Friday, April 30, 2010


In response to the questions below:
Can you expand a little on this age of "entitlement" thing?   
Are all teens spoiled these days?

What are you teaching?
What is the example you set?
How do you show our young people and your children how to live and love and give?
How responsible are you for how you care for your loved ones, your finances, your job and your health?

Do you take for granted you will have a job?
Do you complain about having to work?
Do you handle your money carefully and with respect?
Do you buy what you need rather than what you want?
Do you eat the right foods and appreciate where and how they are grown?
Do you use fuel for car and home wisely?
Do you conserve water, electricity and earth resources you use?
Do you share what you have with others who have need?
Do you use your time wisely and spend it on what inspires and increases your wisdom and well-being?

In family systems our children and teens learn most fro how we live, not from what we say.
When we are modeling all these qualities we want for future generations, they admire and respect us.
When we are preaching, demanding and nagging for improvement, but do not improve ourselves, they do not respect, admire or believe us.

Children observe parents, teachers, employers to see how happy, healthy and successful they are.
In contrast, they observe how sports figures, politicians, music and movie stars live and what they say.
When we can be as happy and fulfilled as those who are glamorized, then we will be admired.
Are we genuinely happy and fulfilled?
Do we take good care of ourselves in obvious and subtle ways?
Are we loved and respected by others?
Do we share our happiness and our prosperity with others with gratitude and joy?

The age of entitlement comes from not seeing people work and enjoy working.
The feelings of getting what you want without giving much in return come from upbringing.
When parents work hard to “give their kids everything”, the children feel entitled to “everything”.
It is the adults (parents, teachers, employers) responsibility to expect and teach the benefits of work.

When our survival was our concern, we work to live.
When our pleasure is our concern, we work to fulfill our desires.
When our wealth is our concern, we focus on getting money.
When improving ourselves and serving humanity is our concern, we spend inner time healing, learning and growing.

We can refocus our children, our community, our workplace and our world, but changing our focus.
We can become responsible for making our bed and using our resources with respect and gratitude.
We can model effective living by letting go of laziness, lethargy, dependency and depression.
We can get up each day with an intention to live the best we know and improve as we grow.

Life is our choice.  How we use all we are given is our choice.
Expect nothing and give everything.
Honor yourself for being willing to DO THE WORK!

Loving all of us as we relinquish our unhealthy habits,
Betty Lue

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Do The Work!

Yes, this is a time when we are being given great energy and opportunities to heal or transmute the past.
This is the time we have the resources, inner and outer, to know great wisdom and creativity.
This is the time we can work together to live in harmony and as one.
This is the time we might celebrate and totally appreciate the richness and power of NOW.

You and I are pioneers.
We are blazing the trail of transformation and unlimited expression.
We are clearing the way of obstacles, objections and obvious resistance.
We have visions of Greatness and making a difference to one and all.

It all sounds good and seems fun, safe and easy………
Now the work must be done.
We need to find a rhythm and momentum each day to  DO THE WORK!
We must have the foresight, courage and willingness to GO FOR IT!

Yes, my life is fun, safe and easy because I DO THE WORK.
Every day in every encounter, I take full responsibility for the experience I have.
I am responsible for what I perceive and how I respond.
I am at choice with what I learn, whom I forgive and what I give.

I know that Awareness with Love is healing.
Therefore I seek full awareness of what is being called forth.
Where am I to go? What am I to do and say? And to Whom?
Asking within for guidance, the path of light and love, trust and freedom is key.

The metaphysics:
Thoughts create.
Forgiveness erases.
Affirmations choose.
Appreciation Increases.

Where there is inner conflict, I will see outer distraction and energy leakage.
Where there is self-doubt, there will be external questions.
Where there are wounds from the past, I imagine I will be hurt again.
Where there is trust, freedom and honoring my inner authority, I succeed.

The work is to clear the fear.
The work is to erase the past.
The work is to celebrate the blessings.
The work is to Love (trust and free) my authentic whole and Holy Self.

When you are lost, confused or afraid, forgive yourself and choose again.
When you are critical and guilty for mistakes you or others have made, forgive and choose again.
When you sit alone, disappointed and depressed, get up and do something you can feel good about.
When you believe you don’t know where to start, start by believing that you know.
When you have made yourself sick or crazy with lack of self love and appreciate, return to love YOU!
Visualize the life experience you want to have for yourself and those you love.
I see clearly a life of Love, Joy and Peace.
Affirm where you want to go and know that you can have what you want.
I am able and willing to have what I want by creating what I want to have.
Think, speak and act as though you know you are succeeding.
I know what I want and I go for it, joyously appreciating every success along the way.
Clear every obstacle with laughter and forgiveness or simply step around them with ease.
No one and nothing can stop me in living a life of contribution and service to myself and all.

In a hole?
Do the work to get out and learn not to fall in again.
In trouble financially?
Go to work and pay your bills.
In difficult relationships?
Forgive your judgments and learn to love and accept others as they are, even if you step away.
In a challenging job?
Appreciate the job and your willingness to do what it takes to pay the bills.
Emotionally drained?
Build yourself up with constant affirmations of love and support, written and spoken.
Confused and alone?
Find people who help you see things differently,  and don’t commiserate and sympathize.
Angry and bitter?
Use emotional and mental energy to create what you want rather than regret what didn’t happen!
Hurt and afraid?
Stop re-injuring yourself by retelling your painful stories.
Soothe yourself with assurance and step out into the light with confidence.

Loving you and me with a vision of setting us free to be whole and true.
Seeking always and only to live an inspired life with appreciation for leading the way.
Truly joyful for each learning and creative opportunity along the way.
Betty Lue

From Louise Hay ©1988

How To Love Yourself
Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.
Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It’s a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.
Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.
Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.
Self hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.
Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.
Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So, lovingly release the old negative patterns.
Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.
Look into your eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror. Forgive them too. At least once a day say: “I love you, I really love you!”
Don’t wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or the new relationship. Begin now, and do the best you can.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

How Do You Respond?

When you experience a negative communication….
How do you respond?
When you feel sick or tired or upset……
How do you respond?
When you are confused, conflicted and lost….
How do you respond?
When you notice incompletion, incompetence and ignorance…..
How do you respond?

you willing to be responsible?
Are you able to be responsible?
Are you able to respond with Love?
Or do you react with lack of Love and respect?

How we respond to an experience is more important than what caused the experience.
How we respond determines the outcome.
How we respond sets the tone for the next encounter.
How we respond either heals or gets us stuck in a negative pattern.
How we respond creates the canvas on which we paint our future experiences.
How we respond gives freedom and trust, healing and growth, to all concerned.

The habitual reaction of problem solvers, therapists, coaches and helpers is usually to understand WHY.
We are often coached by parents and others to analyze why and how did this happen to avoid a repeat.
When we focus on the happening or the experience, we tend to recreate it again and yet again.
When we shift our focus to our response, we improve our resilience and competency in life situations.

