Where Are You?

Affirmations: 

Today truly is the first day of my life.

I challenge myself to dream again.

I remind myself there are many parts of my journey to attend to.

I do my best with everything I think, say and do.

Begin Where You Are

To go anywhere, you need to know where you are.

To go to where you want to go, you must know your starting point.

To achieve what you want, you need to know what you know and know what you want to achieve.

Start where you are.

What is your starting point?

How much energy and education do you have?

How much time and money do you have?

What are your current debts, responsibilities and relationships?

What are your goals and priorities?

What are your resources and your commitments?

Do you understand your natural personality characteristics?

Do you know what you need to have to do well?

Are you a dreamer, initiator and creator?

Are you driven, ambitious, take charge, get things done personality?

Do you like someone else to take the lead and or are you helper, supporter and nurturer?

Are you a thinker, researcher, planner and analyzer?

Much about ourselves we explore and learn along life’s way.

The more we know about how we think, plan, work and enjoy life, the easier life becomes.

Take time to explore your assets and perhaps pitfalls.

Understand that you are living to discover, facilitate and encourage the best in you.

Look at how far you have come in life.

Notice where you make the same mistakes.

Recognize where you need help and support.

Realize your vision and dreams and enjoy the process.

Life is your University into Self Realization.

Every moment is teaching you what and where you are going and growing.

You are at the helm, captain of your own destiny.

You can stay docked in port with comfort or travel the seven seas with challenge and adventure.

Begin to notice exactly where you have started and stopped.

Acknowledge where you have learned, avoided, been distracted, despaired and quit.

Let go of what no longer has value and interest for you.

Forgive mistakes, dare to dream and choose again for what inspires you.

Life is your journey into consciousness and self realization.

The first step is now and now and now.

There is no end to what you can be and do.

Get up, show up and dare to do what is your heart’s desire.

Trusting you will realize what is yours to be and do.

Loving you, 

Betty Lue

Fulfilment!

Affirmation:

I am here to be true to the Love within me.

I am responsible for listening within to my way home.

I choose the fun, safe and easy way to live.

I am free to forgive and choose again and again.

Ask me for PURPOSE Exercise: Discover your True Source of Fulfillment!

What Fulfills You?

Getting things and stuff do not fulfill you.

It is Joy that fills you up.

It is not how many toys and tools you acquire.

It is deep and profound Gratitude that brings you Joy.

Our ego may search endlessly for that inner Joy.

But when we find our heart’s desire we are fulfilled.

Begin asking, “What brings me true and lasting Joy?”

“What am I really seeking today and everyday?”

Is it helping someone that brings me joy?

Is it discovering something that brings me Joy?

Is it learning something new that inspires me?

Is it accomplishing or achieving?

Is it exploring?

Is it enjoying people?

Is it being in nature that lifts my spirits?

Is it nurturing and nourishing?

Is it teaching?

Is it providing?

Is it protecting?

Is it creating beauty?

Is it building?

Is it entertaining?

Is it loving and being Loved?

Begin to look over the quality of your Life.

Find the “high points” that seem to transcend the rest of life.

Seek the places and people and moments in which you feel your best.

Follow the path of happiness and peace and you will find what is yours to be and do.

When we discover that which is our "true calling," we know it and show it!

When we understand what brings us a good nights’ sleep with inner peace, we know fulfillment.

When we smile at the realization we are living the life we really want, we are truly happy.

When we are grateful for each day, we are truly successful.

Bliss is that inner joy and contentment that transcends what we think.

Some experience peace of mind.

Some know profound gratitude.

Some find deep passion and enthusiasm.

Always seek for what brings you enthusiasm and aliveness.

You deserve fulfillment in your life.

Once you have found it, seek only to sustain what is right and real for you.

Your life can be totally fulfilling everyday.

Live your life the highest way and rejoice.

Living in Love and Peace and Joy,

Betty Lue

Freedom

Affirmations:

With Love in me, I have no need except to share it.

No one and nothing can limit me.

I am free in Spirit and in Love

When I respond with Love, my life is fun, safe and easy.

Are You Free?

What restricts you?

Why do you limit those you love?

What prevents you from trusting?

Why would you want to teach others to restrict themselves?

Children naturally want to be free.

Do you believe you know what will keep you safe.

Do you misunderstand the resistance and rebellion of our youth.

Are you afraid of what others will do without limitation and containment?

Perhaps our society has learned that freedom is unsafe.

Perhaps you have been taught to be careful and afraid.

Perhaps you believe you are helping others by teaching them to be careful.

Perhaps you think that your love is to be afraid for others and to keep them safe.

Being “responsible” is responding with Love (not fear).

Being able to respond with Love is really trusting and freeing ourselves and others.

Being a good parent and partner and friend is encouraging, inspiring and trusting others.

When you have fear, distrust and cautiousness, it is yours to heal.

“In our sinlessness, we are safe from harm.

In our innocence, we know what is good.

In our openness, we learn easily with simple awareness.

In our natural trust, we listen and know naturally.”

In our protectiveness we teach others to distrust.

In our desire to take care of another, we teach them our fears.

In our judgments we distrust others from responding naturally.

In our fear of what others will choose, we often choose for them.

Natural learning allows us to experience what works and doesn’t work.

Every child learns through experience.

When we listen to our own inner voice, we know what is good for us.

When we trust ourselves, we experience life that is right and true for us.

Some climb mountains and some fly planes.

Some use adventure and risk to learn what to trust.

Some seek a life of no limits and are free to enjoy.

Some are cautious and stay inside with only vicarious adventures.

Perhaps it is up to each individual to listen to their own choice.

Maybe it is our turn to allow others to experience the natural consequences of their life choices.

Do we know what others are to do and have and be?

