Relationships Require Love

LOVE YOURSELF AS YOU WANT TO BE LOVED.

TREAT OTHERS AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.

RESPECT OTHERS AS YOU WANT TO BE RESPECTED.

Affirmations:

I am created by Love as Love for the Soul Purpose of Loving.

I easily remember to love everyone including myself.

My Love transforms all relationships into Loving Reminders.

I fill myself with Love by continuing to freely give Love.

Relationships Remind Us toLove Our Selves!

Whether we know it or not, every relationship can be helpful and healing.

Whether we realize it or not, we have the relationships we need to learn about ourselves.

Whether we can see it or not, all upsets are past similar that are calling to be healed.

Even when we do not understand, we keep repeating past wounds until we heal ourselves.

Each relationship we have teaches us and reminds us.

Every encounter, even the brief ones show us a piece of ourselves.

Every pet, plant and person is an opportunity to let go, forgive and love ourselves.

Each interaction can be used to heal or hurt, forgive or judge, love or fear.

Our primary relationship is always with learning to love ourselves.

When we remember to love, trust, respect and appreciate the One We are, others learn to Love as well.

Every unloving thought, word or action is always a call for Love.

When we forsake another, we have forsaken ourselves.

We are here to respond to every lack of Love with Love.

When we are empty and forgetting to Love ourselves, we cannot respond with Love.

When we cannot respond to the tears and fears of another, we may withdraw or get angry with them.

When we cannot or will not love another, we feel guilty and often attack or avoid or abandon.

We will all learn to always and only respond with Love to all calls for Love.

Sometimes this Love is given directly and immediately with kindness and listening.

Sometimes, we must give quiet space and allow the other to calm themselves with loving thoughts.

Sometimes, we simply sit in silence and wait for the opening to love.

Each response to love is unique to the individual situation.

When we feel our own need for love, we can pause to forgive, care for ourselves, and find clarity within.

When we sit with our own thoughts and feelings, listening and writing is very helpful.

The real reason I am upset is:  or  The Real Reason I feel unloved is:

Learn to sit quietly and write down every response or reaction you hold in mind.

The objective is to clear it all by writing everything down no matter how crazy or irrational.

The mind creates the same experience it holds in mind, until we are clear of reasons and excuses.

Our work is to Clear Everything Unlike Love and learn to always return to Love.

Relationships are not to GET Love.

All relationships are for learning to GIVE Love.

When we do not Love ourselves, we feel needy to GET Love.

When we Love ourselves, we feel happy to GIVE Love.

Life is for GIVING!

You are the GIFT.

When you GIVE the Love within You,

You Realize the Gift of Love You Are.

Loving You,

Betty Lue

 

The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love. 

Betty Lue

Remember To Love

ENJOY & APPRECIATE.

CHOOSE WISELY & WELL.

LIVE WITH KINDNESS & RESPECT.

Affirmations:

I remember how wonderful it feels to simply Love.

I love being loving and respectful and kind.

I love being inspired everyday to love even more.

I love sharing all the Love I have inside.

Do You Know How to Love?

Do you remember what love is?

Do you understand how to love you?

Do you allow yourself to love others?

Do you show and share your love?

Love inspires others to love.

Love sets us all free to fully express love.

Love encourages us to open our heart to freely share our love.

Love enjoys loving and being loved fully and freely.

Love may be saying, “I love you.” or giving a hug. 

Love may be creating a good meal or happy surprise.

Love may be doing something truly helpful for another. 

Love can be sitting quietly sharing some special time.

Love may be cleaning up after another when they are tired.

Love may be sending affirming and healing prayer to another.

Love may be thinking good thoughts about times gone by.

Love may be playing a game of cards or reading to another.

Love can be a simple note or phone call just when inspired.

Love can be offering a cup of tea and sitting by the fire.

Love can be cleaning a room or making the bed.

Love can be writing, drawing, singing or creating something beautiful.

Love may look like a genuine smile or a carefree wink.

Love may be unseen or unnoticed by the recipient.

Love may be a gift that you just want to give with all your heart.

Love may be responding to a request or even giving anonymously.

Love can be a note in the lunchbox or cookies in the cookie jar.

Love can be a clean house with their special meal on the table.

Love can be the way you say “hello” and listen to what they say.

Love can be turning off the TV and cell phone and just being there.

You will find when you are willing to really Love, you feel good!

You will see that it doesn’t matter to have love come back to you.

You will understand that love asks nothing in return.

Love comes from the heart and is given without conditions or expectations.

Remember to love without jokes or making it embarrassing.

Remember to love just the way you want to feel loved.

Remember to give love that is genuine, without pretense.

