Question
from a reader:
I am currently dealing with someone in whom I am catching
in lies...
Lies about his life, misleading me with his words, his
thoughts and now patterns of habitual lying.
I honestly never expected him to say one thing and do
another
I desire truth and transparency. What would
you suggest?
Affirmations:
I choose to see the truth of Love and the call for Love.
I choose to respond with listening and respect to those
calling for Love.
I think, speak and behave with and for the Highest Good I
know.
I make no assumptions and trust in Love.
What is Truth?
Everyone has their own version of the “truth”.
Everyone
has their own perception of what they see.
No
two people see or feel the same about any experience.
When
we judge, compare and evaluate what seems to be, we will see it is all
illusion.
Everyone see colors differently.
Everyone
see “facts” differently.
Everyone
diagnoses differently.
Everyone
smells and sees and feels differently.
Perception is unique to each one of us.
Information
is bombarding us with millions of bits of information.
Most
minds filter out more than 99.9% of that information.
Therefore,
what you perceive is totally different than what others perceive.
How can we judge another’s “truth”?
We
can identify what we want to see.
We
can relate to what we fear to see.
We
can understand what we prefer to see.
Some don’t want to see what hurts.
Some
deny what feels wrong or bad.
Some
avoid what may get them in trouble.
Some
actually choose only to see “Good.”
Some perceive only what is positive.
Some
perceive only what is fearful and negative.
Some
perceive only what is helpful to them.
Some
perceive only what makes things better.
When we realize “truth” is in the eyes of the perceiver, we
let go of judgment and comparison.
When
we are safe to hear what others believe, we recognize a more
expanded version of “truth:”.
When
we stop judging, blaming, criticizing others for their perceptions, we begin to
see the reality.
What
Is is what others believe and perceive to be true.
Some want to see what they believe and make it so.
Some
want to deceive in order to achieve what they want and make it so.
Some
innocently pretend to perceive (imagine) in order to make it so.
Some
simply deny seeing what they don’t want to be and make it so.
We can call this lying, and make others wrong and unworthy of
our love and trust.
We
can call this fibbing, and make it what others wish were true for others.
We
can call it pretending and be practicing how to create what we want to be.
We
can call this creating through imagining what we want to be true in our world.
Calling someone a “liar” is a harsh way of judging others’
chosen reality.
Consider
first to see what is true for you than may not be true for others.
Be
honest with your own perceptions and own them as your own.
Relinquish
judging others and be a safe place in which others beliefs and perceptions may
be different.
When we accept what appears to be as others preferred
“reality”, we may cease to be hurt.
When
we can accept that we see things differently, perhaps we can come to
understand.
We
can allow freedom to be and trust others’ chosen reality.
Love
is trusting and freeing ourselves and others to experience our own unique
reality.
Honoring this is difficult for those who are taught to
condemn any “truth” that is not our “truth”.
Telling
the highest and best that I know,
With
freedom and trust,
Betty Lue
Coming to Know
To “know” is to “love”.
For when we fully know, we have an experience of
acceptance, understanding, trust and love.
In working with this list of levels of consciousness, we
can easily substitute “love” for “know”.
Perhaps, for some, this will simplify and clarify where you are
in your own unfoldment process.
* I don’t know and
don’t know I don’t know.
* I don’t know and
don’t care.
* I don’t know and
don’t want to know.
* I don’t know and
wish I did.
* I don’t know and
seek to know.
* I am coming to
know.
* I know and am
afraid of what I know.
* I know and am
afraid I don’t.
* I know and hold
back what I know.
* I know and share
what I know in order to know.
* I know and know I
know quietly.
* I am what I know.
With a little substitution:
* I don’t love and
don’t know I don’t love.
* I don’t love and
don’t care.
* I don’t love and
don’t want to love.
* I don’t love and
wish I did.
* I don’t love and
seek to love.
* I am coming to
Love.
* I Love and am
afraid of Love.
* I Love and am
afraid I don’t.
* I Love and hold
back my Love.
* I Love and share
Love to realize my Love.
* I Love and share
Love quietly.
* I am Love.