Are You Teaching Children Well?

Affirmations:

I am a powerful and positive role model.

I live what I teach and teach what I live.

I know every thought, word and deed teaches others.

Because there are no secrets, everything I think, say and do makes a difference.

  

Every child learns by watching and listening to their parents, teachers and grandparents.

If we don’t like the behavior of our children, we must take responsibility.

If we don’t like what our kids do or say, it is time to forgive and change our own words and action.

If we think we are good role models, look to what they want on media or peer influences.

Adults must clean up their behavior, language and habits.

It is time to stop swearing in public and in private.

It is time to speak and act and dress respectfully.

It is time to eat well and work hard and live clean and sober.

We must recognize that kids pay attention and learn by observation.

We must take full responsibility for the world we live in.

We must decide if what we say on the phone or in private is appropriate for our kids.

We must choose what kind of friends, media and work we want to engage in.

Everything we do models for children what they want to do.

To grow up means acting like the grownups in our lives.

Children begin playing dress=up and copy their elders from a very young age.

Eating and sleeping habits, the tone of voice, the body posture, the work we do at home all are copied.

The biggest mistake we make is when we forget and neglect to Love.

Whatever we do from anger, teaches and creates more anger.

Whatever we do and teach with fear, creates more fear.

When we remember to forgive ourselves and return to Love, we teach loving kindness.

Our actions creation reactions.

Our love begets more love.

When we judge, criticize and punish, we teach others to judge, criticize and punish.

When we want  a more compassionate and helpful world, we must learn to be ourselves.

When we learn what we really want for our children, we will remember to give it.

When we learn to be what we want to see, we will have what we want.

It takes only the willingness to clean up our own thoughts, words and behavior.

Let us stop judging the world we see and begin to demonstrate with who we “be”.

I am creating a new Resource Center in Middletown, specifically designed to serve youth and families.

It is time for us to give what we know is missing and help where it is needed.

Join me wherever you see the need.

Don’t let their behavior or language fool you, everyone wants respect, kindness and a little love.

Our children are our future.

They must learn the basics from the growups.

They need to learn values and ethics, work, thoughtfulness, creativity and fundamentals from life experience.

You are their teachers.

Let us honor our investment  with our respect, responsibility and cooperation.

Begin today with yourself and your own family and associations.

Betty Lue

Consciousness: Stay Awake and Aware

Affirmations:

I am alive, alert and enthusiastic.

I use my thoughts, words and deeds for Goodness Sake.

I create Goodness, Wholeness and Beauty with everything I Am and do.

My mind works for me with consciousness and love.

I trust my choices and free myself to create the Highest Good.

Your thoughts create.

Your words teach everyone everywhere.

Your actions speak more loudly than your words.

The Universe is listening to you all the time.

The power of your thoughts and words and behavior is more than you can imagine.

When you think, speak or act with love, peace and joy, everyone it blessed.

Your choices make a mighty difference in your world.

It is not time to wake up and choose for what you want.

People play ignorant and dumb.

People speak negative and angry.

People act mean and punitive.

People think ugly, crazy hurtful thoughts.

We are the people.

One forgiving and loving thought can erase all the others.

Choosing again for what you want makes all the difference.

You can be the One Who changes your world.

When we are awake, we can see what is right and good.

When we are aware, we can forgive and choose again.

When we are alive, we can make the changes needed.

When we are alert, we can step up, speak up and act with integrity.

Become more conscious with forgiveness.

Become more conscious with impeccable self care.

Become more conscious within your relationships.

Become more conscious with your home and work.

Take time everyday to be quiet.

Take time everyday to be loving.

Take time everyday to extend peace.

Take time everyday to express gratitude.

Mindfulness is paying attention.

Mindfulness is letting go.

Mindfulness is forgiving.

Mindfulness is being conscious,

Consciousness clears fear and wrong action.

Consciousness undoes pain and suffering.

Consciousness awakens humanity.

Consciousness is our gift of wisdom and blessings.

May we all open the way to being more conscious every day.

Betty Lue


POWER vs. FORCE
By Dr. David Hawkins


To become more conscious is the greatest gift anyone can give to the world.  Any individual increase raises the consciousness of everyone on the planet to some degree. 
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One individual at level  700    counterbalances    70 million individuals below level  200   
  

One individual at level  600    counterbalances    10 million individuals below level 200   
  

One individual at level  500    counterbalances    750,000 individuals below level 200   
  

One individual at level  400    counterbalances    400,000 individuals below level 200   
  

One individual at level  300    counterbalances    90,000 individuals below level 200   
  

Twelve individuals at level  700    equal    one avatar at 1,000  

    


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The energy of a loving thought is enormously more powerful than that of a negative one.

“Remember To Remember” Memorial Day!

Affirmations:

I choose peace in my mind, my words and my life.

I seek to remember and repeat the Good I know.

I give my self in loving service to be the best I can be.

I live in gratitude for all those who have lived their best as well.

  

Let us honor those who have gone before us.

Let us care for those who are wounded in life.

Let us be there for those who are afraid or suffer.

Let us begin right here and right now!

When we remember those who need our love, we are willing to be helpful.

When we remember those who have lost the war with pain, we are willing to be kind.

When we remember those who have left us in bravery and death, we are willing to be respectful.

When we remember those who have led the way for freedom and responsibility, we are reverent.

Let us remind ourselves to learn.

Let us remind ourselves to forgive.

Let us remind ourselves to seek peace.

Let us remind ourselves to find a better way for life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

We can hold these truths that all men are created equal.

We can abide by the laws that protect and provide for us all.

