Affirmations:
Love unconditionally, serve from the heart and remember the Goodness
Within.
I respond to life with gentleness, kindness and gratitude.
I take really good care of my mental, physical and spiritual state of
being..
I treat my whole life as the gift of sacredness it truly is.
See
Fifth Key to Successful Relationship and Partnership below
Are You Able to Respond?
Being responsible is being able to respond with the highest Qualities of
Love.
Are you able to
respond with trust, tolerance, honesty, patience and gentleness?
Are you willing
to respond with open-mindedness, faithfulness and defenselessness?
Are you ready to
respond with generosity and joy with Love?
Life
is our gift.
When we fully
receive what life offers, we learn to be respond to life with our best.
Life is a privilege.
We learn to see our
lives as an opportunity to be given our best.
When
we observe nature, we are amazed.
When we watch
children, we are delighted.
When we pay
attention to the cycles and seasons, we are awed.
When we receive our
own lives with gratitude, we are blessed.
There
is much complexity on the outside.
There is complete
simplicity within.
There may be obvious
truths on the outer.
There is an awesome
mystery within.
We
can respond to life with love, gratitude and joy.
We can react to life
with fear, complaint and negativity.
It is our choice to
respond with love or react with fear.
It is our privilege
to enjoy life or take it for granted and neglect.
Life
gives us chance after chance to choose again.
We can and will wake
up sooner or later.
We can stay
dependent and needy or self actualized and abundant.
We are here to learn
to grow up and only dependent on the Goodness of Source.
Are you willing to look within you and see all that is given you?
Are you able to
see the treasures of Love that have been placed in your heart and mind?
Are you open to
the wonder of life’s daily miracles and respond to them with gratitude?
Are you ready to
be fully responsible for all you are given each and every day?
Relationships
show us what me may have ignored or neglected.
Relationships make
us realize where we have been intolerant and ungrateful.
Relationships invite
us to forgive our mistakes and unconsciousness.
Relationships demand
us to respect ourselves and others and the world we share.
I
believe in you to be the one to remember Love!
Loving always Loving
You,
Betty Lue
Keys
to Successful Relationships
Joining-Create a common vision or shared
goal.
Honesty- Communicate your true intention
without secrets or withholds.
Equality-Each is giving the best they know
in each moment.
Commitment- Agree to what is highest and best
for both parties.
Responsibility- Be able and willing to respond
consciously to all relationship needs without guilt or blame. Be respectful and
forgiving of mistakes made.
Successful
Relationships
To
have successful relationships with partners, spouse, coworkers, teammates,
children there are five essential factors: Joining, Honesty, Equality,
Commitment, Responsibility.
Joining: All parties must share a common
goal or vision for their relationship. This shared vision comes from
communication regarding the needs of each individual, their vision for the
future and what they share in common.
Honesty: Honest communication is sharing
what really matters with no blame, guilt or withholds.
Honest
is a byproduct of integrity, living one’s life on purpose with openness and
appreciation.
Equality:
When both
parties are giving their best in each moment, there is equality. Equality
is not measured by comparison: it is experienced when there is the willingness
to give one’s best even when it is less than the other. To quit or hold
back on one’s giving creates inequality.
Commitment:
To commit to the
fulfillment of the desired vision or goal and to the success of the
relationship requires always choosing what is best for both. Decisions
are based on what is a win/win for all concerned. One must be committed
to what is highest and best for each party.
Responsibility:
Being fully able
and willing to respond to whatever is needed to create success through joining,
honesty, equality and commitment is being fully responsible. Where there
is guilt or blame being communicated, there is inequality and victimization as
well as lack of responsibility.
To
be successful requires staying conscious.
To
be successful requires a willingness to communicate with respect.
To
be successful requires an acceptance of differences.
To
be successful requires open-minded and appreciation of all parties.
To
take on unconscious patterns of dysfunctional family systems will limit the
success of one’s joining, honest communication, true willingness to give.,
total commitment to what is best for all and assuming full responsibility for
the quality of the relationship.
If you
want success and fulfillment in your relationships, begin today to observe what
you can do to improve them in every way. You need not depend upon the other changing in order to increase the
quality of your relating.
Blessings
for choosing a better way,
Betty
Lue