Tuesday, January 16, 2018

Forgiveness Works


Affirmations:
I forgive everyone and everything for all time, including myself.
My single function is to forgive.
The more I forgive, the more freedom and trust I have.
I am here to forgive all fear and return to live in Love.
 

Forgiveness Works

Forgiveness works for me.
Forgiveness is an eraser filled with Love.
Forgiveness clears the past.
Forgiveness clears all apparent blocks to Love.

Forgiveness deletes what is not here.
Forgiveness undoes what we no longer want.
Forgiveness clears our vision.
Forgiveness washes away imagined hurt, fear and lack.

Forgiveness is the gift of returning to Love.
Forgiveness is the way we remember Who We Are.
Forgiveness is our willingness to see things differently.
Forgiveness is learning to trust again.

When we block ourselves with judgment, we need to forgive.
When we remember what is hurtful, we need to forgive.
When we have stopped loving, we need to forgive our lack of love.
When we think we are not here to Love, we need to forgive.

Life may teach us to judge to be safe.
Experiences may convince us it is foolish to love.
History may show us that we must stop loving.
But our heart knows Love is safety, wisdom and purpose in living.

When we block love, we block happiness.
When we stop giving, we stop being healthy.
When we decide to condemn, we condemn ourselves.
When we will not forgive, we cannot forgive ourselves.

Forgiveness is a choice, and not an emotion.
Forgiveness is opening up, and not shutting down.
Forgiveness is returning to Love, not being lost in fear.
Forgiveness is a tool, we can use whenever we want.

Forgiveness heals us.
Forgiveness teaches us.
Forgiveness empowers us.
Forgiveness returns us to wholeness.

Forgiveness offers us everything we want.
Forgiveness is the key to perfect happiness.
Forgiveness opens the door to Truth and Understanding.
Forgiveness is our function, our purpose and our life.

Forgiving is the key to fully living!
Betty Lue

Monday, January 15, 2018

Basic Needs

Affirmations:
I respect my needs and the needs of others.
I love, trust and respect myself.
The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more I love trust and respect others.
The more I love, trust and respect myself, the more others love, trust and respect me.


What Do You Need?

What do our children need?
What do our families need?
What do our partners need?
What does our world need
?

When we are giving ourselves what we need, we will be happy, healthy and fulfilled.
Life can be simply fun, safe and easy when we honor our own needs and the needs of others.
What we “need” is totally different from our “wants”.
People are often taking care of what they want, but neglecting their basic needs.

It is time we return to basics.
It is time to learn to begin at the beginning.
It is time to listen to what is important.
It is time to honor ourselves and others.

Needs are not pleasures.
Needs are not whims.
Needs are not temporary happiness.
Needs are basic and primary to being and feeling safe, secure and strong.

We each need to be fed and sheltered and safe.
We each need to be educated and socialized.
We each need to be loved and to belong.
We each need to have something to do.

The priorities for children are not entertainment and toys.
The priorities in families are not chores and doing homework.
The priorities in partnerships are not partying and sexual intimacy.
When the media feeds us with what sells, we often forget and neglect the basics.

In a privileged and affluent nation, we have impoverished ourselves and our children.
When we work to provide temporary pleasures, spending time and money on nonessentials, we make ourselves poor in love, inspiration and healthy living.
We need Love, Love for ourselves, for others and for the beauty and bounty all around us.
We need gratitude for those we love and those who love us.
We need to know we are safe and secure, with a bed to sleep in and bills paid.
We need to eat regular meals prepared by someone who cares.
We need relationships that are respectful, reassuring and valuing who we are.

Good living comes from feeling grateful for the people in our lives and showing we love them.
Good living is taking care of our bodies, our clothing, our homes and what we have that serves us.
Good living is reading a book to our kids and tucking them in at night.
Good living is laughing at ourselves and enjoying the fun we have everyday.
Good living is breathing deep the fresh spring air and being grateful to be alive.
Good living is thanking Creator, Source, Universe for the unlimited life we have.
Good living is remembering Who We are and why we are here.
Good living is natural for those who see and trust in the Good that is theirs.

