Tuesday, September 08, 2015

Be Helpful!

I am trust in being helpful to everyone.
Helpfulness builds a safer and kinder world.
I easily help my family, community and humanity.
What brings joy and gratitude to myself and others helps everyone.

How to Be Helpful!

You are here to be helpful.
Everything you do can be helpful to others.
Do what you can to be helpful to yourself.
The more you are self sufficient, the more you are helping others.

Help yourself first.
Clean up your own life.
Clear up your communications.
Clean up your home.

Handle your bills and finances.
Take care of unfulfilled agreements.
Complete unfinished projects.
Release toxic relationships.

Be impeccable with your care of the environment.
Live true to your own philosophy.
Be honest in thought, word and deed.
Treat everyone as you want to be treated.

Be helpful to your family.
Treat both children and elders with respect.
Be accepting of those who are different than you.
Stop complaining and seek creative win-win solutions.

Take care of your responsibilities with gratitude.
Clear fear and negative reactivity.
Respond to requests for help with “YES”!
Seek how you can be more helpful to others.

Be willing to listen to want is needed.
Listen within for the highest and best ways to be helpful.
Teach others to help themselves rather than depend on you.
Be grateful and help and teach with joy.

Remember that helpfulness does not promote dependency.
Helpfulness is not martyrdom or creating obligation.
Being helpful is not bargaining for getting reward.
Being truly helpful is selfless service with genuine caring.

Love is helping others, as we would want to be helped.
Giving is a natural sharing of what is good for all.
Being truly helpful is an act of joining and equality.
When we have given with Love, we have given to ourselves.

I enjoy the many ways I have chosen to be helpful,
Betty Lue

Keys to Unconditional Love
    Always give your best.
    Demonstrate your love (with positive words, affection, undivided time, gifts, service)
    Listen and learn what is most respected and helpful.
    Observe what is received with gratitude.
    Step away when you are not your best and renew yourself.
    Give only with gratitude and joy (no sacrifice or self denial)
    Trust others are giving their best.
    Always inspired the best in others.
    Believe and see the Love within.
    Trust each one is learning how best to love.
    Free yourself and others to love unconditionally.
    Forgive all mistakes or withholds.
    Learn to love them anyway.