Tuesday, August 27, 2019

Do They Know?

I teach by my example.
I learn who, where, when and what I am to teach and learn.
First I learn and live what I am learning.
I trust others are always doing what the best they know.

Do They Know?

What if they don’t know how to make their bed?
What if they don’t know to say please and thank you?
What if they don’t know how to make a friend?
What if they don’t know how to enjoy learning?

So often we judge others.
More often we expect others to know!
So often we criticize and complain.
More often we believe others know what we know.

What if they just do not have the life experience.
What if they only do what they are taught.
What if we never taught them.
What if we never learned how to teach.

Is it possible we live in a world of limited teaching?
Is it possible people never learned to be helpful and kind?
Perhaps people think vulgar language and addictive behavior are normal?
Maybe we have much to teach them about how life works better for all?

Have you considered that we don’t know something important?
Maybe we judge because we truly don’t know about them?
Maybe we have made up that everyone is like us?
Maybe we are ignorant about all the people we judge?

This may be the time to ask and listen, observe and consider.
We can always open our mind and trust in our heart.
Is it possible we have overlooked and assumed we know about what they know?
What we don’t know can hurt us all by assuming or guessing what we believe “Everyone Must Know”.

Do not assume anyone knows.
Do not take for granted what you know.
Do not believe they are just lazy.
Do not criticize what you truly don’t know.

My first question is always to ask myself,  “What I am teaching?”
Do I live a life of helpfulness and kindness?
Am I doing what needs to be done with enjoyment and no complaint?
Do I look forward to managing my home, my work, my whole life with full appreciation?

I begin with my own life the best I know.
I allow my Love to lead me to teach others who ask.
I surrender to love, trust and respect for all.
Loving you,
Betty Lue

How do you use affirmations effectively?
Take the time and watch how they work!


The mind is the driving force in determining our experience in this world.
Affirmations are meant to “show up” any limiting beliefs so they can be erased or deleted, leaving us with a “clean slate”, in a state of health and wholeness—physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. They clear unconscious programming that tends to guide our thoughts, feelings and behavior.
The purpose of affirmations is to erase from the mind all negative thought forms or beliefs which we have falsely learned.  Thoughts of limitation, lack and littleness are released and replaced with thoughts of freedom, abundance and magnificence.

Do not focus on what is not working.  Just recognize where you are “off purpose” by lack of joy experienced, then focus on more joy.
Every thought creates a result.  Negative or fearful thinking creates a negative life experience.  Positive or happy thinking creates a good life and happy outlook.  Some of both may create a neutral or conflicted effect on our life experiences.  Negative experiences can be changed as a result of consistent positive thinking.

My favorite way to do affirmations is to divide the lined page down the middle.
The affirmation is written on the left side and your mind chatter or contradictory thought is written on the right side. Then cross off the negative.
Continue writing the affirmation 20 times and listen for the resistant thought after each one. 20 times daily for 14 days or until there is no resistance.
They will always feel like a lie in the beginning and you may find great resistance to doing them!
Things may change dramatically, so be prepared to notice big difference.
Writing, speaking and hearing us say the affirmation aloud clears the false beliefs through our sense of sight, sound and touch.

It is essential that we keep writing and saying the affirmations until there is no longer resistance to the empowering beliefs.

Remember: Affirmations are not to be used to develop a new belief, but only useful to clear false limiting programs.

Once there is quiet, clarity and no resistance, we are complete.