Affirmations:
My thoughts, words and actions create lasting loving relationships.
I give always and only what I want to receive.
The more I trust, respect and appreciate myself, the more I trust,
respect and appreciate others.
I am responsible for everything I experience.
How
to Have the Relationship You Want!
“It is all an inside job.”
Listen
to one another.
Respond
with kindness to each other.
Spend
time together when it is positive time.
Support
each other’s life choices, even mistakes.
Give
what is given from a place of gratitude.
Use
the relationship to heal yourself with patience and trust.
Relinquish
all attack, blame, resentment and guilt.
Contribute
your fair share to everyday living.
Care
about what will be truly helpful to one another.
Focus
on healthy interaction at home and in public.
Learn
from and with one another about how life works well.
Be
willing to learn to Love with acceptance of what is wanted.
Be
respectful.
‘Treat one another
with respect and kindness.
Be
responsible.
Respond with love to
all upsets and requests.
Be
cooperative.
Give what is asked
unless it is harmful to either of you.
It
seems that arguing is commonplace and normal.
It seems like
couples often behave like what is on TV and in movies.
It seems that
“normal” is often disrespectful, immature and rude.
It seems couples
think it is acceptable to threaten, swear, name-call and shame one another.
When
we treat those we love worse than anyone else, we can expect our home life to
be a mess.
It
is essential we begin to demonstrate our best behavior with those we love.
It is important to
be at our best in our own home with no ””taking for granted.”
When we want the
best, we must give the best.
When we commit to
love, heal and grow together, we must be willing to love, help and learn.
Long
term relationships tend to be the most challenging, because of what we see in
our own family.
Where we learned to
be unhappy, upset and scared, we tend to repeat and recreate that experience.
When we learned to
be happy, peaceful and loving, we tend to attract and recreate that as well.
We tend to
unconsciously re-crecte or attract what is familiar in our own relationships
and home.
Like
animals, humans are imprinted in our behaviors, choices and experiences.
We often believe we
are not responsible, until we learn to take responsibility for change.
We can change our
minds, attitudes, words, behaviors and reactivity.
In our
relationships, it is essential that we learn to manage emotions and interrupt
negative patterns.
No
matter what, I will never quit on love.
Love is the answer.
Where I am not
loving with my thoughts, words and behavior, I must forgive myself.
Choose again for the
best within you and you will change your life.
Let
us all learn to be the best person we know how to be.
Loving you,
Betty Lue