Affirmations:
I
do what is mine to do.
If
I see something that needs to be done, it is mine to do.
I
forgive myself for reacting with anger, hurt, blame and just do the work.
I
respond to the work that is needed with respect and gratitude.
If at first you
don’t succeed, try, try again.
When you don’t quit,
you eventually succeed.
Patience and
persistence lead to success.
Life is a grand
“do-over”.
You will be
presented with the same lesson over and over until you learn it.
You will find the
same issues keep coming up until you recognize what you can change.
You will eventually
learn that your life is your responsibility to make right with you.
You must understand
that no one can change or fix what you insist doesn’t belong to you.
Relationship
after relationship the same issues arise.
Time after time the
same fears return.
Over and over
similar problems occur.
The common
denominator must be you.
Why doesn’t
Higher Power or partner or parents or government intervene?
Why do you have
to do it all?
Why doesn’t
anything work to calm the fear and confusion or heal the pain?
Why do you have
to do it all over again and again?
Complaining and
nagging doesn’t work.
Demanding and
threatening doesn’t work.
Begging and pleading
doesn’t work.
Drinking, Drugging
and medicating doesn’t work.
When we look for
quick fixes, we make get temporary results.
When we change
partners, doctors, clothes or jobs, we may get temporary changes.
When we learn avoid,
distract, deny or disengage, we may find immediate relief.
But we still have
our own forgiveness and healing, growth and inner work to do claim.
Buried under
years of habits and addictions, accumulated pain and problems, there is the
Real You.
Uncovering and
releasing all that has be feared and revered, deceived and achieved, you find
your Truth.
Naming and claiming
the Essence of You is our invitation to come home and finish the job.
Stop telling the
hysterical stories and see Who and Where You Are right
Do the work that
is right there right now.
Listen to and Love
the One You Are inside.
Treat yourself and
others with respect and appreciation.
Learn what works
with everyone and everything.
Love
is the answer whatever the question.
Trust
will settle every problem now.
Forgiveness
offers everything we want.
There
is nothing to do, but find the Real You.
Trusting
you to do what works to be the REAL YOU!
Betty
Lue
There
Is No Medicine
There is not a medicine, herb, ointment or potion that can compare to the
power of love and forgiveness for healing the body, emotions, mind and
soul.
Love and forgiveness must be present before true healing can occur.
By consciously choosing love and forgiveness, we can free ourselves of the
blockages commonly known as pain and dis-ease.
Forgiveness opens the door for love to enter. When you choose to
forgive yourself, you naturally let go of guilt. You are then free to
love yourself and life more fully. When you find it in your heart to
forgive another person, you will naturally let go of resentment and
anger. You are then free to love that person more fully, and will
experience greater harmony in all of your relationships.
This is the basic formula necessary for healing ourselves on an individual
level and for healing our world on a global
level.
Neil S. Cohen