Whenever you have a question, go to the Source.
Whenever you have a complaint, go to the one whose responsibility it is.
Whenever you have a complement, go directly to the one you appreciate.
Direct all communication to the one who knows and cares.
Share only what will benefit all.
Speak only about what will uplift and improve.
Tell only those stories with illuminate, heal and inspire.
Communicate only the desires which you know will be affirmed.
Common conversation often includes comments, criticism and gossip about others.
When we don’t have anything meaningful to say, why not say nothing?
When we cannot think of something loving and inspiring to share, how about silence?
When in doubt about relaying a message, why not keep it to yourself.
When asked to pass on a message, encourage the deliverer to do it themselves.
When someone tells a story, tattles or blames, ask them to keep it to themselves.
We do not need to be the recipient of bad news or hurtful feelings.
If we experience consistent negativity in a relationship, we can let them know it doesn't work for us.
As a therapist, coach, spiritual counselor and healing facilitator, I will hear the "story" one time.
I clear it with forgiveness, flushing the cosmic toilet, and invite the teller to do the work to heal and bless.
Puke and poop from the past do not belong in the present and only come with us if we choose.
The stink of toxic waste pollutes our consciousness and our relationships.
So flush. Tell your story once, if you must.
Tell it to someone or in someway which will facilitate its release.
To continue to carry past garbage endangers your physical and emotional health.
Let go and choose to place in yur mind and heart, and history book only what you value.
Blessings, gifts, happy learning, and appreciation belong with you as support and encouragement.
What depresses you, must be released.
What inspires you, you can share again and again.
Choosing the highest and best to share builds a life experience of wholeness, goodness and Love.
Give Love a chance,
Betty Lue
See prayer below that was sent to me to share with you all.
May You Always Feel Loved
May you find serenity and tranquility
in a world you may not always
understand.
May the pain you have known
and the conflict you have experienced
give you the strength to walk through life
facing each new situation
with optimism and courage.
Always know that there are those
whose love and understanding will always
be there, even when you feel most alone.
May you discover enough goodness in others
to believe in a world of peace.
May a kind word, a reassuring touch,
a warm smile be yours every day of your life,
and may you give these gifts as well as receive them.
Remember the sunshine when the storm seems unending.
Teach love to those who know hate, and let that love
embrace you as you go into the world.
May the teaching of those you admire
become part of you, so that you may
call upon them.
Remember, those whose lives you have touched
and who have touched yours are always a part of you,
even if the encounters were less than
you would have wished.
May you not become too concerned
with material matters, but instead place
immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart.
Find time in each day to see the beauty
and love in the world around you.
Realize that each person has limitless abilities,
but each of us is
different in our own way.
What you may feel you lack in one regard
may be more than compensated for
in another.
What you feel you lack in the present
may become one of your strengths in
the future.
May you see your future
as one filled with promise and possibility.
Learn to view everything
as a worthwhile experience.
May you find enough inner strength
to determine your own worth by yourself,
and not be dependent on another's judgements
of your accomplishments.
May you always feel loved.