No Harm, Please!

Stop hurtful thoughts, words and deeds.

Choose to think, speak and act in ways that are helpful.

BE SAFE. 

DO NO HARM.

Affirmations:

I am safe, when I remember to Love.

I trust my inner guidance to show me the way to be most helpful.

I am present with my sincere commitment to love no matter what.

I forgive myself for neglecting to honor me and my way to respond with Love.

No Harm, Please!

When there is harm, stop and step away.

When there are harmful words, stop and remove yourself.

When there are harmful thoughts, stop yourself and change your minds.

When there are harmful behaviors, stop and leave the situation.

Make a commitment to stop doing harm to yourself and others.

Make a decision to stop hurting with your words, behavior or thoughts.

When you do harm, you attract harm.

When you behave in hurtful ways, you are doing harm.

This world was changed and deranged by fearful humans.

People hurt, threaten, bully and fight to get their own way.

War and hatred, killing and abusing, are justified to win.

People have not understood that there is enough for all.

You can begin today to stop hurtful ways.

You can change your home and workplace.

You can find more good in being peaceful.

You can change your behavior when you decide.

Stop today allowing anyone or anything to hurt you.

Stop by withdrawing your destructive energies.

Give peace, where there is a need for love.

Offer what is wanted without bloodshed or harm.

Children must be taught to do no harm.

Adolescents must be shown how to do no harm.

Adults must learn to stop doing harm.

Peoples must learn there is a better way.

Yes, talking with civility takes longer.

Working together in cooperation takes longer.

Giving and sharing with one another takes long.

But resolving the inequities is worth it to stop fighting.

We are smart enough to know the costs.

We are wise enough to know we must stop.

We are good enough to seek what will work.

Together we can find a better way.

What will it take to be kind to your neighbor?

What can you do to forgive your ancestors?

What are you willing to change to make peace?

What can you give to forgive and undo the past?

Do Unto Others As You Want Them To Do Unto You.

You can because you want to.

You can because you choose to.

You can because you are Loving.

I am loving you, 

Betty Lue

The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love. 

Betty Lue

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Betty Lue · 8.28.26.No Harm

Clean Up Your Life!

Your home reflects your mind.

Clean, clear, organize and enjoy your space.

CLEAN OUT THE OLD.

BRING IN NEW ENERGY.

Affirmations:

I enjoy cleaning and clearing my space.

I make room for more goodness, joy and prosperity when I clean.

My mind and body function with more ease and energy in clean places.

Completions and conversations are easier in calm, harmonious space.

Cleaning Reminders

Please ask me for info about energizing your home with Feng Shui!

When you need to move, clean.

When you have a problem, clean.

When you are forgetful, clean.

When you get confused, clean.

Cleaning is a joy, when you have the right attitude.

Children can enjoy picking up, when they have grateful parents.

Adults can change their mind, when they “hate” to clean.

All of society can learn to simplify their lives with cleaning.

Consider cleaning up after every meal.

Consider cleaning up before you go to bed.

Consider cleaning up before school and work.

Consider doing  a thorough cleaning weekly, monthly or even annually.

Consider yard sales, charitable contribution, calling in “We Got Junk” to take it away.

You have the right to demonstrate to family, friends and neighbors how you live.

You will discover the cleaner your bedroom is, the better you sleep.

You will learn that children love to copy their parents, when they see happiness.

I never learned not to love cleaning.

I love how things feel and look when clean.

I could feel how good it is to start with a clean kitchen or desk.

I experience that everyone keeps my space clean, when I do.

As a child, we had a minimal things, but always what we needed.

I did not compare with others, but saw us as happy and well off.

While the money was little, there were always hand-me-downs.

I enjoying cleaning and polishing and sorting with full appreciation.

In Feng Shui, they teach to only have as much as we care for well.

They teach to stop hoarding what is not used and functional for your well-being.

They teach that what you own, owns a piece of your energy and defines you.

Therefore, it is essential that you conscientiously choose only what is beneficial to you.

Observe how much better you feel and think, when your spaces are clean.

Experience how much more you can accomplish, when your space is in order.

Feel energy in you is drained by what is incomplete, messy or unnecessary.

Begin to clean and clear one space, even one drawer, at a time.

You will see how free you feel, when you live simply.

You will appreciate how good you feel, when your life is in order.

You will think with more creativity, when you have open time and space.

You will begin to fully understand what works for you.

Clean up your life inside your own mind as well!

Have only what serves your own happiness and well being.

Enjoy a simple, clear and well-loved life.

Betty Lue

We need Joy as we need air!

We need Love as we need water!

We need each other as we need the earth we share.

