Families Matter

Affirmations:

I Love as I feel loved.

I Love to remember the Love I AM.

I dare to care to heal myself.

The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more I love, trust and respect others.

Families Matter

Everyone is important.

We are born to be with those who need our Love.

We are here to heal what is not healthy, happy or loving.

We need not stay in situations that are harmful or hurtful.

From a distance we can often love more easily.

When we are alone we can more likely heal the fear.

When we forgive, we can see things more clearly.

When we are aware, we can understand, accept and love.

Families are the place we want to feel safe.

Families are to bring us into conscious connection.

Families are where we desire to nurture and be nourished.

Families are meant to be where we are protected and provided for.

When our family of origin is unsafe, we may not learn to love.

When families don’t nurture or protect us, we may not know how to nurture and protect ourselves.

When families become the place of criticism, blame and shame, we learn to do it to ourselves and others.

Family is our first school of learning from conception.

What we learn within our family system is often preverbal and therefore unconscious.

What we learn prior to going to school stays with us for a lifetime.

The false beliefs and fears and negative experiences in early child hood, shape our perceptions.

Limiting beliefs and faulty thinking become the distortion of our perceptions.

We can heal and clarify, forgive and undo, what is not true.

We can erase from our lives judgments, criticism, shame.

We can let go and learn to love ourselves.

As we love and forgive others, we learn to love and forgive ourselves…….and vice versa.

Life is for giving.

We are the gift.

It is in giving our selves that we realize the Gift We Are.

You Are the Gift of Love and so Am I.

Remember Love All the time and return to Wholeness.

We heal all brokenness with Love.

We remember our Authentic Self with Trust.

We return to our Natural State of Loving Kindness when we forgive.

We can love from a distance and heal within our heart.

We can release the past and begin again each day to remember Love.

We can undo the fear and be clear about what is Good for us.

We can choose to Love everyone as your Family of Humanity.

You are my family.

You are a part of me.

You see what we can be.

When we’re in Love.

Betty Lue

Use Your Life Well!

Affirmations:

I recognize each day is a Gift of Creative Potential.

I waste no time to follow the calling of my heart.

I live my life with focus on what has meaning and purpose.

I know what I want and I go for it daily.

Are You Using Time Efficiently?

Are You Using Your Resources Effectively?

You are a Source of Good to be used for Creating more Good.

You Life is a Gift of Unlimited Potential for you  to utilize wisely and well.

Nothing and no one can limit us if we are awake and aware, open and willing.

We can do what we make up our mind to do with appreciation for ourselves.

How are you wasting your time?

Why are you sitting back?

How are you not doing what you really want?

Where are you sabotaging your Self?

Begin by observing all the addictions, delays, detours and distractions.

These are the areas that interfere with your productivity, enthusiasm and fulfillment.

When we bury our intentions, desires and goals under these interferences, we cannot achieve.

When we allow worldly complexity to confuse, conflict and waste our time, we lose our way.

Begin to undo what is not really valuable.

Start claiming your own power or will and choose.

Choose what you really want.

Let go what you don’t want or need.

Screen time is usually the biggest time waster and distraction.

Consider the addictive nature of facebook, twitter, etc.

Consider how much time you spend with TV and video games.

Consider how many moments you miss with your own family.

Are you sitting, when there is always much to be done?

Are you texting rather than talking to those around you.

Are you laughing about someone else’s life and ignoring your own?

Are you gossiping away your time, judging and being entertained?

Screen time is addictive and helps us avoid our own need to create our own life.

You may have crying or needy children neglected while you are being distracted.

You may be shopping on line when you could be doing the washing or writing a “thank you” note.

Ask yourself if you are handling all the priorities and goals you have.

Time is a gift you have to be used for what is most important to you.

When you use you life well, you have no regrets.

When you focus on what matters, you have no guilt.

When you use your time, energy and money well, you feel happy and fulfilled.

Put your whole Self into this moment now.

Be present with the time you have.

Appreciate the people you are with.

Above all, enjoy this life everyday.

Life can be good for us when we use it well,

Betty Lue

Create for Joy!

Affirmations:

I create a life I enjoy

When I appreciate the life I have, life becomes more enjoyable.

I focus on creating how I want to live and love and be.

I am responsible for the experiences I have.

Creating Is Our Natural State.

We were created to be creative.

We create with our thoughts, ideas and vision.

We create with our emotions and our fears.

We are constantly creating with our energy.

When we learn to create what we REALLY want, we experience fulfillment.

When we create unconsciously, we may not be happy with our creations.

When we create with Joy, we have happy creations.

When we with fear and judgment, we may have unwanted creations.

The key is to know we are always creating.

The reset or clearing is with forgiveness.

When we don’t like our experience, we can easily forgive ourselves.

When we want to encourage our experience, we simply appreciate.

We choose what we experience.

We choose our value or lack of value for the creation.

When we are enjoying creating with play and laughter, we enjoy the outcome.

When we dislike our creative experience, we usually dislike the outcome.

It seems clear that our work in this work of active creating is to be happy.

We can easily enjoy our life experiences and learn how to create well.

We can choose to let go, erase and delete and choose again and still again.

We can constantly recreate with play and open-mindedness and enjoyment.

Experiment with what you really want.

Make a spontaneous list of your top 20 wants.

Begin to clarify what you are allowing to stand in your way.

Let no excuses or obstacles block you  in experiencing more joy.

We are here to be creative.

Create joy with joy and enjoy your creations.

Give your thoughts, desires and trust to joyous fulfillment.

You will enjoy the Joy in your life.

Stop thinking about what you don’t want.

Don’t allow destructive or negative thoughts.

Let go of limiting thoughts and emotions.

Erase and forgive what you fear and judge.

Use your creative potential to create all Good.

Use your resources, thoughts and feelings to create what you love.

Use your time and energy to create how you want to live and love.

Use your life to create the world you want to see and be.

You Can, when You think you can!

I trust you to create what is GOOD for You!

Betty Lue

CREATE YOUR OWN SUCCESS

Know what Success is for you.

SMART= specific, measureable, attainable, realistic and timely.

Be open to identify what you have learned from life about success.

Easily and quickly forgive everything that has not worked.

Be kind to yourself and others with your thoughts, words and actions.

Take care of your creations with TLC- your body, money, thoughts, home, creations.

Eliminate all excess In wasting time, energy, money and things.

See how good your life is and appreciate the Love you are given and been asked for.

Speak, imagine and behave in ways that create success.  (Dress for Success.)

Work diligently on everything that is wise, useful and positive.

Hold the thoughts, words, deeds of Success by being Success and Giving Success.

TEN KEYS TO A GOOD LIFE:

Be Responsible for the entirety of your life.

Be Open to learn from everything and everyone.

Be Forgiving of all mistakes, yours and others.

Be Truly helpful by thinking, speaking and giving your best.

Be Impeccable in caring for your body, relationships, home, work, finances.

Be Willing to live with moderation in all things.

Be Aware of the Gift of Love and the Call for Love.

Be Exact with your thoughts and words; they create your life.

Be Hard-working with wisdom, gratitude and joy.

Be Good.  See Good. Think Good. Speak Good. Give Good.