Affirmations:
I
choose fun, safe and easy healing and learning.
I
give up the need to fight to be right.
I
see peace and happiness for everyone.
I
choose to respond with love.
Choose
with Respect!
Some
stay too long.
Some quit too soon.
Some duck and avoid.
Some finish what
they start.
Every
encounter is for healing.
Every relationship
is to heal oneself.
Every action creates
a reaction.
Everything is for
learning.
If you
are avoiding, you may not have healed.
If you are quitting,
you may not have learned.
If you are blaming,
you may not have finished.
Consider wisely when
you have calmed your emotional reactivity.
When
we are afraid, we tend to blame or criticize.
When we are sorry,
we tend to feel guilty and remorseful.
When we are
forgiving, we begin to heal.
When we are
compassion, we begin to learn.
Our
life experiences show us what works and doesn’t work.
Our relationships
push our unhealed buttons, until we react or respond.
Our emotions
demonstrate our sensitivity to unconscious unhealed past woundedness.
When we seek to
learn, heal and find peace, we respond to our own need.
Whether
we step away or stay can determine what is the most safe and easy place to begin.
When you fear, it is
difficult to heal and learn.
When upset, we
cannot see what is a good place to be.
Give yourself the
best place to do your healing and learning work.
We
heal when we feel safe.
We learn most when
at peace.
We trust more when
we are open and hones.
We forgive others
when we can forgive ourselves.
Step
away and calm yourself.
Choose what works
for all, when you want to learn.
Value yourself in
the process of healing and learning.
Recognize the key is
to always do what does no harm.
No
guilt, no harm.
No fear, no harm.
No blame, no harm.
Choose to do no
harm.
When
you do not understand yourself or another, listen more deeply.
Loving us all as we
let go of fear and seek only love.
Betty Lue
Relationships
are for teaching and learning.
Relationships are to heal ourselves.
All things are lessons for us to learning.
Every upset is a wakeup call.
Some
last briefly.
Some
are temporary.
Lifetime
relationships are rare.
When
the teaching and learning is complete, people often move on.
You
never know what is complete for the other person.