Wednesday, June 30, 2010

True Empathy

When there is a need or a problem, how can you be most helpful?
Be at peace.
When there is a perceived danger or tragedy, how can offer the greatest kindness?
Be at peace.
When there is hardship or hunger, how can you be of service?
Be at peace.

Be at peace and trust in the highest outcome.
Be at peace and know all is well.
Be at peace and see everyone learning.
Be at peace and seek the gifts and blessings.

When someone is afraid, they need reassurance.
Be at peace.
When someone is angry, they need to be heard.
Be at peace.
When someone is argumentative, they need to be honored.
Be at peace.
When someone is sick, they need comfort.
Be at peace.
When someone is confused, they need clarity.
Be at peace.
When someone is lost, they need direction.
Be at peace.
When someone is in trouble, they need integrity.
Be at peace.

True empathy is being willing to be the conscious one who seeks peace first.
True empathy is releasing judgments and seeing the healing and wholeness.
True empathy is seeking the potential good in all situations.
True empathy is listening both inside and outside to voices for love.
True empathy is trusting everything always works more exquisitely than we can plan.
True empathy is learning to let go of negative perceptions, hurtful words and fearful reactions.
True empathy is seeing beyond appearances and choosing to see the Light.

When in relationship at home or at work, there needs to be a consistent voice of sanity and healing.
There is always a call for love, trust and freedom in every situation where there is fear.
Everything that is not Love is always a call for Love, trust and freedom.
Wherever you see a Lack of Love and Trust, you are being called to be the One.

Empathy may involve feeling the fear, confusion and pain.
True empathy is then bringing yourself back to Peace and Trust and Love.
The healing and helpful Presence is the one who can return to Love and see only Wholeness.
The conscious One is always You who are reading this reminder.

Choose now to be the One and Be at Peace!
Know All is Well.
Trust everything always works together for Good.

Betty Lue

From A Course in Miracles
Love is the answer, whatever the question.
Trust will settle every problem now.
Forgiveness offers everything we want.
There is nothing to do.
What Are these Loving Reminders?
Many people around the world are now receiving these daily or weekly loving reminders from me.
I send them directly to over one thousand people and many more from your referrals.
I have been writing and sending Loving Reminders for over 11 years everyday I am at my computer.
They are valuable for me to receive and share and valuable for others who receive them as reminders.
When something resonates with you, you feel its truth in your heart.When you are reminded of what you know deep inside, you appreciate and find value.When you are touched with inspiration, you feel grateful and can choose to practice.
This is my reason for listening within and sharing the inner guidance I receive each day.
After counseling and coaching thousands of individuals, couples and families, I know the need.After teaching, mentoring and facilitating hundreds of people for the last 35 years, I hear the call.After listening and letting Spirit within guide my life for most of my life, I feel the importance.And this is my way of responding to all of us for the Highest Good and finding a better way.
These reminders are intended to be practical; they are meant to be used everyday.
These reminders are intended to be inspirational; they are meant to move you into action.
These reminders are intended to be spiritual; they are meant to call you to return to what is meaningful.
These reminders are intended to be healing; they give insight, freedom to choose/change and peace.

For many, there is limited time and money, so these reminders offer help when you have need.
For some, there is hesitation in asking for help, so these reminders are an anonymous way to learn.
For others, there is denial of needing anything, and the reminders simply reawaken what is known.
For me, these reminders are a powerful way to connect, to touch you with my love for us all.
Yes, I Love You.I love you when you are happy or sad, right or wrong, awakening or sleeping on the job.
I love you when you don’t love yourself or forget you are loveable and capable just as you are.
I love you when you are willing to do the work and when you get lazy and quit on yourself.

I am your Loving Reminder.We can call it a Calling or Holy Assignment or just what I am here to do.
My intention is to facilitate all of us in playing our Part and living our potential in being all we can be.Said in a thousand ways or no way at all…your healing and success and joy are a blessing for me.
So why would I sit at my computer every morning as my spiritual practice and joy…….??
Because of all this above and so much more.
You and I are One..More than you can know, we are connected in Love.
Ask me your questions.
Give me your comments.
Share with me your gratitude.
And always know I am with you in Love.
Betty Lue