Let us remember to give ourselves and others the basics we need with full appreciation.
Life work when we take care of our needs.
Loving ourselves,
Betty Lue 

Sunday, January 14, 2018

Is Your Life Working?

Affirmations:
Life is a beautiful co-creation of my happy thoughts, peaceful words and loving actions.
My life works for me.
I easily let go of what no longer serves my best Self.
I quickly choose to see, speak and behave in ways that work.


Create Your Own Life!

Is your life working for you?
Are your relationships working?
Are you money working?
Is your health working for you?

Only you know the truth about your life.
Only you are aware of the secrets you hide.
Only you can feel what is real for you.
Only you realize how you may be hiding the truth?

To heal we must reveal what is so.
To know what is so, we must look, listen and feel.
To shine the light of awareness on our life, we must be willing.
When we see, feel and know what is not working, we have taken the first step.

Life can work, when we do the work.
Life can be changed, when we see what must be changed.
Life is flexible, malleable, workable when we are open and willing.
Life is a toy and a tool to learn to use for our own benefit.

Take a look and what do you see.’
Listen to your heart and feel how you feel.
Hear the inner voice of intuition and guidance.
Be responsible to yourself by being willing to change, choose and commit to what works.

Life may seem to happen to you.
When you play lacking and limited, it may seem you can do nothing.
When you believe you are a victim of circumstances, you may criticize and blame.
When you think there is nothing to do, you may feel incapable, hurt and resentful
.

Key questions to ask oneself:
Am I willing to be responsible for my life?
Am I able to change what does not work for me?
Am I capable of doing the work to change what I can change?

We can always change our mind.
We can change how we respond to our lives.
We can change what we do and say within our relationships.
We can change what we think, imagine, make up and our attitude.

Our lives are created with our thoughts and beliefs.
Our lives show up as products of our words and reactions and responses.
Our lives are shaped by our attitudes and feelings.
Our lives are a co creation of our past experiences and future expectations.

When we choose to change our lives, we can seek never ending improvement.
We can forgive our past errors and limiting beliefs.
We can learn to respond to all things with forgiveness, an eraser filled with love.
We can let go and easily undo whatever no longer serves us.

Create Your Own Life Your Own way.
Make everything yours, new everyday.
Undo what is untrue for you.
Make life do what shines through you!

Loving you creating life as you wish it to be.
Betty Lue

TEN KEYS TO A GOOD LIFE

Be Responsible for the entirety of your life.
Be Open to learn from everything and everyone.
Be Forgiving of all mistakes, yours and others.
Be Truly helpful by thinking, speaking and giving your best.
Be Impeccable in caring for your body, relationships, home, work, finances.
Be Willing to live with moderation in all things.
Be Aware of the Gift of Love and the Call for Love.
Be Exact with your thoughts and words; they create your life.
Be Hard-working with wisdom, gratitude and joy.
Be Good.  See Good. Think Good. Speak Good. Give Good. 

Saturday, January 13, 2018

Notice

Affirmations:
I seek and see the Good in all that is.
I forgive my misperceptions.
I choose to see what works in my life.
I appreciate the power of choice.


Have You Noticed?

Have you seen the beauty?
Do you look for Love?
Have you received the Value?
Do you pay attention to Good?

What we look for, we will see.
What we seek, we shall find.
What we appreciate, we will increase.
What we speak, we will create.

When we are seeking what is wrong, there it is.
When we are seeking what is wise, there it is.
When we are seeking to learn something new, It is there.
When we are seeking to be inspired, we find it there.

Our eyes will see what we are looking for.
We direct our thoughts, words and experiences to what we want to see and experience.
The ego delights in being right, so it attends to what it want to prove.
The mind will focus on and attract the experience it seeks to be so.

