Sunday, May 31, 2020

Love is Enough!

I choose Love and feel inspired.
I feel clear and strong when I am loving you.
All of Love leads me home to health, happiness and inner peace.
I give my life to Love and know I Am Good.

What Do You Do?

When you cannot be there, Love is enough.
When you don’t know what to say, Love is enough.
When you are alone, Love is enough.
When you didn’t know, Love is enough.

When you want to help, ask Love to show you how.
When you want to heal, Love bring peaceful healing.
When you seek to learn, let Love teach you.
When you ask for answers, listen to loving solutions.

Love is trust, so trust in the Love in you. 
Love is freedom, so free yourself.
Love is truth, so tell the highest truth.
Love is strength, so be clear and assertive.

Love is Goodness, so be your best.
Love is flow, so dissolve the blocks.
Love is creating, so create beauty.
Love is remembering, so share loving reminders.

Love is work, so work with gratitude.
Love is giving, so give with Hoy.
Love is generosity, so give freely.
Love is learning, so listen and learn.

Love is peace, so relinquish your conflicts.
Love is light, so shine away the darkness.
Love is appreciation, so express your praise.
Love is laughter, so enjoy opportunities to laugh.

Love is consciousness, so awaken to the possibilities.
Love is clarity, so forgive the clouds that hide your Love.
Love is commitment, so give your all for what inspires you.
Love is communication, so share only what brings Love to all.

We know when it isn’t Love, so why wait.
We understand how it feels to be afraid, lost and defensive, so let go.
We see the difference between light and dark, so why would we get stuck in darkness.
We can choose to be happy in love and unhappy without Love, so choose to be happy and loving.

Love is our Source and ReSouce, so tap into what is good for you.
Love is the way we live in Joy and Peace, so let Love lead us.
Love is the Gift of Living our Best, so give freely and fully.
Be the Love You really are.
Betty Lue

Do what you can where you are,
Do what you can to do no harm.
Do what you can to be kind.
Do what you can to show respect.
Give your best in thoughts, words and deeds.

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
No disease that enough love will not heal;
No door that enough love will not open;
No gulf that enough love will not bridge;
No wall that enough love will not throw down;
No sin that enough love will not redeem.

 It makes no difference
  how deeply seated may be the trouble,
How hopeless the outlook,
How muddled the tangle,
How great the mistake.
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

 If only you could love enough, you would be the happiest
and most powerful being in the world.

Emmet Fox

Saturday, May 30, 2020

Your Best Gift!

I am happy to be happy.
It brings me happiness to see happiness in others.
I feel healthier, more energized, helpful and creative when I am happy.
I know is am better in every way when I am happy.

Be Happy!!

“The best thing you could do for anyone that you love, is be happy!
 And the very worst thing that you could do for anyone that you love, is be unhappy.
 And then ask them to try to change it, when there is nothing that anybody else can do that will make you happy.
 If it is your dominant intent to hold yourself in vibrational harmony with who you really are,
 you could never offer any action that would cause anybody else to be unhappy”. Abraham

Do you know how to be happy?
Do you understand it is an inside job?
Are you aware of what you need to choose happiness?
Are you responsible for your own happiness?

Do you realize that happy people attract happy people and events?
Unhappy people attract more unhappy people who complain about being unhappy.
Most happy people don’t want to catch unhappiness from unhappy people. (It is contagious!)
Some suggest: “Fake it (happiness) until you get into your own stream of happiness.”

When kids learn to get attention by crying and complaining, they do it as adults to get attention.
When kids are ignored or even challenged by others to be unhappy, they often choose to be unhappy.
Adults may forget how to create their own happiness or depend on others to make them happy.
People seem to think that others determine their own emotions and state of mind.

When we depend on anyone for our happiness, we may feel victims of others’ choices.
When we neglect to be responsible for ourselves, we tend to feel needy and easily disappointed.
Our work in life is to grow up and be responsible for our own responses and/or reactions.
Judging others is a primary way of feeling hurt, afraid, depressed, angry and hurt.

We often are copying the emotional state of those around us  plus what we see and hear (media).
We  allow ourselves to ve victims of the environmental influences at home and work.
We tend to take on the energies (empaths) of those with whom we associate,
Happy people inspire people to find their own happiness.

The positive energy you exude inspired health,  inner peace, gratitude and seeing things differently.
Continue to generate your own happiness and  share it with your thoughts, words and activities.
Your Goodness, Gratitude and Joy will make the world a better place.
The positive ways you Love will always benefit those around you.

Be happy. Be Well.
You are the Gift.
Give your Joy freely.
Loving you,
Betty Lue

Friday, May 29, 2020

How Do We Love One Another?

Every time I love one, I am loving all.
When I remember Love, I return to wholeness.
I choose to listen to how I can respond with love.
I forgive myself for ever reacting with fear.