Some teach, “Speak up and express your feelings.”
Some say, “Forgive and love again.”
Some say, “Stand up for your rights.”
Some say, “You are a victim and must accept whatever comes.”

There are no “right” ways to respond to the variety of experiences we have.
There is a need to find a way that yields inner peace, completion, honorable closure and true happiness.
There is a benefit by listening within to find the respond where no one loses or feels wrong or shamed.
There is a potential for the blessing of true and lasting healing and growth for all concerned.

How we respond is totally up to us.
How we respond is the gift of freedom to explore and the trust in ourselves to choose.
How we respond is true power for making change in our lives instantly.
How we respond comes from a willingness to do the work to change our perception and our response.

To respond with peace and neutrality, non judgment and a desire to bring peace, we offer healing.
To respond with respect and gratitude opens the door for all to benefit and see things differently.
To respond with acceptance and understanding of differences invites authentic open communication.
To respond with compassion and patience gives us time to see and accept the others involved.
To respond with direction and focus bring clarity and vision.
To respond with passion and caring offers opportunity for teamwork and unity.
To respond with concern and involvement gives relief from separation and competition.
To respond with spiritual connection and guidance opens the way for fulfillment and success.

We are able.
We can be willing.
We are the peacemakers.
We can be powerful healers.

Responding from the heart and Mind that seeks only Good for All,
Betty Lue

Everyone’s ego and personality is like a child who is capable of healing, learning and finding true and lasting happiness and inner peace.

If Children Live With……….
If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with: criticism, hostility, fear, pity, ridicule or jealousy,
They will learn to: condemn, fight, be apprehensive, feel sorry for themselves,
feel shy and feel envy

If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and others.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Truth Be Told

I am not perfect as a personality and human being.
I am perfect in my holiness and spiritual Essence.
My intention is always to do no harm.
Sometimes my thoughts, words and behaviors may have hurt.

I forgive myself for anything I have or will think, say or do which may hurt another.
I forgive myself for anything I might think, say or do that generates more fear, judgment or separation.
I forgive myself for anyways I have taught incorrectly with a misguided or false teaching.
I surrender everything I am and do, everything I think and teach, everything past, present and future to be used for good for All.

I realize that others will project on me their past history to restimulate those unhealed wounds and upsets.
I know that where there is LOVE, there is the opportunity to heal oneself.
I understand that I may be requested (unconsciously) to play parts that are not in my nature.
I accept the responsibility to forgive (erase with Love) everything that is not wholly Good and Loving.

I know my intention is Love, doing God’s Will and being a Healing Presence.
I accept my part in the Divine Plan.
I trust that I will be used as a vehicle for bringing forth all that needs to be healed.
I free myself to be the One Who Loves Me and You and All no matter what.

Sometimes I am perceived as judging.
Sometimes I am perceived as being ruthless.
Sometimes I am perceived as being insensitive.
Sometimes I am perceived as being imperfect.

I may act all these ways in others' perception.
And I forgive myself for believing what others think of me.
I may behave in ways that are not truly representing the Love I Am.
I forgive myself for believing I am bad, wrong, incomplete and inept.

I love myself the way I Am.
I value the ways I demonstrate God’s Love.
I appreciate my willingness to be helpful.
I enjoy my willingness to step out in trust.

I forgive us all for letting anyone or anything harm us.
I forgive us all for believing we are our thoughts, our words or our behaviors.
I forgive us all for allowing others' choices or opinions define us.
I forgive us all for forgetting we are Love ItSelf, Love in Action.

Forgive us all for our ignorance.
Forgive us for not instantly forgiving others' apparent errors.
Forgive us all for remembering what is false and forgetting what is true.
Forgive us all for withholding our Love and forgiveness from anyone.

I am here to be truly helpful.
I am here to represent the Love that sent me.
I don’t have to worry or be cautious about what to say or do, because the Love in me will direct me.
I am content and happy being wherever I am, knowing Love is here with me.
I will remember my Healing and Holiness when I let Love teach me to see only Healing and Holiness.

I am loving you and me and all the best I know with as much awareness I have always with EveryOne.
And this is Good.
Loving me, loving you, loving all of us,
Betty Lue

Monday, April 26, 2010

Freedom and Responsibility

Just returned from Calif. Assn. Marriage and Family Therapists Annual Conference in LA, where I facilitate the 6:30AM Daily Holistic Self Renewal one hour workshop every morning for therapists and interns. We practice a moving meditation called T’ai Chi Chih and the energetic exercises “Waker’s Dozen” from applied Kinesiology and Touch for Health.  I always include inspiration and affirmations to encourage more inner listening and impeccable self care.  It is an uplifting and joyful contribution to those who serve from their heart and share wisdom and helpful guidance with their clients.

I know the need and hear the call.
I am able and willing to respond.
I am free to choose to serve in the ways that are for the Highest Good.
I choose to use my gifts for the Good of All.

I am free and able to respond.
I am responsible and free to choose how I respond.
I am able and willing to be of service.
I receive as I give and am blessed in the giving.

How are you responsible for the world you see?
What do you believe you are called to be and do?
How do your choices benefit and bless you?
In what ways do you see you are blessed by your loving service to others?

The world appears to have need for those who are willing to serve with the gifts we are given.
Our communities and families seem to be calling for those who are able to counsel, heal, teach and serve.
Our institutions are in need of renewal and transformation to better meet the needs of the people.
Our children need respectful, responsible and helpful role models to learn how to be truly helpful.

This is a powerful time to find meaning and purpose in our everyday lives.
We each and all need to have a distinct and meaningful purpose for living.
When we actualize our potential and live our purpose, we freely respond with and for the Good of All.
When we encourage everyone to be fulfilled, we create a world of gratitude, peace and Joy.

Yes, you are free to choose your life path.
Yes, you are free to choose who and how you live.
Yes, you are free to choose how you love and give.
Yes, you are free to be exactly what you choose to be.

You are responsible for being able to respond to whatever comes your way!
You can respond with willingness and wisdom.
You can respond with resentment and suffering.
You can respond with gratitude and  enthusiasm.

It is our choice as to when and where, how and why we respond.
This is the blessing of this life of freedom and responsibility.
I know you join me in appreciating the gift this is
I honor you and me and we in all we do to stay True to our calling.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Building Your Life

What are you building?
Are you stuck in repairing, maintaining, making do or judging and avoiding what you have built?
When we have given up on creating, we begin dying and decaying?
When we stop dreaming, we let the world’s disappointment, despair and suffering in.

Spring is the time for planting seed in your consciousness and inner garden of possibility.
April is the time to vision and step out into the unknown.
Aries is the time for new beginnings, ideas and creative visioning.
Taurus is the time to put our dreams and visions into form.

What are you doing to make your dreams come true?
The most effective thing you can do is to get out of the way……
Step back and let your Love, your enthusiasm, the Good energy in you, lead the way.
Love seeks to express itself.

It is only our self made and learned fear, doubt and worry that holds us back.
What can you do to clear the doubt and worry?
What are you willing to do to stop sabotaging yourself?
What are you open to forgive and release to realize your dreams?