Perhaps it is right for us to pay attention to the source of our own life choices.

Trust and free yourself to listen to your own intuition, inner guidance.

Learn by experimenting and experiencing the result of your own choices.

Follow the path that flows around problems, limitations and obstacles.

Allow others to learn from their own choices.

Life is our learning laboratory.

Ask: What works?

How is that working for you?

What are you learning?

Bless us all for learning everyday from everything and everyone.

Betty Lue

What To Believe?

Affirmations:

I believe in what works.

I trust and free myself and others to choose.

I allow us all to learn and grow and change our minds.

I learn from everyone and everything & know my mind is mine to choose.

What Do You Believe?

It is your choice about what you believe.

It is your right to decide what is “right” for you.

It is your responsibility to discern what you trust.

And if you don’t believe in you, how can you know?

There are a myriad of voices, opinions, facts, all claiming to be true.

Each one believes in their own stories and perceptions.

Every scientist and researcher can attest to their chosen “factual truth”.

The convincing comes when we want to believe what we hear.

Facts can be altered, made up and distorted for the purpose of the listener.

Our mind is often made up by what we want to believe.

In reality it is what we believe that we make “true” for us.

Many believe “It is all made up.”

“What you Conceive and Believe, you can Achieve.”

The metaphysics of this life experience is seen as being based for co-creation.

Our spiritual experience is often seen as based on our “faith”.

So do you believe what is good, inspiring and “true” for you?

I want happy endings.

I like healing and helpful relationships.

I prefer feeling good and positive and capable.

So I choose voices that inspire, and fill me with hope and trust.

We can turn off fear-based voices and noises.

We can choose for love-inspired creations and ideas.

We can join with what fills us with gratitude and happiness.

We can let go of following the crowd and choose to believe our way.

No need for arguing, violence or negativity.

No need for taking sides.

No need for making others wrong.

We can simply choose what is right and good for us to believe and buy.

I believe in what brings health and healing, different for each individual.

I believe in the right to choose what we want for ourselves, without denying another.

I believe in what works for you and for me, what is effective and helpful.

I believe in what sets me free to be happy and trust in the Highest Good for all.

What do you believe in?

What do you choose to strengthen and grow?

What do you buy and spend your time, money and energy on having, doing and being.?

What do you want to have and to hold from this day forward, with all your heart and mind?

I respect your right and responsibility to choose,

Bless us all for making our own choice.

Betty Lue

Are You Listening?

Your Experience gives you the Choice.

It’s Good, so say "Yes Please”.

It’s not Good, so say “No Thanks!"

Affirmations:

I listen and seek the underlying intention.

I honor my own words for their real meaning.

I seek love and the call for love.

I respond to the real message in what I hear.

Is Anyone Listening?

Are you listening to what is being said?

Are you saying what you need to hear?

Is anyone telling their truth?

Are we each inside our own world? 

Many are talking but very few are listening.

We are all talking to ourselves.

We are here to receive our own messages.

We must discern our intention for the words we say and write.

Most are thinking, but are not hearing our own thought.

Most are believing what they think and say is true.

But how much is just regurgitating what we have heard?

Do we truly believe what we think and say and do?

Do we learn from what we say?

Do we believe the truth we tell?

Does anyone really care?

Are we willing to be what we seem to profess?

So many words all jumbled together.

So many opposing beliefs, opinions and “truths”.

We pick and choose what we want to make ours.

How can we tell who is really listening and understanding?

Media sources all disagree, because it is all just beliefs.

People are sharing with us to get agreement and approval.

We try to control, convince and contrive with words.

We even try to make ourselves believe what we want to believe.

Who knows?

Who cares?

Who listens?

Who wants to find something to believe?

You will find your own “truth” or “belief”.

You will explore and experiment what is “right” for you.

You will try to believe what you want to be so.

You will experiment with what you think you know.

Such is this constant state of experimenting.

We are here to claim our own choice and creation.

We get to create, buy and express our own truth to believe in. 

And we allow everyone else to do the same.

So fun, interesting and Good to know.

Loving all I learn from everyone and everything.

Betty Lue

“Life is for learning.

Education leads out of ignorance.

The more we learn, the more we know.

The more we know, the better our resources.

The more  resources, the more choice we have.”

The more choices, the more enjoyable life can be.”

What's Right For You?

Ask Yourself.

Listen within!

Choose what works for You!

Affirmations:

I do what is right for me, because it sets me free.

I listen inside and abide with what is good and true.

I forgive my mistakes and choose again.

I am my best when I do what is right.

What’s Right?

Is it right for you to be busy?

Is it right for you to be still?

Is it right for you to be giving?

Is it right for you to be receiving?

Are you at peace with your life?

Are you sharing what you have?

Are you living life your way?

Would you rather be full or depleted? 

How often to do wish for something different?

Are you waiting for magic or intervention?

Do you think about dying or living?

Are you satisfied with everything you have? 

Do you clean up after yourself?

Do you handle your words with care?

Are you willing to support your bad habits?

Are you open to changing what is not right for you?

Is it time for you to stop what is wrong for you?

Do you trust you can make your life better?

Are you needing help making amends for your mistakes?

Do you need some help to make things right again? 

How often do you make promises and break them?

How easily do you actually say: “I am sorry”?

How do you show your love and do what’s right?

Are you waiting for others to do what’s right first?

Have you taken some time to do some honest “soul searching”?

Are you willing to write down what you Really Want?

What will it take for you to begin making changing?

How can you get unstuck from what is wrong for you?

You are the chooser.

Your life is at stake.

You can begin today.

You can take one step at a time.

Be willing and open.

Be forgiving and kind.

Be honest and true.

Remember to always love you.

Listen within and follow what is right and good and true for you.

Always loving you, 

Betty Lue