Self-Respect

Affirmations:
I trust my inner knowing and guidance.
I do what works for me.
I live by the laws of forgiveness and love.
I honor my differences and yours.

Honor Your Own Differences.

Do what is right and true for you.
Honor your own wisdom and truth.
Relinquish the need to convince others.
Stop complaining and explaining.

There is no need to convince anyone of what you know is true for you.
There is no need to try to get others to believe what you see and feel and know.
There is no need to get agreement or understanding when you trust yourself.
There is no need to be ‘Right” when believe in what is right for you.

Everyone perceives through their own emotional and historical filters.
Everyone has their own unique healing and learning journey in life.
Everyone is doing the best they know with where they are.
Everyone has their own challenges, mistakes, regrets and inner wisdom.

Opinions are just opinions based on what each one sees and believes to be right.
Facts are just our perception of what we see to be facts, but seen differently by others.
Advice is always given through our own lens of archived knowledge, experience and beliefs.
What is true and right for one is often not true and right for another.

How do we know and own our differences?
When easily influenced by parents, teachers, books and media, we may not have our own “truth”.
When comparing, exploring and seeking for answers, we may choose to try out different ways.
When we do not know what is right and true, what we do is seek the one who seems to know.

Dare, do, listen and be silent.
No need to convince anyone of your choices.
If what you choose works, do it for yourself.
If what you do is right for you, you will know it by how you feel inside.

Abide by your own right way.
Live true to your inner voice.
Honor what feels good and whole.
Be true to the Real and authentic you.

No one to please.
No one to answer to.
Nothing to prove.
So observe what works best for you.

Trusting you to listen to your own conscience and inner guide.
Those who are true to what is right for themselves will succeed.
Blessings for the wisdom that comes from what works.
Betty Lue

Love Is Letting Go!

Affirmations:
Letting go is fun, safe and easy for me.
I quickly release what is not good and loving.
I focus on what is beneficial for my highest good.
I joyfully forgive and let go with ease and gratitude.

Love Is Letting Go of Fear!

Love teaches forgiveness.
Fear (anger) teaches guilt.

Love offers willingness.
Fear offers resistance.

Love shares openly.
Fear shares defensively.

Love gives freely.
Fear gives conditionally.

Love is always available.
Fear is selectively present.

Love is spontaneous.
Fear is cautious.

Love is joyful.
Fear is moody.

Love is gentle.
Fear is harsh.

Love is Who You Really Are.
Fear taught you to be Fearful.

Which do you prefer? 
Simply choose again.

Loving is letting go of fear,
Betty Lue

Time to Forgive Mistakes

Affirmations:
I let go of what I do not want.
I free myself to think what I do want.
I undo what is not unhealthy or true.
I choose only what is highest and best for me.

Our Real Job

Our real job is to forgive our mistakes.
To forgive is to erase what is not what we want to be.
To undo what is not true for us is to erase it with Love.
To learn from mistakes is to recognize what is an error.

Our real job is to let go of thoughts and words which do not create goodness, healing and Love. 
We learned to condemn, punish, criticize, worry and blame  and increased our guilt.
The more guilt, the more fear, the more fear, the less consciousness. 
In other words, guilt tends to create the same mistakes again and still again.

It is not true that feeling guilty produces a positive change in behavior. 
It is true that healing unhealthy, destructive patterns is forgiveness of self and others.
It is true that we all seek forgiveness with love, respect and trust.
It is true that letting go of mistakes and rewarding positive behaviors strengthens health and happiness.

Our real job is to ignore those beliefs and circumstances that we want to eliminate.
Encourage the behaviors and relationships that we desire to increase.
Ignore the behaviors and relationships that we desire to let go and undo.