We are all at choice.
If a good day is what you want, then you will translate the day into good.
If you are looking for a fight to be right, you will create just what you want.
If you are at a loss and not choosing for yourself, you will allow others choices to rule.

You can ruin your whole day with one mistake.
You can change your whole day with letting go.
You can forgive the bad choice or letting others choose.
You can choose again for what you really want for you.

Your home and health, your relationships and finances, all are up to you.
Appreciate the good and have more good.
Focus on the bad and keep finding more bad.
What you notice, you amplify and increase.

Wake up affirming the amazing day you will have.
Choose daily what wisdom and good you will see.
Be grateful each evening for the Beauty and Good you have.
Appreciate the power of your choice.

Encouraging you to have a Good Life!
Betty Lue

Friday, January 12, 2018

Puzzle Pieces

Affirmations:
I am in the right place at the right time, doing the right thing.
I know I am right where I belong.
When life doesn’t fit for me, I choose a new place to be.
Life always shows me what I need to know.


The Puzzle of Life

Each one is a piece of the puzzle.
When we try to fit where we don’t belong, it can be painful.
When we keep pushing to fit, we may feel frustration and disappointment.
When we are willing, we keep changing and rearranging, until our life works.

When we find something that feels right, we get attached.
When we have momentary gratification, we may think it is forever.
When we finally feel some rightness, we may make up “This is It!”
Our Piece may fit until it doesn’t anymore.

Life is an ever-changing kaleidoscope offering many changing colors.
When we stop allowing change, we get stuck and inflexible.
When we are afraid to let go, we may feel fear, anger and resentment.
When we cling to what was good, we may neglect to experience what is now.

When we allow for changes, we are flexible, flowing and resilient.
When we trust our part right where we are, we feel safe.
When we stop following other’s opinions, we listen inside.
When we let go and know “All is well”, we are at peace.

Life offers innumerable possibilities and opportunities.
We find ourselves needing to choose where to go, what to do and with whom.
We explore, experiment, seek and find and let go again and still again.
We see our right place and time and relationship and work and home.

Figuring our how it will all work out may be confusing or fun.
The play of life may feel like frustrating chaos or a graceful dance.
Our part may seem insignificant or of great importance.
However we choose to judge what appears to be, we can let go.

Forgiveness is an eraser filled with love.
When we erase what seemed to be and enjoy what is now, we are gratified.
When we can simply play the game with no rush or claim to fame, we can have fun.
We can just do what we do, have what we have and love our way through to the end.

Mistakes are opportunities to see from another perspective.
Judgments show us our fears and self-doubt and forgetfulness.
Wherever we start and end up, we can keep looking for what is right and good for us.
Life is a puzzle and each one of us is a piece, sometime fitting and often not quite right.

To love the play makes each day a mystery, a game and a place to learn.
To forgive our fears as we get clear, is learning what works along the way.
To release where we are stuck, addicted and attached, enhances the dance.
Taking time to observe, experience, explore and choose again is freeing.

Let us remember to love with freedom and trust to let go and choose again.
Loving us all,
Betty Lue

Thursday, January 11, 2018

Change


Affirmations:
I trust all change works together for Good.
I seek the Good in all change.
I enjoy the freedom to change.
I appreciate my flexibility and willingness.


Changing with Ease

Change happens with our Willingness!
Change happens with our Allowance!
Change happens with Letting Go!
Change happens with Trust!

Consistency is the ground of our Being.
Change occurs with consistent willingness.
Trust is the way we adapt to change.
When we trust consistently, we are willing to change.

Letting go with gratitude eases us into change.
Allowing with trust releases uncertainty.
Remembering what to trust is essential to letting go.
Being free to change our minds gives us the power to correct our path.

Consistency and Change work together.
When we are consistent in our self-support, we can change easily.
When we are consistent in our trust, we can adapt to change.
When we are aware of our choices, we are wise in our change.

Trust yields confidence.
Freedom offers choice.
Consistency provides stability.
Change gives us new choices.