How Do We Love Each Other?

If you love yourself well, you have plenty of Love to give.
If you feel loved by others, you have lots of Love to share.
If you know you are loved by Source, Creator, you feel inspired to Love others.
If you listen to your heart, you know how to love others well.

Everyone wants to feel safe.
Everyone wants to be heard.
Everyone wants to be valued.
Everyone wants to be trusted.

Underneath anger, pain and fear, there is always the desire to feel loved.
So why not simply love?
When you feel triggered, why not respond with love.
Perhaps we have forgotten to trust, value, listen and to one another?

It seems so obvious when we watch animals who are hurt, sick, lost, afraid who withdraw or attack.
In humans it seems we tend to become fearful and defensive rather than loving and helpful.
How many parents take the time to simply listen without judging and punishing or ignoring?
How many folks slow down and really listen to our elders without demanding or withholding love?

First, we must fill our own mind and heart and body with love.
First, we must have the time and caring to share with those in need.
If we are needy, greedy, fearful, demanding or threatening, we cannot give what we don’t have.
So, it is essential that we love ourselves well with self-care, appreciation and gratitude.

When we feel guilty because we have not been kind or loving, we tend to blame or withhold love.
If others feel guilty, because they have denied loving kindness. they tend to blame or reject us.
The way to truly provide safety, security, kindness and trust is to first love ourselves and listen within.
We are all called to forgive our errors and others’ mistakes as well.

We must begin by forgiving ways that we withhold our love and blame others.
We must learn from all mistakes and see the call for love.
We must choose to see things differently in our relationships.
Let us let go of past misperceptions and mistakes and see things differently.

This is our time to let go and love again.
It is time love ourselves as we want to be love.
It is time to love others as we want to be love.
It is our time to find a healthy and healing way to Love.

Where you feel guilt, blame, anger or sorry for another, it is a call for us to love, really love.
Where we feel fear, comparison, separate and resentment, it is a call for us to love ourselves.
There is no better time than now.
WE are being called to forgive ourselves and bring love where it is needed.

Always Loving you and me, too!
Betty Lue

The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love.
Betty Lue

Thursday, May 28, 2020

Live Your Purpose!

I was born to happy, healthy and prosperous.
I am willing to give and receive my very best.
I release whatever keeps me off purpose.
I know what makes me happy and I do it!

Do the work below and get on purpose to feel Good!

Live Your Purpose!

Why are you here?
What is your purpose?
What are you learning?
What can you do?

How can you learn more?
Who do you admire?
What do you want to be?
How can you live with gratitude?

What do you want to achieve?
How do you want to give?
How have you betrayed yourself?
What has stopped you from living your way?

What is your greatest desire?
What brings y ou joy?
Who do you trust?
How can you trust more?

How do you limit yourself?
What will make you free?
How do you want to see yourself?
Who are you trying to please?

Life seems to be copying others behavior.
Sometimes you copy those you admire?
Sometimes you copy those you fear?
Sometimes you copy where you want praise?

People seem to want to be special.
Who do you want to impress?
From whom do you seek Love?
Parents, heroes, elders, God? 

Is it time to be what you want to be? 
Are you ready to reach for your own dreams.?
Do you approve of and appreciate who you are?
Do you dare to have positive stories about your own accomplishments?

Are your values for yourself clear and true?
Do you claim to be the best your know how to be?
Do you live in integrity with your own purpose?
Are you ready and willing to enjoy your own life 100%?
Betty Lue

Once you become aware of what really inspires and guides you, you will begin to focus on it daily.
Your purpose becomes your guiding light.
You breathe it and live it and share it in all you are and do!!
You will attract to you all good and only good for your highest purpose.

Purpose Exercise
What do I really want in my life?
Make a list of at least 20 wants. Freely write down everything that comes to mind, with no censoring or limits.)
What does your heart want for you?
What is your simplest wish for yourself?
What do you really want to have?
What do you really want to be?
What do you really want to do?
What do I love to do?What makes me the happiest?
What is my secret ambition?
What has given me the most satisfaction in the past?
What excites me about life?
1      _________________________________________
2      _________________________________________
3      _________________________________________
4      _________________________________________
5      _________________________________________
What am I good at?What have others told me I was good at?
In what areas of life have I excelled?
What are some of my strengths?
1      _________________________________________
2      _________________________________________
3      _________________________________________
4      _________________________________________
5      _________________________________________
What is important to me?What would I be willing to sacrifice for?
What do I stand for?
What would I commit myself for regardless of the obstacles?
1      _________________________________________
2      _________________________________________
3      _________________________________________
4      _________________________________________
5      _________________________________________
What was I born to do?Where in life can I make a difference?
What unique opportunities have been placed in my path?
What specifically does God want me to do?
1      _________________________________________
2      _________________________________________
3      _________________________________________
4      _________________________________________
5      _________________________________________
Based on the answers above, develop a short paragraph outlining your purpose. Take the three top priorities from the four areas to which you just committed answers. Construct a statement that explains what you are beginning to sense in your purpose. This can be a work in progress. What is important is to commit to something in writing. Your purpose can be anything you want it to be and it can include anything that is important to you.

