Remember Relationship Intensive begins next week.
Is it time to see What Is, rather than what we wish could be?
Are you invested in believing your fantasy?
Do you believe in the worst or the best and stay blind to the rest?
Are you living in a world of your own making, without recognizing the Creator is You?
We see what we want to see.
Other times we hear what we fear.
There are moments when we realize that our fears are generating our experiences.
There is some awareness that we can change what we see and feel and know.
How do we admit responsibility, if we are experiencing what we claim to not want?
How do we deal with relationships going wrong?
How do we live with health or financial issues that hurt?
How do we recognize that we are experiencing the result of our own choices?
It seems the result of our thoughts is manifesting more quickly.
It seems clear that our fears are showing up around us.
It seems we are experiencing the result of our emotional projections.
What will it take to undo what we no longer want to be true?
Remember, what you sow you reap.
What you give, you receive.
What you think and say and do will always come back to you.
This should be no surprise by now.
There are metaphysical or truth principles that apply to life.
Every action creates an equal and opposite reaction.
Every thought creates.
Every thing we think and say and do is teaching everyone everywhere.
There are no secret thoughts.
Erase, delete and forgive all negative or hurtful thoughts immediately.
Stop all thoughts that hurt you, negate you or victimize you.
They teach the universe that is what you want and expect and are open to receive.
I forgive myself for believing I deserve less that Love, Respect and Kindness.
We can choose to change our minds, but undoing what is not the truth we want.
We can choose to give our minds only to God and goodness and blessings for all.
We can choose to forgive ourselves for thinking and believing less that Good.
We can choose to still the learned fear-based mind and think only loving healing thoughts.
What’s going on is the challenge to be conscious.
What’s going on is the crossroads for humanity.
What’s going on is now or never, heal or hurt, love or hate.
What’s going on is the call to change our minds and our lives NOW!
Reminding us all to answer our call.
Reminding us all to be true to the Voice within.
Reminding us all to listen and follow our heart.
Reminding us all to create only goodness, beauty and Love.
Betty Lue
Ten Commandments of Relationships
With mates, partners, friends, children, co-workers, etc.
Keep your agreements faithfully.
(Communicate changes honestly and immediately.)
Give more than you expect to receive.
Do more than your “fair” share.
Receive everything with open appreciation.
Express your thanks sincerely and take nothing for granted.
Live your own life in integrity and on purpose.
Clarify, communicate and live your mission, your path, your principles and values.
Be responsible for yourself, your work and live your life impeccably.
Don’t expect others to pick up after you or take care of you.
Stop using, blame, criticism or guilt to control or manipulate.
Stop making demands, threats or using neediness to get your way.
Communicate effectively and respectfully.
Request a time and place and tone of voice that works for both parties.
Be your best self in all circumstances.
Focus always on teaching by example. (and apologize immediately when you forget or neglect.)
Use your time together wisely.
Focus on meaningful, positive and inspiring conversation and activities.
Spend time, money, energy and resources only on what you value and want to increase.
Waste nothing in your relationship. No arguing, pettiness, emotional dumping or negativity.
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Life requires that we be in relationship.
With respect for ourselves and each other there is open communication.
With responsibility for the quality of our relationships, there is a willingness to seek what works for all.
With cooperation there is encouragement to listen for ways to serve the needs of everyone.
When everyone WINS, the relationships are harmonious, peaceful and enjoyable.
Blessings to us all in our willingness to continue to explore and find better ways of relating,
Betty Lue