Response-Ability

Affirmations:

Peace and Love begin with me.

I choose peace instead of this.

Forgiveness offers everything I want.

I release and I let go.

Reaction or Response?

Restriction or Freedom?

Doubt or Trust?

Our True Responsibility is to Return to Love.

When we are reacting with fear, we block out Love.

When we are lost in conflict, we cannot find Peace.

When we are separate from another, we do not feel our Union.

Without Love, there is fear.

Without Peace, there is doubt.

Without connection, we feel alone.

Without Union, we are not free.

Our healing work is our responsibility.

We can no longer blame anyone for our disconnection.

We can no longer be a victim of our own choices, conscious or not.

We can no long criticize what another has done to excuse our experiences.

What we believe, see and experience our responsibility.

No matter what the projection, we are able to respond with trust.

No matter what seems to be, we are able to respond with freedom.

No matter what we think is so, our loving responses can transform the experiences.

We can change our beliefs and change our mind.

We can undo what is not wholly true and loving and change our feelings.

We can let go of what comes from fear and resentment and change the situation.

We can be the peace maker by shining our light and sharing our healing light.

And so it is, we release our faulty thinking and remember only Love.

We delete unhappy memories.

We forgive negative resistance.

We release our attachments and addictions.

Our work is always here to be undone.

We find consistent happiness in our willingness.

We know true inner peace when we release.

We allow innocence to return as our healing friend.

Loving us all as we are responsible for ourselves and our choices.

Betty Lue

Healing Our Projections => Seeing Only Wholeness 

1.  We perceive what we believe.

2.  We believe what we think we are.

3.   If I believe I am my past, then I believe you are your past.

4.   Believing in my past is to see and live it over again in all I see and do and am.

5.   Believing in your past is to remember it and continue to blame you for it. 

6.  The more I feel guilty about my past, the more I place blame on you.

7.  All anger is my guilt projected onto others.

8.  To forgive my past is to release it.

9.  To release is to see it no more.

10.As I release my past, I release others from my projected guilt and self-judgment. 

11. As I see myself whole, I see wholeness in others.

12 .As I heal my guilt about past mistakes, I heal my fear of the future.

13. To be in the present is to heal (erase) the past.

14. As I live in the present and love myself as I am now, I like you in the present and see you as you are now.

15. In this present moment, there is only Love for ourselves, each other and all that is.

Self Questioning and Doubt?

Affirmations:

When in doubt, I choose to trust in Love.

When in fear, I choose Peace.

When in questions, I choose to remember Love in us all.

I am here to be happy and truly helpful.

Self Questioning and Doubt

Life offers opportunities to doubt what is true.

Experiences offer times to question ourselves.

Remembering what is true is a life work.

Trusting answers live within each one of us is essential to inner peace.

Egos judge egos.

People teach fear.

Fear begets doubt and defenses.

Personalities question each other.

Learning to trust in Good is the key to sanity.

Take time to heal what hurts.

Bring peace to inner conflicts.

Trust the intention to Love.

When we know we are on the right path, we are happy.

When we feel safe within ourselves, we are in trust.

When we choose what is good, we are peaceful.

When we forgive all judgment and fear, we are in Love.

Life choices are simple in reality.

Personality makes all things complex.

Thoughts flood us with fear and doubt.

Inner peace brings silence and safety within.

 I have experienced what is probably true of all humanity.

A brief period of fear and doubt that I may have made a mess I cannot clean up.

In this I find humanity claiming judgment is necessary to choose.

I see people fighting over right and wrong and not listening to the voice of Love.

 

When I could not sleep with many thoughts. I sought to clear my mind.

When I write down all that is moving through, I find solace as I hear the Truth.

When I hear the Truth, I rest in God and the Good.

When I rest, my mind and body rest in the Love within.

I rely on Love and begin to create again.

I create what is whole and true and loving.

I remember that Love is not special, but Healing and Holy for all.

I remind myself to be not conformed to the world.

I am transformed by the renewal of all Good for All.

What is the Highest and Best for All Concerned.

I do not know and so I listen within.

I cannot give what I do not have and so I bring Peace to me,

Peace be with us now and always.

Remember.

Remember Love and Return to Wholeness and Holiness.

Betty Lue

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When in doubt and fear, I too must come home to what is True.

See below the musings of my questioning mind.

Faith emerges from the darkness of discontent.

I fall into Love again in the Light of Inner Truth.

Inner Listening for myself.

Why am I doubting?

What do I fear?

Have I lost my senses?

Am I seeing what I have conjured up for myself?

I choose to be happy and free.

I choose to love you and love me.

I choose to be clear and concise.

I choose to stay true to the Love in you.

Do I trust in the Good within?

Do I remember the Truth in me?

Do I listen to my inner voice?

Do I honor who I AM and my purpose here?

How shall I clear the fear?

Forgive all things.

Be innocent and true.

Love everyone loving everyone.

Step away from the fight.

Stop trying to be right.

Step into the Light.

Speak out with Delight.

Stop doubting your self.

Believe what you know is true.

Join all the children of God.

Have faith in the Love in You.

You can let fear win.

You can allow your mind to feel weak.

You can relinquish you way and your will.

You can give up the path to God.

This hurts and confuses the mind.

This leads to be unkind to you. 

Stop trying so hard.

Play in your own backyard.

