Affirmations:
I fill myself with love and appreciation, joy and
gratitude daily.
I honor the gifts I have and share them freely with
others.
I treat my neighbors, family and community as myself.
I give all to have all to fully give.
Healthy
families create healthy communities: they work, play and trust one another.
Healthy
people come together to help, enjoy and celebrate one another.
When we
genuinely respect, trust, and serve one another, we create prosperity for all.
When we
understand out own true nature and honor ourselves, we respect and honor
others.
Often we
go to our family to “GET” our needs met.
When we
seek to get our needs met, we will often be disappointed.
When we
have a depleted emotional bank account with others, they may resist giving to
us.
Everyone
needs to help and give to everyone without guilt, blame or indebtedness.
The
first step is to know and be true to ourselves.
We must
take impeccable care of our own needs.
We must
discover and understand what we need to be whole.
We must
choose wisely our right attitude, values, environment and work.
When we
love, trust, respect and appreciate ourselves, we can love, trust, respect and
value others.
When we
seek others to love, trust, respect and appreciate us, we may misunderstand
their ability to give.
When we
learn to rely on our inner resources, we understand our work comes first within
us.
We must
fill our own emotional bank account and serve our own needs to be able to serve
others.
Life is for giving.
We are the gift.
When we
take exquisite care of the gift of ourselves, we have something valuable to
give.
When we
have depreciated, denied, ignored or neglected our value, we have little or
nothing to give.
So
how it is we can, create true community and healthy families?
Seek and find our
true worth.
Love ourselves
well everyday.
Learn to listen
and honor the voice within.
Take time alone to
discover, write, play, create, learn and let go.
Be willing and
patient in our own self understanding.
Discover the value
of our Higher Self, the place where Love resides.
Practice tools
that enhance and support our integrity.
Appreciate the
process of recognizing and letting go of the blocks to Love of Self.
Share our selves
with those who can easily receive the Good we share.
Forgive quickly
all emotional reactivity to the lack of love.
Give generously to
yourself and to others with joy and gratitude.
Think, speak and
give only and always the highest Good.
Retreat as needed
for renewal and contemplation.
Contribute talents
and resources easily for the benefit of everyone.
Be grateful and
praiseful for the Goodness and Blessings that already are.
Loving you
in loving You and All you encounter in thought, word and deed.
Betty Lue
Keys to Unconditional Love
Always give your best.
Demonstrate your love (with positive words, affection,
undivided time, gifts, service)
Listen and learn what is most respected and helpful.
Observe what is received with gratitude.
Step away when you are not your best and renew yourself.
Give only with gratitude and joy (no sacrifice or self
denial)
Trust others are giving their best.
Always inspired the best in others.
Believe and see the Love within.
Trust each one is learning how best to love.
Free yourself and others to love unconditionally.
Forgive all mistakes or withholds.
Learn to love them anyway.