Saturday, October 31, 2015

Play Your Part!

I play my part with gratitude and joy.
I trust myself to live life my way.
I think, speak and act in integrity with my own values.
I choose what I want and live it.

What Is Your Part To Play?

What is the costume you wear?
What is the act you put on?
How do you wear your face?
What is the language you use?

Are you acting tough or tender?
Are you playing wise or foolish?
Are you acting certain or doubtful?
Are you pretend to be strong or weak?

Do you play sad or happy?
Are you behaving willing or resistant?
Are you playing open or closed?
Are you acting thoughtful or thoughtless?

Are you a chooser or a loser?
Do you sing out or pout?
Are you playing to win or lose?
Do you play smart or play stupid?

Do you know you have a choice?
Are you aware that you can put on a new face and costume everyday?
Have you discovered you really are the puppeteer, costume designer and script writer?
You are never stuck, no matter what you might have been taught.

Once you learn that you can be whatever you want to be everyday.
You begin to choose the parts you play.
When your repertoire is expansive, you can choose your role at choice.
Explore, experiment and try out what feels right and good for you.

In each circumstance, you may adapt to what fits in or what stands out.
In every relationship, you can play the part that they want or what you want to be.
In every stage of life, you can be think and talk and behave in the way that works for you.
You begin to discover life is your playground, your stage of unlimited possibility.

Once we are free from the projections of others and our own misbeliefs about ourselves, we can choose.
Choose what you want to think and say and do.
Choose what dream you want to be true for you.
Choose how you want to impress or express or depress

Life is a grand dress-up party where people make up who you are.
Life is a costume parade of ways individually want to play to belong and fit in or stand out and be noticed.
Life is a joining of folks who are remembering they are unlimited in how they want to play.
Be awake and aware of what is just right for you and watch how it works.

Trick or treat everyday.
Show up. Pay attention. And Live Your Truth.
Whatever costume you wear, I see You, I know You and  I Love You!
Betty Lue

Friday, October 30, 2015

Look for the Solution!

I choose to keep my mind open to creative solutions.
I free myself to change my mind and my feelings.
I quickly release all limiting thoughts and false beliefs.
I love being whole, happy and free.

Have a Problem?
Focus on the Solution!

“When you are looking for a solution, you feel positive emotion.
When you are looking at a problem, you feel negative emotion”. Abraham

Positive emotion yields success.
Negative emotion gets us stuck.
The key to finding happiness & health and freedom & success is positive feelings.
What you think, say and do sets the tone for your life experience.

My life is focused on creative solutions.
Stop trying to fix something which focuses on what is wrong.
Focus on appreciation and creation, which creates solutions that feel right.
When we affirm what we want with our thoughts and feelings, we create it.

Energy offers equal opportunity choices for our focus.
Where we choose to use our energy, we get more of the same.
When we focus on the experience we want, we create the experience.
When we focus on the experience we do not want, we have more of the same.

How we use our thoughts is our responsibility.
How we use our words is likewise our choice.
How we behave in every circumstance is what we have chosen, even unconsciously.
The results we achieve are the direct outcome of our thoughts, words and deeds.

We can change our minds.
We can choose our thoughts.
We can change our emotions.
We can change how we feel.

We are only limited by the beliefs we hold.
We are unlimited when we free ourselves from being stuck in what we believe.
When we open our minds to see the infinite possibilities, we seek the limitless.
When we reveal a field of infinite choice, we are free.

Taking responsibility for our thoughts, feelings and behavior is freeing.
Taking responsibility for our experiences can feel overwhelming.
With practice, we can free ourselves to reveal the power and peace of the infinite.
With forgiveness we can set aside and erase all that we have believed limited us.

Be optimistic and you will see life differently.
Be at choice in how you think and feel and perceive and you will live life differently.
Be appreciative of the life you have and your will live life abundantly.
This is your time to choose always and only creative solutions with joy.