You cannot please everyone.

So Please the Good in you.

Forgive your self doubt.

To Thine Own Self be True.

Am I so different than the others around me?

Am I teaching what is wrong and not right?

Have I given my power to ego?

Have I forsaken what is right?

Lord, make me an instrument of your Peace.

You are safe.

You are loved.

You are good.  

You are whole.

And so I release the insanity of the doubting mind.

I rest in God.

I protect my rest by loving.

What To Do?

Affirmations:

I listen within and know what to do.

I listen to my heart and know what to say.

I care for myself as Love cares for me.

I help myself by helping others.

When You Don’t Understand….

When no one comes, what do you do?

When no one listens, what do you say?

When no one cares, where do you go?

When no one helps, where do you find healing?

Life offers opportunities to choose for ourselves.

When we rely on others to understand, we may feel betrayed.

When we count on the world for support, we may feel alone.

When we have trusted someone who is no longer there, we may feel abandoned.

Why does no one call?

Why do others walk away?

Why are we left out?

Why can we not find our way?

Some times life seems to be a puzzle.

Sometimes friends step aside. 

Sometimes choices are in a muddle.

At times only in prayer we must abide.

Lost, sad and afraid.

Aware of mistakes we have made.

Not know what to do.

We simply need to trust in YOU.

Time to polish off our faith.

Time to forgive and undo.

Time to take Love inside.

Time to begin to renew.

The past is gone.

We cannot redo.

We can begin again.

We can let go and see all things new.

Yes, life has a way of cleaning out the new.

Life gives us opportunities over and over.

We can try and try and try again.

We can learn again until the end.

Loving you and me as we allow ourselves to trust in healing, growth and new creations.

We are all the same.  

We are in this together.

Love abides no matter what.

Betty Lue

What Now?

Affirmations:

I embrace the unknown and enjoy the mystery of life.

I trust the changes that occur naturally.

All things work together for Good.

Everything I experience, I have asked for and receive as I have asked.

Change Is Happening!

Change is a natural occurrence.

We all either dread or embrace change.

When we can choose the change, we like it.

When change is unexpected, we may not like it.

 

Weather changes.

Personalities change.

Bodies change.

Finances change.

Organizations change.

Energies change.

Values change.

Beliefs change.

Dreams change.

Relationships change.

We are here to allow and expect change to be.

When we flow with what is, life works well.

When we resist what seems to be, life may be difficult.

Time to change our mind and let it be, let change be.

Most fights and even wars are due to resistance.

Most pain and upset seems to be fighting again changes.

Most worry and concern shows up when something is changing.

Most judgment and criticism comes from disagreements about change.

What might happen if we allow change to be!

How free might we be if we allowed our own natural changes.

What feelings would emerge if we simply let go and trust.

How much fun could we have by letting everyone be.

Lessons are learned when we don’t interfere.

People wakeup when invited to change.

Communication is encouraged with change.

There is renewal and creation in change.

We are invited to make all things new with change.

We have the opportunity to free ourselves with change.

We are blessed with unlimited possibilities with change.

We can be renewed in mind, body and Spirit with change.

Embrace the unknown.

Live life with freedom and trust.

Know you are unlimited. 

Appreciate the blessings that come.

Love is the answer.

Betty Lue 

What Do You Really Want?

Affirmations:

I trust, respect and appreciate myself and all my creations.

I love creating what I really want to be, do and have.

I know what I want and I go for it.

I support myself and what I want with affirmation and appreciation.

Do You Have What You Want?

Are you living the way you want to live?

Are you doing what you want to do?

Are you with those you really want to be with?

Are you happy with yourself and your life?

You are the one who chooses.

You are the one who loses.

You are the One who is responsible for your life!

Accept responsibility and your can choose and change your whole life!

Your life is really and truly yours.

Your whole life is your responsibility.

Your life is yours to create or destroy.

Your life is yours to enjoy or hate.

You are choosing how you feel and what you do.

You can feel pleased or critical.

You can play at will or victim.

You can step forward or step back.

You can do what you want to do and go where you want to go.

What holds you back is fear….fear of the unknown or other’s disapproval or making a mistake?

You can be independent or dependent, alone or with others.

You can lead or follow, content or depressed, enriched or empty.

Everything in life is choice, your choice.

How you feel when you wake up is your choice.

You can change how you feel by simply choosing.

Clear up the past by writing and throwing it away quickly.

You can turn around mental and physical, relational and financial health.

You can undo whatever is not here, as in history, memories and roles you have played.

You can stop sharing the ugly stuff and hurtful stories and nasty thoughts and words.

You can begin today to quit the destructive and hurtful habits and get a life!

We have made the process of choosing again arduous and scary when it can be fun and daring.

The work is to let go of what you no longer want.

Let go quickly and easily, happily and gratefully.

Undo what you no longer value and set yourself free to be YOU!

Our entire life is to teach us how.

Our experiences show us we are able to respond differently.

Our journey invites us to return to appreciate ourselves and what inspires us.

Our way to happiness is through forgiving, erasing and deleting what is not wholly good for us.

Stop and clarify what you really want.

Love yourself enough to do what you really want to do.

Create what supports you in being a happy and willing player in life.

Appreciate your creations and keep creating more of what you really want.

Be honest with yourself and love yourself well!

Betty Lue