Affirmations:
My
love sets me free to love without end.
I
love and share this love as a natural gift of my being.
Love
is my natural state.
We
are born in Love as Love for the holy purpose of Loving.
Dependent
and/or Co-Dependent
Do
you need to be needed?
Do you need
someone to love you and care for you?
Are you dependent
on people, places or things?
Are you aware of
how vulnerable or insecure you feel?
What
can you do to rely on you?
How can you turn
your life into a secure way of living?
Do you have a
schedule, routine or something to rely on?
Are you willing
to take responsibility for the quality of your life?
Whenever
we feel dependent on someone or something, we will feel vulnerable.
To depend on the
reliability of others will open the way for insecurity.
Those who learn to
manage their own lives have less fear, anxiety and dependency needs.
Consider what or who
you can trust no matter what.
Is
it helpful to yourself and others to be needy?
Are you here to
become your own person or to let someone else guide you?
Do you need to be
loved by another or can you actually love yourself?
Do you need
someone to need you to be worthy of being loved?
Often
you may rely on the advice of others.
You may need others
to care for you.
People depend on
another or the government for finances.
You may have learned
to lean on another and stay dependent.
Consider
whether you want someone to depend on you.
Do you encourage
others’ addictions or dependency?
Are you aware of how
you want to control people who need you?
Some depend on
others to be dependent on you
Help
your children to become independent and grow up.
Help partners to
develop their own gifts and talents.
With independence
come strength, courage, and consciousness.
Learn to be
independent to feel Self confidence and self respect..
You
can be attached to another and want to keep them dependent on you.
You can need to feel
better about yourself by taking care of others.
You can be addicted
to the feeling of being needed.
You can choose again
to set yourself and others free to learn from life.
Dependent
love is usually restrictive and limiting.
Conditional love is
based on what others do or don’t do.
Independent love is
trusting and freeing.
Unconditional love
has no limits and simply loves for the sake of loving.
Loving You with
Freedom and Trust,
Betty Lue
LOVE IS TRUST AND FREEDOM
¤ I love you
¤
and I know you love me too.
LOVE IS FREEDOM
The freedom for you and I to be who we are.
The freedom to live life as we do.
The freedom to make mistakes and learn from them.
The freedom to express our own truth as we see it.
LOVE IS TRUST
The trust that there is a constant flow of love,
no matter what.
The trust that, in spite of life’s problems,
we believe in and support each other’s right
to live as we choose.
The trust that in adversity,
there is healing and learning and gifts of love.
The trust that under conflict and emotional
expression,
there is love
I love you and I trust you.
I free you to be all you are.
Betty Lue 1978