Friday, October 21, 2011

How Do You Love?

In Five Love Languages, Love is shared through quality time, acts of service, affection, affirming words and gifts.  You can take a free quiz! Husbands and wives, teens and kids, etc.
How do you prefer to be loved? Take the quiz and find out.  
Read the book and learn how to Love.
What we usually give is what we want to receive.
When we are paying attention, we seek to learn what really matters to others.
When we are feeling loved, we want to love the other in the ways it matters to them.
When we are seeking love, we try to get the other to give love in the way we want.

Many relationships are disturbed and distraught by not feeling really loved by another.
Many relationships are based on trying to get the gifts, approval, time, affection and help we want.
Many families are running on empty with their love quotient and get angry with the lack of love they feel. 
Many people have forgotten that life is for giving Love from the wellspring of Love within us.

What can you do to Love those who seem to need Love?
What are you willing to give to those who seem to lack in loving you?
How can you share your love effectively with those who reject, ignore and deny Love?
How can you show the Love you have for yourself and others, to inspire, grow and encourage Love in All?

Are you willing to fill your tank with Love from Self and Source?
Are you willing to prime the pump by mightily and consciously loving you?
Are you willing to open the flow of Love and forgive the withholding of Love?
Are you willing to be the One who simply gives Love no matter what?

The only mistake we ever make is when we forget to Love.
Love is prana, the creative force, our life Source, our Power, God.
Love is what created us to be the Love we are.
Love is Life itself and the Light within us.

To fully be alive, we are called to love.
To fully awaken, we must Love all without condition.
To fully feel safe, we must forgive and undo all blocks to Love.
To fully know and Trust the Good within us, we must forgive all withholding of Love.

Yes, this is our purpose here…to Love and be happy.
This is our function here….to forgive all lack of Love.
This is our goal here… know the Peace of God through always Being Love.
Now is the time and we are the ones, at home and work, with family, friends and strangers.

Let us remember and return to Oneness, Wholeness and Love.
Loving you,
Betty Lue

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
No disease that enough love will not heal;
No door that enough love will not open;
No gulf that enough love will not bridge;
No wall that enough love will not throw down;
No sin that enough love will not redeem.

 It makes no difference 
  how deeply seated may be the trouble,
How hopeless the outlook,
How muddled the tangle,
How great the mistake. 
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

 If only you could love enough, you would be the happiest 
and most powerful being in the world.

Emmet Fox