Take Nothing Personally

Affirmations:
I listen with respect and gratitude to others.
I respond with kindness and love.
I forgive myself for letting anyone hurt me.
I always give my best to others.

Take Nothing Personally

What if you believe everything is personal.
What if you think your world is a reflection of you.
What if you see what you want to believe.
Is everything or nothing personal?

Could you be attracting to you those unconscious thoughts, beliefs and fears you have?
Are you selectively remembering what is a lesson for you to learn?
Is it possible that your are creating the experiences you want to have?
Are you open and willing to learn from everything and everyone?

When we review our life path and process, we begin to see repeating experiences.
When we are open to see what the meaning is for the experiences we have, we notice past similars.
When we review what is ours to see and learn from, we trust that everything can be useful.
We begin to notice everything works together for our own best interest.

With an open mind we notice that we are not victims of our past.
We are learning from every experience that we can reveal and heal our past misperceptions.
We are willing to see without fear and judgment and let go with our blessings.
What we carry around for years, becomes toxic and distorts our perceptions.

Ask if what is said and done is a gift of learning for you.
Ask if what is said and done is merely a need to release for the other.
Ask it what others do and say is them telling what they need to heal.
Ask if you are to simply delete and move on or actively respond with healing love.

There are so many opportunities for you to respond to yourself and others.
You can react with fear and judgment, avoidance and resentment.
These experiences will stick to you and stay around as toxic memories.
You can respond with forgiveness and delete them,  or simply extend love and understanding.

What you do, will always come back to you.
What you give, you will receive again in your life.
Dare to do and give what you want to receive.
Give forgiveness and love and your will receive forgiveness and Love.

Our work here is to learn how to heal ourselves.
When we project our woundedness onto others, we hurt.
When we offer true forgiveness and love, we feel healed.
Learning to let go of taking on others pain is key to our healing.

Learn to flush all that is toxic and resentful.
Learn to translate what is projected as an opportunity to heal.
Learn to change what you judge to what you want to remember.
Learn to love yourself fully no matter what and your love for others will increase.

Life is for giving. 
You are the gift.
It is in giving your Love that you realize the Love You Are.

I am loving you with gratitude and peace.
Betty Lue

FOUR AGREEMENTS

By Don Miguel Ruiz

1. Make No Assumptions.
2. Keep Your Agreements.
3. Take Nothing Personally.
4. Always Give Your Best.

Choose Wisely

Affirmations:
I seek to understand, before being understood.
I choose with inner guidance, rather than opinion.
I let go of fear and listen with Love.
I trust in what works for the Good of All. 
Choose with Wisdom

How do you choose what is best?
When you trust yourself, you know what is best.
When you trust yourself, you know who to listen to.
When you trust yourself, you feel confident and at peace.

When you live in fear, you will be questioning.
When you have doubt, you will not know.
When you have no guidepost, you will wander.
When you do not listen within, you will be uncertain.

When you know what is right, you need not argue.
When you know what is true, you will trust in you.
When you are true to your principles. you feel unafraid.
When you are living in integrity, you feel safe and at peace.

The world is always in conflict, because there are always two sides.
Families at unsure because they are serving many master.
Businesses are trying to serve customers or employees.
Politics are like wars because both sides want to win.

Have you ever considered more than one way?
Have you tried to find what works for both?
Have you sought to solve problems  with win-win solutions?
Have you learned how to choose what is highest and best?

I listen and learn from what works for all parties.
There is always war of words and actions when one side seeks to win.
We can begin at home with no argument or fights.
I drop my position and listen for the highest and best.

While duality seems to be the Name of the Game. Look for Unity!
Each person or group makes their way “right” in the win-lose game.
Listen for an answer where both parties find respect and listen well.
Seek a way in which peace is the outcome.

Where all work together, we can find strength and true respect.
Where everyone seeks for the Greater Good, we look for what benefits all.
When we listen to one another, we genuinely find higher ground.
When we want mutual respect and equanimity, we choose with wisdom and love.

How can you and I be the way showers?
Can we take time to hear one another?
Are we willing to drop our opinions and listen deeply?
Let us listen for the heart of wisdom within all I encounter.

Listen without prejudice.
Listen for what is true.
Listen to the Good within us.
Listen and seek peace.

Loving You,
Betty Lue