Life can be growthful or stuck.
Choices can be freeing or limiting.
Minds can open or closed.
Change can be awakening or unconscious. 

When change occurs:
Stabilize with basic routines.
Keep some areas exactly the same.
Give yourself some time to plan and prepare.
Reassure yourself with what is familiar.
Be Responsible for the change by joining in.
Talk about the feelings, both positive and negative.
Make a list of what you want the change to yield.
Create alternatives to what is planned if not good for you.
Explore your options before, during and after the changes.
Reward yourself for allowing change and forgiving mistakes.
Remind yourself by affirming: “Everything works more exquisitely than I can plan.”
Look for the positives and eliminate focusing on the negatives.
Contribute and appreciate what is good for you with courage, gratitude and peace.

Loving you in your willingness,
Betty Lue

Wednesday, January 10, 2018

Willingness


Affirmations:
I think with a mind filled with Goodness and Love.
I speak with words that inspire and encourage.
I act with creative solutions so all can benefit.
I seek only to give the best I know to everyone.


Are You Willing?

When you question, you create doubt.
Where you doubt, you block success.
When you have fear, you hesitate.
When you judge, you get stuck.

What you think creates success or failure.
What you imagine creates positives or negatives.
What you say encourages or discourages.
How you live demonstrates what works or doesn’t work.

When you look at life, you can bless it or judge it.
When you listen to your words, you can be inspired or depressed.
When you watch your friends and family, you can be filled with hope or depression.
Inspire, encourage, imagine and live with willingness to succeed.

Everything is listening.
Your body listens to you.
Your family listens to you.
Humanity listens to you.

What you think and say and do has creative power.
When you are positive, you create positively.
When you are appreciative, you create with gratitude.
When you are happy, you create more happiness.

When we understand the power of our thoughts, words and deeds, we will create all Good.
Change your words and you change your experience.
Change your mind and you change your life.
Change your behavior and you change others.

Gratitude for Goodness gives you more Good.
Praise for health and happiness, gives you more health and happiness.
Willingness to believe it before you see it, bring about amazing results.
Miracles occur naturally when your thoughts and words are loving and grateful.

Your willingness to change your thoughts and words will change your life.
Forgive all negativity, fear and doubt again and again.
Choose to think, feel, say and believe all Good and only Good.
Live as thought everything matters.
 

Be grateful that everything matters…
Because it Does!
You matter!!!
I am thankful we are together!!
Betty Lue

Tuesday, January 09, 2018

First Things First

Affirmations:
I love myself just the way I am.
What is best for me is best for others.
I take impeccable care of my whole Self daily.
I live the message I give and all wake up and remember.


Take Care of What is Yours!

With so much need in your world, take care of you.
With so many questions to be answered, listen to you.
With so many places to go, be at home with you.
With so much to be given, give first to you,

You are Important.
You are the seer and the listener.
You are the healer and the comforter.
You are the gift and the giver.

When you have not seen what is right and true, you may not have listened to you.
When you are not comforting yourself, you may remember to heal and be whole.
When you have not received the gift, you may not realize the gift you are.
Care first for you precious Self and the Gift You Are.

You are the message and the messenger.
You are the example and role model.
You are the loving and beloved.
You must treat yourself as the precious Being You Are.

Honor your Calling.
Live your Purpose.
Follow your Dream.
Be true to you.

When you allow yourself to be distracted, delayed or detoured, you lose your way.
When you deny yourself the listening and peace you deserve, no one can hear your message.
When you continue on the road and leave your Self behind, you get confused in purpose.
When you linger too long with those who don’t care, no one is caring for you.

Give yourself the care you deserve.
Take time with yourself to listen to your message.
Be where you are with peace and renewal.
Honor the Gift you came here to give.

Give your Self the Abundance of Love you are here to receive.
Leave not your whole and holy Self and take great care of you
This is your place and your time to truly Love You.

I am loving you always,
Betty Lue