Full Moon is
tomorrow, Friday at 12:05 PM.
(Often intensified
feelings and energy.)
Do
What is Beneficial!
Help
people do what is right.
Help people learn
better ways.
Help people stop
making mistakes.
Help people be
present and remember.
The
more we are distracted by mistakes, the less we focus on what is right.
The more we fear
others’ criticisms, the less enjoyment we have of doing our best.
The more we are
defending or hiding from disapproval, the less awareness we have of our good.
Our guilt and fear
create more mistakes and unconsciousness and repeated misbehaviors.
Behavior
modification works.
Learn to appreciate,
encourage and validate behavior you value.
Learn to ignore,
forgive, let go of behaviors you devalue.
The more positive or
negative attention, the more likelihood of behavior is repeated.
Why not focus on teaching by valuing the behavior that is valuable?
Why not use
positive reinforcement for yourself and others?
Why not learn
helpful tools to encourage and empower others to do well?
Why not be truly
helpful in your teaching and learning of all you encounter?
This
requires an undoing of what most people are taught.
Pointing out the
mistakes of others is usually learned by school age.
Self esteem and
confidence are lowered when judged and criticized and punished.
Self esteem,
confidence and high achievement are raised when trusted, valued and given
positive attention.
Look
for the Good.
Attend to what
matters.
Speak kindly with
encouragement.
Praise what is good
and whole and beneficial.
Positive
reinforcement amplifies what is beneficial.
Paying attention to
what works encourages more positive behavior for everyone.
Watching how
everyone thrives on reassurance, appreciation and positive attention is
amazing.
Everyone in the
family, workplace, school is energized and inspired with genuine encouragement.
Everyone
is benefitted with naturally given encouragement, praise and gratitude.
Both giver and
receiver enjoy positive interactions.
When given a
complement or praise, everyone feels loved, touched and encouraged.
It is our give to
ourselves and others to be appreciative and encourage everyone.
Remember
how it feels to be loved, valued, encouraged and supported.
Give your very best
to everyone everyday.
Watch your
relationships change from inside out.
Do what works!.
What
you do matters!
Betty Lue
The
only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love.
Betty
Lue