to remember.

 

There is no right or wrong, if it is our song.

There is no need to choose, if we want to go along.

There is only what we wish were true, when we choose our good will.

Indeed, we have the opportunity to choose the channel to fit our desire.

 

Be willing to decide.

Be open to choose or change.

Be grateful for what you like.

Be happy to make it your right.

 

Loving you as you change the channel.

Betty Lue

May you be happy and well.

May you remember to be loving.

May you find peace in all you say and do.

May this day bring only Goodness to you.

Only Love prevails.

Betty Lue · 5.23.26.Change the Channel

Outer Reflects The Inner

Is it time to recognize we are choosing what we want to see?

Are you willing to see what is Good and value it?

WHAT WE SEE IS WHAT WE LOOK FOR.

EVERYTHING IS A REFLECTION.

Affirmations:

I forgive myself for all negative projections.

I am filled with light and live in delight.

My words and behavior reflect my inner peace.

I quickly release and delete all that is not Love.

 

Outer Reflections

 

What you see outside you reflects what is within.

When we try endlessly to clean up the outer, we miss the essential cause.

When we work to undo what we see and continue to believe it is real, it will always reoccur.

When we clear up our own mind, our thoughts and words and deeds, we clear up our life.

 

When we believe something or someone else is the cause, we miss the mark.

When we forget we ourselves hold the key to the mystery of our experience, we can choose to change within.

When we remember that thoughts and words create, we change our lives one word and one thought at a time.

Life experiences show us clearly what we need to undo and delete to not repeat.

 

We learn to project our errors onto others.

We make up excuses and justifications for our own mistaken choices.

We blame others for what we find lacking and limited in ourselves.

We neglect to do our own inventory and do our own work.

 

The “blame game” happens in families and couples, in workplaces and at school.

All gossip is a projection of what is an inner flaw or fixed position of judgment in ourselves.

We claim ignorance and innocence of what we experience, not recognizing it is an inner reflection.

So when we apologize with “I am sorry. Please forgive me.”, we are telling the truth on ourselves.

 

Children learn to accept parent/teacher judgments of them.

They often live out or rebel against our projections onto them.

The same is true of partners and parents and friends.

People tend to question and/or believe what others say about them.

 

This is projection.

This is bullying.

This is how gossip works.

This is what creates hurtful and disempowering relationships.

 

To clean up our thoughts and words, we need to focus on our own lives.

We need to learn to stop bullying, criticizing and judging ourselves.

We must clarify our own responsibility in our life experiences.

We can make the change from within with much more ease and success.

 

The focus on outer work, may seem endless, until we clean our own behavior.

We can learn our lessons as we watch the world around us with forgiveness and respect.

We can literally clean up all our relationships, one at a time, with true apology and appreciation.

We can choose thoughts and words and behaviors that reflect what we want to see and be.

 

When our house is clean, we be truly helpful to others.

When our lives are in order, we can be of service to others.

When our vision is clear, we can inspire others to clarify their own vision.

When we are at peace, we naturally bring peace to those around us.

 

Use forgiveness as the natural cleanser of all negative thoughts and feelings.

Use forgiveness to delete harmful words and behavior.

Use forgiveness to erase what is not wholly true and loving.

Use forgiveness to undo everything you do not want to be true.

 

Let us take responsibility to clean up our own lives first.

Blessings of gratitude as we each do our own work!

Betty Lue

Be Curious!

Be Grateful.

Choose what you really want.

The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love. 

Betty Lue

Betty Lue · 5.22.26.Projection