Using One Another

Give with Joy.

Receive with Gratitude.

Affirmations:

Everything is a valuable resource to be used well.

I offer gratitude and respect to all I receive.

The more I give, the more I receive.

I utilize all resources for the highest and best outcome.

“Use" Resources with Respect.

We all “use” one another.

We are born “users”.

We use food to eat, beds to sleep, and TV to entertain.

Children use parents and parents use children.

People “use" one another.

Our interactive relationships are for the purpose of healing, learning, growing, providing, enjoying.

No matter what or where or how you live, you are using others and your environment.

We do not survive without our dependent, co-dependent and interdependent relationships.

We may seek independence, but we cannot exist alone.

We are dependent on air to breathe, water to drink, food to eat and all we seek to stay alive.

In our dependence on others, we must learn how to give and receive mutually.

With our dependence on our resources, we must learn how to respect and be grateful.

When unconscious people take each other for granted, we feel unfairly “used”.

When awakening, we notice how much we need.

When we fear doing without, we often get greedy in our fear.

Begin to see and feel how much you have and often ignore.

Do you take your family for granted?

Do you neglect being grateful for your own body and mind?

Are you aware of how you depend on the basics of everyday survival?

Do you contribute to others welfare with appreciation?

Reciprocal relationships come naturally when we recognize our dependence on one another.

We are actively grateful for having what we have.

We often do not know where the food comes from, but we know we depend on the growers.

We may not believe in a Source for our land, weather, clean water, electricity, but we are dependent.

We can begin appreciating all that is.

We can enjoy what we have and use it well.

We can show our gratitude by contributing our best.

We can demonstrate our appreciation with respect and kindness.

Using is what we do to live.

It is only abusing when we give nothing in return.

Simply acknowledging our gratitude balances the giving.

Being willing to say YES when we are asked for time, money and energy opens the flow.

Consider how much you depend on others.

Notice how much you count on good water and air, health care and education.

Allow yourself to love and appreciate our leaders, teachers, bankers, farmers, workman and more.

Everyone is a gift and with our appreciation, we all receive more.

Give your Best and you will receive abundant resources with joy and gratitude.

Appreciating all you give, 

Betty Lue

Be Happy!

March 30, 2023 

Be Happy!

It’s Your Choice.

Say “Yes" to what is Good.

Say “No" to what is Bad!

Affirmations:

I easily let go of worry and choose to be happy.

I give my energy focus  to gratitude and enjoyment. 

I have what I want and enjoy what I have.

I am happy with my life.

Don’t Worry!  Be Happy!!

Do you know how to change your mind?

Can you stop worrying just for this moment?

Are you willing to learn how to choose happiness?

Can you set aside your negative thoughts and feelings?

What we learn in life is often an “Adulteration” of feeling alive.

We may believe that being an adult is serious and difficult and even unsafe.

I know that life can be fun, safe and easy.

However, we need to choose the life we want to have and commit to it.

 Life will follow our direction.

But we must believe and know what we want.

We need to find the inner feeling and vision of what is our choice.

Then with words and actions as well as faith, we can commit to what is our choice.

Only the individual can actively on a daily basis choose what is your preference.

If you want milk but are offered water, you must learn to say “No”. and choose again.

Often we learn to conform, comply, give in, and let others choose for us.

The universe will follow our direction when we are willing to be clear and take action.

When we learn to be obedient, we often are imprinted to believe we must accept what we get.

When we learn to be free and responsible for our choices, we simply assert what we want.

We speak out with clarity and confidence and choose what is ours.

When we understand the power lies within us, we can use it in a way that creates no resistance.

We have power tools we are born with to use consciously.

If we learned to avoid pain by letting others control us, we may not believe we can choose.

It is our responsibility to learn how to make choices without guilt or blame.

We can easily let go of our limited thinking and choose a better way.

Stop and ask yourself what you want right now.

Choose what you want and give it to yourself.

Wait for no one to affirm or confirm your choice.

Give yourself the freedom and permission to be happy.

