Monday, May 14, 2012

No Complaining!

Complaining, whining and playing “poor me” is disempowering, depleting, depressing and denial.
When we play the victim, we make ourselves weak.
When we act defeated, we are giving up and giving in.
When we make others to blame, we deny our own powerful choices with the thoughts and words we use.

I have purchased batches of “no complaint” purple bracelets, which I give away.
They are found at “www.acomplaintfreeworld.org” website.
They are to be used as reminders of how much we can do when we stop complaining.
Instead of being focused on what you cannot do, consider using your energy on what you can do.

Shift your consciousness.
Empower yourself.
Use your vision effectively.
Share words that inspire.

When we focus on the negative, we strengthen and create more negative.
When we speak and act positive, we strengthen and create more positive.
This is true personally and professional, in relationships and for yourself.
You can effect change immediately with your thoughts, words and actions.

Open your mind.
Support yourself.
Imagine what you really want.
Speak with focused inspiration.

When you grow up in a “nay-saying family, your habit may be to do the same.
When you live with negative media, you may be attracted to “how bad it is.”
When you are attracted to hopelessness and despair and commiserate with weakness, you may become weak.
What we focus our attention on (think and talk about), we tend to strengthen and even become.

Empowerment is an inside job.
Being positive and effective come from a change of mind and heart.
Being willing to take the high road inspires ourselves and others.
Eliminating all self defeating and depleting thoughts and words changes lives.

What can you do to think, speak and act differently?
What are you willing to undo to have a change of attitude?
What can you do to take full responsibility for the quality of your life?
How can you change your life by telling a different story and stop discouraging yourself?

The winners all have losses, but view them as valuable blessings, not as failures.
The rich and powerful may have lost their way, but they never lost their will.
Those who succeed after 2 or 3 bankruptcies simply kept going and never quit.
Those who found the greatest love later in life kept their heart open to what was the best for them.

Never quit on yourself.
Never quit on Love.
Never quit on the Good that lives in you.
Never drain your energy on what is not.
Give your appreciation to the Good that already is.

Loving us all as we find our way in appreciation every day.
Betty Lue