Affirmations:
I forgive quickly and return to love easily.
I am free and trust in the Love within me.
I quickly let go of any negative or limiting emotions and thoughts.
I trust in the value of loving no matter what.
Often
we take on relationships which are projects…one a teacher and the other a
learner.
These
relationships are for the purpose of healing or helping both people to remember
and fully realize Love and the power of Love.
When
both parties are willing, the teaching and learning is fun, safe and
easy.
When there is
unwillingness and resistance, judgment and fear, comparison and belittling of
self or the other, the relationship is painful and unfulfilling to both.
The attachment to
wanting it to be a certain way or to yield a desired outcome, can lead to
disappointment, frustration and suffering.
You
can choose to stay attached and suffer.
You can choose to
stay and accept the way it is.
You can choose to
leave and stay disappointed and suffer.
You can choose to
leave and accept life's opportunities to learn, let go and choose again.
Your
inner teacher knows what is highest and best for all concerned.
When we are stuck in
our own judgments and distorted perceptions, we cannot see the higher ground.
You may want to set a goal, Ie. Peace of mind (from which will follow
understanding.)
Then give the goal
and your relationship to spirit.
When you give your
relationship to spirit, let go and observe giving both trust and freedom to the
Highest Good for all concerned.
Watch what happens.
Appreciate everything that comes up.
Keep
visioning the
highest Good for all concerned.
Yes,
all of us are teachers and learners.
Yes,
teachers are learning as they teach.
Such is the value of
teaching and learning.
When the teaching
and learning is complete, there may be a change in the form of relationship.
Some
seek to prolong the relationship because of prior commitments, societal mores
or security.
Some seek to end the
relationship with criticism and judgment, pain and bitterness.
Some appreciate and
bless what has been completed and make it easy to let go.
Some participate
fully in the honorable closure until both parties are open, willing and
peaceful.
Some leave first,
make amends and heal the release later.
You
may want to make a list of all you are learning in your relationship.
You may want to
express all you are grateful for with your partner.
You may want to focus
on the Good that has come from your Union with your chosen one.
You may want to ask
Spirit to tell you if and when it is time to let go before you move on.
When
two people come together who are at the same level of relationship, they may
stay together for a lifetime relationship with both teaching and learning,
giving and receiving equally.
This seems to be rare.
I experienced this
level of relationship when I had completed my more challenging assignments.
Remember
Love is the way.
Love is trust and
freedom.
Goodness and God are
in charge.
Cling to nothing and
no one.
Love and let go and
what is meant to be with you will stay until you are complete.
Loving you,
Betty Lue
1. Engage with one another in
conversation and sharing when you are at your best!
2. Write your own personal list of
agreements for your relationship with one another ( or anyone you LOVE).
3. Before you interact or spend time on
phone or in person or even write a text or email, go over your list of
agreements.
4. Make sure you stay in integrity with
what is highest and best for both every time.
5. Immediately apologize and forgive
yourself if you forget to keep the agreements you have made with yourself!
Your
work is to clean up your own act.
• Make no assumptions.
• Keep your agreements.
• Take nothing personally.
• Always give your best.
1. Read the Four Agreements by
Don Michael Ruiz.
3. Honor (respect) the other’s requests
with no question, comment, arguing, etc.
4. Stop looking at the past or future
and treat each encounter, present moment, as the precious time it is.
5. You have only the current contact or
conversation to express your love, caring and gratitude so use it well.
6. Waste no time going over the past.
It is gone.
7. Start enjoying your life and your
self and your choices today.
Love brings joy.
Fear generates pain.
When you are not in joy, you have made a mistake.
Step
away and choose again.