Relationship Guidelines

I am writing this in response to a few recent experiences invited my wondering about my implied and explicit agreements with others, professionally and personally. People make assumptions based on their past experience with professionals with the same job classification.  People also project onto us what they wish would be, what they experienced in the past and what they knew in their family of origin.  

As I am about to begin my relationship workshop series (see menu bar on left and available in person, CD and online), I need to clarify my own role my mission, purpose and function.

My Relationship Guidelines.

I am here to be truly helpful.

I am guided by Love (Freedom and Trust) within.

I offer creative solutions when sincerely asked , both professionally and personally.

I guide others to forgive the past and to choose again with clarity (insight), consciousness and full communication.  (Communication means coming together in Unity and Love.)

I remind us all to find a better way through healing our own hurts, handling our own emotions and releasing our own toxic material responsibly.

I am constantly learning from everyone what will be effective in our relationships to live at peace.

Mission: To support, encourage and facilitate everyone in actualizing their highest potential through inspiration and education

In my work, I do not support or encourage dumping pain and negativity on others.

In my work, I do teach, support and encourage clearing our own past privately through inner work, (journaling, inner listening, forgiveness, affirmation, cathartic therapies).

I do not know what people believe or trust, therefore I listen deeply to what works for each one.

I am willing to respect, respond and collaborate with each to find their own unique path for happiness, health and harmony in all aspects of their lives.  

I know when one is content and at peace within, they extend happiness and peace to those they encounter.  

Therefore I focus on each individual living in integrity with their own values and  life choices.

My primary function is to forgive all mistakes, and always practice what I profess. 

Therefore, I do not dump on others or myself.

I do practice constant forgiveness or clearing of everything and everyone, including myself.

I do not believe my emotional state or negative thinking as Truth.

I do trust my spirit-guided thoughts and loving intention in all things.

I do not quit on anyone or step away from my choice to forgive and love again.

I do consistently practice finding the best way to be a source of inspiration, spiritual guidance and Love.

I do believe in the intrinsic Goodness in all people and creation.

I see my work as guiding humanity to find the Goodness within ourselves and to live a Godly life.

My Purpose is to be happy and to create a safe world in which all can choose happiness and Peace.

I recognize when I am not happy, I have not forgiven.

I know when I am not at peace, I have forgotten to listen within to the voice for Love.

I understand when I am not taking impeccable care of my authentic Self, I have lost my way.

I see that my happiness, my inner peace, my loving intention guides my thoughts, emotions and words.

I am not the victim of external circumstances, since I rule my mind and my emotions.

I choose to give my thoughts and feelings, my words and action to the Highest Good for the Good of all. 

I intend to co-create an inspired life which is fun, safe and easy, always loving and trusting in Good for all.

Always loving you,  

Betty Lue