Tuesday, December 01, 2020

Clarity

Affirmations:

I forgive my impatience  and love how direct I am.

I choose to speak the Highest Truth I know.

I let go of  judgment when I share what I hear within.

I appreciate myself for being honest when I am clear.


Subtle or Direct?


What do you prefer?

Do you prefer people being nice or saying what they mean?

Do you like lots of words or concise statements?

Would you rather hear the whole story or the bottom line?


Everyone likes something different.

Some folks are story-tellers.

The humor, interest and energy is in telling the story.

Some folks just want to get to the point.


When we stop judging how people say what they are saying, we can really get the message.

When we listen to what others are really saying, we feel gratitude and respect.

When we hear what is being said from the heart, we know what is the other’s perspective.

When we honor the message being given, we know what is right and true for us.


Perhaps the confusion, conflict or resistance comes from not wanting to hear what is being said.

Perhaps the truth being shared is what we resist and dread.

Perhaps we don’t want to know what we already know is right and true.

Perhaps some prefer not hearing, knowing and honoring with is true for you.


Are you afraid to say what you want?

Do you resist knowing others want something else?

Do you prefer just doing things your own way?

Are you not really listening to the words others want to say?


Are you willing to assert your own choices and truths?

Are you allowing others to assert their choices too?

Do you continue to be kind to one and all?

Are you open to letting go of your position and allow others’ their say first?  


Bottom line, encourage others to tell their thoughts and feelings by being safe place.

Ask others if they want to hear your thoughts and feelings, to encourage safety for your sharing.

Create open communication, concise and direct or rambling sagas, by being an open willing listener.

Refrain from or forgive judgments, interrogation or unrequested commenting on others’ sharing.


We tend to copy the type of communication we are accustomed to without understanding others.

Give your listening and sharing time to observe what works and what doesn’t work.

Let others show you want they prefer.

Be clear about what you prefer and ask what works for them.


Our primary work in relationship is to create respect, honesty, kindness and safety.

Listen and learn. 

Listen and love. 

Listen and share the best you know.


Here to be clear.

Betty Lue


I am here to serve.

I will always have time for you.

What do you want? 

What do you need?


If you need me to listen or counsel, guide or coach, I am here.

If you need support for healthy ways of caring for others, I am here.

If you need  kind words or loving reminders, I am here.

If you need to remember how Good You Are, I am here.


You are important.

You matter to me.

You make a difference.

You deserve the best.

 

Contact me via email, text or voice mail.

I will respond.

I care.

I am here.


Loving us all,

Betty Lue

Monday, November 30, 2020

Wherever You Go……

Affirmations:

I am willing to make a difference.

I express what matters to me.

I show up and pay attention.

I give my best in thought, word and deed.


Wherever You Go…..


Wherever you go, you make a difference.

Whatever you do, you contribute.

However you show up, you bring your Self.

Whatever you think, you offer your piece.


Your thoughts create.

Your energy adds your piece.

Your emotions touch lives.

Your words change the experience.


Believe it or not, you are important.

What you think is affecting change.

What you say is being heard.

 What you do is being felt.


Consider what you want to express.

Choose what you want to create.

Be aware of what matters to you.

Give attention to what is important.


You are a piece of the greater whole.

Your life touches and teaches lives.

More  energy is changing the world.

You can focus and create what you want.


Contribute to your own joy.

Give to the well-being of others.

Awaken to what you give.

Erase what is not of value.


You will be appreciated for your gifts.

Others will be inspired by what you give.

Your smiles and gratitude will encourage.

You will be noticed and received.


Even when you neglect and forget, you will be received.

Even when you diminish your part, you will touch others.

Even when you are withholding, you message will be heard.

Whatever you do or deny, you make a difference.


You can bring clarity and connection.

You can offer peace and love.

You can bring your best.

Contribute what you value.

 

Honoring You, 

Betty Lue 

Sunday, November 29, 2020

Service

Affirmations:

I am willing to be of service.

I give my best when I am serving.

I live my fullest when I serve.

For the sake of all, let us serve.


Serve for Goodness Sake.


To serve us our greatest gift to all.

We are all volunteers here.

We serve our selves, our community, our world.

We serve the Good of all.  


However we serve, we are offering our best to others.

We serve our children and our parents.

We serve our partners and our friends.

We serve without asking in return.


We serve to realize our own value.

We serve to bring happiness to others.

We serve to be truly helpful.

We serve to create a better place.


Serve by sharing.

Serve with teaching.

Serve with helping.

Serve with caring.


Serve because it has value.

Serve because you want to.

Serve because it is helpful.

Serve because it feels good.


When you serve one, you serve all.

Service benefits your family.

Service benefits your community.

Service benefits your world.


Being truly helpful is our way of paying forward.

Being of service is our loving reminder to others.

