Being Helpful

Affirmations:

I choose to be helpful with positive and freeing thoughts.

I open my mind to create what is truly helpful to all.

I let go of limitation, lack and littleness with ease.

I naturally relinquish all complaints, criticism and commiseration.

Want To Be Helpful?

If you want to be helpful, focus on the solution.

If you want to be of service, make the desired outcome the goal.

If you want to show you care, be positive and creative.

If you want to find the answer, be trusting and be open-minded.

Life works when we know it is working.

Answers come when we believe they are there.

Solutions show up when we trust they will come.

Help arrives when we are absolutely certain it will.

How can it be that what we want to see can be?

How do we know that everything works together for good.

Trust and you will see what you believe will be.

Doubt, judgment and fear interferes.

Experiment with believing and doubt.

Try out believing all will be well and see how you feel.

Try out doubting nothing will work and see how you feel.

One has positive, even happy hopeful energy and the other not.

What do you believe?

50 yrs ago I believed “What goes up must come down.”

I saw it as simply a “learned belief” and turned it around.

“Everything just gets better and better.”

Consider that your life is showing you exactly what you imagine and believe.

Notice what you must think and feel, say and do to have the experiences you have.

Notice what you share with others and what they share with you.

If you are agreeing with their negative or limiting beliefs, are you being truly helpful.

Life is a projector screen, showing us the movie in our minds.

When our ideas are limiting or even disastrous, the movie will be the same.

It is time to show the movie that we prefer, the movie we choose.

We can be most helpful to ourselves and others with the beliefs we really want.

Take time to change your mind.

Think positive helpful and creative thoughts.

Feel hopeful encouraging emotions.

Give yourself opportunities to be truly helpful.

Loving you and all, 

Betty Lue

Purposeful Living

Affirmations:

I do what I love and share what I have.

I always have plenty to give and to share.

I let go of false expectations and learn what I really want to have.

I find meaning and purpose in sharing the very best in me.

Living On Purpose

When we live with purpose daily, we feel happy, whole and free.

When we stop using our body lovelessly, we are healthy, energized and productive.

When we relinquish past regrets and grievances, our mind is open for creativity. 

Life is a powerful instrument of creativity, enjoyment and service.

Learn to live each day with thoughtful creation.

Learn to give your energy to have more, do more, share more and enjoy more.

Learn to bring your most conscious and connected self to each moment.

Learn to be your best self in all circumstances and watch you life grow.

Life is meant to be lived with meaning and purpose.

Life is here to be blessed with clarity, choice and communication.

Life is enhances with our commitment to give all to have all.

And when we give our life purpose we experience the blessings of health, happiness and fulfillment.

We can squander our time, money and energy and receive no return.

We can let life slip away with no awareness of its true value.

We can sleep and dream, but never experience the full joy of experiencing.

We can eat, drink and be merry, but never really know the fullness of Gratitude.

We are here to learn what to value and how to enjoy our lives.

We have the opportunity to explore and experiment to see what is Good for us.

We can create and erase again and again.

Vision and manifestation come with our freedom of choice.

Often we live and share what is popular or valued by others.

We may live out our parents wishes for us.

We often choose what may create fame and riches.

We even oppose society and set limits on ourselves.

The real key to living on purpose is to begin again without prejudice (pre-judging).

The opportunity is available to give up where we are stuck and tied to former choices.

We can claim what seems fun, safe and easily flows through our lives.

We can find inner peace and joy in what is right there ready for us to choose.

Learning to discern what seems natural and joyous may be a foreign concept.

Relinquishing the concept of a difficult life of hard work and struggling is our highest option.

As we learn to undo the obstacles in our way, we stop resisting, denying and blocking what is good.

Living with meaning and purpose comes naturally when we listen within to our joy.

Know you can and will be happy, when you live what is on purpose for you.

Know you will have confidence and enjoy what you are doing and how you are living.

Know you deserve to have a life that is fulfilling everyday in a very honest way.

Believe in yourself and live your dreams.

Show Up.

Pay attention.