Loving you, 
Betty Lue

“In optimism there is magic. In pessimism there is nothing. In positive expectation there is thrill and success. In pessimism or awareness of what is not wanted, there is nothing. What you're wanting to do is redefine your relationship with the Stream. We do not ask you to look at something that is black and call it white. We do not ask you to see something that is not as you want it to be and pretend that it is. What we ask you to do is practice moving your gaze. Practice changing your perspective. Practice talking to different people. Practice going to new places. Practice sifting through the data for the things that feel like you want to feel and using those things to cause you to feel a familiar place. In other words, we want you to feel familiar in your joy. Familiar in your positive expectation, familiar in your knowing that all is well, because this Universe will knock itself out giving you evidence of that Well-being once you find that place."   Abraham

Twelve Daily Steps To Optimistic Living
1. Focus on my successes rather than on my failures.
2. Notice that which I have accomplished rather than that which I’ve left undone.
3. See and acknowledge my beauty rather than focusing on my imperfections.
4. Notice and acknowledge all the times I’ve followed the optimum conditions,rather than judging myself for the times I have not.
5. Acknowledge all my wins each and every day.
6. Create and maintain an environment that nurtures me.
7.  See problems as opportunities to learn from rather than as obstacles to avoid.
8.  Tell the whole truth on a moment to moment basis in order to maintain impeccable and loving relationships.
9. Be conscious every moment to put positive thoughts into my mind rather than negative, knowing all thoughts are creative.
10.  Appreciate my feelings as a means of understanding myself, thus directing and creating my reality.
11. Continue to forgive myself and others as a means of creating a state of Grace.
12. Fill my life with joy and ecstasy by practicing daily the art and skill of verbally expressing my gratitude for all that I have. 

Thursday, October 29, 2015

Love Is Freeing!

Love is Freedom.
I free you to be you.
Love is Trust.
I trust you to freely be who you are.

See the freeing process below!

And I thank you.
Yes I thank you
For the love you give to me.
And I thank you .
Yes I thank you
For the Love that sets us free.
Charley Thweatt song.

Love Is Freeing!

When love is special, we get attached.
When love is freeing, everyone learns.
Love is trusting, not suspicious or restrictive.
Love is open, not closed and limiting.

With human attachment, we often decide only to love when our needs are met.
With human neediness, we choose to love those who take care of us.
With human dependence, we stop loving when we feel hurt or afraid.
When human commitment, we quit on love when others stop loving us.

True Love is our natural state.
When we love, we feel alive and free.
When we are flowing the love within us, we are whole and happy.
When we block or stop or withhold love, we feel unhappy and sick.

Love without attachment is freely shared with all.
Love with trust in ourselves is given naturally and openly.
Love is not sexual or promising to live together forever.
Love is allowing positive energy to flow between us.

I am loving you right now.
My love for you does not end, even if you are not my friend.
My love for you comes from deep inside where only goodness resides.
I love you because Love has no beginning and no end.

Love does not need reasons to love.
Love is the life force, “God Force” that lives within me.
Love is the joy of my being and the desire of my heart.
Love is my reason for being and my gift to be given.

I love you because you are here with me.
I love me because I am here with you.
Together our love can make our dreams come true.
Let us free one another to always and only choose love.

Loving you and me to always be as free and happy as we are created to be!
Betty Lue

Getting Free
(By Setting Others Free)
It is not unusual for us human beings to secretly wish and hope that the people we’re close to don’t become too magnificent. We don’t really want these significant others to be too free or too powerful or too creative or too successful or to dream too wild a dream. We actually prefer that they stay small, “manageable”, non-threatening, tame. After all, we don’t want to be made to feel uncomfortable or inadequate or diminished or challenged by the boldness and joyfulness with which someone else lives his or her life.
But, until we are willing and actively desire that the key people in our lives be totally free and powerful, we cannot be free and powerful ourselves. So, here is an affirmation-prayer that may help us begin freeing others, so that we can begin to free ourselves.

