Affirmations:
I give always an only with love.
I receive freely the Love and gratitude being given.
I give easily and naturally all the Love and Joy I have.
I trust and free receiver and giver to fully enjoy the giving.
What is
giving?
True giving does not
come with expectations.
True giving does not
want for anything.
True giving sets
both giver and receiver free.
Usual gifts are
given with conditions.
Usual loving is
offered expecting to get love in return.
Usual gifts often
come with the implication of “What are you giving me?”
Usual giving is done
for the underlying purpose of “getting”.
When you give to
get, both parties are limited.
When you give to get,
there is the obligation of the receiver.
When you give to
get, neither party feels free and unencumbered.
When you give to
get, the demand or threat is implied.
Give from your
heart and notice the difference.
Give your very best
and feel how happy and free.
Give your all and
withhold nothing of value.
Give with freedom
and trust freedom is received.
Some want only to
give, for they have the locus of control.
Some give to protect
themselves from being hurt by not receiving.
Some insist on being
the giver because receiving is to vulnerable or awkward.
Some always give
because they feel valued only by giving.
Some need to
receive because they look for their worth in the gift.
Some seek to receive
because they feel unseen and unloved.
Some try to get from
others to fill their leaking resources.
Some look to those
who have to even the score of who has more.
When we trust in
what we have been given, we know there is more.
The more becomes
more as it is shared with those who do not know.
To give all to all
is to have more to give.
To live in a giving
state requires that we receive what is given.
When we measure
the value of the gifts, there will always be more.
When we value the
giving, there is an endless supply.
When we learn to
receive as we give from the joy of giving, we feel unlimited.
To have all, give all to all and you know you will always have more to
give.
Some
want gifts of quality time with no distraction.
Some
want signs of affection or maybe gifts to feel the
love being given.
Some
want affirming words and some want acts of service
and helpfulness.
What
really matters is that all gifts come from Love without strings attached.
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for more information for more effective giving.
Giving
with all my heart,
Betty
Lue
Life is for Giving.
And You are the Gift.
It
is in giving the gift of your True Self that you realize the Gift You Are.