We can stop the suffering of those who are ignored, neglected and forgotten.

We can give prayer, service, shelter, health care, and education to everyone.

Let us protect and preserve the goodness and beauty in life.

We know we need to provide and protect our children and families.

We know we need to provide and protect all natural life on earth.

We know we need to provide and protect  our earth home and her resources.

Let us begin with ourselves and our health, our families and homes, our schools and our teachers.

Let us contribute gratitude and support to those who work to sustain a better life for all.

Let us do our part by volunteering where we can to make our neighborhoods and communities safe.

Let us do our part by watching out for the kids and youth with better media and role models.

Memorial Day is a day to give tribute to those who have given their lives for our freedoms.

Our work is to make sure no one has died in vain or given their lives for a sinking ship.

What does it cost to clean up our own words and habits and relationships?

Everyday in every way, let us individually clean up our thoughts, words and behavior.

My gifts of gratitude in memory of my parents and ancestors is to be the best I can be.

My gifts of remembrance are to embrace all my responsibilities to ensure I am totally responsible.

My gifts of service are to serve everyone who comes to me with or without means to pay.

My gifts of love to my family and humanity are to be One who says YES in support of all Good.

Ask yourself today and everyday:

What Can I do to be truly helpful?

What can I do to make a better world?

What can I do to be the best I can be today?

This is our Service to our family, our country and our world in honor of all who Serve!

Love is the way we walk in gratitude,

Betty Lue

The more gratitude, the more increase.

The more gratitude, the more blessings.

The more gratitude, the more health.

The more gratitude, the more support.

Trust it and practice it daily.  

Keep up the good and grateful work.

It works, because you do the work!

Can You Maintain What You Have?

Affirmations:

My life is balanced with work and play, creativity and rest.

I take impeccable care of myself with loving thoughts, grateful words, and helpful deeds.

I do what is mine to do.

I honor my inner voice and respect myself.

  

You have too much, when you cannot maintain is well.

You have too much, when it overwhelms you.

You have too much, when things are messy, dirty or broken.

You have too much, when it causes conflict or concern.

Life is easily maintained when we are clear about what works.

Life is easily managed when we have what we are able to care for it all well.

Life is in balance when we take impeccable care of ourselves.

Life is working when everything is in good working order.

If we are not taking care of what we have, we must let go.

If we are not taking care of ourselves, we have too much.

If we are not honoring our agreements, we have made too many.

If we are not living in integrity with our values, we are off purpose.

Much of our lives is about letting go and not accumulating more.

Much of our purpose in life is about finding what is true for us.

Much of our problems in life comes from have too many worries.

Much of our upsets, fears and worries is trying to control too many pieces.

It is valuable to clarify what is ours to do.

It is worthwhile to let go of the pettiness and focus on our highest values.

When we are doing our own calling and living in integrity, what we have takes care of itself.

When we are living with trust and freedom, non judgment and open-mindedness, life simply works.

I stop, listen and look again when it seems there may be a problem.

Every upset is a wakeup call.

Every worry is a lack of trust.

Every unhappiness is a speed bump.

Life plays its part as a clear reflection of where we have gotten off course.

When we pay attention we can see what is not “right” for us and choose again.

When we listen to our inner voice, our intuition or gut feelings, we know ahead of time.

When we neglect to pay attention or honor our inner sense, we experience an upset or block.

Maintaining your home allows you to receive any guest with honor.

Maintaining your car allows you to be available to any need or request.

Maintaining you family allows you to feel safe and secure in their love.

Maintaining your health allows you to trust in your body’s ability to support your life.

Maintain your job with dependable and responsible work.

Maintain your finances with adequate savings and responsible expenditures.

Maintain your relationships with respectful communication and kindness.

Maintain your freedom and trust with keeping your agreements with yourself and others.

 A Good Life requires that we be awake and responsible for all we have and who we are.

Loving us all together, co-creating a better world for everyone.

Betty Lue

Keys to Health & Vitality


NUTRITION
Ingest the best and forget the rest.  Take into your body, mind and spirit only that which supports, sustains and inspires the BEST in you.
 


MOVEMENT
Life is flow. To move with the flow is healthy. 
To resist is stressful. 
Move with the natural inner movement physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, etc.
 


BREATH
To breathe in (inhale) fully life energy, Spirit, Prana, inspiration, is to expand our awareness to open to an enlightened mind.  
To exhale fully is to truly release what is no longer needed.
 


TOUCH
Reaching out with Love and respect for each other opens our bodies and beings to trust in the gentleness we all deserve to experience.
 


THOUGHT
Choose for those thoughts which heal and free you to be unlimited in health and wholeness. 
Forgive (erase) the beliefs which are limiting or false.
 


ATTITUDE
Carry with you an attitude of gratitude and love for yourself and others.  
Allow yourself to see all things work together for good.
 


BALANCE
Moderation in all things will bring your life into harmony.  
As we give ourselves what is really best for us, the extremes are gently released.
 


HEALTH
What you perceive in others and the world you strengthen in your Self. 
 Focus on illness, disease and weakness and you actually weaken yourself.  
See only health and wholeness and you move yourself in the direction you are looking.
 


PURITY
To clear out toxins and purify the system requires a willingness to eliminate toxic thoughts, activities, relationships as well as foods from your system.  Flushing the system clean is aided with water, fresh air, gentle movement and forgiveness.
 


REST
To rest and relax your mind and body are invaluable to being refreshed and revitalized. 
Each person has unique methods of relaxation - meditation, music, being in nature, focused simple activity.