Begin to trust you can have what you want.

Notice how good it feels to make your ideal real.

Stop denying what you really want and have happiness now.

Have the heart to live what is highest and best for you.

It is never too late to love yourself and care for your own happiness.

It is time to release the belief in limitations and end shutting down your inner joy.

Give yourself opportunities each day to be happy and free with gratitude and laughter.

Enjoy what is naturally present for you every moment with the choices you make.

Having fun, because I am choosing to enjoy my life.

Betty Lue

Time Is Yours To Use

Thoughts Create.

Think Mindfully.

Affirmations:

I use time to do what I love.

I live in present moment and have plenty of time.

There is Divine timing for everything Divine.

Everything always happens in perfect timing.

Enough Time?

What is time but a measurement?

What are we measuring?

Are we using our time wisely?

Is there enough time?

When we measure what we have, we may find that we think we have more or less time.

When we lose track of time, we find we have not been paying attention to time.

When we think we don’t have enough time, we may feel rushed or anxious.

When we imagine that we are out of time, we may even feel panicky or desperate.

What if time is our imagined measure of what limits us.

What if we use time as a way to motivate or depress ourselves.

What if we see time as a power that we need to manage.

What if time is our own created adversary or friend.

"It took no time at all."

"I better hurry because I am running out of time."

"I just wasted all that time."

"What time is it anyway?"

"I didn’t know what time it was.

"I need to take my time."

Time is money.

"That was good timing."

There is never enough time."

"I need to learn to be on time."

All of these expressions indicate that time is significant.

Whatever our attitude about time, it challenges us to pay attention.

What we think or say about time, we apparently need it .

However we use time, we seem to find it important to master.

When we measure time as being perfect, it is.

When we see time as running out, it does.

When we know there is enough time, we have enough.

When we fear wasting time, we do.

What we think and say, we create.

Do we get it?

Are we learning?

Let’s practice using time for learning how we create and master time.

Betty Lue

There is no lack.

There is always plenty.

There is always enough for everyone.

Forgive the fear and everyone has enough.

When you believe it, you will see it!

Love is freedom to share and trust in Abundance.

Betty Lue

Forgotten?

BE HERE NOW.

SPEAK WITH WISDOM.

LIVE WITH INTEGRITY.

Affirmations:

I am here to make a difference.

I am here to live with Love and Joy.

I am willing to be wholly responsible for my life.

I am awakening into the awareness of my worth.

Have You Forgotten? 

Have you forgotten why you are here?

Do you remember why you came to be?

Are you willing to wake up and remember?

Are you open to your true calling?

Start simply and look around you.

Can you imagine you are more than you see?

Are you ready to take responsibility?

Do you think this is all a big mistake?

Consider what you have and where you are.

Consider the people living with and around you.

Notice who needs you and who you seem to need.

Uncover what you want down deep inside.

You may already know you came to give and receive.

You may see you want to be helpful and kind.

You may be actively teaching and learning.

You may have work where you care and share easily.

 Is there something special about you?

Do you feel the connection inside?

Are you aware of the feelings you have?

Do you notice the smile and gratitude you give?

Everyday wake up and ask:

What is my purpose today?

How do I teach and touch others?

What can I do to awaken my family?

How do I share my profound Love?

As you begin to be more conscious, you will see others wake up too.

As you share more genuine love, others seem to share theirs too.

As you express you tender feelings, others respond with more honesty.

As you come alive, your love and light and full appreciation shines through.

Life begins today to be more real, more meaningful.

People seem to be looking at you and listening to you.

The light seems brighter and everything is more real.

Love seems to be shared deeper and even guides your way.

Yours is a real life of goodness, kindness and sincere connection.

You are the center of a new feeling that inspires others.

Your sharing and sharing open hearts and inspire minds.

You are the Love leading the way.

Begin today.

We Are here to Remember Love and Return to Wholeness,

Betty Lue

“Give yourself to Love.

And Love will give to you.

Live your life with Trust.

And Trust will see you through.”