Monday, July 25, 2016

Respond to All Things with Love

Love unconditionally, serve from the heart and remember the Goodness Within.
I respond to life with gentleness, kindness and gratitude.
I take really good care of my mental, physical and spiritual state of being..
I treat my whole life as the gift of sacredness it truly is.

See Fifth Key to Successful Relationship and Partnership below

Are You Able to Respond?

Being responsible is being able to respond with the highest Qualities of Love.
Are you able to respond with trust, tolerance, honesty, patience and gentleness?
Are you willing to respond with open-mindedness, faithfulness and defenselessness?
Are you ready to respond with generosity and joy with Love?

Life is our gift.
When we fully receive what life offers, we learn to be respond to life with our best.
Life is a privilege.
We learn to see our lives as an opportunity to be given our best.

When we observe nature, we are amazed.
When we watch children, we are delighted.
When we pay attention to the cycles and seasons, we are awed.
When we receive our own lives with gratitude, we are blessed.

There is much complexity on the outside.
There is complete simplicity within.
There may be obvious truths on the outer.
There is an awesome mystery within.

We can respond to life with love, gratitude and joy.
We can react to life with fear, complaint and negativity.
It is our choice to respond with love or react with fear.
It is our privilege to enjoy life or take it for granted and neglect.

Life gives us chance after chance to choose again.
We can and will wake up sooner or later.
We can stay dependent and needy or self actualized and abundant.
We are here to learn to grow up and only dependent on the Goodness of Source.

Are you willing to look within you and see all that is given you?
Are you able to see the treasures of Love that have been placed in your heart and mind?
Are you open to the wonder of life’s daily miracles and respond to them with gratitude?
Are you ready to be fully responsible for all you are given each and every day?

Relationships show us what me may have ignored or neglected.
Relationships make us realize where we have been intolerant and ungrateful.
Relationships invite us to forgive our mistakes and unconsciousness.
Relationships demand us to respect ourselves and others  and the world we share.

I believe in you to be the one to remember Love!
Loving always Loving You,
Betty Lue

Keys to Successful Relationships

 Joining-Create a common vision or shared goal.

Honesty- Communicate your true intention without secrets or withholds.

Equality-Each is giving the best they know in each moment.

Commitment- Agree to what is highest and best for both parties.

Responsibility- Be able and willing to respond consciously to all relationship needs without guilt or blame. Be respectful and forgiving of mistakes made.

Successful Relationships

To have successful relationships with partners, spouse, coworkers, teammates, children there are five essential factors: Joining, Honesty, Equality, Commitment, Responsibility.

Joining: All parties must share a common goal or vision for their relationship. This shared vision comes from communication regarding the needs of each individual, their vision for the future and what they share in common.

Honesty: Honest communication is sharing what really matters with no blame, guilt or withholds.
Honest is a byproduct of integrity, living one’s life on purpose with openness and appreciation.

Equality: When both parties are giving their best in each moment, there is equality.  Equality is not measured by comparison: it is experienced when there is the willingness to give one’s best even when it is less than the other.  To quit or hold back on one’s giving creates inequality.

Commitment: To commit to the fulfillment of the desired vision or goal and to the success of the relationship requires always choosing what is best for both.  Decisions are based on what is a win/win for all concerned.  One must be committed to what is highest and best for each party.

Responsibility: Being fully able and willing to respond to whatever is needed to create success through joining, honesty, equality and commitment is being fully responsible.  Where there is guilt or blame being communicated, there is inequality and victimization as well as lack of responsibility.

To be successful requires staying conscious.
To be successful requires a willingness to communicate with respect.
To be successful requires an acceptance of differences.
To be successful requires open-minded and appreciation of all parties.

To take on unconscious patterns of dysfunctional family systems will limit the success of one’s joining, honest communication, true willingness to give., total commitment to what is best for all and assuming full responsibility for the quality of the relationship.

If you want success and fulfillment in your relationships, begin today to observe what you can do to improve them in every way.  You need not depend upon the other changing in order to increase the quality of your relating.

Blessings for choosing a better way,
Betty Lue