Tuesday, April 30, 2024

We All Know!




I am transparent in thought, word and deed.

I live in integrity with the highest truth in me.

I know and love myself as I truly am.

I hold no secrets and I am free.

Secrets Create Fear.

Who is telling their truth?

Who is being real?

Are you saying and doing what is true for you?

Are you living the truth you feel and know?

There are no secrets when we listen within.

There are no lies in which we can hide.

The truth shows up in what we believe and see.

So why not be who you really are.

Hiding is a way of abiding in the illusion of your life.

Showing your true colors sets you free to fully be.

Letting others get away with deception is strengthening more lies.

Speaking out with clarity and directness, initiates truth-telling for all.

What is hiding underneath the smokescreen?

What is being kept behind closed doors?

What judgments are being shared in secret?

Who is willing to let it all show?

Full disclosure is rare until we feel safe.

Total honesty comes only when we live in integrity.

Transparency is what shows up, when we have nothing to hide.

We can only be fully alive, when we are free to be all that we are.

What is there to hide in your life?

What are you choosing without telling others?

How are you living that makes you want no one to know?

What happens when everyone sees you and your choices fully?

Some learn to hide from punishment.

Some learn to keep secrets from fear.

Some learn to deceive others in shame.

Some simply don’t know how to tell the truth.

What we reveal can heal.

What we hold back becomes toxic.

What we do not clear, we fear.

What we bring into the light, we can make right.

Awareness with non-judgment is healing.

What you see in the light can easily be forgiven.

No need to dump toxic stuff on others.

Let go with forgiveness and blessings.

Clean up your life and be free.

Betty Lue

Truth may hurt, but first it sets you free.

Let go with forgiveness and blessings.

What you reveal is the start of your healing.

Living the truth is a sign of your greatness.

Monday, April 29, 2024

Here To Learn!






Learning is fun, safe and easy for me.

I love to learn from everyone and everything.

Mistakes are opportunities to learn.

I learn easily and quickly 

Here To Learn!

We are here to learn.

School is in session every day.

Those who pay attention, learn.

Those who are unconscious or uncaring keep making the same mistakes.

This is the University of Life.

We can easily learn everything we need to know.

We can quickly correct all mistakes with ease and safety.

We can clear our fear and return to our natural innocent wonder-full Love.

Watch young children.

See how they learn and create.

Notice how they pretend and copy.

Understand what brings them curiosity and wonder.

Begin to observe yourself.

See how you learn and create.

Notice how you pretend and copy.

Understand how you get stuck and lose your curiosity and wonder.

If you are not learning from everyone and everything, you have gone to sleep.

If you are not paying attention to your life and its outcomes, you have been distracted.

If you are distracting, delaying, or detouring others from their learning, stop and pay attention.

Free yourself to imagine, vision and dream again, by forgiving past unhappy learning and mistakes.

You are unlimited in your potential, when you are free and trusting.

You are unlimited in your life of curiosity and wonder, when you are happy.

You are unlimited in your creations of Beauty, Goodness and Joy, when you are in Love.

You are unlimited in your capacity to learn and grow, heal and create what is Good and Whole.

Life is for the living.

Be alive with giving.

Life is for those who are open and willing.

Free yourself of fear and remember to Love.

What are you learning?

Does it inspire or depress you?

What are you doing?

Does it help you or harm you?

How are you living?

Does it encourage you or distract you?

How are your relationships?

Do they fulfill you or discourage you?

Life teaches us to choose.

Choose what is best and you feel your best.

Choose what is worst and you feel your worst.

Learn to choose! 

Loving happy willing learners! 

Betty Lue

Say "YES PLEASE" to what is good for you.

Say “NO THANKS” to what is not good for you

Sunday, April 28, 2024

Where Are You Going?

FYI On my way to Maui to visit my granddaughter for a week.

I will be writing/emailing daily Loving Reminders. 

If you don’t receive, you can read them at LovingReminders.org 

Aloha, Betty Lue





I know what I want and I go for it!

