Monday, September 19, 2011

Families

Don’t forget tonight is Relationships and Communication Workshop #1 in Brentwood.
Unity Center for Inspired Living, 50 Sand Creek Rd. #140, Brentwood, 94513
You can hear my talk on Families at Unity yesterday at inspiredlivingcenter.org
Click on recorded talks on the menu.
How Do You Serve Your Families?
How do you bring, love, peace, wisdom and joy to your families?

This is your domain.
These families are your spiritual kitchen.
This is where you can protect and provide.
This is where you can nourish and nurture.

What are your Families?
Your immediate family.
Your family of origin.
Your extended family.
Your work family. 
Your neighborhood family.
Your church family.
Your family of choice.

a family (from Latin > : familia) is a group of people affiliated by consanguinity , affinity  , or co-residence. In most societies it is the principal institution for the socialization of children.  

How can you serve your families?
Respect
Respect yourself and your values.
Respect your words, your thoughts, your feelings, your body, your talents, your inspiration.
Give honor and dignity to your whole Self.
Treat yourself as the Good and Godly person you are.
Let no one disrespect you as you age or change. 
Speak directly for you want.
Step away if you are not heard or honored.
Respect everyone around you with as much and more respect as for yourself.
Respect your needs for silence and privacy.
Respect your call to pray or be of service.
Respect your inner guidance.
Respect others needs for silence, for help, for different lifestyle, drama, differing lessons to learn.
Respect others’ privacy and do not meddle or interfere.
Demonstrate by your example to be respectful and live with dignity and grace.
Response-Ability
Be responsible for your self and your affairs.
Take impeccable care of you.
Expect no one to take care of you. 
Manage your own affairs.
Keep your needs simple.
If you cannot do for yourself, request help with full appreciation.
Be willing to respond with love.
Apologize if you react with fear.
Apply spiritual principles to all family affairs.
Remember God is everywhere present. 
Speak and live like you are God’s messenger.
Know thoughts create.
Forgive the thoughts you don’t want to create.
Live the spiritual principles you know. 

Cooperate
Be willing to serve.
Silently and passively or with direction and actively.
Teach others as they are willing.
Build a team mentality.
Set an example for the children and grandchildren.
Listen and learn.
Allow everyone to learn their own lessons.
Stop correcting and start accepting. 
Observe and enjoy the difference in people.
Inspire and facilitate each one to be their best.
Help others be tolerant and patient, Open-minded and generous.
Recognize levels of teaching and learning.
Let go and let God be.
Trust Trust Trust.
Freedom is the key to full expression. 

These are some loving reminders for you to remember in your everyday practice.
Your life will be fun, safe and easy when you live the highest way and give your best!

Loving you,  
Betty Lue

LOVE
There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
No disease that enough love will not heal;
No door that enough love will not open;
No gulf that enough love will not bridge;
No wall that enough love will not throw down;
No sin that enough love will not redeem.

 It makes no difference 
  how deeply seated may be the trouble,
How hopeless the outlook,
How muddled the tangle,
How great the mistake. 
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

 If only you could love enough, you would be the happiest 
and most powerful being in the world.

Emmet Fox