Affirmations:
I give what I want to have.
I share the best I know.
I choose to love myself and others.
I contribute to all with respect and responsibility,
honest communication and commitment.
What Do You Really Want in Your Ideal Relationships?
Relationships include partnerships, friendships,
roommates and family.
Relationships
include marriage and romance, employers and co-workers.
When we
learn to relate by giving what we ideally want, we experience it more
consistently.
When we
learn to relate to everyone consciously and consistently, we have what we want.
Giving is receiving.
As we give
the best, we feel our best.
As we feel
our best, we give our best.
And so it
is, we receive what we give.
Respect for all relationships is being open and willing
to see everything as healing.
Respect means to look again, to see things
differently, to perceive with new eyes.
We see
through the filters of past history and experiences and project it onto present
relationships.
We can only
respect another as much as we know how to respect ourselves.
Be honest and open to create safety within the
relationship.
When we
fear we will be judged, rejected or punished, we withhold.
When we
become a safe place for everything to be shared, we receive others honesty
easily.
When we are
open and honest ourselves, we create more openness and honesty from others.
Share ideals, values, and principles to live by, making
all relationships more accepting.
Learning
what we want and how we prefer to communicate is key to connecting with others.
Being
willing to share with others what we believe and truly desire allows others to
do the same.
When there
is joining with common goals, all relationships function more effectively.
Contribute fully and freely your best to all
relationships, giving a feeling of equanimity.
Understand
that everyone is doing their best and appreciate the good you receive and give.
Relinquish
demanding more and better to allow others to feel capable and valuable.
When there
is no comparison or evaluation of others giving, everyone feels free to be
their best.
Commit to be responsible for the quality in all
relationships.
This
requires us to be awake and aware, truly conscious.
Be willing
to communicate feelings, wants and willingness without demanding of others.
Commit to
take care of our selves first without depending on others egos to take care of
us.
Be responsible for the quality of our relationships
without guilt or blame.
Attend to
the ways in which people need to be valued and appreciated.
Honor our
own needs first so we can be available to others.
Be open and
willing to make amends for mistakes, conscious and unconscious.
Appreciate all relationships as the gifts of learning and
healing they are.
Love
everyone exactly as they are, including ourselves.
Honor the
examples of kindness and love in our lives.
Be present
to see and be conscious, open and willing.
Enjoy life as opportunities for wisdom, gratitude and
true prosperity.
Loving is
the only way to live happy and free!
Betty Lue
Keys to Unconditional Love
Always give your best.
Demonstrate your love (with positive words, affection,
undivided time, gifts, service)
Listen and learn what is most respected and helpful.
Observe what is received with gratitude.
Step away when you are not your best and renew yourself.
Give only with gratitude and joy (no sacrifice or self
denial)
Trust others are giving their best.
Always inspired the best in others.
Believe and see the Love within.
Trust each one is learning how best to love.
Free yourself and others to love unconditionally.
Forgive all mistakes or withholds.
Learn to love them anyway.