Affirmations:
I choose wisely and respect the choices I make.
I respect those who live the same values I have.
I listen to what inspires, encourages and guides my life.
I focus on what is good for me and let the rest go.
(See Hawaii Spring Retreat with Robert and I in the menu bar to the left.)
Who Do You Admire?
When you admire someone or something, you tend to make
become more like them.
What you
admire, you tend to respect their values, accomplishments and/or choices.
Those you
admire may have a strong influence on how and what you choose in life.
Those we
admire and respect we look to for guidance and positive examples.
To recognize who you emulate, pay attention to what
choices you make.
Children
copy their parents and those they identify as role models.
You will be
most influenced by those you talk with, think about and associate with.
When you
want to know where you are going, you can look at your past associations.
Energy flows with your feelings.
Be aware of
what inspires you.
Be aware of
what scares you.
We all have
something to learn from both attraction and repulsion.
What you focus on and are curious about tends to show you
where you have something to learn.
You can
learn what isn’t good and doesn't work for you, just as easily as what is good
and does work.
When you
understand you are learning by association, you can choose what you want to
learn.
Our
respectful relationships will help teach and guide you in the direction you
choose is best.
Notice what you read and whom you read about.
Notice what
TV shows and movies your want.
Listen to
what and whom you talk about.
Listen to
your own thoughts about people and their lives.
You are always telling on yourself.
Your story
is in the gossip and stories you tell.
Your
choices are in what you validate, admire and respect.
Your
guidance and conscience are in what you criticize, disrespect and put down.
Remember that your life tells you what you value.
When you
value drama, you will experience drama.
When you
value peace, you will experience peace.
Our values
create what we experience.
You can change your experience by changing your values.
You can
change your future by changing your role models and heroes.
You can
change your choices by changing where you spend your time, energy and money.
If there is
something you want to be different, begin by changing your association.
If you like your life and the choices you make, validate,
admire and respect your self.
If you
dislike your life and your choices, change your associations and heroes and
guides.
You can
forgive and delete what does not work and choose again.
Spend no energy
on judging others or yourself, learn and let go.
Become the One You admire and respect.
I learn
from you and everyone I encounter,
Gratefully,
Betty Lue