Love is letting go of fear.
Love is being free to go for what you appreciate and value.
Love is trusting the way is clear and your can have what you desire.
Love is full appreciation and open-mindedness as to the details or how, what, where and when.

To Build your new life consciously and easily, begin with a list of qualities you choose.
Light, open, freeing, safe, trusting, beautiful, clean, helpful, supportive, quiet, healing……..
What you can do right now to give yourself more of this in your current home/work?
The beginning is found in letting go of what is not these qualities. Undo what is not light, open, free, etc.

Create the space in your psyche to heal, release, forgive and undo the denial of the Good you seek.
We can dream, but never fully realize our destination when we have the brakes on..
We can vision, but never actualize when the clouds of illusion block the sun in our minds.
We can believe with our words, but never manifest when we do not believe in our worthiness.

God is the energy of YES,
Good is the origin of all life.
God is the gift of going for it.
Good is the joy we feel in the freedom to create.

I love you and all you are and do.
Go for it and find your true unlimited Self.
Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Love is the Answer, whatever the question or concern.
Love yourself and all concerned.
Trust will settle every problem now.
Trust in God and Goodness.
Forgiveness offers everything we want.
Forgive your fears and judgments of the past.
There is nothing to do.
Be content with yourself and know all is well.

Do It Anyway

People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies.  Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you.
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy it all overnight.
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow.
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough.
Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Everything is a reminder for me to remember Love!

Do It and Be Happy Doing It!

These are some lyrics I wrote in 1986.
They still apply to me today.
I am happy doing what I am called to do.
I choose to be happy doing whatever it is I do.

My Doing is Being Happy.
Right now there is much ….happening.
I am in the flow of letting go of thought, judgment and efforting.
Be willing to do it and be happy doing it!

Moved my offices Sunday and created organization and beauty yesterday.
This AM a little Feng Shui and some signs and all will be in order.
All day retreat at our home in Rio Vista on Saturday “Spiritualizing Your Life”
Finding the best way to be and stay inspired and inspiring is the key to be HAPPY!

Tomorrow after a day with the Alameda grandchildren we fly to LA for a 4 day conference.
I facilitate Daily Holistic Renewal and T’ai Chi Chih at 6:30AM every morning.
This is an annual gift to the California Marriage and Family therapists and interns.
It is also where I remind myself what is essential to live the highest and best way.

We continue daily to take impeccable care of our home and finances.
We continue to take good care of our mind, body and spirit.
We give ourselves home-cooked organic vegetarian diet and time in nature.
We give ourselves time for spiritual practice, rest and relaxation.

Classes and clients are Loving Reminders for me.
Teaching is learning and remembering with every thought, word and activity.
My full schedule requires absolute focus with no time for worry or judgment.
My business works only because I am present with each activity without distraction.

Life is a joy because it works for me.
And it works for me because I enjoy it all.

How could you improve the quality of your life?
How can you choose to be happy with everything you do?
How can you let go of fear, worry and guilt?
How can you release distractions, delays, procrastination and judgment?

When my life is observed, it may seem full lots of doing and lots of joy in doing it!
This is the Truth, because I choose to Love my life and all I am and have and  do!

Try it!  You can Love You too!
Betty Lue

Monday, April 19, 2010

Are You Awake?

Do you want to sleep on the job?
Are you lulled into lethargy by lack of stimulation?
Or are you over-stimulated, using numbness and sleep as your defense?
Are you looking for the most comfortable way to live?

Life is fun, safe and easy when I have learned to be happy with what is.
Life is fun, safe and easy when I listen within and follow with full trust.
Life is fun, safe and easy when I let go of making up scary stories and worries.
Life is fun, safe and easy when I free myself of distraction, detours and delays.

Jump in and move through.
Be prepared for the surprises in life by keeping focus.
Clear the fear with instant forgiveness and faith.
Enjoy the ride by expressing fully.
Be peaceful and flow with change.
Immediately forgive any mistakes.
Appreciate everything you value.
Honor all beings and their process.
Heal the past with blessings of kindness.
Respect all life and do no harm.
Pay attention to what you love and what loves you.
Breathe in the Goodness that all ready is.

These are just a few of the reminders to STAY AWAKE!

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

New Reunion Center location: 3496 Buskirk Ave, Pleasant Hill, CA94523

(Only 2 blocks from my former address.) It is beautiful, serene and just right for me!
Robert Waldon, PhD ND and Holly Hand, MFT, RAS  will be sharing the space.  Plenty of room for counseling/coaching practice and all our groups and classes. Loving you and please come and visit.

Reunion Center
3496 Buskirk Ave. Suite #103
Pleasant Hill, CA 94523
My Cell 925-324-2409
800-919-2392 (pager and voicemail)

From the north.
Take 80 west and #680 south from Sacramento.
Take the Monument/Gregory Lane exit after crossing the Benecia bridge.
On the exit, left on Monument (4th lane from left), because you turn immediately right onto Buskirk at the first light.
Follow Buskirk around behind Kohl's, shopping center and Starbucks,
Reunion Center is at the corner of Hookston Rd. and Buskirk Ave.   (3496 Buskirk Ave.)
Parking in the rear.

From the South or West ( Highway #680)

Take the TREAT/Geary exit off #680.
Go straight though the light as you exit.
Stay in the right hand lane to the 2nd light at Buskirk Rd.
Turn left onto Buskirk (the frontage road along the freeway).
Go 3 blocks to Hookston Rd.
Turn right onto Hookston and immediately right into parking lot.
Reunion Center is on the corner of Hookston and Buskirk.
Parking in the rear.
You can call my cell at 925-324-2409 if you get lost....

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Mother Earth

Earth Day is officially April 22, this Thursday!

Do we acknowledge the source of sustenance from which we all benefit?
Do you honor what is given to us everyday as the resource of all life?
Do we give homage to what is ours without expectation or demand?
Do we appreciate and bless what blesses us with air, water, food and resources?

Most natural peoples have a full appreciation and respect for the Goodness of the Mother.
Most farmers are truly aware and appreciate the livelihood they receive from the Earth.
Most children find fascination and joy in playing with the many wonders of nature.
Most naturalists are consumed with the privilege of studying the many miracles of the natural world.

So what is it with the rest of us who live mostly inside our four walls, avoiding too much sun?
What is it with modern culture that artificially consumes Vitamin D and uses sun-tanning skin dyes?
What is it with the need to go faster and stock pile excess and use more than we need of everything?
What is it that causes us to take  for granted the bountiful and beautiful gifts of Mother Earth?

Kill bugs with pesticides.
Fertilize overused soil.
Eat radiated and preserved foods.
Drink chemically enhanced water.
Consume animal products .
Eat fast food with loads of fat and sugar.
Raise livestock and poultry treated poorly.
Pay more for the packaging than to the farmer.
Cut down trees to build homes and towns.
Put into our air and water substances that are toxic.

And still we expect the Source of our Good to bless us with abundant Sunlight and endless resources.

