Affirmations:
I love with all my mind and heart.
I demonstrate love with the intention of my words.
I give time and trust and generosity and joy.
I live the Love I know within me and you and all.
There
are many languages of love.
When you love your
beloved with your love language, they may not get the message.
When others love you
with their love language, you may not get it.
When we all are for
getting to love ourselves with our love language, you may not even know love.
Experimenting
with loving is the key.
When you do not know
how to love or feel loved, experiment.
When you do not
know, try something new and observe what will work.
Never assume there
is no way, because it will block the flow of love.
Love
is a flow.
Love is a language.
Love is a gift.
Love is an
experience.
When
at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.
When you don’t know
how to love, look, listen and learn.
When there is upset
and anger, fear and judgment, love will be resisted.
When you quit on
love, you will block your mind and heart from getting what is given.
Love
is complex because it is defined in a variety of ways.
Some feel love as an
emotion or chemistry.
Some hear love as
words of affirmation and tone of voice.
Some see love as
service, helpfulness and acts of kindness.
When
we try to “get” love our way and “get” love their way, we miss
their giving.
When we wish to hear
loving words, but receive a gift, we may not hear it.
When we want some
special time alone and get a rose instead, we may not feel the love.
Everyone receives
love differently in their own unique way.
Try
offering all five love languages and observe which one works the best.
1) Gifts
2) Quality time together
3) Affection and
touch
4) Acts of service
5) Affirming and
loving words
For
those who don’t combine love languages well….
Consider a special
card and flowers with loving words written inside.
Take making your
beloved their favorite meal or restaurant food with hugs and kisses too!
Try out listening
and watching to see what they respond well too.
(And if you
cannot figure it out ask directly or go online to do the assessment at 5lovelanguages.com)
The
other tip is to notice what they do for you to show they love!
What you do for others is usually the way you want to be loved.
Gifts, Acts of
Service, Affection and Touch, Affirming Words, and Quality Time.
See 5LoveLanguages.com
for assessment and more info.
Make
sure you let them know what pleases you the most as well.
For some of us,
having our love received is our greatest affirmation of love.
When we know our
love works by teaching and touching we feel loved.
Love yourself and one another and I know I am Loved.
Smiling
with unconditional Love for You!
Betty
Lue