Maya Angelou

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Betty Lue · 8.27.26.Clean

Be Effective

Be smart and do what is Good for all.

Pay attention and choose what works.

VALUE WHAT WORKS FOR YOU.

STOP WHAT DOESN’T WORK.

Affirmations:

I respect myself and others in choosing what is best for us.

I trust the choices I make.

I honor my health and happiness with every decision I make.

I live impeccably to be the best I can be.

Does It Work?

If what you do works, keep doing it.

If what you do doesn’t work, stop and do something better.

If you don’t see the results you want, choose again.

To keep doing the same thing expecting a different result is foolish.

If you don’t know any better, learn from someone who does.

Ask for help from those who have a life that works.

Read from books and then experiment to see what works.

Watch people who are happy and peaceful how to do life better.

Seems logical and smart to find a better way.

When you pray or affirm, seek a better way.

When you listen and learn, search for a better way.

When you get hurt or offended, look for a better way.

Stop complaining and start appreciating.

Stop demanding and start asking for help.

Stop blaming and begin to forgive  your negativity.

Stop doing the same thing, and explore something different.

Parents and teachers need to learn to value what our kids and youth are saying.

Leaders and bosses need to learn from what employees are requesting.

Families need to learn how to take time to affirm and honor one another.

Everyone must begin by taking impeccable care of their own needs first.

When hungry, tired and angry, we are not helpful or effective.

When we take care of our own needs, we are open to find better ways.

When we express blame and criticism, threats and demands, we are not effective.

When we are reactive with fear and harm, we are not effective with ourselves and others.

It is time to see what works.

When peaceful, discerning and helpful, we can always find a better way.

When we seek a positive goal, with persistence, we will find  an effective way.

Notice how you talk to others and seek to be respectful, kind and helpful.

You can always do better with your intention to create what is good for all.

You can always choose to be happy and helpful, when you relate at home and work.

You can always be your best, when you care for your own needs first.

You can always find the right way to live, love, learn and appreciate.

Pause and breathe more.

Step away and listen within to seek help and wisdom.

Stop and forgive your harmful and reactive behavior.

Choose again for what is good and healthy for all.

Loving us in doing what is right and good and effective for all.

Betty Lue.

“Life is for learning.

Education leads out of ignorance.

The more we learn, the more we know.

The more we know, the better our resources.

The more  resources, the more choice we have.”

The more choices, the more enjoyable life can be.”

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Betty Lue · 8.26.26.Does It Work?

Be Cool!

Would you rather be right or be happy?

I choose happiness for all of us together.

CHOOSE PEACE.

LIVE WITH RESPECT.

Affirmations:

I release the past and choose for a better future.

I seek what is highest and best for all concerned.

I would rather be happy than be right.

I want all interaction and communication to be helpful for all.

Be Cool!

When it is hot, keep cool!

When you are upset, learn to control yourself.

When others are upset, learn to bring peace.

When you get “triggered”, learn to step away.

There is a time when upset is a wakeup call.

There is a place to be fully and freely expressive.

There is no point in creating resistance and fear.

There is no healing in reacting with anger and blame.

We have a choice in how we use our emotions.

We have our own mature ways of responding .

We have to learn how to control our emotions.

We have to be mature in how we treat others.

In this immature society, we observe poor impulse control.

Parents may flare up using harmful words and behaviors.

Politicians my be abusive and childish in how they react.

Drivers may be out of control in how they take out their anger.

What children see teaches them how to be to get attention.

Youth observe violence in movies, TV, video games and in their homes.

Our emotionally based communication  heats up disagreements.

People seem to enjoy getting their way with hurtful words and actions.

To make a difference, calm yourself and express with respect.

To be heard, take time to think, speak and act rationally.

To fight creates more push back and less respect.

Stating your position and then listening to others opens cooperation.

When we promote the adrenalin of fear and fighting, we get less cooperation.

When we demand, threaten, bully and demean others, we harm relationships.

I highly recommend that we seek peace and understanding, only when calm.

I suggest that we step away and calm ourselves first to respond in healthy ways.

When anyone is upset, there can be no positive interaction and co-creative decisions.

When either party is angry, hurt, fearful and resentful, there will not be a win-win outcome.

It is essential that the conscious and mature individual bring peace and understanding.

It is most important that all parties have an opportunity to be heard and treated with respect.

Let you and I be the ones to listen with respect.

Let us respect our own ideas with a one time statement.

Let us seek a response that leads to a positive outcome for all.

Let us learn to seek peace and happiness more than being “right”.

 

Respecting our reason and choice for peace.

Betty Lue

Be Respectful.

Be Responsible.

Be Cooperative.

Create a Better World for All.

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Betty Lue · 8.25.26.Be Cool