A little gratitude goes a long way……..
Let this week be about showing respect and appreciation for our wondrous resource.
Plant a tree.
Pick up trash.
Abstain from the processed foods you know are not the Best.
Say thank you when you prepare and eat your healthy salad.
Truly see and appreciate the budding flowers and trees.
Drive out to the country and watch the birds and wildlife.
Feel joy and wonder at the play of shadow and light.
Take some pictures of all the beauty that you see.

The more we fully appreciate the Abundant Goodness that already is, the more we have.
The more we appreciate, the more we can see and receive.
The more we appreciate, the more we conserve and use wisely.
The more we appreciate, the more secure and blessed we feel.

And so it is that this week, we can truly appreciate the Blessings of Mother Earth.
We are blessed.
Betty Lue

Chorus of Robert’s Song from many years ago.
We thank you Mother for your Love.
We thank you Father for your Light.
We do receive your Blessings.
And we Love You.

Fun Day at the beach with Grandma and Grandpa

Saturday, April 17, 2010


What keeps you going?
What makes you happy?
What fills you with joy?
What spiritualizes your life?

The work in life is to be fully alive.
The work is to live abundantly.
The work is to clear the way to live with Love in your heart.
The work is to live with appreciation and open-mindedness.

What supports you in being fully alive?
What encourages you to play and create?
What gives you the inspiration to live to the fullest?
What inspires you to give freely unconditionally from your heart?

This is how you are inspired.
Everyday in every way fill yourself spiritually.
Everyday in every moment receive inspiration from All That Is.
Everyday in every choice, allow yourself to be grateful.

Being Special comes from loving ourselves especially well.
Specialness is found not in another relationship, but with Love for yourself.
Being Loved the way you want comes only from loving yourself in the ways that are Best for you.
Being Loving is found in living in Love and giving with Joy to all you encounter and all you do.

How can you not be inspired by a life that is inspiring?
How can you not enjoy each moment when your life is filled with inspiration?
How can you get lost when you let the lightheartedness of joy and gratitude lead?
How can you not feel fulfilled when you fill yourself with the Love of doing Good?

Life is meant to be enjoyed.
Are you enjoying the life you are giving yourself?
Do you reach for the sun?
Do you enjoy the flowers blossoming in the spring?
Do you love to see a baby laugh and coo?
Do you remember to bless your food and all those who brought it to your table?
Do you give yourself permission to do what you really want at least an hour each day?
Do you look and in the mirror and like what you see?
Do you value what you have and treat your life with respect?
Do you remember to thank everyone who serves you and helps you?
Do you interact with your family and friends with open love and appreciation?
Do you sing whenever you feel like singing and dance with the wind and life’s changing winds?
Do you love You with a Love that is True always?

I do!
Betty Lue is always Loving You and Me and All!

Friday, April 16, 2010

Loving You

“Loving You”
This is my customary salutation …. because it is True for me.

I love You.
I love the Essence of You, the Authentic You.

I trust you in your life journey.
I trust you to learn and heal and grow.

I know you change attitude, emotions, awareness, life history, seasons and experiences.
I know you are an ever-changing energetic being who is always evolving.

I free you to be the best you can be in each moment.
I free you from pleasing me.

I encourage you to please yourself.
I encourage you to fully support your purpose in Being.

I celebrate with you your successes.
I celebrate all the learning and growth, service and contribution you are choosing.

I forgive and erase with love any and all mistakes.
I forgive and release our forgetting to be grateful.

I believe in you and your inner peace and possibilities.
I believe you can do whatever you choose with vision and determination.

I perceive you as empowered with the vision of your inner Light.
I perceive you healed, whole and holy, living your Truth.

I respect you for being willing to “go for it”.
I respect the Goodness that you live and give.

I honor the Goodness, Beauty and Love within you.
I honor the creative expressions of Love that you give to our world.

I thank you for being in my life, now and always.
I thank you for Being on this sacred journey with me.

I remember we are all Love expressing ItSelf.
I remember we are all in this together, all One.

I bless you for being the Love You Are.
I bless your life for showing the Way Home.

Loving you,  

Betty Lue

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Give Where It Counts

From the Tao Te Ching
“The way of man is taking from those who lack and giving to those who abound.
The way of Heaven is taking from those who abound and giving to those who Lack.”

If you are lacking, receive from Heavenly Sources.
If you are abundant, give to those who are ready for the blessing.

To pour our energies into getting more has little real lasting reward.
To invest resources and energy on those who truly benefit is a great blessing for all.

Life is a flow of giving and receiving.
To slow the flow with fear and judgment limits what is natural.
To open the flow with freedom and trust allows abundant Goodness.
Give with gratitude and joy and you will receive gratitude and joy in the giving.

To have All, give All To All.
This refers to true giving of Love and Peace, Joy and Freedom, Enlightenment and Vision.
Money provides a temporary experience of comfort, security, food and shelter.
Lasting comfort and security, resting in Eternal Goodness that already is and comes from within.

Consider using your worldly treasures to provide a place of undistracted Peace wherein you can live.
Consider letting the world be your laboratory in which you experiment with how to live at Peace.
Consider allowing the playground of your life to be a place to practice, giving and receiving.
Consider removing all obstacles, fears and doubts to fully being the Love You Are.

April 15 is Tax Day.
How do you tax yourself?
How do you use you self-made taxation? ( “I have to pay for…….:
Are you respectful of all your resources using them for the highest Good?
Have you considered giving a portion of everything you receive to benefit others?

We must learn what we “earn” is our “earnest money”, our investment in the Good we seek in our lives.
We can invest in creating a world around us that supports our highest vision for everyone.
We can build a future for ourselves, our families, our communities and our world that benefits all.
We can share what we have for the Greater Good without losing anything and gaining everything.

Seek within to receive what you have with full gratitude.
See all around you the benefits of the Love You Are.
Enjoy the dividends of your investment in your own Goodness.
Give attention to that which blesses you and blessings will abound.

Whenever I am given the opportunity to give, I ask within : “What is the best way I can love and serve?”
When I have more than enough of anything (wisdom, love, money, ideas), I ask “How can I share this?”
When I share and give, I always receive again that which I have given.
When I am respectful and grateful for what is given and received, I amplify its value and benefit.

And so it is, that I commend you for your true giving nature.
For it is in giving that you receive.

Life is for giving.
You are the Gift.
It is in giving that you realize the gift you are and the blessings you have bestowed.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

All Good

Everything Good comes from Good and must return to the Goodness from which it comes.
All Abundance comes from the Universal Abundance Account of Good It Self.
Use it only for Goodness Sake and you will increase your Abundant Flow of Good.
The work is to not divert, block or misuse the Good we receive, as it flows to us and through us.

What does this mean in practical terms?
How does one apply these rather spiritual statements?
How do you receive all Good and only Good?
How can you let go of the past and open the flow to Peace and Prosperity Now?

The process of life is to undo what is not true.
What we believe we will perceive.
If you believe your supply is limited, that is what you will generate.
Believe you wholeheartedly deserve and are grateful for the Good that is yours.

