Affirmations:
I appreciate and the life I have chosen.
I value and enjoy the life I have.
I easily release everything I no longer value.
I value the good things in life.
What
You Value You Create!
Do
you recognize the power of value?
Do you understand
what you give attention to has power?
Do you know you are
creating more of what you value?
Are you aware of
what you value?
If
you have it in your life, you must have given it value.
If you have a lot of
it in your life, you must have valued it greatly.
If you value
struggle, you will have an abundance of struggle.
If you value peace,
you will have an abundance of peace.
So when
you look at your life, can identify what you value.
Valuing sleep more
than other things, you will have more sleep.
If there is
something you value more, (TV, work, Drama, worry) you will have more of that.
It is difficult to
discern what your valuing has created, unless you look deeply.
Our
thoughts, words and activities demonstrate what we value.
How we spend our
time, energy and money shows what we value.
Even when we are
negatively valuing, we still are demonstrating our values.
Trying not to get sick
may create more worry about sickness.
Focusing
on health and happiness is not the same as avoiding or preventing sickness and
sadness.
Avoidance of
something is also valuing.
Turn around
negatives into positives to accurately demonstrate what you really want.
Instead of trying
not to get sick or deny aging, choose to appreciate enjoying a life of radiant
health.
Valuing
is giving energy to what has importance to you.
You may have learned
to try to be by trying not to be.
This creates
confusion in your creative mind.
It is best to affirm
you are and have and do what is true for you.
I
AM healthy and happy.
I
AM powerful and creative.
I
have everything I desire.
I
enjoy everything I have.
I
do what is highest and best for me.
I
do what brings me health, happiness and fulfillment.
Life
works for me, because I appreciate the life I have chosen.
I
value the Love and Respect we share,
Betty Lue
Successful Communication Keys:
Calm
tone of voice
and be on the same level.
Ask permission to speak
Tune
in to where they
are with desire to understand.
Give
what will create
the greatest safety and respect.
Talk
with kindness
and in private.
Step
away until both
parties are calm. Use time-outs as needed.
Defuse the stress, urgency and upset,
before attempting to talk.
Be
clear when you
don’t have time or patience to listen.
Write
communication to
avoid confrontations and arguments.
Allow
all parties time
to think about their needs and possible equitable solutions.
Encourage
using “I
feel….., I want…… and I am willing………
Seek cooperative agreement, rather
than punishment, threat or demand.
Open your heart to understand (“Walk
in their shoes”)
Choose an outcome where everyone wins.
Create Your Own Success
Know
what Success is for you.
SMART= specific, measureable, attainable, realistic and timely.
Be
open to identify what you have learned from life about success.
Easily
and quickly forgive everything that has not worked.
Be
kind to yourself and others with your thoughts, words and actions.
Take
care of your creations with TLC- your body, money, thoughts, home, creations.
Eliminate
all excess In wasting time, energy, money and things.
See
how good your life is and appreciate the Love you are given and been asked for.
Speak,
imagine and behave in ways that create success. (Dress for Success.)
Work
diligently on everything that is wise, useful and positive.
Hold
the thoughts, words, deeds of Success by being Success and Giving Success.
Ten Keys to a Good Life:
Be Responsible for the entirety of your life.
Be Open to learn from everything and everyone.
Be Forgiving of all mistakes, yours and others.
Be Truly helpful by thinking, speaking and giving your best.
Be Impeccable in caring for your body, relationships, home, work, finances.
Be Willing to live with moderation in all things.
Be Aware of the Gift of Love and the Call for Love.
Be Exact with your thoughts and words; they create your life.
Be Hard-working with wisdom, gratitude and joy.
Be Good. See Good. Think Good. Speak Good. Give Good.