Wednesday, September 30, 2020



I prosper myself as I look forward to the future.

I believe healing occurs as we live with hope.

I have faith in the future.

I am grateful for all the Good in my life.

Prosper with Faith in the Future.

What does it take to prosper?

Prosper with hope. 

Prosper with faith. 

Prosper with Love.

It seems so elementary.

We know we must be hopeful to succeed.

We know we must have faith in ourselves to benefit.

We know we must love ourselves and our gifts to do well.

But do we do what is necessary?

Are we grateful for what we have achieved?

Do we recognize how much we have imagined success?

Have we invested in our own goodness and wholeness?

Yes, we prosper because we believe in all that is Good.

We prosper when we envision our wholeness, abundance and gratitude for all.

We prosper because we focus on our prosperity with faith.

We prosper when we extend our gratitude, love and joy for all Good.

To focus on our good prospers us all.

To focus on our neediness diminishes what we have/

To enjoy the everyday goodness enriches our lives.

To criticize what is limited and lacking depletes our lives.

It is essential that we learn to be grateful for all that is given.

It is important that we share with others with pleasure.

It is our work to learn to value what is truly valuable.

It is our reward to see all things working together for Good.


When we expect miracles, we seek and find them.

When we despair of not finding, we tend to not look.

When we trust in a positive outcome, we know it is there.

The Good becomes our focus and we see it all clearly.

It is time to proper ourselves and our global family.

It is ours to focus with hope and gratitude on all Good.

We can be the ones to bring positive prayer and affirmation.

We can be grateful for believing and seeing the outcome we want.

Let us prosper one another.

Be hopeful and grateful .

Betty Lue

The word “Prosperity” comes from the Latin root which translates literally as “according to hope” or to go forward hopefully”.  Therefore we prosper ourselves with our hopeful attitude toward life.

Tuesday, September 29, 2020

Moving Too Fast?

Too much right now?

  • Slow Down.
  • Simplify.
  • Appreciate.
  • Take Care. 
  • Love


I pause and breathe and appreciate the beauty in life.

I forgive myself for missing all the Good there is.

I relinquish focus on what is needed and see all I have now.

I take time to take good care of what really matters.

Moving Too Fast?

Are you moving too fast to enjoy your life?

Did you miss the sunset?

Did you stop to listen?

Are you available to say “thanks”?

When did you stop to notice?

Are you observing the changes?

Do you wish you had stayed longer?

Have you hugged and smiled at your kids?

Do you stop to take a deep breath?

Are you willing to rest when you need?

Do you go to sleep early and wake up refreshed?

Do you value your time and energy and helpfulness?

Do you appreciate your surroundings?

Do you take good care of your environment?

Are you aware of those who appreciate you?

Do you honor you values and ethics everyday?

Are you a conscious caretaker of our earth?

Do you spend and save your money for good purposes?

Are you willing to stop and apologize when you make a mistake?

Do you ask for forgiveness for any unconscious interaction?

Do you take impeccable care of your body?

Are you quick to judge and slow to complement?

Do you honestly love and appreciate yourself?

Are you aware of the blessings in your everyday life?

Sometimes we move too fast to notice.

Sometimes our ‘to do’ list is too long.

Sometime we are focused on what isn’t done.

Sometimes we are too quick to criticize.

Maybe it is time to slow down.

Maybe we can take long deep breaths.

Maybe we can learn to say “Thank you.”

Maybe we can remember to love everyday.

It will save our lives to take our time to be our best.

Give yourself the gift of taking time today.

Loving all of us as we remember to love our selves.

You deserve to take some time for the best you know.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Strategies to Succeed in today’s world:

1) Have routines and schedules. 

2) Clean desk to minimize distractions.

3) Control media and electronic input. (So brains are not bombarded.)

4) Minimize interruptions and turn off notifications on computer/phone.

5) Focus and stay on one task. Don't multi-task switching back & forth.

6) Automate choices to reduces decision fatigue.

Monday, September 28, 2020

What Works?


I believe Love prevails.

I trust in the power of Love.

I have faith that we can heal.

I relinquish doubt and fear and have faith in our future.

What Works?

What helps?

What heals?

What feel good?

What makes life better?

Love works.

Love always works in its many forms.

Try whatever feels best to you.

If you are extending love anywhere to anyone, all will benefit.

What you believe in works.

What you trust and have faith will work.

How you think, speak and activate works.

You are working for you now when you 100% focus.

What interferes is doubt.

What is contrary to our desired outcome interferes.

Where we put on attention and intention will work.

When we trust and believe in what we want, we will succeed.

Consider how to erase doubt and fear.

Understand how to clear what is interfering.

Use your higher thoughts to undo what is in the way.

Allow your thoughts, feelings and behavior to focus on what you desire.

How does “love” work for you?

Love envisions goodness and wholeness.

Love extends gratitude for all good and only good.

Love brings peace and healing to the mind and body.

Love reminds us of our highest choice.

Love releases the anxiety and uncertainty. 

Love has faith in the future.

Love brings peace as our peace to all concerned.

Peace heals minds and bodies.

Peace clears the doubt and fear.

Peace undoes the thoughts of lack, littleness ad limitation.

Peace trusts in what is Good for all.

Faith feels good.

Trust eliminates doubt.

Offering love to others clears the uncertainty.

Remember to love unconditionally, serve from the heart and always remember Goodness prevails.

Loving us all with trust and faith in our future.

Betty Lue

Sunday, September 27, 2020



I give always and only my best.

I share the peace I have within me.

I trust that all things work together for Good.

May my thoughts, words and deeds bring harmony to my world.

Ready for Harmony?