Forgive, erase, clear, undo, release the past, yours and your family systems.
Clear your mind of what you judge to be limiting, lacking and belittling.
Erase what scares and contracts you with fear, so that you can feel loved and open to Infinite Love.
See your inheritance as from The Infinite Unlimited Supply rather than from the limitations of humanity.

To celebrate and appreciate is to increase, invite, enjoy and honor the Good available to All.
To be thankful and to respect what your receive everyday (air, water, earth, food, shelter) is honorable.
To utilize everything for Goodness Sake is to be a conscious and respectful steward of what you have.
When we deny, denigrate, defile or waste the Good that is given, the supply diminishes in our disrespect.

Prepare and eat and bless the food on your table.
Be grateful for the home you live in, the transportation you use, the bed you sleep on, the air you breathe.
Live in gratitude and enjoyment of what you have with respect for its value and you will have more.
Life in judgment, fear and ignoring the blessings you have and they may diminish.

What you value, give attention to increases.
If your intention is on what you don’t have, that too will increase.
To the degree we are focused on Good and only Good, we experience more Good and Only Good.
When we are focused with thoughts and words on bad luck and lack, we experience more of the same.

The white board of our mind is ours to clear.
The inner creative computer can access paths to fulfillment or paths to disaster.
We are at the controls and can choose to clear the fear and choose again for supply.
We are capable of undoing the limiting conceptions and perceptions and creating anew.

Affirmations (to be written and spoken or chanted 20 + times daily, until you clear limiting beliefs)
I know I am Good and I live and give the Highest Good.
Today I fully open to receive All Good and Only Good.
Everyday I choose to use the Good I receive to be used and given for the Sake of the Highest Good.
I am willing to be a channel and a messenger of Good for All, including myself.

Loving You,
Betty Lue

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Parenting and Other Attachments

Written mostly in response to concerns of a mother of older teen.
It also applies to most special “love” relationships.

Attachment is the source of all suffering and disappointment.
Emancipation can be painful when a parent (person) clings or is needy.
Freedom is our natural state.
When we deny freedom to ourselves or others, we are inter-fearing in their flow.

Ask yourself whether you can trust your parenting (relationship) skills.
Ask yourself what you were doing as a teen and throughout your life
Are you projecting your judgments of your choices and behaviors onto others?
How does your past behavior generate your thoughts about your loved ones?
How is your parenting alike or different than your parents?
Most important, ask the loved one what he/she wants her relationship to be with you?.
Ask your loved one what he/she believes they are ready to be responsible for?

Love is freedom, and trust....
Freedom to make choices.  ( For a young child, “Do you want milk or juice to drink?”
For older teen “What time is appropriate for you to be home?”

“Do you see this as the best choice for you?”
For older person, “ What is the best choice you can make in this circumstance?”

Fear is restriction and doubting.
Do you love and want the best for the loved one or are you afraid for him/her?
Trust frees the other to make choices and learn from their choices.
This does not prevent you from giving more information, as does a consultant.

Most of us know the answers to all our questions, when we calm our emotions and are at peace.
We may ask others for agreement on how to let go and emancipate ourselves and others.
We need to forgive our judgments of our own “mistakes” to allow others to make their own.
I trust you have modeled for others how to correct mistakes along the way and to learn from everything.

Most of us are teaching our loved ones what we expect from them (fear might happen).
People often fulfill our fears because we have taught them falsely.
We can teach our loved ones by example to be responsible, to trust themselves and to choose wisely.
We can model trust and freeing ourselves to learn by making our own choices and always learning.

Know I love you and trust in your Love.
I do not trust in fear and self doubt.
I trust in the Truth in you as God and Good for everyone and everything.
“I easily let go and free others to be the best they choose to be.”

Loving you,  

Betty Lue

¤      I love you      ¤
and I know you love me too.

The freedom for you and I to be who we are.
The freedom to live life as we do.
The freedom to make mistakes and learn from them.
The freedom to express our own truth as we see it.

The trust that there is a constant flow of love,
no matter what.
The trust that, in spite of life’s problems,
we believe in and support each other’s right
to live as we choose.
The trust that in adversity,
there is healing and learning and gifts of love.
The trust that under conflict and emotional expression,
there is love

I love you and I trust you.
I free you to be all you are.

Betty Lue 1978

Monday, April 12, 2010

Love Your Self Well

When you love and appreciate yourself fully, you easily love and appreciate others.
When you trust and respect yourself consistently, you naturally trust and respect others.
When your free yourself from seeking others' approval, you free others from needing your approval.
When you give yourself the best, you seek the best for others.

What is best for you is best for others.
When you truly give yourself the highest and best, you model impeccable self care.
When you treat your mind, body and spirit with respect, you show others the benefits.
When you choose what supports the Best in you, you contribute your Best to your world.

Do not harm yourself.
Your life is a precious and sacred gift, so do no harm to the gift of your life.
Stop all habits that are destructive or interfere with living your highest potential.
Give up ways you have polluted your mind and body with negative images, substances or experiences.

Honor your inner Truth.
Know the principle, values and mission which you are living.
Be prepared to live your Truth in the face of adversity or cultural differences.
Consistently speak, demonstrate and teach integrity by both your private and public life.

Be kind to yourself.
Instantly forgive all mistakes, past, present and future.
Spend no time in self pity or self hatred.
Think of and speak of yourself with appreciation, positive regard and kindness.

Give yourself opportunities to play and enjoy life.
Play in the dirt, run free on the beach, laugh at yourself and enjoy the gift of nature.
Establish a balanced schedule of work and play, creativity and rest.
Take pause simply to breathe in all the Goodness and Beauty around you.

Create your life to fulfill you with love, support and appreciation.
Trust your inner voice and the choices you make.
Free yourself to explore the unknown by taking adventures into the joy of wonder.
Celebrate your vision by  attracting like-minded folks who say YES to You.

This is Your Life.
Why not Love it into being just right for you?
Why not let go of those thoughts, people and experiences that no longer serve you?
Why not seek the gift and blessing in all things, since you are still learning and growing?

Be willing to Love you.
This is a gift you are giving to you for all of us.
We thank You.
Betty Lue

From Louise Hay ©1988

How To Love Yourself
Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.
Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It’s a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.
Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.
Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.
Self hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.
Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.
Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So, lovingly release the old negative patterns.
Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.
Look into your eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror. Forgive them too. At least once a day say: “I love you, I really love you!”
Don’t wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or the new relationship. Begin now, and do the best you can.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

25th Anniversary

 Yes. 25 years ago Robert and I answered “Yes” to “Will You Wed with Me in Christ?”
We did not know each other personally and really didn’t understand what that question would mean.
This was a Spirit-Guided Union, and I often say Robert was God Sent. Our relationship from the beginning has been very unique, always with utmost respect for one another and always with the intention of supporting the highest and best for each other. We have given our lives to Loving Service for the Good of All and so our relationship has been truly Spirit-guided and directed to Service.