My Purpose Statement:______________________________________________

Wednesday, May 27, 2020

Forgive Your Self!

Even NOW
There is always healing to do.
There is always love to be shared.
There is always life to be lived.
There is always a purpose to our being here.

I forgive myself for trying to be right.
I forgive myself for being unhappy and making others unhappy.
I forgive myself for forgetting my purpose in remembering to Love.
I forgive myself for neglecting to forgive myself.

Forgive Your Self!

When you are hurtful, forgive yourself.
When you are hurt, forgive yourself.
When you are angry, forgive yourself.
When you feel triggered, forgive yourself.

When you are negative, forgive yourself.
When you are resentful, forgive yourself.
When you are depressed, forgive yourself.
When you are unhappy, forgive yourself.

When you stop caring, forgive yourself.
When you stop being kind, forgive yourself.
When you stop being honest, forgive yourself.
When you stop being grateful, forgive yourself.

Forgive yourself for hurting and for being hurt.
Forgive yourself for being angry and being angered.
Forgive yourself for triggering others and being triggered by others.
Forgive yourself for being righteous and making others wrong.

Forgive yourself for being negative.
Forgive yourself for holding resentments.
Forgive yourself for not living your truths.
Forgive yourself for being depressed and unhappy.

Remind yourself of the truth.
Remember to be Love.
Renew your commitments.
Realize you can do better,

You choose your thoughts, negative and/or positive.
You choose the words your speak and what you create.
You chose what you do or don't do.
You are responsible for your life, your health, happiness, relationships, finances and experiences.

You are here to forgive all mistakes.
You can undo what doesn't work.
You are able to stop doing what is harmful to anyone.
You are able to change your mind and your behavior.

It is time we all stop doing what is unhealthy and unkind to anyone.
Start with what undoing what hurts and depressing you.
Notice what does not work for the good of everyone.
You can heal yourself and be fully responsible for your life by forgiving.

Loving us all in our awakening.
Betty Lue

Tuesday, May 26, 2020

Guilt Doesn't Work!

I forgive myself for blaming and making others feel guilty.
I respond to others lack of love by loving them.
No one and nothing can harm me when I remember to Love.
Love is the only way to heal myself and my relationships.

Forgive and Move On with Love!

Guilt is one of those man made emotions that doesn’t work.
When we feel guilty because we have made a mistake, we usually do it again.
When we feel guilty because we have neglected ourselves, we often deny ourselves more.
When we feel guilty because we have lost our way, we behave even more out of integrity.

We clear our guilt, when we forgive ourselves and others and love again.
We clear the guilt when we have made amends for our lack of integrity.
When we know better, we must learn to do better.
When we neglect the call to always learn and do better, we hurt ourselves and others.

When we do not do what we know is the highest and best, we have made a mistake.
When we live in a way that does harm and is destructive, we have guilt.
When we feel guilt because we are not doing what is healing and helpful, we project our guilt.
When we project our guilt, we tend to blame or withdraw from others.

Blaming others is our projection of guilt.
Trying to hurt others or blame them is the ego’s way of getting rid of our guilt.
When we hurt others, say unkind things, abandon or deny others, we are projecting our guilt.
Guilt is often used in relationships as our way of trying to get rid of our own lack of love.

Remember that the one criticizing or blaming, is usually talking about themselves.
What we see in them and accuse is a projection of our own error to be healed.
We tend to divert our attention to what others are doing or have done wrong.
We are here to recognize our own wounds and to heal them within ourselves.

Guilt is rarely recognized, and often projected with blame.
People rarely apologize or make amends.
Usually guilt produces anger and rejection.
We can heal only with forgiveness and love.

Forgiveness is a gift to ourselves.
Forgiveness awakens our awareness.
Forgiveness heals unconscious triggers.
Forgiveness makes us whole.

Blame and criticism are projections.
Withholding love will always hurt.
When we learn to stop trying to hurt ourselves and others, we will forgive.
When we remember everything unlike love is always a call for love, we will forgive and love again.

Doing harm always hurts us.
Denying love always hurts us.
Hurting others always hurts us.
The healing is through returning to love.

Stop making others feel guilty and you will free yourself to let go and Love again.
Always remembering to Love,
Betty Lue

1.  Make No Assumptions. 
2.  Keep Your Agreements. 
3.  Take Nothing Personally. 
4.  Always Give Your Best.
By Don Miguel Ruiz

Do what allows you to feel good about You.