Share the Highest Truths.

Let go of Attachment.

Living life with heart and meaning.

Always Loving You,

Betty Lue

Earth Day and Everyday Gratitude

Affirmations:

Everyday I honor my earth home and its beauty.

With each breath, I give life to myself and all creation.

Life is filled with grace and glory when I Love.

I am in love with the beauty and goodness I see in everyone and everywhere.

Be Grateful

Be grateful for the beauty.

Be grateful for the bounty.

Be grateful for the belief.

Be grateful for Being here.

Of all the places we could be, we are here.

Of all the lives we could be living, we live here.

Of all the songs we could be singing, we sing here.

Of all the beauty we could be beholding, we are here.

Do you really appreciate where you live?

Do you really receive the pleasure of being on this planet earth?

Do you take the time to say Thank God for the Privilege of living in America?

Do you actually see and enjoy the beauty around you?

No matter what season, there are always miracles of nature.

No matter what the weather, there is always amazing beauty.

No matter where you live, you can see with curiosity and wonder.

No matters what you might imagine, with forgiveness you can feel gratitude and grace.  

Stop judging, comparing and evaluating and you will see the Good.

Stop neglecting and ignoring, and you will find the gifts.

Stop fearing and worrying and you will recognize the blessings.

Stop taking in negativity and pessimism and you will step into each day for hope and trust.

Life is what we make it with out thoughts and attitude.

Thoughts and beliefs create out perception.

What we see comes from what we look for.

When we are grateful, we look for the Good.

The seeds we plant today will grow with our loving care.

The beliefs we hold in our mind will emerge of like kind.

The attitudes we carry will reveal themselves in our lives.

Our fears and prejudice will be there unless we weed them out!

We are responsible for what we experience.

We are capable of changing our thoughts and words.

We can choose peace and relinquish attack.

We can choose love and forgive all fear.

We are the channels of love on this earth.

We are the miracle workers with love in action.

We are the blessing and the blessed

We are here to give tribute to what is Good and Beautiful and Whole.

Let us utilize today and everyday to honor our calling.

Love one another and the earth home on which we live together.

Blessings increase with our appreciation.

Betty Lue 

Support You!

Affirmations:

I support myself with Gratitude, Freedom and Trust.

What is best for me is best for others.

I support myself so I can fully and freely support others.

I trust myself to be, do and have the best support I know.

How Do You Support Yourself?

Do you support yourself everyday?

Do you take care of your basic needs?

Do you encourage and reassure yourself/

Do you consciously always do what is good for you?

Sometimes you neglect yourself and don’t understand why you feel neglected.

Sometimes you criticize yourself and don’t understand why others criticize you.

Sometimes you deny yourself and don’t understand why others deny you.

Sometimes you do not like or love you and are upset because you don’t feel loved.

First support yourself.

Whatever you believe you are missing, give it to yourself.

Whatever you feel is lacking in your life, make time to create more.

What you long to experience, sis what you need to offer.

What you criticize and complain about is yours to forgive and do better.

If you want support, give support.

If you want thanks, give thanks.

If you want encouragement, give encouragement.

If you want love and appreciation, give love and appreciation.

What we seek is what we believe is lacking in our world.

If you see a need fill it.

If you believe something is missing, it is yours to fill.

What you see is what you believe.

When you change your mind, your life changes.

When you give what is yours to give, you receive the gift.

When you appreciate what is unnoticed, you will fill the void.

When you are faithful to what is important to you, you will experience trust.

Life shows us our part with every criticism and unmet need.

Life gives us a grand view of what we can do, because we see it.

Life allows us to feel what is important to us with unhappy emotions.

Our only mistake is that we leave it up to others.

We are responsible for being our own primary support team.

We are here to change our thoughts, words and interaction with others.

We are called to support rather than take things for granted.

We are assigned our part with the unmet needs we recognize.

When we support what we see is needed, we begin to believe we can make the change.

When we know that we are not alone, we start to feel there is a way to support one another.

When we take impeccable care of our mind, our body and Spirit, we see what is possible.