Our story is simple. In 1985, I asked within to learn why I saw so many people fear Love, the deep abiding and steadfast Love, that seemed always to be in my heart and mind. Within two months Robert and his business partner came into my life as financial consultants and then as a volunteer business consultant for my then Pathways Center for Counseling, Healing and Growth. Shortly thereafter without ever having a prior personal conversation or interaction, I found myself asking that question to Robert, imagining that I was asking for spiritual partnership.  Neither of us realized that this would mean spiritual union, a worldly marriage and  lifetime of commitment to service together.

We continue to be blessed with many opportunities.  We have been guided to use all our financial resources, our talents and training to serve.  We have initiated 12 non-profit holistic centers and retreats in five states over the last 25 years, and have worked with thousands of holistic practitioners, ministers, therapists and clients  with trainings, retreats, workshops, and our holistic educational programs and individual services.  Our lives are rich with loving unconditionally, giving everything from the heart, and always remembering God and the intrinsic Goodness in all creation.

We continue to be creative and delighted in the new ways we can love and serve our grandchildren and families, the communities around us both at the Unity Church and Center for Inspired Living in Brentwood and our new Reunion Center in Pleasant Hill. There is no limit to what the Spirit in us can do with Love and Joy in us.  We live very simple lives personally and stay open to be “on call for God and for doing Good.”

I cannot imagine a more respectful supportive, generous and loving partner than Robert.  He will always be my best friend and confidante, my sounding board and co-creator.  Robert is an extraordinary man in the many ways in lives his mission to “ teach, model and inspire Spirit-guided Living”. Together we are happy and inspired to continue always giving our very best to inspire, encourage and facilitate the Highest Potential in everyone we encounter.

We love being Love in our world,
Betty Lue

The Gift You Are


You are the gift.
In your healing, I am healed.
In your smiling, I find joy.
In your learning, I am filled with wisdom.
In your free expressions, I am empowered.
In your abundance, I too prosper.
In your spontaneity, I am set free.
In your joy, I know heaven.

And so it is that you give your Self to me
And I receive you with love and gratitude.
I am the gift I give to You
And I fully receive the gift I freely give.

As I know You, I know my Self.
As I give to you, I receive all good.
As I support you, I am supported by the Universe.
As I honor and respect you, I experience gratitude in all my being.
As I love you, I am loving all of God's creation.

I know you and believe in you.
I honor, respect and support you in being.
In you and me is all the Universe.
We are gifts to one another.

       - Betty Lue

Friday, April 09, 2010

Being Truly Helpful

Is it helpful to let someone lie, cheat or steal?
Is it helpful to let someone do harm?
Is it helpful to help someone continue hurting themselves?
Is it helpful to let someone be disrespectful to you?

No, we know this is not good for the other or for ourselves.
How often do caregivers and co-dependents avoid confrontation?
How much do the over givers keep on giving hoping the other will change?
How often do the pleasers and “nice” guys try never to be angry or confront someone with boundaries?

When we imagine others have similar values and attitudes, we make up they will respond as we would.
When we are afraid being assertive will cause others to attack us, we may avoid setting rules.
When we believe others do no behave appropriately because they don’t have enough love, we may try to make up for their past.
When we are unwilling to see what the other is telling us with their behavior, we cannot respond appropriately.

Trust what you see from another is their current state of mind, belief, ability and choice.                                                              
Trust that what others tell you is what they believe is best to say or do to get their needs met.
Trust others, who have not met their own needs (safety, security, belonging and achievement), cannot be expected to meet ours.
Trust when you are trying to help someone, you must first know if they want help and what help they are seek.

When you give help to anyone, they will either value it or devalue it according to your implied interpersonal contract.
If you give help as a handout, it will be valued differently than when you help someone as an exchange.
If you reach out with help, value the one in need, the help given and yourself equally.
Remember that everyone is equally important, so make sure you help without sacrifice to yourself.

Being truly helpful requires great care and attention to the response of the recipient.
Being truly helpful asks us to look at our intention in giving the help.
Being truly helpful suggests that we have assesses the other is really in need or even helpless.
Being truly helpful demands that we listen to the other and within to ourselves to know what is best.

Strengthen the strong by appreciating and valuing their ability.
Strengthen the weakened by encouraging them to learn to be strong and capable.
Strengthen yourself by valuing and appreciating your ability and willingness to give.
Strengthen yourself by knowing how and when and with whom to be truly helpful.

Offer help without judgment, attachment or conditions,
How may I help you?:
Respect the answer you receive.
Appreciate and receive all you give.

Loving you in letting go of co-dependence and modeling independence and self-actualization,
Betty Lue

Thursday, April 08, 2010

Effectiveness in Asking for Help

Complaining seems like you are powerless and no one can really be helpful.
Whining seems like a childish way to get attention.
Criticizing seems like you know what is best and what is right.
Pleading seems like you are desperate to get the help that hasn’t come.

Requesting help sounds like you know what you want and how to ask for it.
Thanking another for the help they will be giving sounds like trusting and appreciating.
Praying someone will help you sounds like counting on others to know what and how to help.
Being clear about what you want and requesting it sounds like being responsible for yourself.

When we feel needy (sick, unprepared, incompetent, unknowing, impoverished, we need help.
We usually return to the habits of our childhood that seemed to work then.
We often assume others will respond as they did when we were dependent on our caregivers.
We rarely take into consideration the willingness, knowledge, skill and current state of others.

To be effective in asking for help, we need to first be in touch with our own state of mind and body.
To be effective in getting the help we really need, we need to be clear and wise in our choices.
To be effective we need to consider the needs of the other with the best timing and manner of request.
To be effective we need to be prepared to request exactly what we want allowing for other’s opinions.
To be effective we need to be willing to be grateful for any help we receive.

I feel scared and I want reassurance, and I am willing to ask if you can give me what I am asking.
I feel sick and I want help in feeling better, and I am asking if you have the ability to be helpful.
I feel ignorant and I want information, and I am willing to keep asking the questions.
I feel needy and I want comfort, and I am willing to comfort myself with love and peace.

What we need to be effective is to be clear about who we are asking, about why we are asking and what we are asking for.  When we are consumed with our own circumstance, we may forget  about our clarity, our request and the current state of the one from whom we request help.  Let us be open to hearing “no” and respecting the other’s needs with love and appreciation. Let us honor ourselves by not requesting from one who is incapable or unwilling.  Let us love ourselves well by asking for what we want from those who are capable and willing.  And always to respond, before, during and after with total appreciation, receiving the blessing with Love.

Loving us all in becoming more effective, 

Betty Lue

Wednesday, April 07, 2010


What’s New?
location and new address and new name! April 20 opening.
We will be moving from Center for Conscious Living at 140 Mayhew in Pleasant Hill.
To 3496 Buskirk Ave., Suite 103, Pleasant Hill, CA 94523.
Our new space will be called Reunion Center. (returning to our original name from 1977).