I choose to live my life my way.

I easily release the chains that bind me.

I free myself to be myself.

Where Are You Going?

What are you doing with your life?

What do you think you are doing?

Where do you want to go and do?

Where are you going anyway? 

Why are you allowing your life to run you?

What made you a victim of your circumstances?

How have you allowed yourself to be a slave to others?

How can you set yourself free to be and do and have what you want?

Put a frog into a cool pot of water and slowly turn up the heat,  and the frog will cook to death.

Are you in your own pot of water and is it getting hotter?

Do you see yourself in circumstances that are shutting you down and putting you to sleep?

Are you really living or existing or just surviving?

It is time to set aside the complaining and blaming, existing and surviving.

It is time to wake up and get up and choose what you want to be and do and have.

What will it be today: lethargy and complacency, hiding and pretending?

Let’s get real and see how your inner child feels!

Are you loving you today?

Do you have time to dream and play?

Are you proud of the work you are doing?

Are you happy at the end of the day with all you have created and celebrated?

Healthy meals?

Peaceful conversation?

Cleaning up after yourself?

Making plans for having healthy fun?

Stop procrastinating. 

Start doing what you really want to do.

Stop using those bad habits to cover-up your pain.

Regain your sanity and choose the life you really want.

Make a list of everything you always wanted to do and have never done.

Make a list of everything you always wanted to be and have never been.

Make a list of everything you always wanted to have and have never given yourself.

Speak an affirmation. And set lists aside to percolate in your unconscious for manifestation.

“May everything I want to be, do and have be fulfilled for the Highest Good of all.”

The beginning of your real life is today, the day you choose what is Real for You.

The start of all Good and only Good is the day you realize you are responsible for your life.

The origin of the vision and empowerment is within you to actualize.

The fulfillment of your hopes and dreams come through what you do and say, have and give to you.

Loving us all in living the life we are called to live.

Choose with wisdom and love and you will be happy and fulfilled.

Betty Lue

Saturday, April 27, 2024

Know The Real You!




I forgive any and all the ways I have forsaken my self,

I no longer doubt, fear, judge and limit my self.

I love myself just the way I Am.

I trust and free myself to be all I can be.

Know the Real You!

You are strong.

You are wise.

You are free.

You are whole.

Within you lies everything you have dreamed you could be.

What you see in another is also within you.

The One you seek is the One You Are.

Do not neglect the shining star in you.

Stop comparing and start daring to be the Greatness within.

Stop blaming and complaining and seek what You Can Be.

Stop resenting and begin presenting always and only your Best.

Stop withholding your gifts and step out into the Light.

Letting go of self-made limitations and excuses is our healing work.

All self-judgments are like a weight blocking your emancipation.

All judgmental thoughts create the fear of being judged.

Surrender your fear and doubts and come out of your own closet.

Be courageous and let your heart lead the way.

Be wise and allow your inner guidance to show you how.

Be free and play what you want to be like an innocent child.

Be whole and love all parts of who you seem to be.

Live the Adventure of Life.

Give yourself the. Joy of Living.

Respect your choices however they seem.

Appreciate the chances you take and how much you learn.

We are here to let go of fear.

We are here to discover our limitlessness.

We are here to explore where our guidance takes us.

We are here to undo everything that is untrue.

Listen deeply to what is inside of you.

Respect fearlessly the call for love.

Understand your profound need to forgive you.

Appreciate fully you are here to know and love YOU!

When you give yourself to Love, begin with YOU.

When you desire to be loved, your real need is for You to Love you.

When you feel judged, hated, bullied, or rejected, it is for you to stop judging, hating and bullying you!

Your experience of yourself comes from what you think about you and what you do for you.

Give Yourself to Love!

Betty Lue

 Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves,“Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?”

Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God.

Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that others won’t feel insecure around you.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us.

It is not just in some of us, it is in everyone, and as we let our own light shine

we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear our presence automatically liberates others. 

Marianne Williamson, 1992