Yes, it is possible to live together in peace.

Yes, you can have harmony in your home.

Yes, two people can have no fighting.

Yes, you can stay in Love.

When you believe in fighting, there will be fighting.

When you expect arguments, there will be arguments.

When you know families don’t get along, you will be correct.

Because what you believe, you will receive and achieve.

What you expect, you will accept.

What you doubt, will come about.

What you endure, you will make sure.

Everything we think will be, we seek to see.

People want to be “right”, and will defend and justify to prove themselves “right”.

Even when they say they want something else, they often create what they expect.

So perhaps it is time for you to undo what you no longer want to be true!

Make a list of what you want to experience in an ideal relationship, home and family.

The work begins with your ideal vision written down and remembered daily.

I choose to have and give my ideal self to create my ideal relationships.

The next step is letting go of every thought, feeling, behavior and memory that interferes.

I gently and respectfully undo and release all that brings negativity into my life.

It is your Peace of mind that brings harmony.

It is your willingness to let go of stubbornness and needing to be right that creates openness.

It is your trust  in letting go of your opinions and advice and listening that brings understanding.

It is your respect for others’ thoughts, feelings, behavior and difference that gives Peace.

Give yourself to Love and Love will come to you.

Honor the call for peace and harmony by being peaceful too!

Trust in the Love and appreciation that guides your way.

Remember always to forgive first and listen for how to respond with Love.

Do what is right and true and Loving.

Don’t wait for them to do the right thing.

You are the One who is the conscious and willing One.

You know the way: JUST DO IT!

See a few reminders below. If you want to receive more, let me know.

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Your peace and harmony are important to your health, happiness and your whole life.

We are the same, you and I.

We are all in this together.

Now is our time to step up.

Let us be willing to respond with  Goodness and Love.

Betty Lue

I continue serving with Creative Solutions counseling and Coaching via Telehealth.

I am here for you!

Saturday, September 26, 2020

Share You Care!


I care about you.

I want you to know you matter to me.

I trust that my caring matters to you.

I know the more we care about each other, the happier we are.

Let Them Know You Care!

Before it is too late……let them know you care!

Have no regrets and let everyone know you care.

Share with you family and let them know you care.

Share with your friends and let them know you care.

Sometimes we forget to let them know.

Sometimes we think it doesn't matter.

Sometime it is too late to let them know.

Sometimes we believe they already know.

There are many in your life over the years.

Many contribute to you significantly.

Sometimes we take them for granted.

But do you know that your caring matters.

Some fear saying “I Love You.”

Some feel vulnerable saying they care.

Some avoid anything emotional.

Some don't want to  share real feelings.

It is important to share what is true.

It makes a different to let others know.

It changes lives to be willing to share.

It is the greatest gift you offer is your caring.

Why not?

Reach out to those in your past.

Speak out loud, “ I miss you” to those departed.

Express what is heartfelt to those around you.

Often and everyday, it is valuable to say the words.

Be open and willing to feel your love and appreciation.

Trust that what you share will make a big difference.

Allow your heart to feel how important each one is.

You begin to understand how important you are.

What you feel for them is what they feel for you

Underneath, in hiding the loving and caring is mutual.

When words are not spoken, there may always be doubt.

It is time to share.

It is important to care.

This is your invitation.

“I love you “and “I know you love me too!”

Caring is our way of remembering why we came together.

Loving You!

Betty Lue

Friday, September 25, 2020

Here We Are


I learn from everything and everyone.

I enjoy what I learn and make the best choices I know.

I trust my life to encourage my greater awareness.

I easily let go of errors and choose what is highest and best.

Here You Are

What do we do?

Do you like where you are?

Are you ready to change course?

Can you make the changes you want?

Only you can make your life be what you want.

Only you can trust what is needed and wanted.

Stop playing innocent victim and ignorant of responsibility.

Start stepping up to the plate and go to bat for yourself.

Consider your situation.

Look at who is around you.

Listen in quiet to what you hear.

Choose the outcome you want.

You can choose again and again.

If you don't like what you have, choose again.

Forgive what you have chosen.

Don't get stuck in judgment.

Remember that your mistakes are learning opportunities.

Remember that only you are master of your destiny.

You have an infinite number of possibilities.

You can explore, experiment, and notice the outcomes.

Sure you can wallow in misery and self pity.

You can find someone or something to blame. 

You can play guilty mistaken fool.

Or you can let go and start all over again.

If you don't like the results of your choices, choose again.

If you stay too long, stop and choose again right now.

If you are afraid of the outcome of change, consider what it means to stay.

If you are looking for a savior, look in the mirror and listen to your heart.

Only you know what is your heart’s desire.

Only you understand how it hurts to be stuck.

Only you can recognize what got you here.

Only you  can release and let go to step away.

Your life is in your hands.

Your love is what inspires you.

Your joy comes from your choices.

Your peace will emerge from you willingness to do what is true for you.

Choose what is best for you.

Loving and trusting us all to learn and grow.

Betty Lue

Assertive People Do: 

   1. Decide what they want.

   2. Decide if it is fair.

   3. Ask for it clearly.

   4. Are not afraid of taking risks.

   5. Are calm and relaxed.

   6. Express feelings openly.

   7. Give and take compliments easily.

   8. Accept and give fair evaluation.


Assertive People Do not: 

   1. Beat about the bush.

   2. Go behind other people's backs.

   3. Bully.

   4. Call people names.

   5. Bottle up their feelings.



 The more I respect myself, the more I respect others.

 The more I respect myself, the more others respect me.

 The more I respect myself, the more others respect themselves.

 Therefore, I choose to respect myself more.