Holly Hand, MFT, Robert Waldon, PhD, ND and others will be joining me in our new Center.
We will have a waiting room, counseling/coaching room plus group room all on ground floor.
Parking in the rear of the building on the corner of Buskirk Ave and Hookston Rd.
This is a joyful move, in a beautiful setting  which will offer us more freedom!

Smile at our ever changing and inspiring life choices.
Betty Lue

On Wednesdays we usually are with our grandchildren in Alameda for the day with clients and class in the evening. Today the children are on spring break and with their Mom and on play-dates with friends.
Today several clients cancelled and no class, so I am at my home office with plenty to do. People are calling for correspondence, responding with love to one another via writing.  A dear friend from Indiana called early this AM for some spiritual direction and another Minister of Reunion from MI emailed for help with a change of lifestyle and re-direction of service.  Here I am completing my Loving Reminders afternoon, because my open and willing life brings change.  I welcome the diversity and opportunity to see what comes next.
Life is good when I am open and willing for the Good that is coming my way.

Wherever there is space, it is filled with Love.
Wherever there is opening, there is room for new growth, new possibilities of service and creativity.
Change opens the way to renewed activity of God and Goodness, when we make room.
Change must allow for the organic natural creations of inspiration, gratitude and joy.

When we fill our minds with fear, doubt, distrust, regret, guilt and uncertainty, change is fearful.
When we fill our minds with love, confidence, trust, gratitude and forgiveness, change is exciting.

These are powerful affirmations supporting change.
Everything works together for Good.
Everything always works more exquisitely than I can plan.
We are always in the right place at the right time doing the right thing for the right reasons.
I trust God and Goodness in all things.

Spring is a time to plow under the old and be with the new.
Be not conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.
Where we are hanging onto the old, there is no room for change, renewal and transformation.
What is coming is unknown and where we fear the unknown we cling to the known.

Breathing opens my mind.
Loving opens my heart.
Inspiration opens my voice.
Loving Kindness opens my hands.

I love to be open.
The openness is an ever-renewing and vitalizing spirit of life.
The openness allows me to learn and teach in expansive and exciting way.
The openness is a gift of joy, gratitude and appreciation to me and for my life.

Are you willing to let go of being closed and constricted?  To let go of doubt and fear?
Are you willing to open your mind?
Are you willing to open your heart?
Are you willing to open your voice?
Are you willing to be open to the Good works you are here to fulfill?

Let’s see what comes when we release the past and stay open and willing for the future.
Betty Lue

Tuesday, April 06, 2010

Do No Harm

Do not harm yourself or others.
Do not speak about others in unkind ways.
Do not imagine or wish harm to anyone.
Do not harm yourself with guilt, self pity or neglect.

When we are content, in love and happy with ourselves, no one and nothing will hurt our feelings.
When we are at peace, with no guilt, shame, regret or resentment, no harm will come to us.
When we are full of the light and love of the good within us, we do not take on the pain of others.
When we are extending love, appreciation and open-mindedness, we see only the need to give Love.

When we are upset by something or someone, it shows us where we have a wound in the past.
When we are afraid of someone or something, it is a printour of where we do not Trust.
When we are angered and resentful, it tells us we have been hurt and are afraid of more pain.
When we are sad and filled with regret, it reminds us we have forgotten to fill each moment with Love.

Love is the answer… everything that confronts us.
Love is healing.
Love is helpful.
Love offers gratitude to everyone, including ourselves.

Trust will settle every problem now.
Doubt comes from fear and distrust of ourselves and our world.
Trust engenders the willingness to listen within to the place of certainty in power and peace.
Trust begins the process of surrendering to the Voice that responds to all things with healing Love.

Forgiveness offers everything we want.
When we hold our limitations, mistakes, unconsciousness and belief in lack in our minds, we rechoose experiences that are painful and feel dramatic and lack in love and joy and peace.
When we erase all that we have falsely learned and leave only love and light in our minds, we can choose again for the beauty and goodness, abundance and kindness we deserve.
When we are willing to undo the untruth and reclaim the Higher Truth within, we begin the journey to a life of perfect Trust in the Love within.

Life is meant to be a place of healing, learning and growth in spiritual consciousness.
Life is a perfect reflection of the unhealed and stormy places within our past, calling for love.
Life offers us a gathering of souls calling forth the best we can remember to be given freely.
Life is a co-creation designed by the Higher Us to awaken us to live our Holy Purpose.

So today let us recommit to do no harm.
Let us remember to stop hurting ourselves with unkind or critical thoughts or words.
Let us stop behaving in ways that are not beneficial, inspiring and for our Highest Good.
Let us give ourselves the very Best we know with thoughts, words and activities.

The more we benefit and bless ourselves, the more we bless and benefit others.
And so it is.
I am loving you and me as One,
Betty Lue

Throughout this toilsome world, alas!
Once and only once I pass;
 If a kindness I may show,
 If a good deed I may do
 To a suffering fellow man,
 Let me do it while I can.
No delay, for it is plain
 I shall not pass this way again.  

Monday, April 05, 2010


Tonight I begin a Miracles and Master Mind group at Unity Center for Inspired Living. (See description below.)
I am combining two new thought processes to expand and integrate what is essentially the same.
Having been a student of the Course in Miracles since 1976, I am aware of its everlasting value.
I have worked with the workbook lessons through at least 17 years.
Each time I teach, facilitate and lead a Miracles group, I am delighted and deepened in my realizations.

Like Life, the Course in Miracles invites us to awaken to our true identity and live trusting God within.

As I was awakening, I heard from within.
Love is the answer, whatever the question.
Trust will solve every problem now.
Forgiveness gives us everything we want.
There is nothing to do.

So simple and clear.
So obvious and real.
So powerful and all-encompassing.
And still our ego seeks answers, defenses, compromise and riches busily doing more and getting more.

How can we change our minds and awaken to see, hear, feel and know the simple truth is within?
When we are ready, we will find a teacher or a teaching which will resonate with our quest.
When we are willing to let go, we will allow Higher Power to lead the way to Peace.
When we love and trust and respect the Goodness within, we will accept all the Good available to us.

The quest is erasing all doubts and fears and years of trying, to allow the Truth of Our Identity and Love be revealed and remembered.
We are the Ones we seek, the Love we long for and the respect we deserve.
We are the Ones who can offer us peace and open the door to heaven here and now.
We are the Ones who can know what is Good and Whole and Loving.
We are the Ones………

The miracles of life all come from Love.
Everything that comes from Love is a miracle.
When we are in Love, everything is a miracle.
Love is the answer and Gratitude leads the way.

Are you ready for a life of Love?
Are you willing to be the One?
Are you open to listening within for guidance?
Are you trusting in the goodness within You?

I am loving and celebrating the One We Are,
Betty Lue

New  Six week April-May Class

Miracles and Master Mind Class
With Betty Lue

·   Undo lack, limitation and littleness.
·   Recognize the blocks used to sabotage, confuse and delude you.
·   Release habits, patterns and addictions interfering with your peace.
·   Focus your energy on what is truly yours to do and have and be.
·   Free yourself from distractions, detours, delays and denial.

