Affirmations:
I remember to love as a child loves.
I see the world with delight and innocence.
I am willing to respond to all things with curiosity and wonder.
I no longer need to judge but see life as a call for loving.
Children
Are Loving Reminders
Our
children come to us as Love incarnate.
Children give us the
opportunity to strengthen our love.
Children teach us
how to forgive and love again.
Children show us
what is real within us.
Are you allowing your children to show you how to Love?
Are you willing
to see how easily they forgive and return to Love?
Do you feel
guilty when you withhold your Love from them?
Are you waking up
to be able to listen and respond only with Love?
We
are here to learn to respect and see things differently.
We are here to learn
responsibility and respond with Love.
We are here to learn
to cooperate and be share and seek the best for all.
We are can learn to
respect, respond and cooperate with everyone.
When
we look deeply into the eyes of another, we see need for love in ourselves.
When we listen
deeply into the heart of another, we feel the call for love.
When we look into
our own eyes in the mirror’s reflection, we recognize our request for love.
When we listen
within our own heart, we feel the deep longing for natural innocence and love.
Every
one of us is here to love and be loved.
In a world where
much is neglected and forgotten, we need loving reminders.
In a world where
people may never have know true unconditional love, we need to remember!
In this time in our
human history, we must look and listen deeply to know it is our Real work to
Love.
Everything
and everyone calls for love, recognition, reassurance and positive attention.
Let us attend to
ourselves in the very most positive way.
Let us attend to one
another in the very most healing way.
Let us remember to
be truly helpful by responding daily to the call for Love.
It
is our function to be like an innocent child who listens within and looks upon
another with Love.
Let us realize we
are all children upon this earth often feeling lost, neglected, hurt and
afraid.
Let us recognize how
much every one of us want to feel safe, care for, comforted and loved.
Let us be the ones
who respond to everyone, everything and ourselves with a willingness to Love.
Life
is for giving and forgiving!.
When we give with
Love, we remember our holy and healing purpose.
When we live in
Love, we know the Love around us and within us.
We are all here to
learn to remember and respond with Love, no matter what.
Love
is the way we live with Gratitude and Joy,
Betty Lue
Parents often think that they
are here to guide the little ones.
When - in reality - the little
ones come forth with clarity to guide you.
---Abraham
If Children (and Adults) Live
With……….
If
children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If
children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If
children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If
children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for
themselves.
If
children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If
children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If
children live with: criticism, hostility, fear, pity, ridicule or
jealousy,
They
will learn to: condemn, fight, be apprehensive, feel sorry for
themselves, feel shy and feel envy.
If
children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If
children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If
children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If
children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If
children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If
children live with recognition, they learn it is good to
have a goal.
If
children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If
children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If
children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If
children live with kindness and consideration, they
learn respect.
If
children live with security, they learn to have faith in
themselves and others.
If
children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a
nice place in which to live.
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From
Dr. Wayne Dyer
What Do You Want More Than
Anything For Your Children?
•
Value Themselves
• Be Risk
Takers
• Self-Reliance
• Freedom from
Stress and Anxiety
• Have Peaceful
Lives
• Celebrate
Present Moments
• Experience a
Lifetime of Wellness
• Creativity
• Fulfill Their
Higher Needs
• Feel A Sense
of Purpose
YOU
must Demonstrate / Model:
•
The ability to enjoy life.
•
Be a positive example.
•
Clarify what you know and how you feel.
•
Be expressive (Feel–Want–Willing)
Average children do things right.
No limit children do the right thing.
Basic Principles for Building
Self-Esteem in Your Children
1. You must model
self-respect.
2. Treat each child as a
unique individual.
3. A child is not his
actions.
4. Provide opportunities to
be responsible and make decisions.
5. Teach enjoyment of life
each day.
6. Provide praise rather
than criticism.
7 We become what we
think about. Our thinking determines our self-image.
To Raise A Child’s Self-Portrait (Self-Image)
1. Encourage children to be
risk-takers rather than always taking the safe road.
2. Discourage children from
all self put downs.
3. Reduce emphasis on
external measures of success.
4. Work at reducing whining
and complaining behavior.
5. Encourage excitement
about everything in life.
6. Encourage children to
choose independence rather than dependence.
7. Teach children to be
non-judgmental.
8. Encourage children to be
honest with themselves.
9. Be aware in the
importance of appearance to young people.
10. Encourage healthy thinking.
11. Catch children doing something right.
Remind them of how terrific they are.
12. Treat children as total and
complete, now.
13. Hold them, touch them, kiss them.
14. Listen carefully to your children.
15. Give them opportunities to be
unique.
16 Encourage their friends to
“hang out” at your home.
17. Read aloud with them at all ages.
18. Be involved in their age-related
activities.