Forgiveness at its best is remembering only the gifts of goodness and the blessings.
Forgiveness is being willing to give our best as teachers and role models.
Forgiveness is the Love that strengthens conscious, respectful and harmonious living.
Forgiveness is the opportunity to begin again with a fresh start and new choices.
Forgiveness is a gift to ourselves to let go of the pain, the fears, the judgments and the tears.
Forgiveness is giving the love we all want to ourselves and to others.
Forgiveness lays the foundation for making new choices, choosing again.

In the Presence of authentic Unconditional Love, we are more open, creative and willing to give our best.
In the Presence of Real Love, we make healthy choices, based on our desire to love and be loved.
In the Presence of Divine Love, we feel healed and happy, confident and capable of doing our best.
In the Presence of True Love, we feel we will be loved no matter what.

This is the Love that heals.
This is the Love that binds.
This is the Love that creates.
This is the Love that grows.

Our real job is to never quit on Love.
Never withhold our Love.
Never forget to Love.

Loving you,
Betty Lue

The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love.
Betty Lue

Sharing Joy

Affirmations:
I am willing to share my joy with others.
I know all life matters.
I treat others as I seek to be treated.
Life works for me when I am happy.

Share Your Joy!

What greater gift can you give that pure happiness and joy!
Are you remembering to appreciate?
Do you know how to express yoru joy?
Are you letting those you know how much you care?

Everyone matters!
Do you let them know?
Everyone is important!
Do you express your gratitude?

Start with your family.
Let your partner see your love.
Show your children how precious they are.
Allow your family to see your happiness.

Remember to show your inner delight.
Demonstrate your value for your life.
Treat your Self with respect and dignity.
Honor your gifts to yourself and others.

Remember to let people know you care.
Take time to listen and share your joy.
Be open to what matters to others.
Demonstrate you want them to be happy.

Smile and bring peace and harmony.
Be willing to give your caring.
Listen with compassion and kindness.
Be the best you can be with all.

Good Living is simply loving with the natural delight within
Always loving and honoring us all.
Betty Lue

FOUR AGREEMENTS.

1. Make No Assumptions. 
2. Keep Your Agreements. 
3. Take Nothing Personally. 
4. Always Give Your Best.

Going Through?

Affirmations:
No matter where I am, there is always Love flowing.
I extend Love, Peace and Joy to all for Goodness sake.
Light and Love are freely flowing me, no matter what technology.
I trust and free myself and others no matter what.

Communication Flowing?

We are out of town, staying in a hotel.
Uncertain of the flow of internet.
Will be back on Tuesday December 5.
Mercury is in Retrograde Dec. 2-22.
Full Moon on Sunday at 8AM PST.

Will send you love and positive energy via our heart waves.
Trusting all is well for all.
Sending affirmations and positive prayer to all.
Always loving you,
Betty Lue

Wherever You Go……

Affirmations:
I am willing to make a difference.
I express what matters to me.
I show up and pay attention.
I give my best in thought, word and deed.

Wherever You Go…..

Wherever you go, you make a difference.
Whatever you do, you contribute.
However you show up, you bring your Self.
Whatever you think, you offer your piece.

Your thoughts create.
Your energy adds your piece.
Your emotions touch lives.
Your words change the experience.

Believe it or not, you are important.
What you think is affecting change.
What you say is being heard.
 What you do is being felt.

Consider what you want to express.
Choose what you want to create.
Be aware of what matters to you.
Give attention to what is important.

You are a piece of the greater whole.
Your life touches and teaches lives.
Yourenergy is changing the world.
You can focus and create what you want.

Contribute to your own joy.
Give to the well-being of others.
Awaken to what you give.
Erase what is not of value.

You will be appreciated for your gifts.
Others will be inspired by what you give.
Your smiles and gratitude will encourage.
You will be noticed and received.

Even when you neglect and forget, you will be received.
Even when you diminish your part, you will touch others.
Even when you are withholding, you message will be heard.
Whatever you do or deny, you make a difference.

You can bring clarity and connection.
You can offer peace and love.
You can bring your best.
Contribute what you value.

Honoring You,

Betty Lue