Thursday, June 26, 2025

Relationships Require Healing and Learning

June 26, 2025 

HEAL AND LOVE YOURSELF.

RELATIONSHIPS WILL IMPROVE.


Affirmations:

I love, trust and respect myself.

I love, trust and respect others.

I choose to clear the fear and respond with love.

I forgive and let go of what doesn’t work easily and quickly.


Relationships Deserve Our Best


Our primary relationship is with ourselves.

When we treat ourselves with love. trust and respect, we treat others with love and respect.

When we love, trust and respect ourselves, we teach others to love and respect us.

When we love, trust and respect ourselves, others learn to love, trust and respect themselves.


The key to healthy, happy fulfilling relationships is within us.

We can be the change we want to see in our family and our world.

We can demonstrate the way to harmony and peace.

We can live our lives with self respect, self trust, self discipline, and self Love.


To clear past programming, we must remember both consciously and unconsciously to be aware.

To undo what is no longer true or valuable for us, we must be willing to forgive and change.

To no longer repeat what is harmful, hurtful and unkind, we must literally change our mind.

To release what is not healthy or good for ourselves and others, we must choose again.


Relationships are the way we find out what needs to be healed.

Relationship upsets or difficulties are showing us what doesn’t work.

Relationships invite us to let go of our dysfunctional behaviors.

All our complaining, criticizing, demanding and negativity must go.


We may have falsely learned to keep repeating ineffective and inflammatory behaviors.

The violence and volatility of our words and actions only creates more guilt and fear.

When others become guilty and afraid, they cannot think clearly or act in conscientious ways.

We must learn to be respectful and clear, listen and understand, to choose wise interaction.


Watch the best mediators teachers and healers.

Learn from those with high quality relationships.

Step away from violence and anger.

Choose for those who communicate effectively.


Give up the unconscious and ignorant ways.

Model after those who know how to take impeccable care of themselves.

Be the best role model you can be.

Assume you do not know and learn from those who do.


Relationships all matter.

Relationships build our family and community.

Relationships show us what needs to be healed.

Relationships are our way to safety, sanctuary and love.


Relating to you with only a desire to love, trust and respect you and all.

Betty Lue


“Life is for learning.

Education leads out of ignorance.

The more we learn, the more we know.

The more we know, the better our resources.

The more  resources, the more choice we have.”

The more choices, the more enjoyable life can be.”