Affirmations:
I listen with Love and respect what is shared with me.
I forgive myself for fighting to get my way.
I no longer believe my way is the only way.
I am open-minded, accepting and allow differences.
Resistance Creates Resistance
What you resist, persists.
Opposition
creates push back.
What you
oppose will create backlash.
Find a
better way to build alignment.
Learn to say “No” with respect.
Learn to
openly listen to opposition.
Learn to
seek to build cooperation and harmony.
Allow
everyone the freedom to express by listening.
When we listen to others, we may be judgmental.
When we
respond to others, we may have oppositional opinions.
When we
listen and respond, we may be unwilling to really hear them.
When we are
unwilling to be considerate, you have already built a negative outcome.
Understand before attempting to be understood.
When you
want to find clarity and wisdom, first listen fully.
When you
are seeking a better way for all, listen with an open mind.
When you
are too negative to care about understanding, pause and let go.
What do you win when you build resentment?
What do
you lose when you lose connection?
What do
you win when the other loses respect?
What do
you lose when you lose their love?
What comes first, obedience or respect?
What
comes first, fear or love?
What
comes first, being right or honoring both?
What
comes first, winning or gaining understanding?
When you seek agreement, remember what matters most.
When you
lose trust and love, but gain agreement, what do you have?
When you
need to fight to be right, who loses?
Consider
always the consequences of your resistance.
You can create positive outcomes when you are open and
flexible.
You can experience
the love, acceptance and cooperation you want with your own love and
acceptance.
You can
compromise your selfish need to win when you learn the overall outcome is
better than yours.
You will
understand that you have valuable lessons to learn by forgiving yourself for
being stubborn.
Live in harmony by responding to all things with love.
Enjoy your
relationships respecting different ideas and opinions.
Sincerely
relinquish your need to win and there to negotiate for a win-win solution.
Build your
lovability by learning love is all that really matters.
Trusting you to find a better way to respect, respond and
cooperate with loving choices.
Betty Lue