Sunday, October 26, 2014

Are You A Safe Place?

I give myself to Love and Love returns to me.
I create a safe world by clearing all judgment.
The Only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love.
My mine automatically erases everything that is not wholly loving and true.
When you listen with compassion, you are safe.
When you speak with kindness, you are safe.
When you behave with respect, you are safe.
When you love unconditionally, you are safe.

Is your home SAFE?
Is the language respectful and kind in you family?
Are the behaviors free of shame, blame and anger?
Are the people taking time to understand one another?

When there is criticism, people are on guard.
When there is acting out, people get defensive.
When there is yelling, people are overwhelmed.
When there is threatening, people feel afraid.

Are your relationships SAFE?
Do you nag or complain?
Do you tell stories or gossip about others?
Do you make demands and insist on your way?

When people feel bombarded with emotional stuff, they may fear interaction.
When people hear bad news and complaining, they may stay away.
When people know there is no confidentiality, they may stop sharing.
When people feel pushed and punished, they may withdraw.

Are you trustworthy?
Do you keep confidences?
Are you willing to forgive?
Do you accept others as they are?

Qualities of Safety are:
Keeping Your Word.
Giving Your Best in all Interaction.
Forgiving Mistakes and Apologizing Immediately.
Being Responsible Your Own Happiness.
Accepting Others as They Are.
Love is Trusting and Freeing Others to Be.

When we complain, gossip, break agreements, speak unkindly, demand or threaten, we are not safe.
When we are trying to fix, change, get our needs met, make others wrong or interfere, we are not safe.
When we do not listen, stop caring, withhold love, punish or push, or control others, we are not safe.
When we want only the best for ourselves and others, together we can create safety and love.

Learn to be a Safe Place.
Create a Safety Zone in Your Home.
Stop all Bullying adn Badgering and Making Others Wrong.
Give Safety and Love to Everyone and watch them blossom.
Betty Lue

What Are Loving Reminders?

A handful of people are new to receiving these daily or weekly loving reminders from me.
I send them directly to over one thousand people and many more from your referrals.
I have been writing and sending Loving Reminders for over 14 years everyday I am at my computer.
They are valuable for me to receive and share and valuable for others who receive them as reminders.

When something resonates with you, you feel its truth in your heart.
When you are reminded of what you know deep inside, you appreciate and find value.
When you are touched with inspiration, you feel grateful and can choose to practice.
This is my reason for listening within and sharing the inner guidance I receive each day.

After counseling and coaching thousands of individuals, couples and families, I know the need.
After teaching, mentoring and facilitating hundreds of people for the last 35 years, I hear the call.
After listening and letting Spirit within guide my life for most of my life, I feel the importance.
And this is my way of responding to all of us for the Highest Good and finding a better way.

These reminders are intended to be practical; they are meant to be used everyday.
These reminders are intended to be inspirational; they are meant to move you into action.
These reminders are intended to be spiritual; they are meant to call you to return to what is meaningful.
These reminders are intended to be healing; they give insight, freedom to choose/change and peace.

For many, there is limited time and money, so these reminders offer help when you have need.
For some, there is hesitation in asking for help, so these reminders are an anonymous way to learn.
For others, there is denial of needing anything, and the reminders simply reawaken what is known.
For me, these reminders are a powerful way to connect, to touch you with my love for us all.

Yes, I Love You.
I love you when you are happy or sad, right or wrong, awakening or sleeping on the job.
I love you when you don’t love yourself or forget you are loveable and capable just as you are.
I love you when you are willing to do the work and when you get lazy and quit on yourself.

I am your Loving Reminder.
We can call it a Calling or Holy Assignment or just what I am here to do.
My intention is to facilitate all of us in playing our Part and living our potential in being all we can be.
Said in a thousand ways or no way at all…your healing and success and joy are a blessing for me.

So why would I sit at my computer every morning as my spiritual practice and joy…….??
Because of all this above and so much more.
You and I are One..
More than you can know, we are connected in Love.

Ask me your questions.
Give me your comments.
Share with me your gratitude.
And always know I am with you in Love.

Betty Lue