Being willing to contribute makes our world better.

Let us be of service today and everyday.


Blessing those who serve.

Betty Lue

Saturday, November 28, 2020

Teach and Learn

Affirmations:

Everything I think say and do is teaching all the Universe.

I am learning everything I teach.

I teach in order to remember to learn.

I listen to my words and learn from what I share.


Learn What You Teach


Are you learning what you teach?

Do you listen to what you say?

Are you doing what you tell others?

Do you actively practice what you teach?


We are all teachers.

We are all learners.

Everything we are teaching, we must be learning.

Everything we are learning, we will be teaching.


It is essential that we are a messenger of what we practice.

Therefore, it is important to receive our own message first.

When we are living in integrity, we are living what we teach.

When we live our own teaching, we are confident and clear.


When we teach what we value, we are remembering to live our values.

Teaching Forgiveness and Love is essential to remember love and forgiveness.

We become what we teach.

We live what we learn.


Share what is meaningful to you.

With our sharing, we give to others.

With our caring, we care for ourselves.

Everyone benefits from our sharing.


Everything we think and say and do teaches all.

We are teachers of innocence when we forgive.

We are teachers of gratitude when we give thanks.

We are teachers of respect when we are respectful.


Our life is our teaching.

We teach to remind ourselves.

We teach to inspire others.

We teach to create and appreciate.


When we share, we are learning.

When we share, we are remembering.

When we share, we are caring.

When we share, we are reminding all.


Pay attention to what you are sharing.

Be respectful of what you are learning.

Be aware of what you are teaching.

Be mindful of what you are creating.


Receive what you are teaching and learning.

It is always for you.

Loving learning from you and with you.

Betty Lue 

Friday, November 27, 2020

Move Forward

Affirmations:

I am moving onward in my life journey.

I succeed in living fully each day.

Life and Love call me to serve.

I am giving my all to all.


Keep Going!


Life keeps moving forward.

Time keeps on going.

Keep on creating. 

Let’s keep on going.


What are you doing?

Are you analyzing?

Are you waiting?

Are you doing something?


Where do you want to go?

What do you want to do?

Who do you want to be with?

How do you want to be?


Everyday is another day to live.

Every day is another way to give.

Every song is another song to sing.

Every word is another gift to bring.


Are you burned out?

Are you tired?

Are you complete with what you have done?

Is there more to be spoken or sung?


Inspire those who are depressed.

Love those who are unloved.

Comfort those who are hurting.

Be with those who are lonely.

 

Take care of those who are neglected.

Feed those who are hungry.

Make a bed for the tired.

Take time when others are too busy.

 

There is much to do for our human family.

Prayer is one way to connect and console.

Be mindful of how you are spending your resources.

Appreciate how you share your love.


Be present and be patient.

Be peaceful and be positive.

Be purposeful and on path.

Move forward with compassion and faith.


Blessings of Goodness and Mercy for all,

Betty Lue

Thursday, November 26, 2020

Count Your Blessings!

Affirmations;

Life is what it is.

I no longer take life personally.

I free myself to simply be myself.

Life works because I relinquish all judgment and attack.


Count Your Blessings!


Let us lift up our hearts in thanksgiving.

Let us rejoice for today is the day to give praise.

Let us sing out with love and appreciation.

Let us all express our joy in simply being. 


We are here to celebrate now.

This is the only moment there is.

The past is gone with just memories.

We can reminisce about the Good.


Take time to say “Thanks!”

Remember to send Love.

Allow us to see the value.

Realize all works together for Goodness sake.


We can awaken each day with sun shining within.

We can go to bed each night with our gratitude showing.

We can spend every day with appreciation for what is.

Our lives are to be fully lived and shared and valued.


We have time to know.

We have time to grow.

We have time to show.

We have time to flow the Love.


Our energy is meant to be used for blessings.

Our love is meant to be bountiful.

Our joy is to be shared with gratitude.

Our peace is to be extended to all.


We can give our all and still have more.

We can enjoy our time and still have more.

We can share our food and still have more.

We can offer our love and still have more.


To withhold our plenty diminishes our Good.

To share our plenty creates abundance.

To include those lost and forsaken prospers all.

To neglect anyone limits our joyful celebration.


This is our time to remember to be thankful.

And so we are…

Bountiful Blessings, 

Betty Lue


“And the people stayed home. And read books, and listened and rested, and exercised, and made art and played games, and learned new ways of being, and were still. And listened more deeply. Some meditated, some prayed, some danced. Some met their shadows. And the people began to think differently. And the people healed. And in the absence of people living in ignorant, dangerous, mindless and heartless ways, the earth began to heal. And when the danger passed, and the people joined together again, they grieved their losses and made new choices, and dreamed new images and created new ways to live and heal earth fully, as they had been healed.”

Kitty O’Meara