Practice the art of Inner Listening.
Heal the past with Forgiveness.
Find freedom from fear.
Be Grateful for what is.
Return to Enthusiasm.

Remember, the blessings already are.
Enlightenment is merely uncovering our eyes.
Manifestation is saying 100% YES to what has value.

 Six Monday evenings, 7-8:30PM  Will continue if interest.
Where? Unity Center for Inspired Living
             50 Sand Creek Rd, Suite 140, Brentwood, CA 94513
How Much? Contribution from the heart is appreciated!
Leave a message to register.

What you have and give amplifies your gratitude and joy.”

Sunday, April 04, 2010

Perception Is Key

What we perceive will depress us or inspire us.
What we believe will wound us or heal us.
What we teach will either curse us or bless us.
What we give will either deplete us or prosper us.

Forgive everyone for ignorance.
Give your best to the very end.
Trust there is purpose in everything.
Forgive and pray for those who hurt you.

This is the time for us to be the Ones who are willing to see and believe differently.
We are the willing Ones who can step out and speak up for a better way.
We can forgive those who see only a limited view and expand our vision to include all with Love.
We can free ourselves and others by opening our heart with forgiveness for all as a blessing to ourselves.

Easter is a time of renewal and rebirth.
Easter is a symbol of resurrection and eternal life.
Easter offers us the opportunity to choose again.
Easter frees us from guilt, blame and fear.

Let go of your learned images and beliefs about Easter and Resurrection.
Listen within and write down what you hear and know and feel.
We are making our images real with our thoughts and words.
We are now able to heal the separation, the fears, the unforgiveness.

Let us perceive things differently.
Let us join with every faith and creed, every people and culture…
Let us seek above all to encourage everyone to step out of darkness and prejudice into the Light.
Let us behold the better way of living where everyone is our neighbor, our family and friend.

We are all co-creators of heaven or hell.
We are all sounding the alarm to join or to fight.
We are all singing songs of rejoice or despair.
Let us lift to the Highest Heights and do what is right and fair for all.

Our children and grandchildren inherit our misunderstanding and mistakes.
Their future is in our forgiveness of all debts and painful history right now.
Our willingness to begin again with a new canvas to create a new vision starts in our minds.
Together we can rewrite history and begin a new chapter with Love at the core.

Listen to the Heart of God in You.
Trust your inner voice.
Do whatever you can do.
Extend Peace to everyone.

Begin with Peace within.
Create Love all around you.
Express Happiness with whatever you do.
Enjoy the Love and Light shining in You.

Happy Easter time or rebirth, remembering and renewal.
Betty Lue
“Be not conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.”

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
No disease that enough love will not heal;
No door that enough love will not open;
No gulf that enough love will not bridge;
No wall that enough love will not throw down;
No sin that enough love will not redeem.

 It makes no difference
  how deeply seated may be the trouble,
How hopeless the outlook,
How muddled the tangle,
How great the mistake.
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

 If only you could love enough, you would be the happiest
and most powerful being in the world.

Emmet Fox

Saturday, April 03, 2010

Living On Purpose

How can you tell when you are living your purpose?
Those who live on purpose are at peace.
Those who live on purpose are happy and content.
Those who live on purpose feel good about what they are doing.
Those who live on purpose feel fulfilled in their lives.

Being on purpose is not seeking to achieve something more.
Being on purpose is allowing your inner spirit to lead the way.
Being on purpose is loving being alive and giving with joy.
Being on purpose is living in a way that you could for the rest of your life.

Some would say on the spiritual or inspirational path….
Peace is our single goal.
The aim of all our living here.
The end we seek,
Our Purpose, our Function and our Life. (from ACIM)

The Peace I speak is the Piece of Good You Are here to be and do and give and have.
The Piece of Good You Are to be is allowing all your Goodness to shine through everything your think and say and do!
Our Purpose is very simple and very clear.
It is to be what we are here to be, in whatever calling, worldly career or profession we have.

We are created by Love as Loving
We are created by Joy as Joyful.
We are created by Power as Powerful.
We are created by Peace as Peaceful.

When you are fearful, you are not on purpose.
When you are angry, you are off purpose.
When you are upset, you have lost your way.
When you are conflicted, you have forgotten.

Life is simple and clear.
We are here to find our path, stay on purpose and demonstrate the Powerful, Peaceful, Joyful and Loving Beings we are created to be.
When we find this place, just right, we are to own and honor, respect and value ourselves and our way.

Living on purpose invites us to be grateful
Living on purpose encourages us to stay focused.
Living on purpose requires us to be conscious.
Living on purpose shows us how to love ourselves well.

I am loving you in living on purpose everyday in everyway with everyone, including yourself!
Wake up and be grateful for the beauty of being alive!
Betty Lue

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Friday, April 02, 2010

Do You Know What You Are Doing?

Off to be with Petaluma Grand children, so this will be shorter this AM.

Do you know what you are doing?
If not, forgive yourself  and the experience with respect instantly.
Choose again for the healing, helpful and holy purpose you really want!
All can be reversed in time and space, when you release your negative or positive attachment.
Our Judgment holds the emotion and situation in place.

To let our emotional reactions lead our choices is folly.
Fear begets fear.
Attack begets attack.
Resentment encourages resentment.
Being in conflict internally sets up outer conflict and arguing.

Life is quite simple.
If you don’t know what you are doing, you will make mistakes.
If you are wise and loving in your choices, you will experience wisdom and love.
If you are emotionally reactive without rational thought, you will reap emotional reactions.
If you stop and quiet your mind and listen within to your place of knowing, you will know what is best.

To become sane when we are having a crazy emotional reaction, ask yourself sensible questions.
Do I want peace instead of this?
Do I prefer to be helpful or hurtful?
Do I want to extend love and healing or fear and uncertainty?
Am I willing to have a clear purpose to all my interactions and choices?

Our culture continues to teach us that emotions are real and trustworthy.
Our culture demonstrates to our youth that getting violent and being out of control is expected.
Our family systems show us that divorce and abuse are the standard when people do not agree.
Our media gives us pictures of war, yelling and disrespectful conduct are today’s accepted standard.

Let us stop and examine our own behavior.
We are modeling what we want out world to be.
Is it not time we take full responsibility for our choices in dress, language, work habits and relationships?
We are the ones creating the experiences we are giving the next generation and we can choose better!

I take full responsibility for expressing only love in all my relationships.
I am willing to forgive and heal any place in myself that I am not totally loving.
I am open to be the one to heal the past and choose again for the best I know right now.
I am content to extend peace and give love and wisdom to those who I encounter.

I am willing to be conscious and know my intention and spiritual goals in all my interactions.

Loving you and me in waking up!
Betty Lue

From Louise Hay ©1988

How To Love Yourself
Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.
Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It’s a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.
Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.
Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.
Self hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.
Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.
Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So, lovingly release the old negative patterns.
Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.
Look into your eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror. Forgive them too. At least once a day say: “I love you, I really love you!”
Don’t wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or the new relationship. Begin now, and do the best you can.