I, _____(your name)_____ want you, _____(his or her name)_____, to be the highest, clearest, most powerful expression of God that you can be. I would not limit you in any way, knowing that only as I encourage you to expand, explore and grow, can I myself be free. So I fully support you in being and expressing all that you are.
I want you to go where you feel called to go, to speak and act as you feel guided, and to express yourself in whatever ways seem right. There is nothing I do not want you to do, for I know that all movement is contained within God and always leads us to Him.
I am at peace with whatever decisions and choices you make, no matter how they may seem to affect me. Since I know that God loves and supports me perfectly, I know that however you choose to be with me must be a manifestation of that divine love and support. Because I trust God, I trust you. And because I trust you, I trust myself.

So, be free, be powerful, be unlimited. And know that I, _________, want you, _________, to be the highest, clearest, most powerful expression of God that you can be. I fully support you in being all that you are.

Wednesday, October 28, 2015


From a longtime reader of Loving Reminders
The Loving Reminders I receive have not only helped me with the love and spiritual support
I've needed, but as an added bonus, by doing the work and following the very practical
guidelines and suggestions within these Loving Reminders, my need has always been met.
Its wonderful to have immediate help available for everyone - families, couples and people of all ages!
With Deep Appreciation and Gratitude,
Mary Lynn Peters

I give the best I have and all is given unto me.
I learn from what I receive how to give better.
I am the real gift as I give the Love I am.
Life is for giving and I Am the Gift!

Tis a Gift to be Given.
Tis a Gift to be Giving.
Tis a Gift to be Receiving.
Tis a Gift to simply Be!

Everything is Gift!

When we come from Gratitude, everything is Gift!
Whether giving or receiving, everything is a gift.
Whether we judge good or bad, everything can be useful.
Whether right or wrong, all we give and receive can be helpful.

We learn to judge to discern and discriminate.
We value judging as a way to tell what is good for us.
We throw away what we can no longer use.
We hang on and save what we judge to be useful and helpful.

As we exercise our own discernment, we strengthen our beliefs.
As we use our judging mind, we see what we treasure and what we discard.
We are learning with all the gifts of life to be at choice.
We are deciding what we want to be and have and do.

Yes, every relationship provides information and education.
Every encounter offers opportunities to stay and speak or not.
Every word we offer can be used as lessons to be learned.
Every interaction is a way of projecting or defending.

We each and all are giving and receiving.
In silence or with words we have gifts we can receive.
With kindness or unkindness we learn how and what we receive.
There are many facets of learning with everything given and received.

Some throw away what is unwanted and unkind.
Some learn from what they receive what is good for them.
Some learn how to transform unkindness into healing.
Some earn an opportunity to give themselves the experience.

Many make up their mind about good and bad gifts.
Some are curious and want to look inside and learn more.
Some immediately defend, reject and avoid what seems noxious.
A few are curious about what is being asked to be given in return.

It is a gift to keep it simple.
It is a gift to give only what we want to receive.
It is a gift to learn from both giving and receiving.
It is a gift to give consciously.

Thanks for giving always and only the best you have.
Thanks for remembering to always love you first.
Thanks for returning to the sender what is helpful and good for them.
Loving you and me in giving and receiving,
Betty Lue

The Gift You Are

You are the gift.
In your healing, I am healed.
In your smiling, I find joy.
In your learning, I am filled with wisdom.
In your free expressions, I am empowered.
In your abundance, I too prosper.
In your spontaneity, I am set free.
In your joy, I know heaven.

And so it is that you give your Self to me
And I receive you with love and gratitude.
I am the gift I give to You
And I fully receive the gift I freely give.

As I know You, I know my Self.
As I give to you, I receive all good.
As I support you, I am supported by the Universe.
As I honor and respect you, I experience gratitude in all my being.
As I love you, I am loving all of God's creation.

I know you and believe in you.
I honor, respect and support you in being.
In you and me is all the Universe.
We are gifts to one another.

       - Betty Lue