Affirmations:
I am willing to be my best friend and guide.
I easily clear all fear and walk forward with joy.
I do what is mine to do.
I see what is before me and follow through effortlessly.
Life works well as I am willing to do my work well.
Are you interfering with your success?
Are
you blocking your healthy relationships?
Do
you negate the possibility of getting well?
Have
you quit on having a good life, your ideal life?
It
may be time to stop blaming and complaining.
Every
time you deny your own responsibility you weaken yourself.
Each
time you try to convince yourself and others that you cannot do or have or be,
you make it more certain.
When
you claim that you are powerless or helpless, you are.
Do you understand your own mind may be the very “saboteur” you are
threatened by?
Do
you know your learned or “ego” self may be convincing you everyday that you
can’t have or do or be?
Are
you aware that your dependency on a person or institution or expert may be your
personal “nay-sayer”?
Is
it time to learn to do your life your way?
Do
It Now!
Reprogram
your mind to get going and do it now!
Undo
your fear and caution and just do it now!
Let
go of laziness, inertia and procrastination and do it!
Stop
wishing and waiting for someone else and just do it!
Stop
wasting time and go for it.
Stop
wanting someone to take of it and do it yourself.
Stop
whining and complaining and draining your energy.
Stop
behaving like a dependent needy weak person and do it for yourself.
If
it is broken, fix it or throw it away.
If it
is dirty, clean it and put it where it belongs.
If it
is unused, give it away or sell it.
If it
is cluttering, sort it and put it where it belongs.
When
you bed it unmade, make it now.
If
your bedroom is a mess, clean it up right now.
If
your kitchen is dirty or in disarray, clean and organize it right now.
If you
life is a mess, start with where you are and make it neat and tidy for You.
What
you see reflects a part of you.
When
you live with clutter and disorder, you feel cluttered and out of order.
Spring
cleaning is clear your field to prepare for the new crops.
Clearing
your mind, your home, your office, prepares for new ideas and possibilities.
When
you are finished with something put it away.
When
you are done with something, let it go.
When
it no longer has value, release it in the trash or for someone else to use.
When
your environment is in order, you inner life will be more peaceful and
productive.
Loving
you and all of us as we clean up before and after ourselves,
Betty
Lue
Begins
April 16. Wednesday Evenings 7-9PM at Positive Living Center.
Empowerment, Mastery and Success Strategies
Together:
Vision
and Share,
Inspire
and Support,
Clarify
and Commit,
Dare
and Do.
Appreciate
and Celebrate.
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Recognizing
and Releasing Strategies That Interfere With Success
What
you resist, persists.
Avoidance
creates loss.
The
Ego experiences it’s littleness and inadequacy and it is afraid.
Therefore,
out of fear of the world, it decides:
1)
I’m not ok.
2)
I can’t win.
3)
Therefore, I must do anything to keep from losing and create
the
defense of always being right.
The
Ego made up strategies to avoid losing to maintain its rightness.
Strategies
to Avoid Losing
1.
Don’t play the game. Withdraw, withhold, refuse,
non-participation, no risk.
2.
Keep others from winning. Sabotage, make others
less, talk negatively about someone, put-downs.
3.
Don’t complete anything. Procrastinate, begin
too many projects to complete, lose interest, give up.
4.
Destroy the game. Change the rules, break
agreements, put in more details, expect more than was expressed.
5.
Play the nice guy. Be too nice to tell true
feelings, keep everyone from progressing, be afraid to take the risk of asking
for what you want from yourself and others.
6.
Have a problem. Become a distraction or be
distracted by lack of money or time, get sick, shift attention, be a victim to
get rescued.
7.
Get them before they get me. Make others wrong,
look for excuses for self, find opportunities to judge others, tattling.
8.
Minimize / maximize. Make little of my failures
and maximize yours (or vice versa), you’re worse than I am, compare others unfavorably.
To recognize the areas where you are most at
the effect in you life, list the following:
1. My strategies to avoid losing are:
2.
Ways my life is held back by me are:
3.
I am now committing to correct my counter-productive behavior by
implementing the following
actions
(immediately, this week, this month):
Healing Affirmations:
These strategies keep me from winning.
Now
I choose to win.
Defending
the Ego prevents success.
Now
I choose to release losing and be a winner in life.