Affirmations:
I
am able to respond to all things with wisdom and love.
I
am responsible for my self and my life.
I
appreciate being mature in my thoughts, words and actions.
I
am healthy, happy and free as I live in integrity.
Do you act
responsibly?
Do you take care
of your home and bills?
Do you care for
your body and health?
Do you treat your
loved ones with respect?
Using
inappropriate language is not mature.
Taking advantage of
others is not mature.
Blaming, shaming and
denigrating others is not mature.
Doing harm to
yourself and others is not mature.
Neglecting to
apologize for mistakes is not mature.
Forgetting please
and thank you is not mature.
Fighting and arguing
to win is not mature.
Taking advantage of
others is not mature.
Lying, cheating
and stealing is not mature.
Neglecting your
home, your health, your responsibilities in immature.
Whining, demanding
and threatening is immature.
Talking to others
like a willful child is not mature.
So what is
mature?
Do you want to be
responsible?
Do you trust,
love and respect yourself?
Do you live, love
and give freedom and trust?
Are you able
to manage your bills effectively?
Do you clean and
maintain your home with appreciation?
Do you take time
to actively appreciate your loved ones?
Do you manage
your emotions privately without dumping on others?
Do you still
depend on you parents or friends for advice?
Do you still seek
others approval and agreement?
Are you confident
about how you look and behave?
Are you content
with your relationships and lifestyle?
Immature people
are often lazy and irresponsible.
Immature people
assume others will take care of them.
Immature people may
want to stay dependent on others.
Immature people may
ignore their moral and ethical code.
If you are
willing, it is time to grow up.
If you are
supporting an immature person, it is time for a wakeup call.
People tend to stay
dependent and immature because they are comfortable.
Codependent people
may keep others dependent to get someone to need them.
Consider setting
yourself free from all dependency, except on the Highest Good.
Loving all, as we
mature in wisdom, caring and responsibility.
Betty Lue
Responsibilities
for Adults (From Betty Lue)
Do you know how to think, speak and behave consciously?
Do you know how to treat others with respect and kindness?
Are you willing to learn to be responsible in all relationships?
Do you know the difference between right and wrong?
Treat others as you want to be treated.
Forgive
everyone and everything, for all time, including yourself.
Be
courteous and helpful.
Give your
best, no matter what others do.
Make
no assumptions, and recognize you do not know.
Keep
your agreements and your promise to yourself and others.
Take
turns in your interactions and following procedures.
Be
fair in your decisions and choose what is good for all concerned.
Eliminate
all cruelty or destructive thoughts, words or behaviors.
Think of others as you want to be thought of.
Stop
judging, complaining and gossiping.
Stop
negatively thinking about yourself and others.
Forgive
and erase all thoughts and behaviors that are hurtful.
Speak to others as you want to be spoken to.
Use “please”
and “thank you”, even with children.
Talk
in a pleasant tone of voice to everyone.
Stop
demanding and expecting: respectfully request.
Don’t
pretend you know, when you don’t know.
Responsible Behaviors
Eradicate
addictive behavior and create healthy choices.
Clean
up after yourself, in your relationships and your home.
Follow
through on your plans, projects and promises.
Clean
your house and car, your mind and messages.
Treat
the environment and earth with conscious respect.
Stop
excessive spending and Save your money.
Be
respectful of the people and possessions in your life.
No
drunkenness or disorderly behavior.
No
swearing or name-calling.
Never
abuse unhealthy food, drink or drugs.
Stop
expecting others to do for you what you don’t do.
Live with respectful words, kind thoughts and positive behavior in clean
home.
Love
always Love!
Dare to care about you!!
Then You can care for everyone, too.
Betty
Lue