Friday, July 27, 2012

True Family

Do you know what it means to be in a healthy happy family?
Do you understand what it takes to live as respectful, responsible and cooperative adult?
Have you understood how to be a conscious, committed and creative person in the family of humanity?
Are you willing to play you part in the collective consciousness wherever you are and with whom?

When we are ready, willing and able, we are unlimited.
When we are open, trusting and dedicated, we can see what will be.
When we live our lives in love, giving freedom and trust to others, we are happy.
When we join for the highest good, giving our best with honest and commitment, we succeed.

To know what it takes, we must let go of the mistakes of the past.
To trust in the highest outcome, we must forgive all judgment and fear.
To envision only Good for everyone, we must erase pictures of inequality and suffering.
To step forward in faith and Good Will, we must reach deep into our heart/mind for Love.

True family trusts one another.
True family supports each other.
True family enjoys each other.
True family learns from each other.
True family listens to one another.
True family has sensitivity and compassion for everyone.
True family is there for each other.
True family remembers only the Good about each other.
True family hangs in with each other in good and bad times.
True family empowers each to be independent and responsible.
True family inspires and encourages one another.
True family keeps confidences and do not gossip.
True family does not lie, cheat or steal from one another.
True family provides and protects in a healthy way, without encouraging dependency.
True family does not complain, malign or belittle each other.
True family tends their own life without minding others business.
True family is there to counsel and offer help and advice only when asked.
True family shares stories and goods and experiences that enrich, inspire and encourage.
True family contributes and participates in responsibilities, so the burden is not too great.
True family honors the elders and those with greater knowledge, skill and wisdom.
True family respects and accepts differences in faith, fortune beliefs and life choices.
True family places love first and blesses each one and everyone with the Highest Good.

When you read this, you may want to clear your own blocks to True family.
When you make notes, you may choose to become a part of every family.
When you forgive yourselves and others, you may prefer some families over others.
When you make you own choices, you may see that the time is for you to join the family of humanity.

You see, we are all part of this sacred family.
We have each volunteered to be here and now.
We are each making our choice to participate in a healthy, neglectful or harmful way.
We are the ones, who can make the changes we want to see in all humanity.

Let’s do it now.
Loving and respecting you and all,
Betty Lue 

Recommendations for All Relationships 
With mates, partners, friends, children, co-workers, etc.

Keep your agreements faithfully.
Communicate changes honestly and immediately.

Give more than you expect to receive. 
Do more than your “fair” share.

Receive everything with open appreciation.
Express your thanks sincerely and take nothing for granted.

Live your own life in integrity and on purpose.
Clarify, communicate and live your mission, your path, your principles and values.  

Be responsible for yourself, your work and live your life impeccably. 
Don’t expect others to pick up after you or take care of you.

Stop using, blame, criticism or guilt to control or manipulate.
Stop making demands, threats or using neediness to get your way.

Communicate effectively and respectfully.
Request a time and place and tone of voice that works for both parties.

Be your best self in all circumstances.
Focus always on teaching by example. (and apologize immediately when you forget or neglect.)

Use your time together wisely.
Focus on meaningful, positive and inspiring conversation and activities.

Spend time, money, energy and resources only on what you value and want to increase.
Waste nothing in your relationship.  No arguing, pettiness, emotional dumping or negativity.