When we are inspired to give ourselves the best, we can give our best to others.

What is best for you is best for others.

Now is the time to give our support to one and all, including ourselves.

Supporting myself with the highest and best thoughts, words and activities I know.

Thank you for supporting you with the Best you know.

Betty Lue

Make A Difference!

Affirmations:

I am certain I make a difference.

I am clear in my communication with everyone.

I am consistent and follow-up on what I commit to.

I am clear, confident and consistent with what I think and say and do.

Be Clear, 

Be Certain, 

Be Consistent.

Make a difference with your children.

Make a difference with your spouse.

Make a difference with your friends.

Make a difference in your workplace.

Be clear in your communication.

Be clear in your values with your words.

Be clear with your ethics and your behavior.

Be clear with your everyday life style and behavior.

Be certain about what you believe.

Be certain with your confidence.

Be certain with what you want to say.

Be certain about the standards you uphold.

Be consistent with what you say and do.

Be consistent in making sure you are honest and true.

Be consistent with the standards for everyone children and adults.

Be consistent in how you live your life with everyone.

When we commit with clarity, certainty and consistency, all things are done.

The request will be answered when we are determined.

The questions are answered when we on single-minded.

We are heard and respected when we know what we want.

It is our doubt that inter-fears.

It is our questioning that hesitates.

It is our judgments that create a block.

It is our lack of commitment that gets in our way.

When we are clear, we communicate concisely.

When we are clear, everyone understands.

When we are clear, we can see and feel what we know.

When we are clear, all light shines and empowers our choice.

When we are certain, we do not delay.

When we are certain, we step forward in faith.

When we are certain, we our confident with our choice.

When we clear, we do not doubt or delay.

When we are consistent, we persist.

When we are consistent, we are determined.

When we are consistent, we do not quit.

When we are consistent, we proceed to success.

Whether are home or in business, be clear, certain and consistent.

You will not fail.

Blessings of Goodness, 

Betty Lue

Help Others Help Themselves!

Affirmations;

I am happy to be truly helpful.

What is best for me is best for others.

I choose always to share the best I have in thoughts, words and deeds.

I give and receive all good and only good.

Help Everyone Help Themselves!

When we are healed, we are not healed alone.

When we help another, we are helping ourselves.

What we do for ourselves, we do for others.

What we do for others, we are doing for ourselves.

This universe shows us how to heal.

We are here to heal all of us.

When we live with healing in mind, we experience inner peace.

When we share our peace of mind, we demonstrate healing.

Life experience shows us what is helpful.

We observe the results of the help we offer.

We notice what works and what doesn’t work.

We choose to do what is truly helpful and all benefit.

Help is not helpful if it creates fear or resistance.

Help is not helpful if it disables or weakens the other.

Help is not helpful if we sacrifice and weaken ourselves.

Help is helpful if it empowers and creates non-judgmental awareness.

A rule of thumb to use:

1. Wait until you are asked or invited to help.
2. Create a confidential and private space or help anonymously.
3. Be clear about the time involved. (Set limits).
4. Ask specifically what is needed.
5. Listen within and listen first to the other to see what is best.
6. Give only what is asked for and open to be received.
7. Share what feels positive, encouraging and reassuring.
8. Ask if there is anything else that is wanted or needed.
9. Listen to and receive your own counsel and guidance.
10. Do not share, remind or ask about what you have given.
11. Be grateful for the opportunity to be of help.
12. Do not give if there is no appreciation or it makes things worse.
13. There must be conscious appreciation to be of value.

Remember what is helpful to you may or may not be helpful to another.

What you give is always a gift to yourself.

To be helpful must demonstrate your faith and confidence and trust in the other.

Treat and talk with others as you want to be treated and talked with.

True helpfulness is equal, honest and responsible.

True helpfulness is respectful and kind.

True helpfulness is direct, specific and without expectation.

Seek only to be truly helpful for the highest and best outcome.

Be truly helpful by giving what you would want to receive.

Reminding you with Love,

Betty Lue