Healing relationships depends entirely on healing yourself.
Remember to love, trust, respect and appreciate You.
LOVE YOURSELF WELL.
THEN YOU CAN LOVE OTHERS WELL.
Affirmations:
I am here to love and heal what needs love.
I am responsible for the quality of my relationships.
I begin with treating myself with respect, trust, appreciation and love.
I want my relationships to be good, and so I treat them all with respect.
Heal Your Relationships!
You will heal your relationships by healing yourself.
All upsets are a wakeup call.
Everything that is not right for you is calling you to look at yourself for healing.
When you are at peace, you know when others are not OK, they are asking for your help.
When I am not at peace with myself, it will show with others.
When I am unhappy, I will project it on others.
When I am disrespectful with me, I will disrespect others.
What is upsetting in me, I tend to project and perceive in others.
We project our healing needs onto others.
We give advice to others that we need to hear.
We blame others for what we have guilt about.
We seem to look for outside cause, rather than heal what is hurting within us.
When you complain, see what you can do within yourself to stop complaining.
When you are angry, consider what you can do to stop trying to hurt and blame others.
When you are needy, ask yourself how you can fill your own needs.
When we depend on others to take care of us, we will have disappointing results.
When people love us, they can and will do it well when they are loving themselves well.
When people are feeling hurt, scared, upset, lonely, angry, they will have difficulty in loving anyone well.
It is essential that we learn to take responsibility for our needs and ask for help from those who are able.
We must learn to discern who is able and willing to be truly helpful for themselves and others.
We may find that unconditionally loving and giving people are rare in our experience.
We may see that we need to become unconditionally loving for others who are in need.
We may even feel drained by needy people, especially when we have ignored our own needs.
It is essential that we forgive ourselves for not appreciating, loving and caring well for ourselves.
What will it take for you to be responsible for our own needs?
What do you need to create partnerships, families and friendships that are healing and healthy?
What can you do to start everyday tuning into what you need and fulfilling that need first?
How do you love yourself everyday in every way you are aware?
When you awaken, ask yourself: “What do I need to do to fulfill myself today?”
“What will make me feel happy and valuable today?”
“How can I give myself what is good for me?”
At the end of the day, give yourself a list of “gratitudes” and own them as your loving responsibility.
You have created your life as it is.
You can change your relationships, communication, thinking and emotions.
You can stop judging, blaming and feeling guilty.
You can let go of past errors and begin again today in the healthy and positive way.
You can, because you want to heal your relationships with yourself and with others.
I trust you and me to always look for the best ways to heal ourselves and others.
I give my best because you deserve it and so do I.
Betty Lue
Everyday in every way Do what is right and Good for you.
What is best for you is best for others.
Live your best and Good will follow.