Remember to forgive all the ways you have forgotten or neglected Love.

I AM Loving you everyday with everything I think and do and say.

I Love You!

Betty Lue

Speak Up!

SPEAK TO HEAL.

SPEAK TO ENCOURAGE.

REMIND ALL TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER.

Affirmations:

I listen to the Voice for Good within me.

I honor the call for love with kindness and respect.

I trust us each to forgive the places where we hold toxic thoughts and feelings.

I encourage us to speak up, reminding ourselves and others to return to loving kindness.

Speak Up!

Tell your truth.

Let people know.

Be clear with your words.

Be honest about what is true for you.

Don’t assume anything.

They don’t know unless you tell them.

They don’t hear you unless you speak.

They won’t know you unless you let them know you.

Take nothing personally.

Others need to share their truth.

Others will have different perspectives.

Others may see and say what you do not perceive.

No one see things the same as another.

No one feels the same as others.

No one can really understand you.

Your thoughts, feelings and perceptions are unique for you.

When you want others to know you, you must share.

When you attack or judge them with your sharing, they will defend.

When you blame or shame them, they will withdraw or attack you back.

When you share, make sure you are wanting them to care.

When you want others to care, do not harm them with your “truth”.

When you want others to seek understanding, you must be respectful and gentle.

When you want to be heard, make sure you are speaking quietly with kindness.

When you want them to stay, don’t send them away with your anger and hurt.

If you do not freely share what you think and feel, there is a buildup of energy.

Write down your thoughts and feelings, so you don’t dump them on others.

Clear what you have to say, but listen first to yourself.

When your thoughts and words are toxic, clean them up before sharing.

If others might get hurt or scared by your thoughts and feelings, clear them first in healing ways.

Draw them, dance them, sweat them, sing them, write them and dump them in private, before sharing.

It is not appropriate or beneficial to dump toxic thoughts and feelings on others.

It is not appropriate or beneficial to hold toxic material inside of you.

Never make yourself or others sick with negative, destructive or angry thoughts and feelings.

Always take time to listen to: ”What You Can Do.” before you start telling others what to do.

All thoughts and feelings and words come from within us and are for us. 

They are always a Call for Love and respect for ourselves and others.

Learn to Love yourself.

Learn to ask for Love in loving ways.

Learn to listen to your needs and fill them yourself.

Learn to listen to others' needs and encourage them to be loving too.

I am always listening to me and to you.

I am here to encourage you to love yourself first.

I am your Loving Reminder to invite you to be gentle and kind to yourself and others.

I Love You and want You to Remember to Always Love You, too.

Loving me and you with a true heart.

Betty Lue

What Do You Believe?

YOUR BELIEFS CREATE.

LIVE WHAT YOU BELIEVE.

Affirmations:

I believe in the Power of Love.

I believe in our natural state of love, joy, peace and wonder.

I believe we can choose to change our thoughts.

I believe our thoughts and words create.

What Do You Believe?

If you don’t know what you believe, look around you.

If you want to know what you believe, watch what shows up for you.

You see what you believe.

Your mind actively seeks to validate your beliefs.

What we believe, we see.

What we seek, we find.

What we look for, shows up.

What we think about, becomes our experience.

Yes, this is a belief in Metaphysics or New Thought.

You might see it as common sense.

What you believe is a part of how you live.

Everyday we are attracting and experiencing our beliefs.

We tend to take for granted what we believe.

When we like our beliefs, we simply accept them as true. 

When we are bumped by beliefs which don't resonate, we resist them.

When we believe differently, we can open and learn or close and reject new beliefs.

Some say it is through our faith that we are healed.

Some say it is through our beliefs that we experience.

Some say it is through our desire that we attract.

Some think belief is just wishful thinking and does nothing.

When you choose what to believe, your mind will try to prove itself right.

Consider believing what you want to be so.

Consider attracting what you want to enjoy.

Consider being grateful for what is best for you.

Let go quickly of beliefs which are not helpful and kind.

Let go easily of what causes you fear and worry.

Let go safely the thoughts that create confusion.

Let go and return to beliefs that strengthen confidence, goodness and love.

Believe what works for you.

Stop believing what works against you.

Choose wisely what you want to be true.

Trust your conscience with all your heart and mind.

 Life is showing us what we believe.

When we want to experience something different, we can change what we believe.

When we know what we want to believe and experience, clear all false beliefs.

Recognize that your mind and its beliefs are your responsibility.

Choose wisely and well.

Choose with ease and grace.

Choose what you trust and have faith in.

Choose for you what is right and true for you.

Loving our freedom of choice in what we believe.

Betty Lue